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Celebrities[b]wizkid Wins 3 Billboard Music Awards And Counting![/b] by emelisande(op): 7:47pm On May 21, 2017
Wizkid is proving he is the real Starboy at the ongoing 2017 Billboard Music Awards.

The Come Closer singer who set the record as the first Nigerian singer to get 7 Billboard Music Award nominations has now bagged 3 awards out of those categories

Top R&B Song:Drake Featuring Wizkid & Kyla “One Dance” – winner
Bruno Mars “24K Magic”
Rihanna “Needed Me”
Rihanna Featuring Drake “Work”
The Weeknd Featuring Daft Punk “Starboy”

Top R&B Collaboration:Drake Featuring Wizkid & Kyla “One Dance” – winner
PARTYNEXTDOOR Featuring Drake “Come And See Me”
Rihanna Featuring Drake “Work”
The Weeknd Featuring Daft Punk “I Feel It Coming”
The Weeknd Featuring Daft Punk “Starboy”

Top Streaming Song (Audio)
"One Dance" – Drake featuring Wizkid and Kyla

"Broccoli" – D.R.A.M. featuring Lil Yachty
"Closer" – The Chainsmokers featuring Halsey
"Needed Me" – Rihanna
"Starboy" – The Weeknd featuring Daft Punk

SportsJuventus Logo Change: Bianconeri Embracing The Future Look by emelisande(op): 8:42pm On Jan 17, 2017
Italian Serie A side Juventus has changed their club logo as the new crest was revealed by President Andrea Agnelli on Monday night at Juve's HQ.

The 32-time Serie A champions have gone for a new look as the fierce bull and crown on the past crest have departed with the club. The new logo contains a small 'J' along with a larger letter around the outside.

The club's president Andrea Agnelli stated at the unveiling that "it took a year" to create with research. The 'J' represents and reminiscences the famous line of Giovani Agnelli: "I get excited every time I see a word beginning with J in the papers."

Mixed reactions
Former club players have described the new logo as a "lifestyle" and a different look for the future. It indicates that La Vecchia Signora is not afraid to make a bold statement to the rest of the footballing world. The unique design is simplistic and the first football crest to look plain but also have a strong meaning.

However, some fans didn't react in the best supporting way as they thought the change looked like a clothing brand logo.

It looks like Juventus are going to have to part ways with the traditional old look. It is brave from Turin club to create change and be unique to every other football club. The new jersey shows an aesthetic design that does compensate for the upset fans.

Christianity EtcQuestions Muslims Dont Liked To Be Asked by emelisande(op): 10:38am On Sep 28, 2016
1. Muslims claim, that a proof the Koran was from God, is that it contains scientifically accurate information about Embryology before man discovered it for himself. However, all the information in the Koran regarding Embryology is copied from three sources, 1. A Greek doctor named Galen, who lived of 150 AD. 2. A Jewish doctor named Samuel ha-Yehudi who lived 150 AD. 3. the Greek father of medicine Hippocrates who lived 400 BC. My question is: in light of the fact that all the information contained in the Koran was already in print by these three doctors, will you retract the argument on Embryology? If not, will you supply one detail revealed in the Koran about Embryology, that was not already revealed or that was new?

2. Muslims quote an article written in 1957 by the Jehovah's Witnesses who stated there were 50,000 errors in the translation of the King James version. My question is: Even if this were true, (which of course it is not), how does this prove there is corruption in the original Greek MSS from which the King James version was translated?

3. Muslims believe the word Allah was used by Jesus when he hung on the cross. The Bible records that Jesus said "Eli Eli lama sabachthani", but you say Jesus really cried out to Allah and said "Allah, Allah lama sabachthani" My question is: Would you please explain why you would use this argument when you don't believe Jesus ever hung on the cross? And second, since Jesus was quoting Ps 22:1 on the cross, isn't rather unlikely that both the Hebrew Old Testament and the Greek New Testament are wrong using Eli, a Hebrew word, rather than Allah, an arab word?

