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This goes to all the men out there who like hurting hurting women that loves you with all their heart just remember that karma is a b**** sir sorry but I am not sorry I am enjoying this on God so all those men like you be doing anyhow for women learn from this because trust me karma will catch up on you just like this

When you mess with the wrong woman you get all you deserve

#Goes Back to Sleep

This is all Tonto have to say about it

Former President Goodluck Jonathan says he has no link to the northern coalition that purchased the presidential nomination and express of interest forms of the All Progressives Congress (APC) for him.

Earlier on Monday, the coalition procured the forms for Jonathan from the International Conference Centre in Abuja.

But in a statement issued on Monday night by Ikechukwu Eze, his spokesman, the former president said he didn’t authorise the purchase.

“It has come to our notice that a group has purportedly purchased Presidential Nomination and Expression of Interest forms of the All Progressives Congress, APC, in the name of former President Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan,” the statement reads.

“We wish to categorically state that Dr. Jonathan was not aware of this bid and did not authorise it.

“We want to state that if the former President wanted to contest an election, he would make his intentions clear to the public and will not enter through the back door.

“While we appreciate the overwhelming request by a cross-section of Nigerians for Dr. Jonathan to make himself available for the 2023 presidential election, we wish to state that he has not, in anyway, committed himself to this request.

“Buying a presidential aspiration form in the name of Dr. Jonathan without his consent, knowing the position he had held in this country, is considered an insult to his person. The general public is therefore advised to disregard it.”

You need to chase each other naked — Reno Omokri tells newlyweds

Activist and entrepreneur, Reno Omokri, has advised newlyweds on why family members should not live with them.

He said: ‘’Dear couples, after your wedding, note that you need time to strengthen your marriage union.

"If you bring in relatives to live with you, you may not be able to strengthen your bond. "You need a house that is so free that both of you can chase each other naked around it.

"Like Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, this is how many homes are destroyed.

"Two imperfect people marry. Out of foolishness, they allow in-laws live with them from the get-go.

"The in-laws note the imperfection of the spouse not related to them, and just like that, your marital issues are extended and become family issues!’’

Credit: Twitter | Renoomokri

Don't take advantage of someone's vulnerability simply because they love you too much. Curse is real ooo... Be careful how you hurt woman feeling (wife /gf)

STOP BEATTING YOUR WIFE.
IT IS A CURSE.
GENESIS 2:17-14.

Every man out there should know how God himself treasure women ,every woman beatter will end in curse as God curse the serpent,

From Genesis 2:17 - 14 tells us how God Respect women even as their creator, the last question God asked eve about eating the apple was WHAT HAVE YOU DONE? in verse 13 of Genesis chapter 1. her response to God was the SERPENT DECEIVE ME,that ends the matter and God move to serpent and curse the serpent,
God value women and he knew it wasn't her intentions to disobey him as God, God did not shout at her but move to curse serpent,

Men must respect where we come from, someone carry you for 9 month from the under world before you came out, and that person is call woman Stop beatting your wife unless you want to remain a curse.

God gave women to men as a supporters not for domestic violence,
How can you lay hands on same woman that carry you in her worm?
Your mother is also a wife and she is call a woman.

How can you beat woman that pray for your daily outing?
How can you treat woman that gave you her honored ?
They children you are bragging of, are the products of woman discipline ,
The food you eat is from the woman,
The water you take your shower with is fetch by woman,
Your inner room is kept clean by woman,
Your shoes are arranged well by same woman,
God over looks eve when she said to God is the serpent sir . am sure if it were men today, beating will have scatter the garden,
You treat your wife like a routing furniture ,
You despite almost everything same woman do for you but celebrate some outside,
Where is the godliness? Where is the glory of God?
Even pastors bit up their wife and still stand on the alter shouting hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah,
Even deacons bit up the wife and still give advice in the board of elders,
Beatting of women is in the alter of God,
Bitting of women is in the congregation of believers,
In your street they knows you as a wife bitter,
Christianity without glory is a curse, SERPENT WAS CURSE BY GOD BECAUSE SERPENT WAS THE CAUSE OF EVEN FALLING.
Any man that feel he is a king over his lovely wife is a slave to happiness,
Any man that feel he has done any favor by marrying his wife is not yet a husband but ordinary man,
Your position as a man of the house can never be taken if you respect and value woman.
When a woman said to her husband what has come over you? It mean you are no more her husband but a stranger.
Stop beating women.
Bible is against it,
Culture is against it,
She shouted at my mom, okey, can I asked you sir? Is your mom your wife?respect is reciprocal, tell your family to respect the position your wife hold in your life and in the family, your mom was your Dad girlfriend and later became the adorable wife, am sure you will not like the tape if they play how their honey moon was before you came, allowed your wife to be happy and have a say.

