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Victoria Okoro Sets The Internet On Fire With Screen Licking Birthday Photos

Victoria Okoro, the current Face of Akwa Ibom State Polytechnic, has got people talking as she stuns the Internet with amazing screen licking photos as she turns plus one today.
Here is a brief rundown of her profile :

Full Name*: Victoria okoro

Stage name*: Quinvicky

Age*: 22

Skin colour*: Brown

Hair color*: Black

Type of modeling*: Runway modelling

Statistics*: . 5.0ft, 17,35,32,40

FB*: Victoria okoro

IG*: Davi-vicky

Education : Graduate of National Diploma From Akwa Ibom State Polytechnic.

Achievement*: Current Face of Akwa Ibom State Polytechnic and Emeritus Face of FISA (Federated Igbo Students Association ).

Source: http://www.nsehub.info/2019/09/victoria-okoro-sets-internet-on-fire-with-screen-licking-photos-as-she-turns-puls-one.html?m=1

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Elibrainz:
The Big Brother Naija Housemates had a very rough day and Drunk Omoshola got hard .
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The Big Brother Naija Housemates had a very rough day and Drunk Omoshola got hard .
If you missed watching, you didn't miss much. Nsehub.info gathered all you missed. Here are they footage:

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This comment just made my day.
Thank you.

olajizz01:
These people always tarnish African images,that was how one Nigeria in diaspora was inter viewed yesterday on CGTN,the man is media personality in diaspora,said Africa is way better 100x than how the white portrayed our image on media in their countries.

Due to the current raise in Xenophobia, Nigeria has been ranked as one of the world's most dangerous countries for women, alone side with India, Afghanistan, Syria, Somalia, Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, DR Congo, Yemen, and United States.

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Whalers Foundation partners with the Akwa Ibom State Government to host the first of its kind Ibom Talent Battle Hunt.
Ibom Talent Battle Hunt is a contest of four categories: music, acting, dance, and comedy. The Ibom Talent Battle Hunt is brought to you by whalers foundation, Nigeria.
This Hunt is aimed at bringing out hidden talents possessed by the Youngs minds in Akwa Ibom State and promoting this talents for the whole world to see.
Tickets are now on sales at affordable prices:
1. Regular - 500 naira
2. VIP - 3000 naira
3. Table for 5 - 10,000 naira
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Whalers Foundation partners with the Akwa Ibom State Government to host the first of its kind Ibom Talent Battle Hunt.
Ibom Talent Battle Hunt is a contest of four categories: music, acting, dance, and comedy. The Ibom Talent Battle Hunt is brought to you by whalers foundation, Nigeria.
This Hunt is aimed at bringing out hidden talents possessed by the Youngs minds in Akwa Ibom State and promoting this talents for the whole world to see.
Tickets are now on sales at affordable prices:
1. Regular - 500 naira
2. VIP - 3000 naira
3. Table for 5 - 10,000 naira
4. Special Guests - 30,000 naira.
To get the tickets please call. 07066557568

Learn to apologize and accept your wrongs when you hurt someone. In this piece of work, Elibrainz takes the lead.

ABOUT ELIBRAINZ.

Elisha "Elibrainz" Mfon (born February 02, 1998) is a Nigerian singer and songwriter. Elibrainz started his career as a gospel singer, releasing his debut studio single in 2016, titled The one you saved.

Elibrainz was born in Howell Street, a suburb of Calabar south, as the first child. He attended Danglad International College, a secondary school in Atu street, Cross River State, Calabar. He is an alumni of Akwa Ibom State Polytechnic , where he studied mass communication.

Elibrainz grew up rapping and singing as a member of his local church rap choir, Full Life Christian Centre. He wrote his first song at the age of 14. His professional musical career started in 2017 following the release of her debut studio single, Do Me Wrong.

His Genres are: Afropop, soul, alt-rock, world, and R&B.

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At times we get broken by the same people who vowed to heal us. We shed tears for the same people who promised to keep our eyes dry... Do Me Wrong by by Elibrainz is a song you must listen to.

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About Elibrainz.

Elibrainz is an upcoming artist with an ear for good music. The music genre are ; Soul and RnB omly.
He has been guided by the lovely songs of Simi, Nigerians own, Rihanna and Beyonce.

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ABA-Soldiers attached to 144 Battalion, Asa, Ukwa West council area, Abia State, have reportedly arrested two robbers who are members of a gang terrorizing residents of Aba.
Vanguard gathered that the soldiers acting on a tip off recovered a Toyota Sports Utility Vehicle which the gunmen had snatched from the owner along Ehere road, Ogbor Hill. Two members of the gang were arrested while two others escaped.



The soldiers after conducting search on the SUV also recovered 3 pistols, live ammunition, a mobile phone, jewelleries and cash. A soldier at 144 Battalion who spoke on condition of anonymity further disclosed that the gang on interrogation confessed that they wanted to use the car for robbery and kidnap operations. The source explained that the soldiers could not gun down the fleeing members of the gang to avoid stray bullets hitting innocent members of the public. “The incident happened about 2pm along Ehere road, Ogbor Hill area. The woman was driving her kids home when the gunmen, using tricycle trailed her to Ehere road and double crossed her and asked her to come down from the car with her children.