4. The yearly Passover ritual began the same year it was initiated in the 10th plague and continued uninterrupted for 1500 years. The weekly Lord's supper ritual began the same week that Christ was crucified and has continued ever since for 2000 years. The Islamic rituals just come out of nowhere, 2600 years after Abraham lived. Being as unbiased as you possibly can, My question is: are not the Jewish and Christian rituals more likely to be based on real history since the rituals of Islam that just pop out of nowhere 2600 years later?

5. Given the fact that Isaac Watt, said in his book, Islam and Christianity Today, "By the standards of modern historiography, the crucifixion of Jesus is one of the most certain events in past history" (Watt, Islam and Christianity Today, p. 144). My question is: What historical evidence do you give outside of the Qur'an that Jesus did not die on across?[b][/b]

6. Muslims proudly quote several passages in the Koran 30:48; 24:43, as scientifically accurate explanations of the hydrologic water cycle. My question is: given the fact the Bible had already fully documented the hydrologic water cycle 1600 before the Koran in Job 36:27-28, and 3 other passages (Eccl 11:3; Job 26:8; Eccl 1:6-7), doesn't this proof Muhammad merely copied the scientific facts of the hydrologic water cycle directly from the Bible? (Clouds hold water: Eccl 11:3; Job 26:8; Rivers recycle water: Eccl 1:6-7; Evapouration: Amos 9:6)
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7. The 66 books of the Bible were written by 40 different men over a period of 1600 years with multiple threads of unified themes that span cover to cover. [b]My question is: would you not agree that in contrast to the Bible, that the Qur'an is a jumble of disjointed material, without order, continuity or unity of any kind?


8. Muslims claim that Muhammad always worshipped Allah in a 100% correct way, without the need for any restoral. My question is: If this is true, then why did Muhammad pray towards Jerusalem for the first 5 years of his prophethood, and later redirected his prays towards Mecca? And did Jesus pray towards Mecca 5 times a towards Jerusalem or Mecca?

9. Muslims claim that the Angel Gabriel is the Holy Spirit who came upon Mary and caused her to conceive based upon Luke 1:26:38. My question is: If this is true, then why did Gabriel say to Mary in verse 35, "the power of the Holy Spirit will come upon you" rather than "my power will come upon you"?

10. But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send, will teach you,” (John 14:26) was misquoted by Muslims that Jesus predicted the coming of Mohammed. question is: if Muslims already claimed that the Holy Spirit is Angel Gabriel, then why claim it is Mohammed.Therefore, with all due respect, the Muslim argument is already defeated. Third, this “Helper” was given to Jesus’ apostles (the “you” in John 14:16) not to Arabs living over 550 years later! It was given to those who “have been with . . . [him] from the beginning” (John 15:27; cf. Acts 1:22; Luke 1:1-2). However, Muhammad was not one of Jesus’ apostles.Jesus told the disciples, “You know Him [the Helper]” (v. 17), but the apostles did not know Muhammad. He was not born until over 500 years Later!

11. Muslims have the right to condemn the Bible but will resort to violence if the Christians wants to do likewise. question: but you already claimed Islam is religion of peace.

12. Muslims claim that the New Testament story of Jesus dying on the cross is a corruption of the truth and that Allah made it appear that Jesus died on the cross, as per Q4:157. My question is: How can Muslims claim that they believe any of the New Testament was originally revealed by God, since the corruption must have begun at the cross.[/b]

13. Muslims reject the gospel story of Jesus being a substitute for our sins, the just for the unjust. They use the illustration of a man having to pay for a speeding ticket he did not commit. [b]My question is: How do you explain that in the Muslim view of the cross, someone completely innocent died in Jesus place, after God made him appear to be Jesus? Was not this a Substitutionary sacrifice?
EducationFascinating Coincedence In History by emelisande(op): 1:23pm On Sep 05, 2016
Life is full of coincidences, some very minor, but occasionally – extraordinary.

1. POKER LUCK
In 1858, Robert Fallon was shot dead, an act of vengeance by those with whom he was playing poker. Fallon, they claimed, had won the $600 pot through cheating. With Fallon’s seat empty and none of the other players willing to take the now-unlucky $600, they found a new player to take Fallon’s place and staked him with the dead man’s $600. By the time the police had arrived to investigate the killing, the new player had turned the $600 into $2,200 in winnings. The police demanded the original $600 to pass on to Fallon’s next of kin – only to discover that the new player turned out to be Fallon’s son, who had not seen his father in seven years!

