I dnt hav appetite 2 eat at all bt i always manage 2 mak sure dt dia is food in my stomak. Bt if i do, it wil b very dificult 4 me 2 sleep,havin stomach ache and i wil b very heavy as if d food is undigested. Pls help me.

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I support you with this

@ Poster If u still av this grudge, u wont be happy in your marriage so try as much as possible to forgive him though its difficult but Remember God forgive us as humans so we should also forgive ourselves, But if u cant really stand their presence , u can start looking for another job so as to keep a distance. Ok I wish u good luck and ensure to God for a forgiving spirit or heart and i promise u will get over it , I tried it also and it worked

I luv ds ur response. i truly hav 2 look 4 another jod and get it over. am not working in d same place with my husband may be dts why am seein them and gt hurt. thanks 4 ur advice.

On 08/06/2009, my b/f and I attended one of our colleague’s birthday ( a lady ). So when I was feeling sleepy, I left there nd d follwing day I learnt they danced together bt I ddnt see it as any thing. Later on I started hearing rumor dt my guy was datin dis gurl, I was mad. So I asked but he didn’t deny. He begged me 4 4givnes, bt I told him if only he culd stop goin out wit d gurl. But I culd no longer trust him and I was feelin too much pain coz the lady’s office is in the 3rd door to my office. That was how I left them i.e I quit and got married. The thin now is, the guy is begin me just 2 4giv him. But I just cant. u knw y? he is so wicked, he disgraced me, he demeaned me. he is selfish and incinsiderate.The pains is stil in me coz am seein him and the lady in the office every day. SHOULD I FORGIV HIM? BUT EVEN IF I DO, IS AGAINST MY WISH. i need ur candid advice pls. no insult pls