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a2space:
I am a 37 year old bachelor and I must confess that never in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine that someday I would be desperate to get married. When I was in my twenties, I used to hear of desperation amongst ladies to get married but I never clearly understood the feeling. I felt it was a "lady thing" until I got to the age of 34yrs. One day I was in my bedroom suddenly I felt the rush of emotions come upon me so strongly that all of a sudden started making me feel desperate for marriage. By the following year the desperate feeling became like torture and the loneliness was so depressing. I could no longer stand it when I attended weddings to see other young couples getting married. I could no longer stand it when I hear people discussing marriage around me.

I became like an object of fun in the office when they would call me "the oldest bachelor". I'm telling you, the feeling is not funny at all. Even when people innocently ask "Hey, why are you not yet married?" or "what are u waiting for?" It's a question that I just can't take emotionally. Though I'm doing my best to tie the knot soon but I must confess that it is a feeling that I don't even wish my enemies to have.

If me as a guy could be feeling like this, I can just imagine what single ladies of marriageable age are passing through emotionally.
For those of you reading my post, it is my prayer that you all get married at the right time and age so that you don't have to pass through the same emotional trauma of loneliness and desperation to get married.

There is no travail in marrying late. But there is travail in having children late. That's my personal believe

a2space:
I am a 37 year old bachelor and I must confess that never in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine that someday I would be desperate to get married. When I was in my twenties, I used to hear of desperation amongst ladies to get married but I never clearly understood the feeling. I felt it was a "lady thing" until I got to the age of 34yrs. One day I was in my bedroom suddenly I felt the rush of emotions come upon me so strongly that all of a sudden started making me feel desperate for marriage. By the following year the desperate feeling became like torture and the loneliness was so depressing. I could no longer stand it when I attended weddings to see other young couples getting married. I could no longer stand it when I hear people discussing marriage around me.

I became like an object of fun in the office when they would call me "the oldest bachelor". I'm telling you, the feeling is not funny at all. Even when people innocently ask "Hey, why are you not yet married?" or "what are u waiting for?" It's a question that I just can't take emotionally. Though I'm doing my best to tie the knot soon but I must confess that it is a feeling that I don't even wish my enemies to have.

If me as a guy could be feeling like this, I can just imagine what single ladies of marriageable age are passing through emotionally.
For those of you reading my post, it is my prayer that you all get married at the right time and age so that you don't have to pass through the same emotional trauma of loneliness and desperation to get married.

There is no travail in marrying late. But there is travail in having children late. That's my personal believe

SarahGee:
I wish I knew a better way to rephrase this question. You have seen many married people slowly cut ties with their single friends. Is it just natural that they instantly cease to have things in common or is it a society expectation? It is common among ladies. Some friends even cut ties with their friends once they have a boyfriend! Common b o y f r i e n d !!!

Some own’t even invite their single friends to their weddings or when they do, the single ones are made to wear a different type of asoebi as though they are wild animals that the wedding guests should be cautious of


I guess single people are really wild animals.


I wouldn’t be asking if I haven’t been a victim. A friend of mine got engaged 7 months ago and I was busy turning up and down for her. Her wedding is this coming Saturday and I noticed last night that she’s no longer on my BBM. I feel I don’t deserve it cos I respect people’s space a lot. No matter how close we were before you got hitched, I would respect your privacy once you start a family. I have never ever gone to the house of a married friend on my own volition and I am also quick to turn down invites once I sense that you are inviting me because you feel obligated to. Phone calls or chats once in a blue moon will do for me but there are still friends that will avoid any form of communication with you but run for advice from you as a single person that knows nothing when things get a bit rocky in their marriages. Some even go as far as looking for married friends pen pals on blogs and social networks like they didn’t make their bed.

Since this is now the in-thing, my new motto is ,”Cut the engaged ones off before they cut you!”

http://naijasinglegirl.com/why-do-people-abandon-their-single-friends-after-marriage/

Islam has answer to your question.
The answer is husbands'(boyfriends.lol) right to restrict wife

Some Interesting Facts To Know About The Year
2016
1. 04/04/2016 is Monday
2. 06/06/2016 is Monday
3. 08/08/2016 is Monday
4. 10/10/2015 is Monday
5. 12/12/2015 is Monday
6. The calendar of 2016 and 1994 are one and the
same.
7. The dates and days are the same.
8. Even the festivals are the same.
Who said you can't get what you lost 22 years ago?
God in His infinite mercy will reverse every irreversible
situations in our lives...
Happy weekend!!!!

Some have confused the two and it's really sad. This will get you a better understanding to love on and not be deterred by the single act.

Note: the change is not that of Buhari's APC. Beware.

citizenjuwon:
Dopkesi and nduka (owner of thisday newspaper) confessed to receiving 2.1bn and 670 million naira respectively.

okay,i believe now

Op are you a jambite too?
All the best ooh

True and i agree. Ladies stagnant die.

