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heartofcity12:
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If girl no like you, she no like you niyen. She no allow jaywon touch her, na she dey touch her sabi guys🙂.

ubunja:
yes, men can turn down sex due to self-control and morality issues. That's commendable. The "but" here is that no man must think doing so has a bearing on how women view him. As concerning value and worth.
Because at the end how it plays out is That pucc you're passing on to appear special/different from other men, the lady is just going to take it to another guy! Usually some guy who's always available for quick cheap no-stress sex. Some guys just make it so hard and complicated to give them sex girls simply stop offering.

I'm sure we've all heard of a situation where some morally upright gentleman of a guy had a lady always visiting him acting funny for him but the guy was always "controlling" himself until the lady gave up, stopped visiting and somehow ended up getting pregnant for some clown.
What the gentleman did is really not playing hard to get in the dating sense, he just missed opportunities.

Okay let's switch genders for better clarity.

How does a woman play hard to get?

We go back to the foundation of male/female dynamics: Men love sex, Women love money. Men want sex, Women want money.

A woman then plays hard to get by being stingy with SEX. Cause sex is what men want.
While a man plays hard to get by being stingy with LOVE aka commitment, cause that's what women want.

A man doesn't play hard to get by refusing sex just as a woman doesn't play hard to get by refusing love/commitment/money. A man takes the sex but refuses to give the woman that one thing she wants (love/commitment/money) -that's him playing hard to get. Because until a man is in love or committed the woman hasn't actually got him.

Same way,,, a woman takes the love, commitment and money that's offered to her but denies men that one thing they all want: sex. Cause until a woman has given a man sex, the man hasn't actually got anything worthwhile from the woman. He hasn't yet "got" the woman.
The moment of truth for women is when a man finally commits. And the moment of truth for men is when a woman finally gives sex.

If you're a woman it doesn't matter if Davido or Chris Brown wants to sleep with you. What matters is Do they want to commit?Do they want to marry you? That's the question cause that's what really determines your worth IN THEIR EYES. Being good enough for sex is inferior. Being good enough to committment is superior. Its when a man commits that you have got got him.

That's why when a woman cheats a man's first question is "Did you sleep with him?" Cause for men there's nothing serious until sex happens.
And when a man cheats women's first question is "Do you love her?" Cause women understands that men will fucc anything, its when a man commits that things become serious.

Men and women are looking at sex and love from opposing sides, so what they value, what they see as valuable, is also opposed.

When a girl tells her friends "Moses loves me!" What do the friends ask? They ask, "What has he done for you?!"
Meanwhile, if a guy tells his friends, "Dorothy loves me!" They're going to ask "Did she let you smash?"

Which is to say, A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

Ubunja😯😯😯😯. Take it easy on us🙂. This is real.

ubunja:
the more brutal you are with women they more they come to you. Because as much as love is about romance and all that sweet stuff, the pussy only gets wet when dealing with a cold motherfucker. Be cold. You'll never starve for sex. Be romantic and you'll be friendzoned. Girls want romance but when they wanna marry but they wanna marry when they're done with the fvckers.

Stay sharp. Stay cold. Stay winning.

Ubunja no dey lie. Take note of the bolded.

Martinez39s:
Exactly!

A particular redpiller of YouTube once told a story of how he lost his job back then because during break, he drove all the way to fuçk a particular girl and arrived late at work. It is sexual incontinence that will make a lecturer put himself in a sex-for-mark scandal and tarnish his image all because of five-minute pleasure. Let's not talk about how many pastors it has put in trouble. I could write much more, but let me stop here.

It will always pass. Most times a lady is sexy and hot to a man just because the man is heavily barraged by konji. It after the sexual encounter that he experiences post-nut clarity and he realizes what a foòl he has been. Most times, the fantasy you have built up in your head about a lady and the assumptions you've made about how good you will enjoy her in bed is never met in reality; it is then men think "it wasn't as good as I hoped", "her puśsy stinks", "she is actually lazy in bed", "her pùssy isn't as tight as I thought", etc.

No one should be fooled that a man must release. No one should be fooled that it is impossible to effortlessly subdue your urges. I used to think like this, but I have proven myself wrong with practice. There is nothing there, the urges come and go.

How many years now without you RELEASING?

luminouz:
Nice take

There must always be that undercurrent of strength and capacity for violence in a man. It keeps the woman in check and also turns her on.

