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Women can be soft and all that but at the same time we dont have be push overs and accept crap! Its time women start standing up for themselves. What they think and believe. Men who cant handle it call it being aggressive and hard. Crap!

Thats a lie. Sex? Lmao! No way! Too much eating and drinking and too little exercise. My ex husband was slim and we did it like rabbits. I feed him well, his native food and mine (soul food) he gained weight but evenly and he exercised so he had a nice built body. Not a pot belly that hangs over or looks like he was pregnant. No way! I dont know whats happening but its certainly not sex.

My thoughts exactly! A pastor once said, where was her man when she was talking to the devil? Exactly i couldnt have said it better. Any way if it is a tradition, it is a dumb and nasty one.

25 the age limit for women to get married? Heyyy i guess im an old maid at 28 eh? Beautiful and smart, have a lot to offer, but an old maid.

I would never for any reason have an abortion. There are better ways for a woman to empower herself. And i will give a smart ass response about using condoms because they didnt have to have sex in the first place. Condoms or not. Any one and every one knows nothing is 100 percent so its all crap. Ladies keep em close and men leave en zipped up if ur not ready or are too selfish to deal with it. A baby is a blessing, ready or not. Women can make it with out a man. Women are strong, naturally motherly and caring. Thats the stuff we are made of. What useless man can change that?

Ego and pride! Even when they know they are wrong they wont admit it. Takes a real man or woman to do that. i suggest u find one.

Sounds to me like u got played. Men arent the only ones to do things like this. U dont love this chick or in love with her. Good sex will make u think so. Any way she is not interested in u. Move on.

To bowels or what ever ridiculous name u have, i can fry u some chicken and some platains as well. Want some fried monkey with that or whatever it is u eat u idiot?? U know what i better leave this thread, i didnt come in here to rub shoulders with ignorant dickheads and the like. Worthless words from a worthless baboon.

Info being available doesnt have a thing to do with u caring or not. theres a lot of info available that has nothing to do with me, like the corruption in nigeria "duh". How is that my problem or business? any way just an example ok. Im not here to compare who is better or worse. I dont tear down different nations or try to single out groups of people. Thats being done without my help.

To dumb ass reloaded, what question do u want me to answer? None of it applies to me. I dont have or never had an std, i dont have or live in the hood, i dont know when an aa will become president but with my vote im putting a black man close to the white house, i dont speak ebonics. Wait so many stupid ass questions i cant remember them all. Oh yes, i plan to visit africa just as long as i dont run into the likes of u, what esle was there??

To dumb ass reloaded, what question do u want me to answer? None of it applies to me. I dont have or never had an std, i dont have or live in the hood, i dont know when an aa will become president but with my vote im putting a black man close to the white house, i dont speak ebonics. Wait so many stupid ass questions i cant remember them all. Oh yes, i plan to visit africa just as long as i dont run into the likes of u, what esle was there??

Wow well im sure u wont have a hard time finding boney bitches since almost every one over there is hungry. Nothing sexy about bones! Paris hilton? Thats a joke. No boobs no ass all ribs bones. My men love my breasts and my hips and my ass. Bones dont have any thing on me. Most of ur mothers are really fat. Not thick madame! Fat! Im thick big and sexy. If u dont like us leave it to the real men to deal with. U must like the boney ones to make ur little pecker appear larger.

From what i have ur mothers are probably fat. Tell her that nigerian men not into fat bitches. U dont speak for all nigerian men obviously. And im sure its easy to find skinny bitches where u come from, everyone is hungry!

Well as for me, im very proud of where i came from. Im african american and very proud of my roots. I know i came from kings and queens in my native land mama africa. I have been proud of it since i was a child. The kids at school made fun of me because my skin was chocolate, and it hurt for along time. Now i love being a beautiful african american dark skinned female, and wouldnt change it for the world. As for african americans being ignorant about where they came from i can only say this; i know my history and up until recently we didnt have a way of tracing our roots because we were sold off, separated, names changed, Now they can take dna are trace the exact part of africa our ancestors come from. When my results come back, im going to that part of africa first. I wonder how they will accept me. Any way all african americans dont feel that they dont have ties to africa of course we do. And yes black is so so beautiful.

Well african americans arent the only ones. Any way i study hard and work hard and save all of my money. My african guys friends buy what ever i need. Im not like some american blacks that spend more money than i have coming in. Any way why does a nigerian care what an african american is spending or saving?

I guess i said some thing wrong because my last reply has vanished into thin air. Good. I dont want the decent people here to get the wrong idea about me. As for aa going to africa, I have dreamed of going to africa all of my life, now the only question is which part i will be going to. If the people are nasty then its best i stay away. I give what i get, so nasty people stay away. My main man is from nigeria, a guy friend is from congo, another is from liberia and my special guy friend is from sudan. so i guess i will visit those places.

Girl22 i must thank you for making some wonderful points and asking important questions.

To dumb ass reloaded or whatever, why dont u shut the hell up? I will and can run on and on for as long as i like. One of the benefits from being in and from a free country. I didnt come here to rub shoulders with the likes of u.

To dumb ass reloaded or whatever, why dont u shut the hell up? I will and can run on and on for as long as i like. One of the benefits from being in and from a free country. I didnt come here to rub shoulders with the likes of u.

Well i am an african american\black woman. There are so many stupid questions here i can't even answer them all. First of all im not from the ghetto. I dont have an std or aids and the last time i checked there was and aids;hiv problem in nigeria as well. Not only the guys over here use the word nigga and its not cute no matter who its coming from. The baggy cloths arent cut either but why do i see nigerian men dressing that why. And what is the deal with all the insults? We are all black yes? Or what do u think u are special because my ancestors (whom i am very proud) where put on the ship and urs were not. Oh wait they were. Jesus we didnt choose this but we have to make the best of it and move on. I would rather be me than to go to another country and pretend im some one im not. I know african girls nigerian to be exact who dont have a pot to piss in yet jump from guy to guy begging for money trying pretend to be rich. Africans living in the ghetto and think us aa are second class citizens. Whatever!

To elosela ersela or whatever. Please u should just shut ur dirty mouth. U dont have a clue what u are talking about. When it happens to u we will see. Idiot.

Well some one almost said what im about to say. Nigerians are black the caribs are black, what is the issue? Do they have 2 heads? Black is beautiful no matter where u come from. What is all this hating?

Im wouldnt call myself fat! and no guys do either. Im a big sexy girl and have never had a problem with it and no one else does either. This topic was stupid to begin with. I can out shine my boney friends and cousins any day. Im beautiful and my size doesnt change that. Nonsense.

What is wrong with MouthAction? How is it sinful when u do it with ur own husband. Thats non-sense. her husband is a useless man. Get rid of him.