2. ROYAL COINCEDENCE
n Monza, Italy, King Umberto I, went to a small restaurant for dinner, accompanied by his aide-de-camp, General Emilio Ponzia- Vaglia. When the owner took King Umberto’s order, the King noticed that he and the restaurant owner were virtual doubles, in face and in build. Both men began discussing the striking resemblances between each other and found many more similarities.1. Both men were born on the same day, of the same year, (March 14th, 1844).
2. Both men had been born in the same town.
3. Both men married a woman with same name, Margherita.
4. The restauranteur opened his restaurant on the same day that King Umberto was crowned King of Italy.
5. On the 29th July 1900, King Umberto was informed that the restauranteur had died that day in a mysterious shooting accident, and as he expressed his regret, he was then assassinated by an anarchist in the crowd.

3. REVENGE KILLING
In 1883, Henry Ziegland broke off a relationship with his girlfriend who, out of distress, committed suicide. The girl’s enraged brother hunted down Ziegland and shot him. Believing he had killed Ziegland, the brother then took his own life. In fact, however, Ziegland had not been killed. The bullet had only grazed his face, lodging into a tree. It was a narrow escape. Years later, Ziegland decided to cut down the same tree, which still had the bullet in it. The huge tree seemed so formidable that he decided to blow it up with dynamite. The explosion propelled the bullet into Ziegland’s head, killing him.

4. TAXI.
In 1975, while riding a moped in Bermuda, a man was accidentally struck and killed by a taxi. One year later, this man’s bother was killed in the very same way. In fact, he was riding the very same moped. And to stretch the odds even further, he was struck by the very same taxi driven by the same driver – and even carrying the very same passenger!

5. THE PROPHECY
Termalane was a 14th century descendant of Genghis Khan and spent much of his life involved in the family business (conquering Asia). When Soviet archaeologists opened his tomb they found an inscription reading ''Whomsoever opens my tomb shall unleash an invader more terrible than I'' The date was June 20, 1941. On the night of June 22, 1941 German Nazi's without declaring war invaded the Soviet Union.

6. BAD LUCK CAR.
In September 1955, James Dean was killed in a horrific car accident whilst he was driving his Porsche sports car. After the crash the car was seen as very unlucky.
a) When the car was towed away from accident scene and taken to a garage, the engine slipped out and fell onto a mechanic, shattering both of his legs.
b) Eventually the engine was bought by a doctor, who put it into his racing car and was killed shortly afterwards, during a race. Another racing driver, in the same race, was killed in his car, which had James Dean's driveshaft fitted to it.
c) When James Dean's Porsche was later repaired, the garage it was in was destroyed by fire.
d) Later the car was displayed in Sacramento, but it fell off it's mount and broke a teenager's hip.
e) In Oregon, the trailer that the car was mounted on slipped from it's towbar and smashed through the front of a shop.
f) Finally, in 1959, the car mysteriously broke into 11 pieces while it was sitting on steel supports.

7. 21st, A BAD DAY.
When King Louis XVI of France was a child, he was warned by an astrologer to always be on his guard on the 21st day of each month. Louis ws so terrified by this that he never did business on this day. Unfortunately Louis was not always on his guard. On June 21st 1791, following the French revolution, Louis and his queen were arrested in Varennes, whist trying to escape France. On September 21st 1791, France abolished the institution of Royalty and proclaimed itself a republic. Finally on January 21st 1793, King Louis XVI was executed by guillotine.

8. DEVILS ADVOCATES.
Stalin, Hitler, and Franz Josef, who are collectively responsible for about 80 million deaths, all lived in Vienna at the same time.

