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Please no time for word construction and long story.
A sister needs your opinion on this to redress her action where it's dim necessary.


My cousine met a very pretty girl sometime ago and luckily for him,she was single and my cousin was ready to mingle so they both agreed on a relationship.

Last month he told me about travelling to visit her and we advise her to get alot of goodies for her since he is so much I love with her and willing to marry her.
He later traveled as planed and things went well.
According to him, he gave her large sum of money for her up keep and to get few things for herself.
Not that he is rich but at least he has a good job.
Despite all this,he still sends airtime to her on weekly basis making sure she has nothing to complain about. They even discussed marriage but she claimed she isn't ready at moment until she finishes school.

Fastward to last week, she started acting up . Dropping his call unnecessary and even asked him for a break on the pretence that her final year exam was at hand and she need to concentrate.
My brother told me he knew there was something wrong but unable to fathom it.
Yesterday she told my brother that a guy is asking for her hand in marriage and as it is now that she confuse.
She told my brother that she met him long before dating my brother but d guy wasn't serious then .Now he is serious and d guy Is planning to see her people today. She claimed she told the guy that she is already in a relationship but the guy wouldn't listen.
Meaning all this time she has been forming busy the guy was always around .
which she confirmed to be true.
While my brother was asked to hold on?

My brother was so worried that he couldn't do anything throughout day so I advise him to sleep in our house.
He sought for my opinion, I told him to stop the girl from seeing that guy because from my own findings she only told my brother so that he will approve of their meetings. Since he is aware ,it's no longer cheating.
He told girl that he is not comfortable with her hanging with the guy but she told my brother that she will continue to see him pointing out to the fact that they are mere friends . Someone asking for your hand in marriage?

He is heartbroken


I advised him to quit the girl since she is not willing to put a stop with other guy

To my amazement, I saw him deleting her pictures and text messages. He even told me that its over between them.
He even block her all the social network.

Am now locked out with the thought of my advice.
Was my advice wrong or right.

Please am only protecting my beloved brother.

your constructive criticisms are welcome.
Please no comic assertions here,abeg.

Thanks

SkyBlue1:
I thought everybody in the region was supposed to be thretening hell fire and threatening to make the Buhari government ungovernable. Day by day that narrative of anarchy seems to be unravelling as a figment of the imagination of some tribal bigots. Let it be known, nobody is untouchable. If any of these militants are arrested for breaking the law nothing will happen, the region will not go up in flames. People refuse to learn, there was a time when Turai and Aoondoaka or whatever he's called were seen as gods, where are they today?

People want good governance, period!

onye ofe nmanu asi n gini?
Red oil soup calm down, Igbos are tribe to reckon with ask your forefathers that fought ever had for us not to disintegrate.

soe:
Nonsense

Dele momodu just destroyed his reputation in APC.


How can you visit a man who openly insults our National Leaders...a man who has refused to apologise....a man who is a major beneficiary of the PDP govt.

Dele Momodu is a goner for belittling the party.

Dpkpesi should be the one visiting and begging..not the other way round.

Useless set of fat people

Adamu or alabi on the loose.
sour grieved heart what has he done ?
Was it not factual revelation?

calm down ok , cry or weep when you see ur baba chance visiting him as well

Nawa oh,
The way this vampires kill people should be looked into oh. I remember how these blood thirsty animals on uniform arrested /kidnapped a friend (11days)along lagos road and detained them for no apparent reason.
They collected their phone restricted them from contacting anybody. Till today their intention is not known

Their coming out was just by God's grace.

A friend they met told them that his case would be settled on the 11th day and he will be out.
So they begged him to call some numbers to inform them of their where about.

That's how we got to know that they were not missing
Because we are waiting for the 14th day to make public aannouncement .

I want to even use the opportunity to notify the general public to check for their missing beloved male youngis in their custody especially those plying that lagos Benin road

No time for comparison, this man second name na work. You need to see things yourself .
Is it the quality of the roads that reads " am ever strong for 20 yrs" or the structure designs that can compete favourable with its counterparts abroad.

I rep this man for real.
Not all these social media governors.
The likes of Amechi and fashola that build structures on twitter and facebook.

Missing her already?

No more comic words and action from mama peace.

Oh my dear country,how did we get here?

Most countries here are Muslims , Or I am the only one noticing that?

Islam a religion of piss indeed.

Serious beefing or FACT?

And I ask

"After May 29 2015, do we still consider military intervention in North East as an attack to the north geared towards depopulation of the zone"?

No one climbs higher by bringing others down.
Kama is bit.ch

We are watching.

Nawa for the people

Nne carry go

dyabman:
Nigeria na Libya ? Afghanistan ? abi we be middle-east people .. We are definitely more intelligent and wiser than those in-breed destrutive people.

