₦airaland Forum

Titogbanski:
You cannot be peaceful if you cannot be controlled.
Cn you imagine telling a country not to produce and own what you own??
It is like you have PHD and fighting me for trying to get Masters - the hypocrisy is mind boggling

Such a person is a WITCH

tishbite41:
Wahala jam kasala

Wayo Allah

Reloadedisraelp:
Walk away for this hard time in Nigeria.... U walk away and u end up accepting another version worsening than the first.... Naso person go dey continue dey walk away until old age go knock door.

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LordAdam16:
both pedolf and satanyahu have given interviews in the past 24 hours
confirming their spat

persia should be very vigilant

no one f***king cares about their spat
it is literally meaningless
why they have to do this performative bs in public can only be for nefarious reasons

-Lord

I actually don't care about their interviews.
Trump thinks some of us viewers are as stupid as he is.
Is it not the same interview and argument he had with Zelensky at the white house while still supplying him bombs behind the scene for the past 2 years? and even adding more sanctions to russia.
This him format don cast abeg.
We are not fools.
Argue on the screen while bombs are on the way to be supplied to them tomorrow, if not today sef.

Diamond098454:
I lost my only sibling, the only sibling i have in this world money couldn't save him. But there are those that doesn't have money but they are alive, healthy and happy. They will get sick and recover without visiting a health center
Now you see one of the reasons i said money is not everything

Lol... Why don't you go to general hospital and see many who don't have money to buy drugs or even admit their family members and they die by the passage or on bed because of injections as low as 2k.
Or those who are so wretched that instead of taking their wards to hospital, they decided to take them to prayer mountain because spiritual oils are cheaper or free while many die like fowls.

realG101:
And who told you poor couples too don't get tired of each other.

But yall pay more attention to the rich and whatever they do.

Nobody said money is everything, nobody said you can't be miserable with money.

A man without game is a man without game, money can get him chicks but will not cure his game problem.

The rich guy whose wife you're forking is a boring person, but the money is not the cause of the boredom, it's the guy.

However, the rich guy is better off with his money, because without the money, that wife would either have left him for you or he would never have gotten to marry her in the first place.

Money is a big advantage always.

Gbam!!!

realG101:
You can also be poor and the happiness will not be there.

Let's stop pretending money is not good. Everybody is better off with money in the bank.

People like to console themselves because it's hard to be rich.

BTW if you're rich but unhappy, you are the problem, not money.

Fact @ the bolded

CorperKola:
Mindset of everything is money is the true destruction and doom of a society
Very simple
This mindset can be used to justify everything that is caustic to society

From prostitution to govt corruption to kidnapping

The common mindset behind it all is Money must be made by all means

I remember being truly happy just minding my business cos i had no one to compare to on facebook or whatsapp status

Social media is really something

I don't think we are saying money must be made at all cost or you should be rich, all what we are saying is that we deserve the BASIC MINIMUM FINANCIAL LEVEL to start a marriage.

I don't think that is a crime to ask for, right?

GravityDefier:
Poverty is NOT good and it DOESN'T still guarantee happiness

Omoh.

There is currently a poverty awareness campaign among the new generation.
People are now Anti-Poverty.

Say No to Poverty crusade

GravityDefier:
Both the rich and the poor experience everything you mentioned up there. Balance the analysis; You tend to be defending one side.

We have rich and happy homes just as we have poor and happy homes.

Riches cannot buy true love neither is poverty the legal tender for true love

Everyone should choose their poison and LEARN to be happy with it.

Finito Alamusical

GravityDefier:
Not all, some people don't feel they deserve even basic amenities not to talk of good life.

Hmmmm....bitter truth.

They are so so used to poverty/struggling that they are now comfortable in it and see nothing wrong in it.

Zackattack:
Don’t let this person’s quote fool you. Happiness is the goal, but no one can deny that poverty is the worse, especially after tasting wealth.

QuinQ:
This is La la land talk. In the real world what makes a person happy is being able to well afford it when the rent is due. What makes a person unhappy is being stressed out when rent is due, and having to bring out a calculator, and inevitably end up dodging the landlord and frantically running around looking for a way to borrow money. That's what makes a person unhappy in the real world!

Gbam!!!


You have earned a follower

Angelfrost:
True... But, without money, unhappiness is fully guaranteed.

Host78:
No. The first thing that will make you happy is knowing how little you need to be happy.

Greed and covetousnes is what has been marketed into us to desire things we don't need.

I grew up in a single room. I know I need very little to live

Growing up in a single room or your dad living in a single room with 5 kids and a wife in the 80's and 90's can be excused, trying that now will be termed an Irresponsible Man.

Please don't try it nor see it as a yard stick or bench mark.
The things are parents did then that we ignored or see as normal is not normal in today's world and totally not acceptable.
Such a man could have been seen as a responsible man then but a failure now. Highly irresponsible who is not ready for marriage yet married a woman in a single face-me-i-slap-you and breeding like pigs to 5 kids.
Inside 1 room.

