₦airaland Forum

what baffles me most is that she said they had sex that same night. . . . truly, a man's happiest or most relaxed moment is his weakest. I know human are the most dangerous of God's creation but this one fear me. You dont want to imagine the sort of stigma this woman's act would cause for her 3 children. in the family, at school and even on the street. what a pity

can someone pls read and help me summarize the whole passage in just 2 or 3 line sentences. biko lemme see road

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Her getting pregnant must have been a regrettable mistake to her. However, she was courageous to keep the pregnancy though she suffered a still birth.

Guy, if you love her and you are at home with her virtues, then go for her and marry her without any delay. She has just scored 'A' in sincerity which is very good. I sincerely commend her for refusing you sex when you made advances on her because if she had yielded you would have impregnated her, aborted the baby and dumped her. You are only considering her now because she looks chaste. Maybe God actually allowed all that passed to make her available for you today. If you leave, then you will go and look for another Angel somewhere else.

This is the height of disconnect between thought of a guy and that of a lady...... Sincerely, they're both sack of maggots when measured with moral and religious virtues. This guy's hitch is that while the girl was giving him a NO, she goes out to give a YES to other guys ro the point that she got a stillbirth. This means they wouldn't have been a thread like this if the baby had been delivered alive.... To advise him to marry out of pity is the worst thing that will ever happen to him bcus after satisfying that long awaited sexual urge the girl, some inevitable crappies start showing up(as expected mostly after marriage) he will start regretting and things might get worst from there. I challenge the concerned person to say he is seriously not considering backing out already before sharing this online. You don't win a battle you have chosen to lose right before it even begins.

I wish owner of this thread would read this....

Though sex isn't the basis for which a relationship should be built on but the truth is, from ur narrative, she dated u twice before this time and didn't consider u good enough to share any form of intimate bond with but was willing to distribute her common wealth to others and even ended up losing a pregnancy for another man along the way. Whenever u think about marriage, she comes to mind for you, but can the same be said about her? I think u are just having a hangover from ur teenage love affair and nothing more. She knows she has a grip on you and that's why she doesn't feel threatened by any action you take cos deep within you are bound to run back to her.

This is what I've experienced. Leave sex and emotions out of it. Give objectivity a chance, It's obvious you're really having a sleepless night over her but the truth be told, if she has an option to choose from, SHE WILL DUMP YOU AGAIN AND AGAIN without ever having to get down with you...... Only ladies can explain the myth behind this but as you read this comment, the lady i once had this experience with is happily married to another man. Remember, am not thinking for you..... just sharing my experience

[color=#000099][/color]Each time i see youths take to the street in support of their political idols in this part of the world, I remind myself of this harsh but true conclusion that I've reached about the black race: Certainly, there's something wrong with a black man's mind. When you talk to some black men, you wonder which faculty of their body other than the brain is responsible for their irrationality of thoughts........ To the people chastising their political opponents; Una weldone and to those opponents who allowed themselves to be chastised by engaging in all sort of impunity for their selfish interest; I salute una. But for those youths, Take a break and ask yourselves how many Hospitals, Factories, Companies, Telecommunications, Banks...... Name the business these so called sectional heros have established or engage you with to warrant this sought of support you give them after they've looted your national treasury..... Do you know the revealed loots of Patience Jonathan alone can establish at least 2 or 3 of those big businesses i mentioned above ? Imagine she had used that money to establish some grate businesses and created thousands of jobs in the process, will she have so much idle fund for EFCC to point at and wont these youth be employed by now ?..... I'm just a concerned Nigerian.