Now about your Gay claims , not every states in the U.S is gay marriage approved , so why should Buhari accept gay-marriage for almost 160 million Nigerians without our consent? IMPOSSIBLE !! or are you scared your husband/boyfriend would be another man's wife

Let him come and we will become a force to reckon with within Africa and beyond.

Dreamer wake up? Were we better than Libya before its civil war? What made you think that something worst may not happen to us by aligning with this fake ally.
see you become a force to reckon with by achieving success. Obama visit can NEVER be recorded as success.
Btw,are you above 20 because my instinct tells me otherwise.

ydass:
Cow.ards?

you may go with the cow there.

ydass:
The poster above me is jobless.

Meanwhile, Obama's presence at the transition ceremony will send a strong message to the rest of the world and Nigerians, it will also put this Government on his toes. The world world is watching.

I don't do Cow.ards.

We are yet to realise what this people has done or yet to do us. Tell me any country who relies its security and politics on America that is at peace? Libya, Iraq and Afghanistan comes to mind.


Am not quite conversant with other countries' problem but am very sure America destroyed Libya for Life.
Libya will continue like this for decades.


Nigerians should ignore these cons.



China made it without America's approval so why must we seek their consent or approval all the time.

To other African countries he has been to what good has been introduced? Gay marriage.

He should first help his father land to conquer terrorist ,then we will then beg him to assist us.

Obama please clear the air on Osama Binladin scam abeg.
America my foot. They abandoned us during ebola saga but our Redeemer liveth.


Obama stay clear of our politics oh. Don't come here with your gospel of Gay and war.

Na beg I dey beg you oh

Chai chai chai! These cowards have finally gotten near to my environs! What a fatal disintegration of a viable soul. A soldier and also leader balancing the both qualities with each others interference.

My cool paddy for camp #AKayaya2011B^c.


Ewooooooooo

R.I.P Cosmas

princdebola201:
I Prophesy At the Sight of Obasanjo Every Ojukwu in ur Life shall collect Baton and Run in JESUS NAME...!!!!

Stale!

I thought you have got facts to prove that your tribe is not the problem in this country, Sanusi Lamido.

princdebola201:
And ojukwu Fled..!!!!

And your general is a good example of how not be a soldier.

A fled major is a way far better and great than a crying general.

I remember some one said "he is becoming president at the wrong time"

Well,for me the statement portrays two negativities.
Either he has forseen inevitable failure that lies beyond sight OR he understands that American prediction,about US this 2015, is not mere say.

kastonkastrol:
the most annoying and embarrassing thing about this Jonathan administration is; the man and his COS couldn't destroy a rag-tag group called boko haram for six good years. A group that is operating within the territory of Nigeria. What was gej and his team waiting for before they could infrared sambisa forest?

Even if boko haram are defeated and totally annihilated today, gej will not be accorded with any victory. For him to allow boko haram to kill thousands of nigerians and destroy billions worth properties has already made him a failure.

Gej never bothered to fight boko haram untill when the elections were around. He takes the people of northeast as fools who will give him all their votes because he decided to tackle boko haram at the 11th hour.


And some gullible nigerians are calling the man their hero, hero my foot.

Tanshi kporonku there, onye mgbu .

This was how human beings are meant to be,but since devil (father of lies) deceived Adam and Eve telling them sex is the sweetest thing to enjoy,we became apprehensive due to the act and as a result, overrated sex.

Believe me, sex is more of mind game than contact between the two.

Those on bike naked have been able to work on there minds based of these percept, thus their minds are guilt free.


Are you there?

buygala:
From my experience, nothing frustrates a bitcchy girlfriend more than silence.... total verbal black-out and blank expression ..... they will be dying to know what's on your mind because that kind of silence is much creepier than all the shouting and beating a man can bring himself to do


Anyway, me sef wey no even well before na im woman wan dey show herself for my side? ....

Last time a babe made me really wanna beat her, I just went on lowkey to fucck two of her best friends in a single week... She was the one now crying uncontrollably and blaming me for not beating her instead but getting back at her by bleeping her friends


THANK GOD I HAVE NOW GIVEN MY LIFE TO CHRIST .... I AM NOW A NEW MAN

Uncle you can lie oh!

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That List is not complete if am not there oh

So poor are the prizes,but I will contest to show off little swagg and skill.

so if you ve got it, flaunt it

Nothing unusual here, it's a way of life in lagos?


Ask Desmond elliot

Do you want him or her to be bad friend? Goood friend Yes
intimate, no?

Olodo,

next please

Nna mehn we don enter one chance oh!
The last time I checked, One-chance conductor don't offer change.

#praywedon'tregretthis

Women are evil and source of pain.

Be careful who you adopt into your live as wife.

Imagine the unthinkable by this evil minded lady capable of crippling her hubby's wheels of progress.

Please see your pastor for real deliverance.