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JESHAL007:
Forcing yourself on a girl who doesn't like you is the most foolish thing you can do as a man

Once you see signs she's not interested in you move on regardless of your investment and like/love for her

No lies detected.

I want to ask. Wetin una think say make all those women agree to doing a video with EBANG. What was the secret? Redpillers, share your view. Ubunja, I will appreciate your contribution. Luminouz, caveadullam, pansophist. Abeg, make una share una view.

Nowar:
Good morning bosses.
I’m an old member of this forum ..
I need your advice on something. Pls it’s going to be a very long post. Luminous , jeshal007, dontrulee and others, pls I need you to read this.
I have been in relationship with this girl for 4 years, she’s a graduate and a 100/10 beauty wise .. when I
say beauty wise, Omo ehn she’ll be regarded as one of the most beautiful and attractive woman you’ll ever come across, , . Lol..
her cooking is 8/10..
respect 5/10..
Intelligence generally 5/10
Exposure 4/10( most of her exposure na wetin she dey read on phone lol)
Intelligence bookwise 4/10
A graduate .
Beautiful is honestly speaking 1000/10( imagine a Beyoncé and nenji put together )..
Age 23
Wealth - nil
She barely talks outside , infact people would say she’s proud lol.. but inside she can talk ehn,

Now here’s the thing, her mom has divorced twice , and she doesn’t have a good or bad relationship with her dad. Her dad married 4 women. And from little I’ve known, her dad is present in her life , sometimes they visit their dad during festive times..
When we met, I was not doing bad , although was still living with my parents, but from all indications , I was doing well by my age …


During the course of this four years , I have progressed tremendously , she among others influenced my decisions of going for my degree and moving out of my parents house. I had NATIONAL DIPLOMA when we met and was living in a room inside my parent house. she was running her degree then) . up till now, she barely knows net worth, I’ve always given her the impression that I am average money wise. In all honesty and to be fair , she’s not that money freak, but she’s stubborn.,


Due to her background, there has been many things off about her which I’ve been able to correct some. Before, during argument, she’ would talk back at me or go home or start crying .. I’ve been able to correct this after years… she’s the kind of person that’ll give you the impression that you can’t control her.. but the moment you start vexing or looking at her, she’ll adjust .. I’m yet to catch her cheating ( generally I don’t trust women) but tbh, I have not , sometimes I sneak around her phone and all that, but I stopped recently cos it makes me feel desperate and obsessive.

She’s caught me cheating once , and that was when we had issues, we didn’t see for like 3 weeks it was then i met one sweet nairaland babe lol.., my girl discovered and cried bitterly , she went to report me to my family ( my mom really really loves her ehn), they scolded me and she fell sick for like two weeks cos of this . She said something which I hold dear to my heart since then, she said ‘ even though she saw the evidence of cheating on my phone , that she’s still not going to believe if not that I confirmed it with my mouth’ she said was willing to die that I didn’t do it.,’

I learnt that even if a woman catches u live and direct doing something bad, baba still deny am o. lol



She’s open to me financially wise, infact she keeps her money with me and won’t take any decision concerning money without my knowledge. Shes stubborn o , except u change it for her, she no go hear word easily .. her mom and brothers really love me, especially her immediate brother … she’s currently doing her service and would travel every 2 weeks to meet me, infact she’ll lie at the school and visit me unannounced at my place ..


Let me put it like this, I make around 30-100k daily average na 60k most time sha ,
And I spend around 15-30k on her monthly .. the highest money I have spent on her at ago was 120k and 50k .. she’s spent on me too but it’s very little compared to mine.. highest she’s spent on me was 40k at a go, I’m 28 years.

Now this is the problem , I discovered that when she gained admission to school, she’s slept with an older man. And she’s had abortion for her ex. That was like two years before we met.. I narrowed down my search and discovered she’s no more in communication with them. She’s 23 years of age. And tbh, I love her but anytime I think of those things e Dey always pain me in silent …









..

When I was running my NG program, I knew this girl as a friend sister, she was around 16 or so then,she added me up and we would and jokes on Facebook.. she’ll subtly profess her love for me but I Dey always body shame her that she’s below my standard, she ended up blocking me and years later , she texted me on Facebook and we started talking .. she’s 21 now , look and appearance wise, she’s 2/10.. also her cooking is 1/10 tbh she’s not my type appearance wise , she studied nursing in school and she came visiting sometimes last year..