“The woman immediately alerted her husband who went to the military guard post near Rowmay Hotel along Opobo road to report the matter. While the man was making report, he spotted the car passing. The soldiers swung into action, using the patrol vehicle to chase after them, but the hoodlums didn’t know that the soldiers were after them. “Luck however ran after the four occupants of the SUV when they got to Brass junction by Aba-Owerri road as they were stopped by the soldiers on patrol. The road is always busy at that time and the soldiers couldn’t shoot at them because of the traffic on the road. “When the soldiers searched the car, they saw a pistol hidden under the car carpet while the other two were on one of the seats and floor of the car. They said that they intended to use the car for a robbery operation that night.



“Investigation into the matter is still ongoing as we are trying to get at other members of the gang that are still at large,” the source said. Effort to confirm the arrest from the spokesman of the 14 Brigade, Ohafia, Major Major Oyegoke Gbadamosi, was unsuccessful, as at the time of filing this report.

SOURCE; http://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/2-armed-robbers-arrested-by-soldiers-in-aba.html

She didn't force herself on you in the first place, why then do you have to punish her with your scarcity? Why do you avoid her now that another person is becoming appealing to you? What do you gain from the tears of an innocent lady who trusted you with her heart? You are now acting "over-busy".
"Come back and continue what you started o", Someone should call that guy for me.
You thought growing "beards" was the same thing as competence. When you were busy promising her heaven and earth, you didn't remember that you'll be expected to prove it. Now that she has finally decided to shut the gates and love only you, you have started acting drama.
Wanting to be in a relationship could be exciting but the actual work is in having to remain faithful in it. This doesn't just happen; it must be intentionally planned and I am telling you, it is achievable.
The love experience can be renewed and made sweeter every moment. Celebrate your relationship and it will appreciate. Choose to complain everyday and you'll water it down. Don't promise her marriage yet moving your eyes around the whole town seeking whom to devour. You can't even love one person well and you are digging your early grave looking for another to add.
Focus that attention and energy on the lady God has given you for a wife. There is nothing outside. I once admired a lady from a distance for her prestigious strength of physical beauty. She was an angel until the day I heard her react foolishly to a misunderstanding. I covered my heart and gave a testimony that it didn't go beyond distant admiration. You never know who the real angel is until you polish the lady you are almost trading for nothing; that one that stood by you when you had nothing but certificates; that one that inconvenienced her comfort just to make sure that you don't die before your time; that one that saw a future in you that others were too blind to see. That one that listened to you when you had no voice. That one that endured your past because she believed in your tomorrow.
She probably couldn't speak English when you were receiving all her care but now, you've ridiculed her, you now need a classy babe. Stop all this nonsense guy! Can't you see the number of broken hearts that are credited to your account? What do you want with your life? Is King Solomon your mentor on relationship?
By way of conclusion, God gives good gifts; it is your duty to polish your spouse to your taste. Whether you use groundnut oil, it's up to you; keep her shinning, smiling and enviable-that is what matters.[sup][/sup]
source http://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/a-real-man-polishes-his-woman.html

I just saw this throwback photo of Nigeria's top blogger, Linda Ikeji.

What's your take on this photo?

SOURCE: http://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/this-throwback-photo-of-linda-ikeji-will-make-you-cry.html

_Let's quickly consider some evidences of commitment_
a) Responsibility exceeds excuses:
Anyone that avoids responsibility doesn't want to grow; not even in love. Follow up your partner's commitment level by how much of a performer he/she is at work, in the family, among friends.
b) Efforts motivate continuity.
Anyone that threatens to break away every now and then is not safe for love with you.
c) Investment flows selflessly:
Commitment shows in how much you give to meet needs in your relationship. Giving ideas for instance, giving your time, giving finances, giving your protection. Many times, people don't give not because they don't have but because they don't consider the circumstances worth the sacrifice. Guy, lady, Commitment means going the extra miles for each other.
d) Interest overshadows differences.
When you're committed, you should be interested. You don't stop calling him/her for weeks and you claim you're in love? You're not! Find something else and call it. Genuine lovers bombard themselves with expressions of interest.
Your partner shares a pressing issue with you and you waive it to your selfishness—you're not in love.
Make the first best impression at singlehood. How can a relationship be this dry at engagement stage?
Interest also implies that you don't threaten to quit a thriving relationship every now and then. You don't let the dirt stain the purpose for your relationship. You deal with the dirts and keep the purpose alive.

Source: https://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/4-ways-to-spot-a-relationship-that-is-rich-in-commitment.html https://www.elishamfon.com

Officers of Kwara state command of the Nigerian Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) are by and by investigating two presumes it captured regarding seizure of three tons of compacted cannabis esteemed at N250 million in the open market.