9. MORE THAN A NUMBER PLATE.
he license plate number of Archduke Franz Ferdinand's car, in which he was assassinated, was A III118. The official end of WWI was Armistice Day, 11/11/18

10. REINCARNATION.

Music/RadioAll To You (loving You) by emelisande(op): 11:38am On Sep 03, 2016
EducationWhich One Is Better EDUCATION 2ru Apprenticeship Or EDUCATION Through Academics by emelisande(op): 11:16pm On Jul 15, 2016
which one is better EDUCATION 2ru apprenticeship or EDUCATION through academics
EducationRe: Riddle: The Man, The Lion, The Goat, The Grass, The Canoe And The River by emelisande(op): 10:47am On Jul 13, 2016
Raddie:
Takes the goat, then the grass and returns with the goat then the lion and finally the goat.


Edited
Na 5g unna dey use.
YES
EducationRe: Riddle: The Man, The Lion, The Goat, The Grass, The Canoe And The River by emelisande(op): 10:46am On Jul 13, 2016
Tolexander:
Man + Lion
Man + Goat
Man + Grass

The steps;

1 The man will first go with the goat in the Canoe, leave the goat at the other side of the river and come back alone in the Canoe.

2 The man will go with the lion in the canoe, leave the lion at the other side of the river and come back with the goat.

3 The man will go with the grass in the canoe, drop the grass at the end of the river with the lion and come back alone.

GBAM!!!!!!!
4 The man will finally go with the goat in the canoe.
EducationRe: Riddle: The Man, The Lion, The Goat, The Grass, The Canoe And The River by emelisande(op): 10:46am On Jul 13, 2016
cotzywitzy:
[color=#006600][/color] first trip to the other side: man + goat
second trip: man + lion (when getting to the other side man loads goat again and goes back with the goat)
third trip: man drops off goat and takes grass ... then goes back)
fourth trip: drops off grass where the lion already is
fifth trip: goes back and picks up goat for the second time
sixth trip and last trip: goes back with the goat to where the lion and the grass already are... the end.
... how exhausting for the poor man.... but the animals and the grass still exist
YOU GOT IT BUT YOU CARRY EXPO FOR YAHOO ANSWER SHA
you should have edited the text make i no kana
nice one
EducationRiddle: The Man, The Lion, The Goat, The Grass, The Canoe And The River by emelisande(op): 10:28am On Jul 13, 2016
A man has a lion,a goat and grass...he has to pass through the river with one boat, but...?
the boat can only carry 2 things at a time so its either the man and the lion or goat or grass, he has to come back for the other 2 and carry them one after the other...if he takes the lion, the goat will eat the grass and that is not good, if he takes the grass, the lion will eat the goat and that is also not good...how is the man supposed to take all three of them.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend And I Are Having Misunderstanding Because Of Yesterday Match. by emelisande(m): 3:48pm On Jul 11, 2016
RichieDaVinci01:
She indirectly stopped you homies from coming over and stopped you from playing and stopped you from watching bruh better run away she'll make your life miserable later
let him know
Forum GamesRe: Solve This Hidden Mobile Phone Eye Test (picture) by emelisande(m): 3:06pm On Jul 11, 2016
[quote author=ademasta post=47426121]Seen. At the right leg of the white plastic table.
ANALYSIS:
It's a black phone, facing down cos I can see its back camera....its having flowers...like 3 at the back...it aligns with the black rectangular border of the carpet... and open your eyes clearly and see the pranking phone at the right leg of the white plastic table.[/quote

MAN you got sharp eyes
EAGLEEYED.

i ve seen it too
RomanceRe: Ladies Do You Find Guys With Baby Face Attractive by emelisande(op): 3:36pm On Jul 06, 2016
TaiKuun:
i have a baby face too and i'm 23, check my profile. IF i'm correct, click like
you are correct
RomanceRe: Ladies Do You Find Guys With Baby Face Attractive by emelisande(op): 1:21pm On Jul 06, 2016
KnightRod:
**sits on chair**



Op, don't you think you should answer first?
i find them attractive
RomanceLadies Do You Find Guys With Baby Face Attractive by emelisande(op): 1:17pm On Jul 06, 2016
some guys would have reached their mid twenties but still look like a teenager. do you find them attractive
RomanceRe: Some Silly Ways Guys Act When A Lady Turns Them Down by emelisande(m): 1:40pm On Apr 08, 2016
DanceVille:
Some ladies have been warned to be careful with men especially when their proposal has been turned down as some are known to go on a vengeful mission and could be dangerous.
Some Guys can't take NO for an answer when they want a lady and when they get the NO, they become cruel beings on a revenge mission.
Sometimes, I do categorise those guys as "Immature" buh believe me, most of them are mature enough.
Here are Some Ways Guys Act When A Lady Turns Them Down..

