₦airaland Forum

Zonefree:
Are you the wife from the East?

Dowry/Bride price is not gift. It's a tradition. Bride price is what signifies your marriage to a lady.

There will be no return of dowry IF the man is the cause of the discontinued marriage.

Indeed, u are true son of ur father and I believe ur father will always be proud of having u as a son. Some don't even know culture, their knowledge about culture is hear say. If a woman nor her family are not interested in marriage, they hv to return d dowry but if a man decides not to continue d union, d man has to forget about d dowry

pepperdemzombie:
You can't deny it [b]is not men that always make move for sex. [/b]Stop giving what you can't afford to lose to anybody you are not married to. Period!

What about women that demand sex from men?

Zonefree:
You're slow if you believed all that rubbish the brother said. The police should parade the man and allow the press interview him, you'll be amazed .

Before u no no say most Nigerians are slow and too emotion in domestic affairs. Were they expecting d family to admit that the man bought house and car

Zonefree:
So, the difference in belief didn't stop the girl and her family from collecting the man's money and gifts

When you dey chop the man money you didn't remember he's not of the same belief with you?

This is what Nigerian men go through in the hands of these demons, but , they should always remember, not every man is as gentle and passionate like Nigerian men.

I pray God should forgive her and let her soul rest in peace.

Gbamsolutely, when she was enjoying baba money, she no reason say belief no bi same but wen baba wan reap dividends of his investment, na that time story go dey fly up and down.
Tell me d difference btw dis story and mmm? Both investment scheme and dis story na same, just one is offline while one is online

Op, I perfectly understand how u feel right now, I know how painful a father feels whenever a child brings shame to d family.
Since there's no woman around for babysitting, allow ur daughter to do that by herself, since she could open her legs for a guy to insert his iron.
Raising a girl child is a task on its own, no matter how hard a parent/s tries, Infact their should be an institution whereby raising a girl child should be taught.

garriAndsugar:
Na lawyer dey shack her.. she go soon find one fault tire for am as usual

Lolsssssss, I told her to mark my words, she has no business with marriage, I know her type very well. They are quick to judge a book from far and marriage is not for such people and its quite unfortunate that she has passed her menopause

AntiMCU:
Lol.

The way she dey stress herself for the guy, e be like say this one dey earn pass 100k.

U sabi body language wella,

plusfield:
It may shock Nigerians that Tinubu may come 3rd in this election. What is being cooked for him in many unexpected places may shock him. For eg, Atiku will win in Daura, up to Buhari's PU.

Mehnnnnn, no bi small matter. I even thought that Tinubu is a master strategist but right now, I was wrong all this whole while.

Check him well, he must be a b urchin bcs all about b is fucking shedy and unverified.
Those that would mention me, I hv time dis morning to fight any urchin.

pstemma1990:
Do u pay school fees every month?

That's just d monthly breakdown,
Op ehhhh, u uv to sit down wit ur woman and discuss this whole thing out. Monthly income of 400k and u are able to save 40-50k monthly?
From d break down, it shows that u only save %10 of ur monthly income. Oga u hv to do a thorough work on ur savings bcs its not encouraging at alllll. Whatever u are doing in dis life, always factor emergency. Emergency can come in different forms, e. G. Health, family or associate

Felabrity:
Drag the agbado master well

Fellow punter, u dun enter here today, I salutation u jare

Wizywiz:
hmmmm it's well bro, some of them live recklessly in their youth, na Dem use hand cause their problem....they cant eat their cake and still have it

Now u get d point now,

Wizywiz:
hmmm..u sound like u know her very well.... Sometimes I don't feel pity for them...ladies of these days are something else....I can relate.....may God grant her heart desires

I never pity hommies and hustlers finish na her type I wan pity. During their youthful age, dem dun useless am finish, waiting for one simp or one Dundee United to settle down with them. Some no get womb again, all bcs of abortion wey dem dun do in their youthful age. Some if dem born, d pikin go get small comma for body all bcs of unfinished abortion.

Welcome to change, may more of Buhari fall on Nigerians.
Una never see anything, by d time buhari finish Nigeria, na that time una go get sense by force.

Wizywiz:
hmmm it's well ooooo...but she fit be correct babe for real ooo . sometimes the life they portray online is opposite of what they are offline

Brother-man, I know that aunty too well. Just imagine 42year old ladies around then that's how that aunty is.TThat aunty no get business with marriage, Infact she no suppose near anything called marriage at all. Maybe na widower fit show interest

Blessedmercy8:
Are you not done sounding silly?