But God doesn't work like that. When they get married too another sweet 16 go dey chop their hubbies too. Then they will become prayer mongers too. And that continues till END TIME.

How do i believe this?

This is not a sorry case. If you don't change,the 'boys' are eyeing her already.-that deserve a more sorry.

Wicked people everywhere.

End time businesswoman.

Radio Free Europe reported that in Afghanistan, certain sections of the country have laws in place stating that, if a Muslim bride fails a “virginity test,” she can be punished in an absolutely inhuman way.
The so-called “test” is unpleasant in and of itself. On the night of the marriage, the husband can check the sheets of the bed for blood after intercourse to determine if his new wife was still a virgin.
If there is blood, which would indicate that the hymen was broken and the woman was a virgin, then the woman is safe, relatively speaking. If there is no blood, then the woman can be subject to any number of barbaric punishments.

The people performing these tests apparently don’t realize that there are a myriad of reasons why a woman’s hymen might not be intact on her wedding night, or why she might not bleed. But there’s little room for reason under Shariah law.
“In some cases, a bride’s ears and nose are cut off,” one Afghan woman told Radio Free Europe. “They are forced into dirty clothes and taken back to her parent’s home. Their heads are shaved. The bride’s family is told that she is not a virgin. Other times, a bride is simply killed and her body is returned to her parents.”
“In order to escape dishonor, that family will offer another of their daughters for marriage,” the woman stated. “In some regions, women are simply killed. In some cases, even after years of marriage, a husband will abuse his wife.”

What do you think of this so-called “virginity test”?

Source: conservativetribune.com

The poster above me is clueless.

It's because you are far from salvation

How can that undo the effect of the actual rape?

PDP members in Surulere,this is a question for you guys.

End time white

The guy must've been to A.B.U before.
The school has created any personality creatable

Rose2014:
I've said it before and I'll say it again, This Passingshot guy is the type of adviser any government in power should have, whether GEJ or PMB
The keyword is truth(which our leaders are allergic to btw ) . As a leader, What's the point in surrounding yourself with sycophants n zombies that will keep singing ur praise even when u're obviously misfiring.
Yet once u fail and you're voted out, they'll be the first to decamp to the other party?

On a second note, I don't see Buhari as someone that listens to advice(Too bad, though I may be wrong). If that is the case, you might as well be talking to a wall
Hope he listens sha and address this issue ASAP. Instead of addressing the problem, all we're seeing is his Kim Kardashian pictures touring round the world when his subjects are keeping vigil at gas stations. Smh

Anyway those that trekked for him after the election. With this scarcity now, Their dream of trekking has come true.lmao

Nice job sir. Respect

There are many people who were like passingshot before entering politics but once they enter the goons will use money to block their mouths

With such an alleged influence how many youths has she influenced to greater height?

Just in case you think you're demanding too much remember the burden placed on Neymar and Suarez during Messi's absence

Counter thread. I was expecting this

Obduracy disease of elephant.What am i even saying? Ladies are obstinate

Though i didn't like the army under Jonah,i'm beginning to like the lads under BUHARI THE PRESIDO

Space reserved!
Trespassers beware

Mouth has been scratching people in Naija to just say rubbish[color=#000000][/color]

Governor Ayodele Fayose of Ekiti state who is sure a force to reckon with in the state he governs is in the news again.
Over the weekend, the governor was Oja Oba Market in Ado Ekiti before the market old structures were demolished in readiness for the construction of a new ultra modern market.

However, when he got to the market, a little boy did the unusual. He shouted ‘Osokoooooo’ , a common slang used in hailing the controversial governor. This got the attention of everyone, even the media team of the governor could not let the precious moment go as they got it on camera.
The governor also took to his verified twitter page to share the unusual happening by tweeting: ‘Even the kids know me… Osokoooooo”. Osoko means a strong and unusual person. See the tweet and photo below:
Even the kids know me… Osokoooooo pic.twitter.com/ LJO2au2FDJ
— Peter Ayodele Fayose (@GovAyoFayose) November 8, 2015
Meanwhile, there was protest by butchers in the state yesterday following the closure of some abattoirs in the stateover a new tax levied on them.

Source: Naij.com news

moderation2020:
my friend we aren't here for joking tins, if u are idle go wash your mama's plates.
kids on rampage

Lol! A Biafran's reaction

Thanks OP. No 2. shows the reason why Olamide,Reminisce,wizkid and the rest will not last.

A big evidence of YORUBA'S supreme intelligence.

Igbo guys will attack me o.
Hausa guys? They won't dare it.

I didn't view anything but one thing is you're a n online Biafran agitator.

Bros,u get hand now. Go bring him back.
Buhari till he's tired!! Na joke o

alcmene:
Better no dey last......we had him but never never allowed him to deliver.

#bringbackJonathan