No Lies detected.

imustsaymymindo:
Then don't invite her over.

Sometimes, I wonder the rational in these statements. You want to be housing a girl that is attractive i.e. sexy, while you are providing and you would not be smashing. Listen to yourself bro. Is that possible? Of course. With simps, all stupid heights are possible. And I'm sure you don't want to be a simp.

Brother, if you want to be smashing her, just make it clear to her. She might agree to the deal and might want to run you streetz when she comes saying she is on her period, sick etc. based on how she has viewed you already. So make sure your discussions cover all edge cases even before coming. For instance, you agree to go from the other hole if on her period or you can't accomodate a sick person for safety reasons lol.

But if you are really genuine about not wanting to smash, then why invite her over?

Crazzzzzzyyyyy😯🙂.

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Shey she no go mind make you dey put yam in her beans?

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

Here are some truths mommy didn’t tell you about Women:::

1:
They like arrogant sexually entitled men.

2:
They love to compete for a High Value Man.

3:
Jealousy turns them on.

4:
They get h0rny thinking about you fukking other girls.

5:
Gifts & other surprises can't give you their [lasting] loyalty.


👌💯

Ahhhh. She did not tell me this😯🙂.

IAmHim1:
In the first picture, the man is LEANING INTO the woman while the woman is LEANING AWAY from the man

Leaning into and leaning away sounds like a contradiction oxymoron but pay attention to this message I'm passing


In this first picture, both the woman and man failed the Green Line Test.
The woman IS SUPPOSED to lean into her man to SHOW Submission WHILE THE MAN maintains a straight figure resembling a rock...that tree that doesn't get moved by petty breeze to SHOW Dominance

The woman, by leaning AWAY from her supposed husband has just revealed a body language that shows she won't be submissive to him in marriage AND the man BY LEANING INTO his wife has revealed his body language that he will submit to the leadership of his wife



It may sound like I'm blowing things out of proportion but body language works. It's the reason why you feel someone putting his or her hands in their pocket either

1) Has something to hide
2) is protecting something valuable

Like you just feel it. Either ways, it sends a message: This person can't be fully trusted because he/she might be hiding something

And the best way to display honesty and trust is BY REVEALING YOUR HANDS. That's why in interview or dates, you gotta show your hands once a while to send a message that you are being transparent...that is "i'm not hiding anything. You can trust me and we can bond like white on rice"

**There's nothing like black rice. Have you ever seen one lolzzzz***


Women read body language better than men and these subtle display of dominance or submission matters and will matter in the long run

Like your seat position during a date: As a Dominant Man with strong leadership qualities, you must sit in a position that easily makes you see the door of your date venue. This way, you can easily see the threat that may walk into the room FIRST and act in ways that benefits you and your woman first.

This is the standard for military men. They must sit in a position that they can easily see the door. That's why you never see a soldier sit in a position that shows his back to the door UNLESS he is sitting with his fellow comrades

Even while entering bus or UBER with your girl: She must be inside the vehicle first and if there is an open window, it must only be in your sit position and not hers. The car door window of her sit position should be closed while yours should be opened in case of a threat that may want to access her by invading the car window of her position

Even while trekking with her: she stays in the inside of the road while you stay on the outside. Ask questions if you're not getting it yet

So far, the BEST TEACHERS for body language, speaking and reading, are:

1) Alpha Rivelino, Twitter, Green Line Theory

2) Shayna Wahedi, YouTube. (He uses scenes from Suits and Peaky Blinders to pass his message)

As you were fellas

Ubunja has touched this topic before🙂. I can tell if the wife loves her husband just by watching their videos and checking their picture. Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery.

TheGidRedpiller:
This is TheGidRedpiller.

*Yes, I'm back.

*Yes, I'm more matured.

*Yes, I'm still a Redpiller, but I'm now one with a whole lot more experience.

*Yes, there are a whole lot of upgrades that needs to be made to the TheGidRedpiller's branding.

*Yes, I have a lot of stories to tell, and I WILL TELL THEM.

* Tomorrow At 10AM On The Dot, i will be live on Nairaland, I will be posting my first topic in 52 weeks.

*This is a call to action, go out there and let every Nairalander know that TheGidRedpiller is BACK, and as a matter of fact, he never left!!

See you all tomorrow.
TRP IS GOLDEN!!