Everything about women should not be wrongly accuse sir, it is true the are call weaker vessels but strong in keeping you through prayers.

A lot of counseling have given me so much ideas about the emotional pains women's are facing in the name of yes I do.

Be kind to women please, God was kind and fair to eve when he listens to Adam then to eve and lastly curse the serpent.

This is why sisters are scared of marriage today and same you men will go on castigating them in the church,
she is bad that is why no husband, she is a marine woman that's is why no husband
CNN that carry gossip news are in the church.
NTA gossipers are in the church,
All the TV station that carry have you heard news? Are all in the church.

Do you want to be bless and remain blessed? Stop beatting women,stop accusing them wrongly, stop blackmailing them before your family, friends,
Protect what God has given to you and God will bless you. I come in peace as the lord lead me. GOD bless you all, any questions?

This is the story of my life: I am not a loose woman. I am just a woman who loves her husband very much and didn’t want to lose him. I just did what I had to do to save my marriage even though I feel guilty sometimes. It was not easy but I slept with my driver so that I could give my husband a child, but instead, God gave me twins, a boy and a girl.

I was married to Philip for eight years. We had no child. The worst was that I never got pregnant even for a day. His mother became so impatient that she started breathing down my neck as she gave me no breathing space at all. She moved in to live with us and practically made my life unbearable – in my matrimonial home.

I cannot drink water and drop the cup because she must insult me. It got to a point that she stopped eating my food because, according to her, I should be feeding my children so that they would grow healthy and stronger and not her.

Monica, if you had children, you are supposed to be feeding them with all these food so that they would grow healthy and strong. I am getting old so I don’t need all these nonsense you call food. Take them away and give me grandchildren,” she would scream.

Even after she had left, I could still hear those insults in my head so I decided to take a bold step – I seduced and slept with our driver.

Before then, my mother-in-law also stopped talking to me, however, the only time she talks to me is when she wants to insult me and remind me of how less a woman I was. Philip and I love each other so much that he stood by me despite all his mother did or said to frustrate me to leave him.

We visited different specialists and they all certified us medically alright. I have visited churches, held vigils and even fasted for days, drank various concoctions of varied colours and combinations all in the name of getting pregnant so that my mother-in-law can stop humiliating me yet I couldn’t get pregnant. At a point, I stopped coming out of my bedroom because it was obvious that my mother-in-law had vowed to frustrate me out of her son’s home.

Most times, I just stayed in my bedroom and either cry, pray, think and then sleep off because I was scared of his mother confronting me. To make things worse, she sent away the house help because she said, “You don’t need any house help because there are no children to take care of. Take care of your house yourself and stop wasting my son’s hard earned money.”

It was just the three of us living at home, God, I was always so terrified even when I hear her voice from a distance. It is so agonizing to say this but my husband usually pleads with me to come out of the room and this makes him feel so sad especially those times I refuse because I don’t want to come face-to-face with his mother. When her troubles became too unbearable, Philip practically threw her out of the house just to make me feel safe and comfortable in my own home.

Okine the driver is a young man in his late 20’s. He is a graduate of Mechanical Engineering but because he could not get a good paying job, he opted to become a driver. I promised to get him a good job if he sleeps with me just once but I never disclosed the reason for this. However, Okine thought I just wanted to cheat on my husband with him. I planned it during my ovulation so that I could get pregnant, although it was not easy sleeping with another man. I knew I was betraying my husband but I saw it as a necessary action.

After a month, I discovered that I was pregnant. So, as promised I got a job for Okine in a friend’s company where he started earning a very good salary. When I told Philip that I was pregnant, he was so excited.

“Sweetheart, God has finally answered our prayers. I am pregnant,” I revealed.