Beauty is 2/10
Cooking is 1/10
Respect 5/10
Intelligence bookwise 10/10
Intelligence generally 5/10
Bsc( nurse).
Age 21
Exposure 3/10
Wealth nil
She can talk anywhere.
I discovered that she’s a virgin , she won’t allow me to penetrate, she was asking me to make a promise that if I do it, I must marry her, bro no be say I get bad intentions towards her o but I no fit Dey promise woman cos of sex, she’s very small in stature and she also has daddy issues. Her mom has remarried she’s living with her stepdad,,, she said so many bad things about her dad and her stepdad, I tried to mediate and reconnect her to her dad but it didn’t work out.. my relationship with her is a long distance type but I LIKE HER TOO.. and she likes me a lots ehn..






the nairaland girl I met said she has 6 body counts ( she agreed to) but from my calculations and research, e go reach 17 ( no jokes).. said shes aborted twice for diff men.
she’s rich though and the smartest of them all, she’s very beautiful too, her beauty is 8/10.. she’s super extremely smart , business wise, mentally and emotionally. Infact she’s better than me at the emboldened.. she’s 25. All of dem are ready to say yes, if I Dey ready. Her mom has divorced too, but remarried ..

Beauty 8/10
Exposure 10/10
Cooking 100/10
Respect( 5/10)
Intelligence bookwise (4/10)
Intelligence generally Omo 1000/10
She has hnd
Age 25
She can talk anyhow and dress anyhow too.. not so modest but she’s willing to address that..
Wealth ( she’s doing very good, I mean very very good) she lives alone. Shes into business , atleast from what I know..
Non of these girls are really demanding financial wise( or let me say their demands no really mean anything to my finance tbh)..
Note, in the past four years I’ve dated atleast 30 girls , but these 3 made it to Final.. lol,
I live in north central ..

I won’t lie to you, Im tired, I’m looking forward to settle down anytime soon , I have the money…




Bros, left to these girls, which one should I choose, tbh I’ve dated a lot of girls before I narrowed down my options to this .

Hoenishina ni guy yi😯🙂.

JESHAL007:
Men get hornyy anyhow, small thing we catch erection, even breeze can make you hard, you wake up and you are hard, Kai, testerones is too much, libido is too high, nature don doom us, it's a reason why men would continue simping even if they don't want to, the prickk usually wins against the battle of the head

Authority
Self Control

No lies detected.

jayAjoku:
The Most Hardcore Feminist still kneels down to suck a real Niggas Dick bro and she swallows too😎😎

You are a bad boy🙂.

A wife material.

JESHAL007:
When you are hornny, your penis is hard, your imagination runs wild, you fantasize, you want the sex badly, you can't control yourself again, you either get a girl to fucck or you masturbate, after you release, you feel weak, you feel stupid, you feel drained, all the pleasure ended just like dat, and you cum back to your senses

The funny thing is that you repeat this cycle over and over again, it's nature at work, your sperm wants an egg badly, evolution is putting subconscious pressure on you, it's not your fault you wan fucck badly and anytime, it's the Lord's work

Chai men are naturally doomed

With all the redpill knowledge you have, don't tell me you feel this way too?😯🙂. Konji dey catch you?😯🙂.

PinkNature:
Ubunja is gold.

Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery.

JESHAL007:
Men feel like they have conquered a woman after sex, they think they won, their ego is elevated, their esteem is boosted, the derive not just joy from the physical act of sex , but extreme pleasure from the act of subduing a woman, winning her over, and making her drop caution, making her go against safety and feel relaxed, lowering her guards down, the process alone excites a lot of men, this is just a random observation I noticed

It's not just an observation, it's the truth.

JESHAL007:
Men are emotional because of sex, her feminity, her beauty, her mannerism, her vibes, her innocent look, her child-like face and body structure, her vulnerability, her submission, her sweet voice, her boobs and ass, her respect, her cooking and cleaning skills


What am I getting too
Understand that one of your weakness come from here

You no lie.

Esthered:
Go check my mail for someone I'm sure is inquiring....

