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fabem:
Is going easily.

Whch Brwoser are you using?

I've used every browser available but still the same.

my phone as been display this since the registration began. I've used four different browser but still the same. please any one with the best solution.

ogwucheveekee:
how can I reach you pls

09031650896

chi074:
There's a company in Abuja that need a sales person... Maybe u can apply.. contact me to give you the address.. trust me I how add it is an Abuja .. even people working are not happy with the pay.. but at all at all...

Pls kindly send me your number

JeffreyD1:
Join uber/bilt drivers bro

How can I join them bro

SweetCunt97:
enter Lagos if Abuja no pay you

Honestly speaking, I don't know of any body to accommodate me there if not so I would have love to be there.

Odunwa:
You can start marketing products and it will pay you better. Daily income stores is the way.

The question now is that where am I going to get the products to market and how to get them.

Joycekkh:
Leave Abuja then and come to Lagos.

I don't know anybody in Lagos o. I had that accommodation is the major issue there if not so it as been on my mind since to come over to Lagos but I don't know of anywhere to stay.

No any job yet o. I've even gone to the extent of dropping my certificate at home and beg people for a menial jobs but nothing yet o. Life of a jobless man in abuja is very tough o. I just pray for God's intervention.

Brandconsultany:
My dear brother we've all been created to be trail blazers in life. I've seen it all yet I've never contemplated suicide,I've had court cases and police arrests here and there yet I've never thought of it. Mind you all these above pains I'm talking about in the process of scouting for my daily bread as I'm into contracting. So just believe in yourself first that you can do it. Also,you need to rewire your mind to function more from the positive side which is called possibility thinking. Read through Google about the stories of some of the world's greatest and fulfilled achievers you would see that yours is nothing but a piece of cake. You can reach me on my WhatsApp handle maybe I can help you further on perfect way out : 07067528451

Thanks sir

jeff2010:
bro similar situation...june 24 will make it a year i finished service with nothing to show for it.

people will always tell you to start small and stop thinking of that dream job. But you need something to start small. I'm willing to start small even if is starting with a security job or cleaner, at last last them go tell you say you no get experience for the job. its really frustrating man.

My own case is nothing to write home about.
I'm in my late twenties and this month will make it exactly one year that I completed my youth service. To cut the long story short, I've been sitting down at home for close to a year now doing nothing. I'm still roaming around the streets of abuja submitting CV but no positive response. I've search for menial jobs non is forth coming. I intend starting a business but no capital, learning a skill from anywhere now involves you to pay money for apprenticeship. The worst of it all is that my family members don't even care weather I'm still alive or dead. I'm scouting with someone right down and I'm sure the person will be tired of me soon. Suicide thoughts is just coming to my mind every time. I'm willing to start small but that small self no won gree start o. I'm fed up with life.

I am feeling so bored here in utako. I just need any girl to hook up with here. please if you are interested you can reach me on +2349031650896.

Are you sure about the matric no because there is a serial number on the statement of result o.

babington91:
Which institution? Na my matric no I inserted o

I only have HND statement of result with me. Please what I'm I going to fill in the space of certificate number?

AwkaetitiBabe:
You simply loved the wrong person. You felt love so how is it scam?

I see love as a scam because I was made to that it will last forever despite giving in everything I've got just to make it work but it still come back to nothing.

The lessons I learnt from all these is that
(1). No matter how much you care for a lady, even though you sacrifice your life to her, ones it's time for her to ditch you she will not think twice about it.
(2). Onces a girl suddenly change her behavior towards you, it simply means that she already as an alternative elsewhere.
(3). If a girl is no longer interested in a relationship, everything you do they tend to complaint about it.
(4). If a girl is a cheat before meeting her, there is nothing you can do to stop her even though you give her heaven and earth.

XhosaNostra:
Is it the end of the world? No, it isn't. Move on.

I don't understand why people have such a hard time moving on from a relationship with a shìt person. They're who they are, but not exactly what you're searching for going by their actions, so why are you complicating matters for yourself? Snip & split. Life is too precious & short to allow someone make it stressful for you with their bull.

My sister it is not easy to go by just like that most especially if you are deep into that person and you are already seeing the possibility of getting married to that person except you don't love that person.