See men like you sounding sensible and you're here talking trash.

Do I know you from Adam? Just be off my lane, ok? You sound irritating and uneducated. I can't deal. Please.

Lolsssssss, with ur attitude, u don't hv any business with marriage

garriAndsugar:
the next thread will be the Ogoni I'm dating wants sex but i don't want to give him..what should i do?

U are a karid entity jare, may ur days be long jare, every now and then na so so confusion dey her head. If at 42years she no fit phantom waiting she want for dis life, that means she is a fool for life.

Wizywiz:
hmmm...wish her well Sha.... husband no easy I can relate....

Brother-man, that aunty no get any attitude to be in a husband house

akinreals:
The thing still dey shack you, he go soon serve you better breakfast wey go shock you. Aunty Ruth

Brother wan chop and clean mouth with holy holy. She never see, na now marriage dey hungry 42years old lady wey dun pass her menopause

Wizywiz:
then u have to look for real ogoni men or women physically around and ask them

Lolsssss, maybe u na still dey new for this forum. Aunty dey find who she go end up in her retirement age, I keep telling her that marriage is not for her. To get a man is not by food and she believes so much in that and that's why in her 40s she still dey ask irrelevant questions.

Blessedmercy8:
This one doesn't drink. In fact he's a born again Christian.

Someone suggested sea food and I think it's close cause he's from a riverine area but I do t know which ones exactly.

Lolsssssssss, u dun jam another niggar wey go finish ur toto and run. I told u dis sometime ago that marriage is not for someone like u. Mark my word, u don't hv any business with marriage. Better go and adopt a baby bcs right now, ur menopause dun pass self.

LUAN1:
Kirkman Dizzyyish Emmanuelbrown26 AllDModsAreMaad Nonam

Abeg waiting dey xup, how I fit help u?

Helpout12345:
Very good! Hope you will give this type of sincere and unemotional advise if this involves a father ?

I love the question,

Na Pa Tinubu posters bi that

PerfectStranger:
They’ll be praying for husbands, humble at the beginning. Once you mistakenly put a ring on it, boom their real unscrupulous attitude pops up.

Comr sir, u see all these daughters of eve ehhh, dem go dey disturb Jah for husband and when Jah answer them, that's when u go begin dey see d dark side of them. Sometimes is not about seen d red flag during courtship, d raw truth is that if a woman see say u get kolo for head, she go melow down, but if u show her gentleness she go bring d dark side.
For example, look at d garden of eve, when eve was created, she was calm until she cum get small balance kasala boost. Jah even regretted creating woman. D only creature Jah regretted creating

Neptunium:
What about his itinerary is too much? All she needs to do is cook for the kids and bathe them. Between 12 to 5 when the kids are still at school she's resting, watching movies, free to do anything she wants. He pays all the bills, gives her money, he does his own laundry. Yet he's asking for much? You no get sense

AND TO TELL U THAT THAT AUNTY NO GET SENSE, AUNTY WEY DUN OASS HER MENOPAUSE WHICH OTHER SENSE SHE FIT GET AGAIN. ALSO, FRUSTRATION OF NOT GETTING HUSBAND DEY WORRY HER TOO

Helpout12345:
So, sex once in 2 months is okay for a married couple living under same roof? Wait until when you marry before you understand.

U say aunty marry? Aunty wey dun pass her menopause. Na ur uncle go marry her or u get any widower for her?

SmartPolician:
Whenever Igbos don't like a man, look very well because that man must be idiotic and/or useless. Hope Uzodinma is very idiotic.

Lolsssss, indeed u are a smartpolitician. Whenever an igbo man voice out something know that something is wrong somewhere.

sokeril:
Although I don’t think the woman is a bad person o and personally our relationship is very good...but her threat is already a huge red flag.

My dear, u are still new to women affairs, na we wey dun see dem finish go tell u d story about women. So u never see an angelic woman that would just wake up one morning and start carrying face for d husband?

Jamesbiodun:
She is already saying she want divorce, to hell with her and her divorce...
Since the husband is doing fine in Nigeria I don't think he should stress himself, if she really want the marriage she can come to Nigeria anytime she want or the husband to go visit once in a while...
Don't let any woman control you

Ur papa born u well, u are true and real son of d soil not some bastards that would succumb to d manipulation of the wife