1. Destroying Her Image In Public

He stalk her and does everything possible to spoil her image in public.
Some go on social media to write false things against the lady whom turns the them.

2. He Goes With Classic guys

Simply To Make Her Feel She's Lost A Loaded Man
He mightn't be in an excellent connection with those men that are classic, but he'll mingle with them and speak with them if they are his buddies when he sees the girl around. That is simply to make her feel he mixes with men that are classic.

3. He Acts Like She Does Not Exist

On an ordinary day, when he sees her he smiles and possibly walks towards her, but now he pretends he doesn't see her even when with his friends and they are pointing at her.

4. He Badmouth Her

To console themselves when a woman turns them down, what most guys do is bad mouth her and talk about stooping low to have asked her out in the very first place. You may hear something similar to "I blame myself to have stooped so low to have inquired such type of girl out in the first instance." This can be amusing.

5. He Gives Her Telephone Number To His buddy, Who's great at wooing women.


He gives her telephone number to his friend who's an experienced toaster, just to punish her

6. He Quits Asking Her Out

Not all men ask a woman out over and over again. When he asks her out, and she refuses, he'll stop ringing up her. But the funniest thing is the fact that his heart beats in anxiety each time his telephone rings, thinking its her.

7. Envy Overwhelms Him

When she turns him down, he behaves like "Life goes on". The funniest thing is the fact that, he gets bitter when he sees her with another guy richer and better than him, probably driving a car.

8. He Makes Buddy Along With Her Pals

I do not understand If I am the only one that's seen this. He makes friends with her close female friends when she turns him down. That is simply to make her jealous
.

9. He Hangs Around With Other Women
:
You'll see him walking with and speaking to a lovely woman whom he's no intimate relationship with when the lady he was wooing turns down his advances. You are going to watch him holding her hand; this is simply to make her feel he's got a high-class girl, better than her.

10. Discourage Other Guys From Wooing Her

Only because his advances continues to be turned down, he gives other guys reasons why they need to avoid her, telling them she is ill-mannered and she not worth the pursuit.


NB
If a lady turns you down doesn't mean you can't find a suitable Lady better than her..
Just move on with your lives and stop being immature..


List compiled by:
DanceVille

Feel free to add yours.
Comments and Bashings are highly welcome..
your post already said it, the guy is moving on
Nairaland GeneralRe: 7 Reasons Why Nigerians Are Happy People by emelisande(m): 12:38pm On Mar 18, 2016
twaintoy:
Add sex join. I no talk am oo.
cofam
no sane man will reject pussy
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Liverpool: Europa League (1 - 1) On 17th March 2016 by emelisande(m): 8:08pm On Mar 17, 2016
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to followed?

CultureRe: White Students Of Yoruba Language University, U.S Singing Yoruba Hymn!(video) by emelisande(m): 12:48pm On Mar 17, 2016
fowlyansh181:
i d phuck you while your mommy watches!! Child!
why not f*ck ur mother join
biafran bastard
CultureRe: White Students Of Yoruba Language University, U.S Singing Yoruba Hymn!(video) by emelisande(m): 7:33pm On Mar 16, 2016
oluwafemim:
JEALOUS NLA
no be small jealous ooooo
big time one