BlueAir:
he overlooked the perils of numerous friends and social activities from her side

You are absolutely right. I guess her friends contributed much to all this. I never like their friendship for onces because their movement is not pure at all

Hey guys, I feel like sharing my experience with you guys since nobody understands me in real life.
I'm from Kaduna state and I was posted to Ondo state for my youth service last year. I met this Igbo lady in Ondo around November last year and we decided to hookup. It was as if I've never met a girl in my life with the way I love her so much. We started dating but she wasn't that free with me, and I wasn't OK with that. With time we got used to each other including all her family members. I showed her love so much that people around her including her sister and friends began to envy our relationship. I planned on getting married to her in which she was also aware of but despite the fact that her family members are against our union as a result of tribal differences, she was still ready to take the risk because her mum was in support. Fast forward to 2019, she loves to go out with her friend to visit people mostly boys and I've warned her about it several times and she promised to change. Despite some challenges in the relationship, we still settle within short period of time. Two months ago I rounded up my service and decide to move down to abuja, but to my surprise, this lady in question suddenly changed towards me. If I call she hardly pick and when she pick she will give the phone to her friend to speak to me that she is not around. Two days ago I called her and she picked and started telling me everything that is wrong. She gave the excuse that we are not married yet and I'm telling her not to go out and visit people that it won't work. And that I placed someone that will be monitoring all her movement which is a lie. She was just giving excuses and wrong accusations.
The way she spoke to me that day make me belief that she as move on. Meanwhile someone very close to her already told me that she is seeing someone else. This is a girl that we plan on getting married in the next two years but now I don't think its possible because she no longer pick my call again.
I love her so much and she knows that. I've never for once show love like that to anyone. I can't afford to loose her just like that but I think she doesn't think the same way. I've decided to let her go but her thought is weighing me down and I don't know what to do now.

[quote author=lilmax post=76355742]Another man in rove

trek away man,don't look back

Dude it's easier said than done especially if feelings and emotions are involved

I feel like sharing my experience with you guys.
I'm deeply in love with a girl and just about two months ago she relocated to another town as a result of her school. Communication between us as been good but just recently she complained to me that her phone is faulty that she is making use of her mom's phone. I promise to get her another phone and she said she just need a smaller phone. To cut the long story short, I sent her a small phone yesterday. Today I now discovered that she called her friend and told her that she just met a guy over there and that she as falling for the guy that the guy even bought her a smartphone that is bigger than mine. This girl in question each time I ask her if she is tired of our relationship she always get angry. I love her to the extent of even transferring the love to her family. But now I guess It's the right time I let go.

Splinz:


Why do you want to fvck her?

Because if I don't, someone else will do it. Dude I've really invested in this girl but no profit yet o.

JERRY1925:
Well...trust her decision... She's right

Since she will soon move down to another town, I'm scared she might hookup with another guy there and all my investment will be gone.

My girlfriend just put me on the condition that she can not give any man her honey pot until after wedding. She claims to be a Virgin and I've tried every possible means to convince her to have sex with me but all to no avail. Please I don't know what to do again because in two weeks time now she will be moving to another town. Any idea?

I'm a serving corps member in ondo and I'm looking for a serious relationship with a lady that reside in ondo town. 09031650896 is my contact.

Kaduna to ondo. who is with me

Anyone from Kaduna to ondo?

Mandrake007:
oh boy! you can't keep getting repeatedly rejected like that,it makes no sense,i think there's gotta be more to it or something's wrong.

That thing that is wrong is what I'm seeking answer for. I mean if one don't know what the problem is, how can one provide solution to it?

Mandrake007:
Bro you should hangout with friends more,i guess your confidence's been dented as a result of repeated rejection,are you an introvert? and do you really want a relationship or you just wanna fúck? remember you can't just approach any random girl you come across,identify your targets,ladies probably on same intellectual level as you're and if you don't really feel like hitting on a girl don't do it just to prove yourself wrong or whatever that's a recipe for disaster,it all boils down to you man,improve yourself,your outlook and be yourself don't try to impress any woman NEVER,be cocky even if you faking it sometimes eventhough you're not fine your vibe and charisma will swoop them off their feet.Goodluck!

I'm an introvert and I really want a serious relationship but for the passed four years all I keep getting is rejection and I guess I can't deal with it any longer.