When I was five months pregnant, he informed his mother and she immediately returned to the house. She pampered me like a baby and also took good care of me. I never wanted to do any scan but my mother-in-law insisted. When I finally did the scan, it showed that I was pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl.

My mother- in-law and husband were extremely happy while I felt much fulfilled. “God thank you for compensating me with a set of twins after eight years of barrenness,” I muttered. When the twins were born, the girl took ill for some time. It took a while before she fully recovered after several treatments and this got me worried.

Philip and I insisted that blood test be carried out on them to determine their blood group and genotype and then came the shocking revelation. The doctor informed us that although their blood groups are both A, however, their genotypes are AS for the girl and AA for the boy meanwhile Philip and I are both AA. I wanted the ground to open and swallow me up because I felt Philip would ask questions but to my surprise, he did not. He just said, “Sweetheart, lets go home. We have had quite a long day, you and my babies need to rest.”

Three months later, he held me closely and said: “Monica, don’t be scared. I don’t want to know who the father of the twins is. I know whatever you did, you did to save our marriage and I am very proud of you. I promise to always love you and my babies. I promise this will be a secret between us. I love you sweetheart. I know we will have our own children someday.”

I wept as he wiped my tears with his hands. I know what I did was wrong but at least my mother-in-law is extremely happy with me, that is all that matters. Although, everyone is happy but I feel guilty that I selfishly used an innocent man to achieve my aim. But before anybody judge me; just put yourself in my shoes and think for a moment, if it was you what you will do?

What do you think of this heart felt story of this woman?

A Nigerian man based abroad has taken to Facebook to call out his wife’s boyfriend for refusing to leave her alone. The aggrieved husband, who has been overseas for six years and left his wife in Nigeria with their two kids, disclosed that he had been tracking his wife’s phone and discovered that she was dating a certain Segun. https://www.facebook.com/103713935449283/posts/165074775979865/

A Nigerian man has taken to Twitter to narrate what became of a man after a woman cursed him for denying her pregnancy.

According to @jon_d_doe, the man put the lady in a family way when they were both teenagers and denied the pregnancy with the support of his mom and sister.

During labour, the aggrieved lady placed a curse on all of them and it ended up coming to pass.

He said the man and his sister never had children of their own and their mother died a horrible death. However, the man eventually had children in his 50s after seeking for the woman’s forgiveness.

@jon_d_doe went on to warn men against taking advantage of a lady’s innocence because they may live to regret it.

He tweeted,

“A man got a girl pregnant when they were teenagers.

His mother supported him when he denied the pregnancy.

Words had it that the lady, while in labor, used her finger to scoop some sweat drops on her thigh, licked it & placed a curse on him & one of his sisters that also supported him.

“He would never find peace in any woman he meets in future”.

“She will never have children of her own”.

Many years later, man got a wife. Wife was pregnant but suddenly became sick. She died with the baby & her burial was filled with a lot of chaos.

Sister, till date never had her own child. Wealthy & now in her 50s with an adopted child.

Man’s Mother died in some strange circumstances.

The love child is already a woman & married with her own children.

The uncanny resemblance with her father is unquestionable.

Man had to go seek for forgiveness with his kinsmen. He was already 50, no child, no wife.

Woman forgave him after so many pleas & pacification. Never married another man till date.

Man eventually found another woman & married her. His children are still toddlers but he’s in his 50s.

All these I just told you are true stories & close to home.

Don’t be too carefree with a woman. If you take advantage of a woman’s innocence, & she places a curse on you, you may live to regret it in future.

Not every woman can forgive easily. Especially if you caused her pain & put her in a family way then deny her. And you think she’ll clap for you? And you think you’ll go ahead and live your life without consequences?

The true story was hidden from the husband of the sister. He just assumed that they’re unfortunately unable to have children because Doctor says “nothing wrong with wife”. & man is committed to his wife & they’ve an adopted child as a “compensation”. Too late!

I pray as you’re navigating the hurdles of life, may you not make choices that can be detrimental to others who are innocent of your “sins”.”

A Nigerian pastor who hails from Akwa Ibom, Ab Isong, has on a post on his Facebook page, stated that the secret to a peaceful home and well-raised children is a happy wife.