CultureRe: White Students Of Yoruba Language University, U.S Singing Yoruba Hymn!(video) by emelisande(m): 6:57pm On Mar 16, 2016
fowlyansh181:
are you _horny child?
go f*ck ya tribes
madman
CultureRe: White Students Of Yoruba Language University, U.S Singing Yoruba Hymn!(video) by emelisande(m): 6:30pm On Mar 16, 2016
fowlyansh181:
you tag one biafra because he doesn't share your view? run along kid, go play with yourself!
another biafran maggot
CultureRe: White Students Of Yoruba Language University, U.S Singing Yoruba Hymn!(video) by emelisande(m): 5:44pm On Mar 16, 2016
fowlyansh181:
have they ever jubilated because a lowlife like you learnt English? No!
biafran idiota, i aint jubilating. it just baffled me to see such a bad oriented nonentity like you beefing another man's language.
thats just us we are always happy if people understand and speak our language, as same as the hausas.
the biafrans are the only paranoid tribe in nigeria, afraid that strangers will have a way over them if they understand their language.
alaye '' sun segbe jare''
CultureRe: White Students Of Yoruba Language University, U.S Singing Yoruba Hymn!(video) by emelisande(m): 4:18pm On Mar 16, 2016
fowlyansh181:
the Americans are learning your language and you are praising them and jubilating like tods, i weep..
you be mumu, how you take learn english. biafran ignoramus
CultureRe: White Students Of Yoruba Language University, U.S Singing Yoruba Hymn!(video) by emelisande(m): 4:14pm On Mar 16, 2016
Simplestone:
Are you alright?I mean are u sane?are you seriously 4 real?what am trying to ask,is if you re normal?
bros , you don scatter am.
the person aint normal at all, another biafran were
CultureRe: White Students Of Yoruba Language University, U.S Singing Yoruba Hymn!(video) by emelisande(m): 4:13pm On Mar 16, 2016
tgmservice:
So sad to see these ignorant people bring curse onto themselves by learning the language of the WESTERN CURSED TRIBE.
and u sure u aint cursed at all
FamilyRe: 69-year-old Herbalist Marries 18-year-old Girl As 57th Wife by emelisande(m): 3:04pm On Mar 16, 2016
Destined2win:
Picture of him with the 18 year old wife or.......
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Seven Things Singles Do When Tired Of Being Called "Single" by emelisande(m): 6:37pm On Mar 15, 2016
emusmith:
Seven things singles do when tired of being called "single"


This happens all the time. When a guy or a girl is tired of staying alone or "testing", they do most or all of the following subconsciously;

1. Expectantly call every unknown number they missed.

Have you been there before? People do it BUT among those that are termed "Single & Searching", it's on the high. Her voice changes wink He calls back, hoping to hear a girl's voice. If it's a guy (hardware), voicemail lo wa! smiley

are you also waiting for mongo park

2. Attend every church meeting

I've met some who weren't serious with church activities before until they start getting to 27. Hmm, it's well. The guys, theirs is 30-33. They join the units with lots of girls like...wink


3. Fantasizing or playacting the meeting of their future spouse

You hear them say, " this is how I'm going to tell people we met each other"; maybe in a bus or a keke. Every outing is a call to fantasize: Is this gonna be the day? Eeyah, it is on the way.


4. Carrying other women's babies here and there

Carrying other people's babies become a hobby especially when those babies are "sweet", you know what I mean. Not the "cry-cry" ones o; that's what I mean. wink


5. Kissing their lil cousins or nephew, in a kinda way

Especially the emotional ones, they make a sport out of lip-kissing lil children in a playful manner. Please, biko, let's not expose these innocent ones to what we know nothing about. Cheeks, forehead, yes! Lips, No! That's a No-Go area. If you must do that, get yourself a mate.


6. Displaying bbm pins on social media

Well, while this is okay, sometimes, it has proven abortive as some folks lack the maturity to handle friendship in such a way that no one gets hurt. Most times, greed and lustful desires end up thwarting what could have been.


7. Frequently attending wedding ceremonies and all kinds of gatherings

Even burial ceremonies o! Lol! He/she can just be anywhere.


Being single is not a 'curse'. I believe, it's a time to really explore one's self and mind towards the future. Don't rush or hurry any relationship into marriage.

Do your best part and leave the rest. You can't force a guy or a girl to love you when there are over 100 people that wants to buy your 100 friends suya just to get your number. Take a chill pill!

The future is bright. Good day!
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Play Games On Ladies? by emelisande(m): 2:00pm On Mar 15, 2016
Ulotee:
I am really having challanges with the guys! I need advice, for real!

