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GloriousGbola:
It is only in movies that people prefer maids.

A poorly educated person from an extremely disadvantaged background with an entrenched poverty mentality? What exactly do you have in common

Maybe if you are thinking with your penis sha.or trying to equate having sexual relations with a maid to marrying her proper.

Or if you need a pauper who will worship you for elevating her status in life.

geoworldedu:
Poor suitors prefer all these people you mentioned. Nollywood rich suitors also prefer them. As for the rich suitors, they'd rather stick to their rich wives from another wealthy family.

RedpillAdviser:
Good morning sir, even if you are renting to give your children decent standard of living, children are not meant to suffer, so public school is out of my vision for them, especially primary and secondary as I myself didn't go to such, i only went to public university, sir i know you are relatively successful that's why I'm asking for your opinion, ,, how can one raise a family with such odds and I'm talking a family with 2 kids not even 3 as i want to give birth to 3, I'm like the economy and Nigeria as a nation is hostile for poor and average men, I'm really ambitious, i want to pass on my genes, since you are a father, it means that you are bearing the cost of living as a man, the life of a man is hard, if you do not have any political connection you would suffer, please sir help a brother out with any link, job, advice

I don't want to remain poor

I'm a 28 yrs old young man who is working as a bank marketer earning #150000, I'm still living with my parents at these my age, I see my life and I see a failure

my parents are average earners who believed that education is the pathway to success and prosperity, they didn't prepare us their children for the future economy of inflation where starting family requires above average capital

I want to quit miserable job and start yahoo or any illegal venture, it's just that i have not had a reasonable plug that would aid me in that path

I'm angry I'm not a billionaire, i don't have nice clothes, nice cars, nice houses, economy is not smiling

I have even had suicidal thoughts about my miserable life,

DrinkWater10:
Greetings . How much does it cost now , if I may ask.

anonymous1759:
Trumpet Mouth piece but USA didn't hesitate to kidnap Maduro you guys were jubilating. On a low key you brainwashed religious fanatics likes oppression but it depends on who's carrying it out Low key terrorist sympathisers.

Mirasteel:
See this one making mouth from his face me I face you tiny room.

You think US soldiers will survive if they enter Iran? you don't know anything yet. go and check the Iran war with Iraq, America supported Iraq, they fought for years but couldn't defeat Iran.

If Trump eventually send soldiers to Iran they will be barbecued.

Firstcitizen:
So in your mind the US economy grew after they started a war they cannot win. They know if they put boots on the ground, the body bags will have to be repatriated by cargo ships due to the number
Let me leave you with a publication from CNN about the damage to the US economy
https://edition.cnn.com/2026/05/21/business/economic-damage-iran-war-vis

Titogbanski:
You cannot be peaceful if you cannot be controlled.
Cn you imagine telling a country not to produce and own what you own??
It is like you have PHD and fighting me for trying to get Masters - the hypocrisy is mind boggling

tishbite41:
Wahala jam kasala

Wayo Allah

Reloadedisraelp:
Walk away for this hard time in Nigeria.... U walk away and u end up accepting another version worsening than the first.... Naso person go dey continue dey walk away until old age go knock door.

LordAdam16:
both pedolf and satanyahu have given interviews in the past 24 hours
confirming their spat

persia should be very vigilant

no one f***king cares about their spat
it is literally meaningless
why they have to do this performative bs in public can only be for nefarious reasons

-Lord

Diamond098454:
I lost my only sibling, the only sibling i have in this world money couldn't save him. But there are those that doesn't have money but they are alive, healthy and happy. They will get sick and recover without visiting a health center
Now you see one of the reasons i said money is not everything

realG101:
And who told you poor couples too don't get tired of each other.

But yall pay more attention to the rich and whatever they do.

Nobody said money is everything, nobody said you can't be miserable with money.

A man without game is a man without game, money can get him chicks but will not cure his game problem.

The rich guy whose wife you're forking is a boring person, but the money is not the cause of the boredom, it's the guy.

However, the rich guy is better off with his money, because without the money, that wife would either have left him for you or he would never have gotten to marry her in the first place.

Money is a big advantage always.

realG101:
You can also be poor and the happiness will not be there.

Let's stop pretending money is not good. Everybody is better off with money in the bank.

People like to console themselves because it's hard to be rich.

BTW if you're rich but unhappy, you are the problem, not money.

CorperKola:
Mindset of everything is money is the true destruction and doom of a society
Very simple
This mindset can be used to justify everything that is caustic to society

From prostitution to govt corruption to kidnapping

The common mindset behind it all is Money must be made by all means

I remember being truly happy just minding my business cos i had no one to compare to on facebook or whatsapp status

Social media is really something

GravityDefier:
Poverty is NOT good and it DOESN'T still guarantee happiness

GravityDefier:
Both the rich and the poor experience everything you mentioned up there. Balance the analysis; You tend to be defending one side.

We have rich and happy homes just as we have poor and happy homes.

Riches cannot buy true love neither is poverty the legal tender for true love

Everyone should choose their poison and LEARN to be happy with it.

GravityDefier:
Not all, some people don't feel they deserve even basic amenities not to talk of good life.

Zackattack:
Don’t let this person’s quote fool you. Happiness is the goal, but no one can deny that poverty is the worse, especially after tasting wealth.

QuinQ:
This is La la land talk. In the real world what makes a person happy is being able to well afford it when the rent is due. What makes a person unhappy is being stressed out when rent is due, and having to bring out a calculator, and inevitably end up dodging the landlord and frantically running around looking for a way to borrow money. That's what makes a person unhappy in the real world!

Angelfrost:
True... But, without money, unhappiness is fully guaranteed.

Host78:
No. The first thing that will make you happy is knowing how little you need to be happy.

Greed and covetousnes is what has been marketed into us to desire things we don't need.

I grew up in a single room. I know I need very little to live

EponObi:
Your still living on El Dorado.

Be financially stable before considering marriage. That's all. No where in my post did I say you should be rich. Financial stability is not equal to richness.

onehope:
Let no woman deceive you into marriage with this kind of lyrics oh. You must not be very rich to marry but don't try it as a struggling man. Except the woman is bringing money into the marriage. Everything is not money ke but by the time you cannot meet the needs of your wife for prolonged period, you go see shege for that marriage oh. Women do not know how to respect/honor broke men for long. And you are likely to share her with another man who can provide, that is if she decides to stay in the marriage. Even women themselves do not even know what they are capable of doing until they get to that bridge so do not rely on their vows or promises. You go faint when that same woman go say "I used to love you; or the way this marriage is going is not what I was expecting"