“To have a peaceful home and well bred kids, just make this gender happy if God has blessed you with a good one.” the pastor wrote in part in his post.

He then went on to give a couple of tips on what-to-do to ensure that your wife is happy.

Read his full post as you scroll,

“To have a peaceful home and well bred kids, just make this gender happy if God has blessed you with a good one.”

(1) Never return home without pizza

(2) Say thank you after eating her food

(3) Sometimes forget hbfjfgdg and just cuddle

(4) When she says leave me alone, don’t oh

(5) Even after driving her to her destination, still give her transport fare.

(6) Follow her watch ZEE-WORLD and be shouting Nehi from top to bottom

(7) During public holidays please stay at home though I’m typing from outside

( Never stop being her friend!

(9) Don’t compare her to any other in Heaven or on Earth.

(10) Protect her as your wife and not our wife. No be your family gettam

They were all victims of domestic abuse and they all suffered extreme physical violence in the hands of their husbands up until their deaths.

Growing up, I was told the reason many women stay in abusive marriages is because they don’t have their own money and they can’t run back to their fathers house….

Let me shock you!!!

All the women in these pictures were the breadwinners; they were all independently and financially well to do. They all had their own money and they were all richer than their husbands. They were all equally educated and relatively exposed; everything you know about domestic violence, they knew much more!
But yet! Yet! Their lives were ended by the dead-beat men they chose to love!

Dear Women,
If he hits you once, he will definitely do it again and again and again. And if you make excuses for him the first time, you will see yourself making excuses for him, over and over and over again.
Maybe one day he will change, but until then, leave! Because he won’t change if he keeps seeing you to punch. He can only change when you leave him! So, leave now! Carry you bag and go. Just go! And don’t come back!


Under the flyover is better than a inside the casket.

We can blame society, we can blame religion, we can blame the church! But the truth is, you always have a choice and the choice is always yours to make.

Religion cannot go, tradition cannot go, society cannot go… only you can go!

If you love yourself, leave! If you love your children, leave! If you love your friends, leave! If you love your partner, leave!

The rate at which women are dying in the hands of their partners these days is alarming. It’s seems like the right question to ask is….Who Is Next?

#saynotodomesticviolence #

1. No one is happy with your success, except your family.

2. Love is a myth. For no reason, no one is your friend.

3. The only people who love you without expectations are your parents.

4. Everyone has a role in your life and when their role ends, they will leave you. So be strong.

5. Money has a strong place in everyone's life, but unfortunately it can't buy you everything.

6. Laugh with everyone, but don't trust anyone.

7. People say they are telling the truth, but nobody really wants to hear it.

8. Nobody gives a damn about what you think or what you do, it's just your perspective they think of you.

9. Expectations always hurt. So expect less or no expectations from others.

10. Never ever sacrifice your happiness for someone else.

11. Who is a friend of all is not a friend of anyone.

12. Living a simple life gives you more time for the important things.

13. The sooner you learn to live alone, the sooner you understand the meaning of life. You are your best friend.

14. Never reveal your secret to anyone.

I am in a long distance relationship with my bf and we only get to talk at night, conversations are getting boring day by day.

If you would want to make this relationship possible you will make it possible. I met this girl on FB in 2009. She was from Mumbai and I live in The Britain. I developed feelings for her but she said she would like to meet me first. We met in 2010 when I went to meet her in Mumbai. I was with her for 3 days. When I came back to UK, I was worried that I will lose her as it is said “Out of sight = Out of Mind”. I did not see her again in 2010 but I would call her everyday. I still remember my account getting debited £100-£120 per month for telephone usage but I made sure that I was never out of her mind. It was never easy because of the different timezones but we supported each other. We met again in 2011 when I went to see her again in Mumbai and then in 2012, 2014, 2015 and 2016. Each time for only 5–6 days. Phone-calls, BBM, WhatsApp & Viber, we were always in touch of each other. There were days when everything would be perfect, there were days when everything would not be perfect and then there were days when it would just be ugly but we did not give up. My girlfriend is now my wife. We got married in 2016. She now lives with me in UK. The reason this Long Distance relationship worked for us is because we wanted it to work.