The Assistant authority tasks, coordinations and insight of the office, Emmanuel Dandi, talking at a question and answer session in ilorin yesterday said that the capture and seizure were affected on Thursday at about 11:30 pm at Okolowo region of the Ilorin city. He anyway said that one of the suspects gotten away capture. Dandi, who said that the compacted cannabis, also called conk, was transported in from Ghana through Togo and Republic of Benin, included that the capture and seizure were made conceivable by knowledge reports. He additionally said that captured people were distinguished as truck loaders, adding that examination was continuous to unwind individuals behind the importation. He noticed that the "Conspicuous repercussion of the cannabis discovering its way into Kwara state markets can't be over stressed. " The cannabis is compacted by machine and not a conventional one. It's foreign made. It came into Ilorin through one of numerous outskirts in the state. "The strategy for covering is that the cannabis was wrapped with utilized fabrics, cello taped and put inside sacks. The suspects carried the sacks into the nation through the outskirt in bits, utilizing little autos, which are stacked with merchandise, for example, rice.

"They later repackaged the sacks in trucks for dispersion. "Our quick concern is that the measure of the amount is removed the market. That is the reason we did the motorcade in scurry. NDLEA manager, who engaged government, good natured individuals and partners to aid coordinations, said that the organization was in desperate need of help with its activity to perform better. He likewise called for valuable data from individuals from the general population, to make work of its officers simpler, promising to treat all of data provided with privacy required. As 2019 general decisions move close, Dandi likewise spoke to guardians to see medicate issue as an aggregate one however not that of the NDLEA alone, saying that they should screen exercises of their wards.

SOURCE: https://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/two-suspects-arrested-with-cannabis-worth-250million.html

When it's obvious that you don't truly have a name to describe the feeling that's existing between you and a lady or vice versa, watch your back. Don't call it a relationship to fulfil all righteousness.
So many lovers have fallen into the arms of each other not truly knowing what they are doing or what's pushing them. While one of them is thinking that they are in a relationship, the other can't remember asking for or consenting to one.
How can two people be in a relationship yet they are not aware of how it started? It is only weeds that grow that way ; they grow where they were not planted.
Don't start a relationship where CONVICTION is questionable. Lady, anyone that is interested in you should be able to explain clearly how convinced he is that you are a better complement of him. He should also be patient enough to give you some time to be convinced about an answer for him—whether YES Or NO! Any relationship that puts you under pressure to say YES to it should be placed on a red alert.
Friend, be sensitive to know when friendships are producing deeper emotional feelings and attractions than normal and raise it up for discussion. In such a case, ask your friend what's going on. Don't assume that it's still the friendship you knew. Many people have crossed the line just like that and the other person was not aware. While one person thought that they were still friends, the other was already working with the vision of a love relationship.
Relationships are clearly initiated with an expression of interest and intention for acceptance or rejection. It is not a hide and seek game. It is not not a game of feelings. It's not a game of two nice people. It's a serious matter.
FOUNDATION PRINCIPLES:
- Relationships shouldn't grow like weeds. Nobody grooms a weed.
- Many people that want a love relationship don't actually need it.
- When you are not certain of what you want out of a person, you'll not know how to maximize the privilege of connection.
- Refuse to assume that a relationship had started when it was not initiated.
- Certainty triggers commitment. Don't expect a level of commitment from an uncertain relationship.
©LOVE SPECIALS
SOURCE : http://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/when-unserious-people-fall-in-love.html

"I really really really want to know her. I can't marry someone I've not known in and out."
"He says he is not yet ready for marriage and that he doesn't really know when he would be ready."
"My policy is straight. Any lady that doesn't meet my standards, I dump her immediately and start all over with another lady. After all, they are not scarce."
These are just few out of multiple cases to welcome you into this subject. Never in a time had the world been so wicked than it is today. Many people hang around your life, not because they want to progress with you. Truth!
It's dangerous to unlock commitment towards a relationship where mutual understanding of expected direction is not known and shown. Don't be too blind to ask questions. After you've said YES to welcome a relationship, there's no idle time; every time spent in the relationship should be progressive with clear targets and milestones. That's how you know people that are heading somewhere.
4 years have gone yet he has not said anything pointing to a marital commitment, but see the way two of you parade the streets in uniform as if you were identical twins. You pass food flasks in the name of making sure he doesn't lack food, stop over to clean his house, even move over to live with him, and you claim you're dating? No, you're joking!
In his indecision, see the way he gets jealous over every guy that blinks in your direction and you can't see an enemy of progress tying you down?
"I am thinking that he really really wants to know me before he makes the next move".
Well, for your information, some wonderful couples have been married for decades and are still discovering new things about themselves in love. So, how long do you think he can be with you to know you so well—5 years?
Oga, kindly stop all this hide and seek childish game and mean business. If you can't then, you have no business hanging around someone's daughter. Make up your mind to succeed with your life. Be decisive and take actions. Everyone needs grace to love, including the person attempting to love to you.
Stop changing ladies like diapers. It doesn't make you a man. How can a man at 35 still not care about "this marriage of a thing?" Meanwhile, he is a comfortable flirt, destroying the souls of other ladies, promising them marriage but only as a license to mess them up.
The sad part is that he'll wake up at 45, claiming he now wants to settle down, looking for a 22 year old innocent girl to imprison. The lady will sheepishly follow this ancestor. Hey lady, who will train your children?
Guy, if you mean to marry her, mean business. Rise up and work it out. Go to work then return! Stop hiding under 'I love you' and collecting the little she labours to save. She is not your microfinance bank.
"If you can't provide, don't wake up love"; you'll leave it hanging for too long. The problem is not that at the time she accepted you, you had nothing in your pocket. It's disturbing that after she has accepted to marry you, nothing still excites you to work. Jacob showed Rachael how much he loved her by working for 14 years just to secure her. Lady, when next a guy displays his feelings anyhow around you, ask him to show you his Work.
Get my message: The above are just few instances and reasons why marriage appears impossible to many.
A successful marriage is not determined by the length of dating/ courtship. Long lasting dating and long lasting marriage are not the same thing. They are not synonyms. You can't know anyone well enough than he/she is willing to show. Haven't you ever heard people say: "when I married you, you were not like this"? Most of them dated for 5 years.
Marriage is sustained by the grace of God with two human beings who are willing to grow in understanding; who are ready to stand their feet on sound decisions as matters arise.
Lady, a guy keeping you longer than necessary without working towards fulfilling his intentions towards you may not truly see the need to marry you especially, if he has been doing biology practicals with you. Who knows? Any nonsense is still possible.
© LoVe sPEcIaL..
Source: http://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/be-judge-are-you-dating-or-in-bondage.html