Most times its as if the guys come to me just to get my body, even the ones that I like and would want to have a relationship with. Why is it like this, do I pass the wrong signalhuh I dont dress outrageously or most unbecoming of a lady. I work with a coporate organization, so at least 5 times in a week, am corporately dressed! I have tried dating like 3 guys in about 15months but I found out they are all looking for the same thing.

This is so painful. I spend more time crying and weeping in relationships with guys than being happy, because I always feel cheated and played on.

Pls good pple, what do I do?
the thing is you like bad guys
RomanceRe: 10 Signs She Is Not Worth Your Time by emelisande(op): 12:55pm On Mar 15, 2016
pinceprinz:
As long as she dey give me all I want in bed, No problem... Na player find player cool
lol
RomanceRe: 10 Signs She Is Not Worth Your Time by emelisande(op): 12:54pm On Mar 15, 2016
falconey:
grin


Time is money wasting my time with her is like wasting money $.


but if i'm getting laid it worth it now
lol
Romance10 Signs She Is Not Worth Your Time by emelisande(op): 12:43pm On Mar 15, 2016
1. She wants a lot of space
Are you friends with someone who calls and messages you often or wants to meet you only when in need and having done that, ignores you for a week or so, before the Next Big Emergency? Every time she ignores you or pushes you away, you may find yourself falling more madly in love with her. On the other hand, she's probably not only playing you like a puppet, but having sex with other guys who probably don't treat her even half as nice as you do. Remember this - when a girl claims to really like you, but avoids you for stretches of time despite claiming to "never get tired of spending time with you" there's a good chance there's another guy in her life and that given the opportunity, she will be sleeping with him. Save yourself for a better woman.

2.Friend zone!
Even though she expects you to do everything a boyfriend does for his girlfriend, she refuses to acknowledge the relationship. She keeps reminding you that you’re ‘just friends

3.Benefit of the doubt
She may be genuinely confused about the kind of relationship both of you share, especially if she's just broken up with her guy or is still in a relationship with some other guy. But the point is she's confused. That doesn't mean YOU need to be a part of that confusion. If she loves you, there's nothing to be confused about. It's as simple as that. If she's still in love with another guy, you're not the winner here. You're the scapegoat filling up the blanks when her boyfriend or another guy doesn't have the time for her.

4.She wants you to listen, but not the other way around
Are you in love with a girl who loves talking about her own life and her little problems? Does she tell you about how bad her ex-boyfriend was? And on the other hand, every time you try telling something to her, does she try top keep the conversation short and offer you solutions that you have already thought about? Does she tell you to 'man up' and offer you no sympathy whatsoever? If she did love you, she'd be more interested to know about you and your life than whining about her own aches and pains.

5.Watch for needy calls.
That is, some women may use you by only calling when they want something. Maybe they want you to fix something or pick up something for them. Pay attention to when women call and how they talk on the phone with you. If she only calls every few weeks and seems to want a favor each time, she may not be that into you

6. Handbag
She takes you along to parties because she has nobody to go with but starts ignoring you the moment she meets her friends there. She never makes any effort to make you feel comfortable around her group of friends.

7.Male girlfriend.
She takes advantage of your chivalry and asks you for favours all the time. You get her phone recharged, you accompany her shopping when her girl best friends are busy, you cover up for her when her parents call, you do her assignments too. You’re supposed to pick her up, drive her around and then drop her too. She literally lives off you. She’s basically made you her b*tch.

8.Second Daddy
She’s never apologetic for her mistakes, never. You can see it by the way she changes the situation by crying. It always ends up with you comforting her, even though she was at fault.

9.Ego booster
She uses you to make her boyfriend or her ex feel jealous. She’s surprisingly flirtatious with you in front of her friends and her ex. While it makes you feel good about yourself, you must know she’s just using you as a device for her own personal gains.

10.The comforter
She’s always seeking your sympathy. It is almost like she is with you only to feel better about herself.



if you are in this type of situation the best thing for you to do is to yaya toure like hussein bolt
dont try and fix things because it may not work at all. just move on.

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