EponObi:
Your still living on El Dorado.

Be financially stable before considering marriage. That's all. No where in my post did I say you should be rich. Financial stability is not equal to richness.

EXACTLY...Exactly bro.
I don't know why many Nigerians always equate financial stability to Richness.
Financial stability is just the basic financial level expected of a human/man. It is a minimum requirement.
A decent life.
I don't think this is a crime to expect or require for God sake. It is the basic

onehope:
Let no woman deceive you into marriage with this kind of lyrics oh. You must not be very rich to marry but don't try it as a struggling man. Except the woman is bringing money into the marriage. Everything is not money ke but by the time you cannot meet the needs of your wife for prolonged period, you go see shege for that marriage oh. Women do not know how to respect/honor broke men for long. And you are likely to share her with another man who can provide, that is if she decides to stay in the marriage. Even women themselves do not even know what they are capable of doing until they get to that bridge so do not rely on their vows or promises. You go faint when that same woman go say "I used to love you; or the way this marriage is going is not what I was expecting"

Also, when i see men screaming Love, Love< love up and down. I see men who are insecured, afraid and scared of losing their women.
Bro, let's br frank, the outside world is heavily competitive.
So many men with money, nice cars, abroadians etc that are constantly a threat to your relationship and woman.
SO the only guarantee a struggling man has is a non-written agrreement or insurance from the woman called LOVE.
If she can guarantee him her LOVE, what it means is that he should relax and not be scared of her been taken away by a better man with money, cars, from abroad etc.
The more your financial stauts improves, the less you actually care about Love provided you are not an introvert

onehope:
Let no woman deceive you into marriage with this kind of lyrics oh. You must not be very rich to marry but don't try it as a struggling man. Except the woman is bringing money into the marriage. Everything is not money ke but by the time you cannot meet the needs of your wife for prolonged period, you go see shege for that marriage oh. Women do not know how to respect/honor broke men for long. And you are likely to share her with another man who can provide, that is if she decides to stay in the marriage. Even women themselves do not even know what they are capable of doing until they get to that bridge so do not rely on their vows or promises. You go faint when that same woman go say "I used to love you; or the way this marriage is going is not what I was expecting"

Leave them until reality hits them.

Love doesn't pay bills.

Marriage is more of responsibilities and if you are struggling to clear your responsibilities when due, your wife and self would be so stressed that Love and Sex will be so cold and distant amng you two.
Who talks about Love when the landlady is constantly embarrassing you every morning before you sneak out, shouting loudly.
Who talks about Love when your kids are sent back home from school. When they are sick you are busy running around calling people for loans to take them to hospital.

I guess people don't differentiate school Love and relationship with after school Love and Marriage.

Muhammadu Abdullai told newsmen that: “My name is Muhammadu Abdulai. I am a cattle rearer and also a farmer. I have been in Yorubaland for more than thirty years now. I have four wives and thirty children in Yorubaland.

Damn........ We are really in trouble in this country

WhiteIverson:
It seems the people of the Southwest are aware of the people who carry out the kidnappings but still allow them to live amongst them. They are even given traditional titles.

That means na family affair. No wonder Tinubu isn't bothered.

Toh make una enjoy

The most alarming to me is even the 4 wives and 30 children.
30 children.
Only 1 man
30 children.
Just imagine the disaster these people will cause the country.
They will overpopulate the natives/locals and try to over run them.
30 children with no education, go good quality of life and you expect them not to turn to kidnappers, cattle rustlers and boko Haram?

franchasofficia:
When God and his destiny decides.


The race of life is not for the swift or for the wise or for the strongest or for the most hardworking or the smartest or the most intelligent or for the most beautiful/handsome, but of God that showeth mercy to whom He had decided to show mercy.


Look around you, there are very smart and intelligent people that are still struggling with life. There are strong people that are struggling to survive. There are hardworking men that are very broke and poor. There are very beautiful ladies that are struggling to find a partner while some are married and regretting or struggling to feed in that marriage. There are some handsome guys that are struggling to find just one woman to be with them. On the contrary, there are very dull people that are excelling in life beyond imagination. There are lazy people that are rich and famous. There are ugly women married to very rich and influential men. There are rich ugly women. There are ugly guys married to the hottest women you can only imagine, and etc.


So as a man you can decide that you will stand on your feet before you turn 30yrs or 35yrs and God will say He will bless you abundantly beyond your imagination before you even reach 30yrs.


God can decide to make it 50yrs, if thats your destined time, no matter how smart or hard you work, you will keep struggling and failing until you hit 50yrs and you will just realize that everything you lay your hands on will start working, even the things you once failed trying to do in the past, the stars will start aligning in your favor once you reach your God destined time.


Some people will say its all lies but they are saying it because they are destined to say it right now.