How beautiful it is to marry a spouse who values God as his/her source and nourishment! Someone who has a testimony of salvation, a thriving spiritual root or better, a teachable spirit that can willingly take up the call to spiritual growth. Someone who will love you better because he/she loves the Lord and readily magnets the virtues of His likeness.
Life is designed by God in a way as to pull us closer to Him. Until you come to the point where your life depends on God and not on your spouse, nor moral standard, you are missing something valuable.
To what extent is your relationship drawing you closer to God? To what extent has it helped you increase your spiritual values? To what extent is your relationship pleasing God? To what extent has carnality been disadvantaged in your relationship because you've found the fear of God in your spouse-to-be as an aid to building yours.
The spiritual flavour around your life will determine the future stability of your relationship and marriage. A relationship truly has a future if the two partners are leading in individual spirituality. As a child of God, don't settle for just anybody. Marry someone who is rich towards God. Marry someone whom you share Jesus with as a mutual friend. Marry someone who connects with your spiritual background, ideologies, beliefs and convictions.
No one is truly rich enough in anything else if he is not yet rich in God. No one is rich enough in wisdom if he is not rich in God. A lot of beautiful wives out there are not useful to God. Same goes for the husbands. Who will teach your children the ways of God?
If indeed you are spiritual, marry your kind. Be a witness to your partner's spiritual investment and growth. Set your eyes on your kind. Don't manage an unbeliever hoping that he will some day change. He might kill you first. Marry someone whose God is your God. Marry someone who can bring God's presence into your home. Marry someone who can listen to God's voice even in your voice. Marry someone whose voice of worship can wake you up with a hunger to want some more of God. Marry someone who will show your children the ways of God.
Spirituality influences marital success. Marriage should be the fusion of two spiritual beings that God is working on everyday.
Beware! Don't promise marriage to an unbeliever. Can your love withstand his/her roots? If it's too hard to find a relationship with God, don't make it too cheap for him/her to find you.
©Love Specials
# CAPTAIN
Source : http://www.elishamfon.com/2018/11/marriage-is-more-than-just-ring.html

Recently, women who were innocent or simple to be impacted had fallen into the trickiness of clever men whose point is to have pre-marriage sex with them. Today, some of them don't gain from the oversight some made before are still casualties of pre-marriage sex. Tomorrow, more women would be casualties of pre-marriage sex at their youthful age as a result of the untruths that was sold to them from the fallen angel through inconspicuous men.

Truth doesn't make you fall, it keeps you standing gave you're solidly established in it however lies will make you fall and you will most likely be unable to recoup from the outcomes of the fall.

The most ideal approach to escape lies is to know reality and dispose of the falsehoods promptly you find that it doesn't connect with reality. An apprehension on untruths will persuade you into the demonstration similarly as it did to Eve.

Also, mind you, untruths can be supported by men or ladies and their sole aim is to trick you in case you're oblivious.

Do you know the mainstream lies that a few women were advised just to get them in bed?

1. Your bosom won't develop more than this in the event that you don't have intercourse

For women who are not lucky to have it huge in their chest locale, they experience the ill effects of their lady friends or beaus. You will be informed that you require folks to enable you to press or back rub it so it would be greater.

Is this therapeutically or scripturally right? Never! By what means will a man handle your bosom and would one day not have intercourse with you?

Naturally, when a lady is lactating, her mammalian organ increments and the span of the bosom increments to suit the creation of drain for the child. Be that as it may, on the off chance that you enable this deceive lead you into what you're not set up for, your fate will be influenced.

What's more, scripturally, the lie holds no water. In the event that you keep organization with vain people, they'll indoctrinate you with their attitude. Favored is the lady that strolls not in the guidance of the corrupt, nor hinder miscreants, nor sit on the seat of the derisive.

2. You won't comprehend what it takes to feel like a lady

What made you believe it's sex that would make you feel like a lady? Having two bosoms, a vagina, a womb and the capacity to discharge as at when due with the going with difficulties doesn't make you to a lesser extent a lady.