Pardon me🙂. I did not mean it that way.

Esthered:
Write me at hadediong@gmail.com

Done. Go check your mail.

Annahh:
Fbn is recruiting for experience hire that will work in operations. Guy join o. Dey don increase salary, na arm robber salary dey are paying us now. Real arm robber. Don't miss it. You can DM me let me send you the link.

How much for entry level experienced hire? Net pay.

Rillycool:
Promise of sex is one effective tactics women use in scamming men of their hard earned money.

Na blessing CEO dey give this type of advise. She be the ubunja for female gender😀.

richmondefosa:
They're a lot of factors you should consider when choosing a bank that you want to start your career with.
I am a Banker.

I have friends that work with both banks.
Most of my friends that went through the UBA program ended up in sales. Only a microscopic few ended up in branch operations.
In terms of pay, UBA cannot match up to first Bank.
My advise, seek God face first.
Then pick First Bank.
I'm with Stanbic IBTC by the way.

Stanbic IBTC is not small🙂.

invectives:
Vivian go to FBN after 2 yrs, leave for Wema, after 1yr,take off to Stanbic ,after 2 yrs go GTB you'll see that u getting close to becoming an ED..

Washere🙂.

Mexyz:
8m yearly basic for entry level??

You sure about this?

Una no dey do research. After oil and gas company. Na bank dey pay jumbo salary.

vivian5000:
The problem is I wouldn’t know because I am yet to attend the training school or work full time.🥹

No go miss first bank. Based on the review so far, na first bank majority choose. Nairaland is a great tool for research. Men dey nairaland. Them dey advise you based on their experiences. Take heed.

vivian5000:
This is also what am going to consider, I don’t know how to market anything. And that is really freaking me out.

First bank too is not small. My mind say make you choose first bank.

obaidan:
Well anyone wey go give u better work-life balance

This advice is underated.

Watching.

heironymos:
ok thanks man I feel like I've grown a bit soft lately for girl A I definitely fell for my emotional whims hence not being able to wait and use the information to my advantage in the future... but what I want from her right now is to secure that job for me first... it's too early to make decisions of who to marry like u said I will start wearing my stoic cap from now... I seemingly have a soft spot for good feminine women thanks for being objective.

What is the job title and job role of the job she got for you for that amount?

--Men remember being boys. Man has a lucid perspective in comparing the diminished affection of his adulthood to the greater bounty of his childhood. Women do not experience such a significant loss of affection. As such, man is forced to realise he will never again be loved so profusely, for the boy gets his fill, but man loves the most to be loved the least. The profundity of maternal love is longed for, but forever gone. A girlfriend cannot provide that, and is loathe to do so should a weak man demand it. This is perhaps the bitterest of all the pills.

No lies detected.

dreamxhaser:
So guys. There is this very close friend of mine. She used to be my girlfriend in high school.

She has a boyfriend who is very rich and spends a lot on her. Like the guy is a better baller.

She always comes to me when she feels lonely and I am always available. We are very close because she shares women's contact with me and I give her scores on how she played the women (during my bad boy days before I fell in love with my current girlfriend ).

She knows my dirty secrets but somehow seems to still enjoy my vibes.

Now me and her don dey talk for weeks, I can sense her serious obsession with me these days.

she wants to use care and love to finish me. Though according to her the guy has been misbehaving.

So one discussion led to another and we have finally agreed to fvk. Lol, like she wants it desperately and I am gonna give it to her.

I am invited to come and eat food, then eat her. Hahahh, I have never spent a dime on this girl. But as for the boyfriend, nigger must have spent millions (not kidding) because they have been dating for years.

She knows I have a girlfriend and even knows my girlfriend. But still don't care.......

Though I am willing to take her green light. Can experts here explain why she wants me to hit her. Like I should be all sorts of red flags to her but she doesn't just care.

Ubunja have explained this in his miseducations.

Hmmmm

luminouz:
This is nothing...some guys pee on them and one dude once told me he peed inside his gf....😳😳😳

You are a bad boy🙂.

axeman10:
No they don't. The way audit firm work is this:

Yes, the pay may be little at entry level, but there is career progression, provided you pass your exams. So, each year, you are guaranteed an increased salary.