No human can run beyond his or destiny in life. Life is spiritual, we are only a physical manifestation of our spiritual being.

I totally agree with you bro.

The kind run and hustle wey i hustle for this life heyyyyyyy yet na zero upon zeros and at a point, i thought their was a curse following me.
Guess what? what am even doing now at a very relaxed mode without any running around and i am far far far better than where i was 10 years ago.

LordIsaac:
At the age he meets Jesus...the earlier, the better, actually!

RollinTNDA:
I know a very rich lady who sleeps with me behind her husband back. Why??

Her husband is super rich.

But she confess to me that she lost the excitement of LIFE. That her husband over provide and this made him look unattractive and boring.

So she wanted to feel human again
That's why she cheats behind his back .
That the adrenaline and excitement fear of being caught makes her feel alive

If you like get 200$ billion.
Una 2 will definitely be bored of each other
Look at Will smith
Upon all the fame and money and praises he shower his wife. She still go sleep with one guy called August Alsina

A poor man thinks money is everything
Until they get it and find out it can't buy true love

For every 1 lady you know who sleeps behind her rich husband or boyfriend, there is atleast 50 poor women who sleep behind their poor husbands and boyfriends.

Say something else

Host78:
This is wrong in every way.

Marriage is kept by love not money. I hate that we try to tie everything to money nowadays.

People who are rich also get divorced. So clearly, money will not keep marriage.

If you have all the money in the world and you get married to someone with all the money too without any desire for each other, it's clearly won't work.

But if you love someone genuinely and without any money, then you both can work together and live a modest life together.

There are government schools in this country where you can school your children for free.

Most Nigerians have little incomes over 100k per month and are successfully married and raising their kids.

Yes sometimes, life gets hard for these people, but they endure it together.

My father was a police man with 5 children. We lived for a long time in a single room and all of us attended school.

It wasn't money keeping his marriage but love.

Most of us came from humble beginnings. It wasn't money but genuine desire by our parents to build a beautiful family.

They didn't revolve their entire world around finance.

Finance was not worshipped.

You may say, one day emergency will come and you'll need enormous amount of money to solve the problem.

But I tell you, this almost never happens. And if it happens, well it happens. Not every problem can be solved.

There are also health issues which your money cannot solve.

Steve Jobs with all his billions died of cancer like every other poor man would have.

Please I beg you as a young woman or man, build your house on love.

LOVE?
Why do i feel uncomfortable with that word .... Love.

My father was a police man with 5 children. We lived for a long time in a single room and all of us attended school.

You know in today's world, this is not right.

I will rather take average money plus average Love over full Love/Little or No money or Full money/No Love

kpankpangolo:
Policemen in checkpoints are bored. All they see are cars pass every other minute. It’s why they frustrate commuters by telling them to stay for hours in a bid to entertain themselves. When you’re frustrated, frustrating other people becomes an amusing activity.

So so so true

DeltaBachelor:
Chai, From Champions to relegation. That’s an all-time LOW

It may be because they have sold most of their key players who made it last year to eurpoe and cash out.
Most Nigerian players will leave at any slight opportunity even if it is to go and play in morocco or egypt

Mayflowa:
Very easy. Max is 2 years! Most of the people that won millions of dollars in lottery in US are back to square zero!
Even if you started a N100 million business, most business will still fail.

Not easy to be rich! It's a gift to be rich!

You are right about what you wrote but richness is not really about gift rather skill.
Skill means you can learn it but people don't have the time or patience or endurance to learn a trade or skill over some periods of years to learn the rope

IamPatriotic:
You're absolutely right. My best and undeniably only true friend left for South Africa in 2001, immediately after we wrote our first JAMB exam. Two years later, Oluwarantimi sent four cars to Lagos: one for me, one for his brother, and the others for different people. Me that was still in 100 level then.
Although his uncle, who was a policeman, never gave me the car. He kept it for himself, and I didn’t find out until 2006 when we were chatting on Facebook and he accused me of being ungrateful for not appreciating the car he sent to me.
Car bawo? I never received any car o.
When he travelled, there was no Facebook. We only chatted on Yahoo Messenger whenever I had money to visit a cyber café, so there was no way I would know he sent me a car, because I stopped going to cyber café.
Fast forward, when I heard that my childhood friend had sent four cars home within just three years of being in South Africa, bros, I was like, “Whao! That country must be the richest country on earth.” Imagine someone who couldn’t even pass WAEC successfully going to SA and becoming rich so quickly to the point of sending cars home.
It was later I found out that my friend was involved in several fraudulent activities, ranging from drug trafficking to marriage scams, car theft, and human trafficking.

I also have a close relative who traveled to south Africa, stayed there for like 2/3 years before moving to Malaysia.
He wrote jamb 5 times without passing and his friends in Malaysia insisted he must travel first to southy before joining them in Malay.
After going to Southy as they do call it, he started sending money and things home and he exploded more when he got to Malay