In the event that you trust that sex would give you that womanly inclination, you need them to influence you to have a vibe of subjugation and sexual wrongs.

What gives a lady her womanly inclination is in her womanliness, her capacity to perform various tasks, her comprehension of her job in the existence a man and that she's made to supplement a man, not the something else; her imperativeness, her capacity to sustain seeds, sperm as well as everything that has the ability to increase. These and numerous more should give a lady that womanly inclination, not sex, sex and sex.

3. No person is keen on wedding women who are virgins

Truly there are many folks who are unengaged in wedding virgins since they themselves are not one and have trusted that virgins aren't great in bed in view of their inexposure. Be that as it may, actually genuine men out there are so envious of wedding one (virgins) in the event that they're favored to get one.

On the off chance that you become tied up with this lie, you'll get more than being disflowered. You'll be presented to the universe of corruptions and your first time experience with sex, either abandons you fulfilled or disappointed.


On the off chance that you appreciate it before marriage, you'll turn into an Oliver Twist in the event that you don't vanquish the inclination. Furthermore, in the event that you are disappointed, it'll be an issue for you in marriage in light of the fact that the blameless man should accomplish more to make you fulfilled.

4. What's the purpose of keeping it every one of these years when regardless you're single


You may be in your late twenties or mid-thirties you're as yet a virgin and the strain to be hitched is much. There would be inward voices of trickiness that would need you to auction your virginity for that which isn't.

It's smarter to lose your virginity for the correct reason, for the opportune individual and in the correct condition.

Truly, I know how hard it is for you to have repelled yourself from men. Try not to surrender! Simply get somewhat more strength and clutch God, He'll support you before long gave you're doing His will.


5. Virgins detest sex in marriage except if...


Who says that?


The best, energizing, audacious and guiltless sex is gotten when two virgins take part in conjugal sex and they quietly had a good time amid and after the demonstration.


Why a few virgins hate sex is a direct result of their feelings of dread about sex or their accomplice's reluctance in helping them to accomplish climax before infiltration.


Vanquish your feelings of dread. Talk things out on the off chance that you are locked in to be hitched. A genuine man won't ride his better half harsh, he'll have intercourse and not assault her.


On the off chance that you enable them to break your hymen before marriage, your heart will be broken, your mass of resistance will similarly break and you'll be presented to loads of issues about extramarital perversions or detachment.


6. Sex makes you look new, plump, cheerful and excellent


This is a lie from the pit of damnation. Truth be told, the villain is the significant supporter of this.


God says the marriage bed ought to be kept spotless and another person comes to reveal to you that pre-marriage sex would make you look tubby, new and upbeat.


Obviously, on the off chance that you eat well, practice legitimately and keep the correct outlook about existence, you will gleam and stunning in your regular magnificence.


Despite the fact that this might be valid for hitched couple since they are not any more one however two yet as a solitary woman, find some useful task to fulfill and be not kidding with God and your predetermination. On the off chance that you stand around NFA companions, they'll feed you with trashes that will put you life wrecked.


7. On the off chance that you don't get pregnant for me, I can't wed you


"By what method will I realize that you'd be fruitful in marriage? I can't go out on a limb of wedding you without testing your fruitfulness". He gloats like an undefeated boss.


Shockingly, the poor woman, as a rule most church goers won't know where to remain in the gap - regardless of whether to obey him and resist God or do the turn around. Numerous women would be befuddled at this intersection or be looking for an approving exhortation.


It couldn't be any more obvious, I couldn't care less in the event that he will wed you without a doubt, any man that utilizations sex to get you into wedding him is a fornicator and your acknowledgment of his offer makes you a fornicator that would draw in God's judgment.


Pre-marriage sex still remains a through and through malice in God's sight regardless of whether all the world commends it. Women, purchase reality and offer it not. Try not to give the fallen angel a chance to get preference over you as he did to Eve. Try not to take an apprehension on untruths. Dispose of it quickly else you'll give it a thought. Keep in mind, you will KNOW the TRUTH and the TRUTH will SET you FREE!

Source: https://www.elishamfon.com/2018/10/7-rock-solid-lies-men-tell-to-get-women-into-their-beds.html

From the window, I heard a voice screaming loud in tears. It was a lady's voice wailing: "what have I done to you? Beat me today, Beat me! Kill me Victor (not original name used).
Help was far for her as their flat was in the second floor of the building. Access was not possible as their burglary proof was already locked. Moreover, it was in the early hours of the morning and co-tenants were hurrying off for work/ business.
It continued for few hours till children were attracted to the scene. They couldn't do more than trying to trace out the window in which this world war was happening and laughing as the woman screamed in tears the more. I was bitter from where I was and had to show up to disperse that convention of little Children. "They shouldn't be allowed to witness everything before they'll be tempted to think that that's the standard they should emulate". That's what was in my mind. I won't talk more today on how a harsh atmosphere can corrupt the child's attitude to things. That's a full day sermon.