As long as you are on a job, your transport fares, taxis, Uber etc to clients' offices can be claimed back. So, you basically not using your salary on transport fares as long as you are on field.

Many clients provide lunch for auditors. This may also include breakfasts or even dinner if you are working late. Or in some cases, you just present the receipts of your lunch to your office for the period you were on the job.

The juicy jobs are the ones outside the your base. Say you go audit Shell in PH, you may be there for over a month. Hotel accommodation paid for, you will be chauffer driven, breakfast, lunch and dinner paid for. So for a month or two, your salary is untouched.

The downside is, you get bored. It's can really be a boring job, if you are in it just to make ends meet.

So forget the notion that they have to know small gods to live the kind of whatever lifestyle they live. Some jobs do have dignity, and auditing is one of them.

Why do you say you get bored? How? Can you explain better?

Una no good🙂🙂🙂🙂. Let everybody drop their nuggets🙂. Take whatever you like. Waka jeje inside life🙂.

JESHAL007:
THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX MEN DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW

Because they know you will condemn them, see them as sex freaks, call them dogs and give them unprintable names but that does not stop a man from being a man or do you wanna marry a woman?

To have a full blast, blissful relationship with a man, you must understand what makes him a red blooded male! If you do, your man will not only love you but go crazy for you every single day of his life.

1. Men are very sexual.

2. Men are are very visual. An average man thinks sex at least 8 times daily. That is the least. Men are bombarded with sexual images all day from bill boards adverts to pictures on social media to scantily clad ladies in church. Because they are visual and sexual, they take in images that create sexual pressure seeking a form of release.

3. Men are excited about female body parts.

4. Breasts and buttocks get men turned on.Tight fitting clothes around the chest region and bosom region can drive a man crazy!

5. Men's ego in marriage is boosted when their wives respond to their sexual advances. Rejecting a man sexually is rejecting him.

6. When a wife pursues her husband sexually, she boosts his self esteem by 50%.

7. A woman who moans during sex gives her husband 80% ego boost on his sexual performance.

8. Sex is not food to a man, it is the air he breathes. He can't live long without it.

9. Beauty is useless to a man if it is not available for sex.

10. A sexually hot woman is very beautiful to a man no matter how unattractive or shapeless others see her. To the man, she is his Madonna, the queen of his sex kingdom, the one who rules, dominates and controls his entire universe.

11. A tight vagina does wonders on the penis than any man will tell you.

12. Men love sexual adventure.

13. It is not the size and shape of breasts that matter but how they are packaged and presented to the man.

14. Men love to suck breasts. Carrying the breasts away is like slapping him.

15. Men like a woman who loves sex.

16. 60% of the reason he is marrying you is because of sex.

17. Men love sex.

Men are wonderful. Men are sweet. Men are awesome.

It is not the fault of a man he is very sexual. God created him that way. When a man is completely loved, cherished and honoured for who he is and what he is made up of, he will love you, adore you and cherish you forever.

Wahala wahala wahala🙂. The shape of the bbbboooobbbbsss matters. I like it huge and perky🙂.

heartofcity12:
I wonder…

Them lie to us. Women like s....e.....x.... They are as h....o....r....n...y as men🙂.

JESHAL007:
Now I understand why this redpill knowledge should be discreet and not be this exposed to the world.some of this secrets should never be out in the mainstream.
What drives the world has always been women,sex either for procreation or pleasure. That's why majority of this bad boys that can get women without stress often times don't amount to anything good in life eventho they are biologically successful.
Truth is majority of men will lack motivation to succeess if they can pull the type of women they want when they are broke. (Outliers excluded)
Betas keep the world moving that's why majority of betas are successful in the blue pill society but suffer greatly with women.
Perhaps,If you had not come across the redpill truth, you would have still been in the blue pill system of make money and girls will come later, testosterone would have triggered you so bad you will want to make enough money so you can be rewarded later.
Now imagine the number of people still in this system, imagine how people are working tirelessly to fulfill the bluepill conditioning (Just like a pulley and lever system)
However,now that you know the truth, I know you're equally disappointed, so I was, your drive to succeess should be trippled, you should trigger yourself to succeed so you can enjoy the goodness of this Life

At the end of it all ,all road leads to sex

@bolded🙂. No lies detected.

Cooked up story.