Hello tueh tueh, information reaching Vawulence headquarters be say it is payback time as Comedian Julius Agwu’s wife packs out of their 14yrs old marriage amidst husband health crisis, moves on with another man and change name back to her maiden name.

Women no good ooo chai, but we men too should do better ooo, all these women can be loyal if they want to, when Julius Agwu Dey ball then, no PUNA wey him no fit knack, him other name Na KNACKERDIMU as him come Dey down with this tumour wahala, it was said that the wife try ooo but got tired on the long run.

According to a close source, them talk say the wife say make all those Side Chics too come take care of am now, as Na all of them enjoy am when everything still soft but now money no flow in again them side chickens don japa.

As it is now madam don move on too and enjoying life with her friends oooo, Comedians make una check on Ian brother Julius Agwu ooo, no eh wen he go sup finish now una go begin write yeye epistle up and down oo, he needs help now between the wife just left him and he needs all the support he can get, i come in peace, igi ewedu oni wo pawa oooo

It has been alleged that Ibiere Maclayton, the wife of famous Nigerian comedian Julius Agwu has moved on with another man despite the condition of her ailing husband.

This was disclosed by Instagram blogger Gislovers alleging Julius Agwu’s wife claimed she was tired of taking care of him and side chicks should also take turns to care for the comedian.

Gistlovers also alleged that Julius Agwu was fond of sleeping with numerous side chicks while making waves in the entertainment industry.

News recalls that the couple had a challenging time when Agwu fell ill in 2015.

The ace comedian, who has made a difference with his show, ‘Crack Ya Rib,’ had a successful brain surgery in 2015, recovered but then suffered a relapse in 2016 when he went to London for his show.

Though keeping a low profile since then, he attempted to revive his career by returning ‘Crack Ya ribs,’ and announcing his plans to celebrate 25 years in comedy, Agwu couldn’t get that done.

Though not looking as vibrant and hearty as he was before the ailment, Julius Agwu is said to be recuperating and everyone thought his wife was taking care of him.

“She took care of him for sometimes but there were cracks in the union. Maybe she got tired of the current situation—cash flow wasn’t as when Agwu was stupendously rich and healthy. She must have been tired of the situation and left Agwu who isn’t as fit as before,” sources close to the couple said.

The Abonnema born Ibiere travelled abroad with her kids and only shares their photos on Instagram. She has reverted to her maiden name.

Ibiere was a pillar of support to her husband during his health challenge and shared in an interview years back that the medical condition got so bad to the point that he stopped breathing and was almost taken to the mortuary.

She reminisced, “So now I am going to be a widow, how do I manage with these children? These were my thoughts at the time.”

It wasn’t until after a trip to an American hospital, that Julius discovered he had three tumours in his brain with one that was the size of a golf ball.

He recalled, “I started looking for my property documents to give to my wife. One day when they were not home, I almost committed suicide.”

Following his successful surgery at the Park Plaza Hospital in Houston, America in 2015, the comedian decided to drop a thanksgiving song entitled ‘Second Chance’ with a vow glorify God on all his platforms.

They got married on May 31 2008 and are blessed with two kids, Zahra & Zadok. In 2020, the couple celebrated their 12th wedding anniversary.

Hence Julius Aguw’s wife, Ibere, had also called on side chicks to take care of him since they still enjoyed the comedian’s money when he was financially buoyant.

2face and Annie family Issues lesson for all - Seth Kome

Delta businessman, philanthropist [b][/b]Mr. Seth Kome popularly know as oraclebarman has commended Nigeria Singer Innocent Idibia known as 2face and wife Annie Idibia for handling their family issues maturely.

Seth Kome who is the CEO of Seth Hotel Asaba noted that men should becareful in involving families into their businesses.

He said the enemy of a man is not far from his home and that is why people should be watchful.

Seth who was reacting to outburst by Annie Elder brother wisdom said bringing family issues online is uncalled for .

“Before you bring in any member of your families into your business, watch carefully to avoid what has happened to 2face and wife Annie.

There are lessons to learn from 2face and Annie family issues.

We must all understand the fact that we have family members who we have helped , it doesn’t mean they will always be grateful and some will always come online to castigate us before the public.

My love for 2face and his wife Annie family issues online has taught me few lessons of life.” he said .