Continue reading this article at : http://www.elishamfon.com/2018/10/are-you-in-love-or-in-prison.html

Cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44

The Benue State Police Command has confirmed the killing of two mobile policemen deployed to Ashuwa village in Logo local council, by armed Fulani herdsmen who according to them, laid an ambush for the troops on patrol between the Benue and Nasarawa border.
Giving an account of the incident to Channels Television, the Spokesman of the command, ASP Moses Yamu, noted that the corpses have been recovered and additional troops deployed to help track down the suspects.
The police also said it has arraigned 18-year-old Ibrahim Idrisa and Saidu Adamu, a 10-year-old, for the alleged murder of one Queen Wilfred in Logo, while grazing openly in violation of the open grazing prohibition law, along with some fleeing accomplices.
According to Yamu, the Chief Magistrate at the Makurdu Magistrate Court, Isaac Ajim, remanded Ibrahim at the Makurdi Medium Prison but remitted the case against Saidu Adam to a juvenile court before sending him to a Gboko remand home created for juvenile offenders.
The case was later adjourning to March 5, 2018.
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Source : http://mfonelishasblog..com/2018/01/confirmed-two-policemen-kill-in-benue.html

Many wise singles look back at previous relationships to discover what went wrong and what went right. They learn from the past how to succeed in the future. One such person, 34-year-old Stephanie, voices a vital issue common to many people: “I got married in my mid-twenties, and it was a ticking time-bomb from the beginning. We were two basically good people thrown together in a bad situation.”
Here’s what Stephanie realized several years after her marriage ended in divorce: she was looking for someone else to make her feel fulfilled, whole, and complete.
“It was an impossible set-up,” she recalls. “I went into the marriage with sky-high expectations. Mostly, I was looking for someone to bring me happiness. It was that ‘happily ever after’ myth so many of us buy into.
What I realized is that I am responsible for my own happiness and fulfillment. Only when I achieved that could I be happy and fulfilled in a relationship. Finding the right man was very important, but even the right man couldn’t make me feel right inside.”
Well said and so true. One of the biggest fallacies and biggest reasons for relationship failure is the idea that someone else is going to make you whole and happy. Many singles believe that only when they find Mr. or Miss Right will they be complete and content.
This kind of thinking, ironically, is the very reason so many people feel unfulfilled and empty. They look outside of themselves, instead of looking inward, to find peace of mind and heart.
Deep-down contentment always comes from within. It has everything to do with emotional and spiritual well-being, and it is not dependent upon any relationship or other external factor. If you’re looking for someone else to bring you fulfillment, you’re setting yourself up for even more struggle and discontent.
Researcher Richard Lucas of Michigan State University and his colleagues examined data from a fifteen-year study involving 24,000 individuals to answer the question, “Are married people happier than unmarried people?”
The study, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, found that men and women who were happy before marriage scored highest on marital satisfaction tests. The report said, “Most people who get married and stay married were more satisfied with their lives than their non-married peers long before the marriage occurred.”
The implication is clear: An individual’s life satisfaction trajectory will usually continue on the same path after marriage. That is, people content with their lives while unmarried stayed content after marriage.
Happy people create happy marriages. Dudes you must undersand that been unhappy while single will not find marriage to be a magical cure-all for your dissatisfaction and discontent in life.
Lastly; to have a smooth relationship with that special person in your heart; you need to have a spontaneous relationship with Jesus and be addicted in prayers; with this development both your joy and happiness shall be certain before and after marriage.
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Source : http://mfonelishasblog..com/2018/01/your-happiness-matters-in-your-marital.html

I wasn't there when God created the world but I know that He blessed the earth. We can't doubt this especially when the golds, diamond, precious stones, crude oil, etc are there to bear witness that God did a perfect job on the earth.

Mineral resources are viable enough to service an economy. As Nigerians, we cannot say that we are ignorant of this truth. Crude oil has done us some good and this is just one mineral resource discovered and tapped out of the abundant untapped resources! As it stands, we are yet to mine all the mineral resources abundant for our prosperity yet as a country, we are not poor.

Again, I ask myself: where is the place of man in this picture?

The core component of every man is his mind! A man's mind buries his life. You can improve your life by exploring and exploiting the deposits of your mind. More than one raw capacity is buried in your inside. How do I know this? God also did a perfect job in your creation and as He is, so are we! Approach one out of such deposits with a business mindset and your life can never remain the same. To sideline your mind power is to forfeit your life capacity. God wires success to us through our minds. The Holy Spirit is the spirit of a sound mind. That sound mind can create a sound life.

What your mind buries can change your life. The problem is not that you are not endowed as much as the fact that you are not looking keenly in the direction of what can come out of your mind to change your life. I say to you, "you are a perfect representation of the awesomeness of God". God created you and in you are raw deposits of potentials. That's your energy! That's your power! It looks like a dirty hopeless crude oil down there but that's your petrol! That's your voice in the committee of great men. The message behind this is simple: "you can explore, extract, refine and serve those hidden abilities just with the slightest tap and be rewarded for your diligence and hardwork.

If you are not creative, it is not because God wants you to remain that way; you have rather chosen to be satisfied with the level of life you are operating under. Your mind is a deep well; it gives out what you are willing to draw out of it. The substance in it can never finish.

I have made up my mind to mine the deposits of my mind, not making room for waste. That's my goldmine! When I am done, I will certainly fix my price and even you will pay for it.

"as a man thinks in his heart, so is he"

Source : http://mfonelishasblog..com/2018/01/nigeria-is-not-poor.html

Parpor:
ill be back

ABI oooooooo, am waiting

“No Marriage is Perfect?”
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I was attending to a married woman in my consulting room sometime ago; as part of the required information, I asked if she suffers from domestic violence, whether her husband usually beat her or not and she said, “No, my husband does not beat me o, except for the normal once in a while slapping whenever I offend him”.
That was the first time I would be hearing that there’s a form of beating that is normal.
I have also heard men saying that there’s no how a woman will not nag. So some men have conditioned their mind to such negative attitudes. They would say that nagging and mood swing is part of menstrual symptoms, and therefore normal.
Part of the few things I helped my fiancée (wife now) overcame during our courtship was the mood swing and this ‘innocent’ nagging… I refused to accept it as normal for a Christian to nag or have a mood that swings. I wasn’t authoritative about it but I made her see what Christ in her can do and it made all the difference.
Each time I hear people, especially those who are still single telling themselves that there’s no perfect marriage, I usually feel really sorry or maybe pity for them.
When you believe such statements and you accept it, you are simply setting up yourself for the type of marriage you do not deserve.
Sincerely speaking, you deserve nothing less than a perfect marriage, but since nothing good comes so easily, you will be prepared to work to make it work.
Now, this is my counsel, don’t set yourself up for an imperfect marriage life. You don’t have to endure your marriage when you can actually enjoy it.
Probably you have seen or heard about so many imperfect and terrible marriages and pessimism has fallen on you, making you to begin doubt if your own marriage also will be any different.
I have this to tell you, be optimistic and stop listening to the pessimistic utterances of failure from those who sank into the ocean of life while trying to sail to the sore of gold.
The fact that they sank into the ocean of life does not mean that others did not successfully sailed to the sore of gold.
For those who have had or having a failed marriage, all they will tell you is that there’s no perfect marriage.
However, it will be wise of you to go study them so you can know why they are failing and then look around for the marriages that are working, find out also how they are making it work.
More importantly, you can put in place the foundational structure on which your marriage will be built now that you are yet to marry.
I will write about the most important foundation to lay before you enter into marriage, it will be the last article I will write on the courtship series. If you are yet to read the previous articles, please take time to read them. This one is the sixth one. I will stop on the seventh series.
Ensure you’re in a relationship with the right person… preferably your friend or someone you can easily make friends with. This is very important. You don’t need someone who will be commanding you or punishing you as though they are your father or mother, you need a friend you can play with, who can correct you and still make you feel secure.
In relationship, don’t be overwhelmed by emotions, don’t ignore negative attitudes… If you see any, address it calmly with wisdom.
However, there are some negative attitudes that when you see, it will be an indication that you are courting either trouble or potential trouble.
When you notice that the person you want to marry is cheating. You don’t have to continue in such relationship. You don’t need to ask questions whether you should quit or not, simply use your common sense. A cheating fiancé/fiancée will still be a cheating husband/wife. Such person is not a Christian because God does not have a sinning child.
Marriage does not change much about people unless they have encounter with Jesus and get born again. Marriage will only change the nomenclature from fornication to adultery. That’s all. So, please act wise!
Secondly, don’t take an angry or a nagging partner for granted. I’m sure you don’t deserve a lifetime relationship with such person. Let your partner know sincerely that it is wrong of them to get angry or nag at you. Anyone who raises his/her voice or shout at you while you are still unmarried will slap or beat you when you marry.
Any habit taken into marriage multiplies, whether good or bad.
Finally, go study how your partner relate with or treat his/her siblings and parents because very soon, that’s the same way he/she will start treating you and your parents. If you notice anything you are not comfortable with, don’t be sentimental, talk frankly about it.
I can assure you that when you get things right in courtship or in your pre-wedding relationship, you will also get it right in marriage.
I pray that your marriage will be an example of a perfect, emulate-able one in Jesus name. Amen.
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Source : http://mfonelishasblog..com/2018/01/no-marriage-is-perfect.html

adehadex:
Told my friends if u see me marry white garment Pls scatter my weeding I may be under a spell.... That religion part Love can never be blind to it.

Hahahahahahahaha

Lies That Makes Ladies Fall Into Premarital Sex
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Yesterday, ladies who were naive or easy to be influenced had fallen into the deception of cunning men whose aim is to have premarital sex with them. Today, some of them don't learn from the mistake some made in the past and are still victims of premarital sex. Tomorrow, more ladies would be victims of premarital sex at their tender age because of the lies that was sold to them from the devil through subtle men.
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Truth doesn't make you fall, it keeps you standing provided you're firmly rooted in it but lies will make you fall and you may not be able to recover from the consequences of the fall.
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The best way to escape lies is to know the truth and discard the lies immediately you discover that it doesn't correlate with the truth. A second thought on lies will convince you into the act just as it did to Eve.
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And mind you, lies can be sponsored by men or women and their sole intention is to deceive you if you're ignorant.
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Do you know the popular lies that some ladies were told just to get them in bed?
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1. Your breast won't grow more than this if you don't have sex
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For ladies who are not fortunate to have it big in their chest region, they suffer lots of intimidation from their girlfriends or boyfriends. You will be told that you need guys to help you press or massage it so that it would be bigger.
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Is this medically or scripturally right? Never! How will a man handle your breast and would one day not have sex with you?
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Biologically, when a woman is lactating, her mammalian gland increases and the size of the breast increases to accommodate the production of milk for the baby. But if you allow this lie to lead you into what you're not prepared for, your destiny will be affected.
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And scripturally, the lie holds no water. If you keep company with vain persons, they'll brainwash you with their mentality. Blessed is the woman that walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stand in the way of sinners, nor sit on the seat of the scornful.
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2. You won't know what it takes to feel like a woman
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What made you think it's sex that would make you feel like a woman? Having two breasts, a vagina, a womb and the ability to menstruate as at when due with the accompanying challenges doesn't make you less of a woman.
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If you believe that sex would give you that womanly feeling, you want them to make you have a feel of bondage and sexual evils.
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What gives a woman her womanly feeling is in her femininity, her ability to multitask, her understanding of her role in the life a man and that she's made to complement a man, not the otherwise; her indispensability, her ability to nurture seeds, not just sperm but everything that has the capacity to multiply. These and many more ought to give a woman that womanly feeling, not sex, sex and sex.
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3. No guy is interested in marrying ladies who are virgins
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Yes there are many guys who are disinterested in marrying virgins because they themselves are not one and have believed that virgins aren't good in bed because of their inexposure. But the truth is that real men out there are so desirous of marrying one (virgins) if they're privileged to get one.
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If you buy into this lie, you'll get more than being disflowered. You'll be exposed to the world of immoralities and your first time encounter with sex, either leaves you satisfied or dissatisfied.
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If you enjoy it before marriage, you'll become an Oliver Twist if you do not conquer the urge. And if you are dissatisfied, it'll be a problem for you in marriage because the innocent man will have to do more to make you satisfied.
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4. What's the point of keeping it all these years when you're still single
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You might be in your late twenties or mid-thirties and you're still a virgin and the pressure to be married is much. There would be internal voices of deception that would want you to sell off your virginity for that which is not.
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It's better to lose your virginity for the right reason, for the right person and in the right environment.
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Honestly, I know how hard it is for you to have kept yourself away from men. Don't give up! Just get a little more courage and hold onto God, He'll favor you soon provided you're doing His will.
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5. Virgins don't enjoy sex in marriage unless...
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Who says that?
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The best, exciting, adventurous and guiltless sex is obtained when two virgins engage in marital sex and they patiently enjoyed themselves during and after the act.
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Why some virgins don't enjoy sex is because of their fears about sex or their partner's unwillingness in helping them to achieve orgasm before penetration.
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Conquer your fears. Talk things out if you are engaged to be married. A real man won't ride his wife rough, he'll make love and not rape her.
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If you allow them to break your hymen before marriage, your heart will be broken, your wall of defense will equally break and you'll be exposed to lots of issues about sexual immoralities or looseness.
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6. Sex makes you look fresh, chubby, happy and beautiful
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This is a lie from the pit of hell. In fact, the devil is the major sponsor of this.
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God says the marriage bed should be kept undefiled and someone else comes to tell you that premarital sex would make you look chubby, fresh and happy.
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See, if you eat well, exercise properly and keep the right mindset about life, you will be glowing and dazzling in your natural beauty.
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Although this may be true for married couple because they are no more one but two but as a single lady, get a life and be serious with God and your destiny. If you loiter around NFA friends, they'll feed you with junks that will put you life in a mess.
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7. If you don't get pregnant for me, I can't marry you
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"How will I know that you'd be fertile in marriage? I can't take the risk of marrying you without testing your fertility". He brags like an undefeated champion.
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Unfortunately, the poor lady, oftentimes most church goers won't know where to stand in the divide - whether to obey him and disobey God or do the reverse. Many ladies would be confused at this junction or be seeking for a validating advice.
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See, I don't care if he will marry you for real, any man that uses sex to get you into marrying him is a fornicator and your acceptance of his offer makes you a fornicator that would attract God's judgment.
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Premarital sex still remains an outright evil in God's sight even if all the world celebrates it. Ladies, buy the truth and sell it not. Don't let the devil get an advantage over you as he did to Eve. Don't take a second thought on lies. Discard it immediately otherwise you'll give it a consideration. Remember, you shall KNOW the TRUTH and the TRUTH shall SET you FREE!

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Source : http://mfonelishasblog..com/2018/01/lies-that-makes-ladies-fall-into-premarital-sex.html

Elparaiso:
12 inch wetin? Can't she slice it? You've eaten it before?�

Eaten fire!!!!!!

Elparaiso:

LOL, I'm causing congestion right now sef.
But what am I coming to eat?

You'll be eating Indomi noodles, then a 12 inches cucumber to wash it down.
Shea you want free food?

DeeFlask:
2023

Hahaha.... Funny you