Trouble maker🙂. Welcome back. All feminist will not like it that you are back.

McOluOmo:
I dey always give her money after sex......



She sent me this message this evening

She is dickmatised.

Freshtruth:
When she mean she sold all her properties she meant all the juice in her pussy has been drilled by her sugar daddies she gave are all to make this movie come to reality

This type of people never leave nairaland?😀😀😀😀.

Smartb0y:
You don fvck up.

First and foremost,stop taking advice from that your friend,he seems blue pilled.

Sex first , relationship second
This is non negotiable.

If you do relationship before sex you will lose more trust me.

A woman should be the one vying for a relationship,a connection, security because basically that's what relationship is for . It benefits Women more.

No sensible guy should chase after a relationship.
Chasing after a relationship is a feminine drive..

A man that chases is a man that loses.
Men with value and options don't chase,they attract.

Give her less attention,if she comes running afraid she's in a state of losing you,only then will that show a little inclination that she's invested or ready to invest in you.

If you lock up and she lock up too, thank your stars, you just dodged a bullet.

Make sure you hit her as soon as possible to get her invested in you. A woman that you haven't fvcked won't be emotionally invested in you .
Understand this.

But don't be pussy focused just to get her.
Instead use less attention to get her to open up.

If at this point she doesn't open those legs,she was never into you.

Move on with the speed of lightning else you'll sign yourself up for games and manipulation.


2. Better don't get tired. As far as associating with women goes, they'll always play games so better be on guard else you get used. There's no good woman anywhere just woman.
How you associate with them is what brings their different flavors.

3. You were pussy focused. She knows you're hungry for sex. She'll use that against you.
Right now , she's got the upper hand

4. Stop rationalizing simping. Fvck her and find out

5. You acted needy and beta. No woman wants a needy guy. Ever. You've messed this one up really bad. How you start with a woman is how you'll end it.
She already sees you one way. Trying to form the hard guy now will seem almost laughable. She won't take you seriously. It's better to cut your losses and get a new one

6 &7. She doesn't give a fvck if you call her. You failed to attract her. Her pussy isn't tingling for you because you acted needy.
You didn't make her work for your attention.
In her eyes, you're already conquered. She did nothing to deserve a relationship.


I don try for you.
Bye

Ubunja no dey lie. Sex first.

morikee:
Starlink

How did you get it? How much?

A woman should do the same. "He sent" I don know say na man.

CaveAdullam:
The average person lacks self-awareness, knowledge, and wisdom. Because building these virtues and values takes a long time.

A woman earning more than her man in the process of a relationship ought not to be a problem. But the average woman doesn't think beyond the first layer of her head. Hence, many become obnoxious and treat their husbands with disdain and disrespect.

Women want to be with men higher and better than them. Once a woman senses that she's better than you in one or two areas, resentment and disrespect start breeding in her heart.
Because she sees you as a leader, and expects you to operate from a higher dimension. You operating below her scares her evolutionary wiring - that you are a man who can't protect and provide for her kids in dire moments.

These challenges men face with women have led men into the field of innovations and different wonders. The burden of performance is always upon the man. The woman wants that assurance that she is with the right man.

Relationship isn't a competition. It ought to be two people working together to achieve a particular goal.

However, in sexual relationship, men must be ahead of their woman in all ramifications. It breeds respect, ensure the stability of the relationship, and gives the woman an assurance.

Men that have their women ahead must work hard to pass them and maintain first position. It isn't by pulling her down, treating her badly, subtle jealousy, subtle hate, and acting macho.

It is him going back to the strategy board to plan better ways and win his game. After all, it is his duty to lead his family, and by so must remain at the forefront.

It's easier to tell women to maintain submissions, modesty, and humility when they are on top and earning more than their husbands than for said women to deliberately act that same way.

Only advice for this women is to help stimulate their husbands in getting to the top. Not by anger, henpecking, nagging, subtle jabs, and negligence. But by love and humility.

It will not be easy. But it is possible. Because a woman wants to see her man at the top and it gives men joy to be at the top.

Thanks.

"Treat their husbands with disdain and disrespect"


No lies detected.

CaveAdullam:
There's a higher rate of rejection when you cold approach women on motion.

To minimize the rejection rate, approach women in stationery positions more.

Examples:

That girl buying groceries.
That girl waiting for a bus.
That girl sitting with her phone.

Friends were strangers once upon a time.

On motion, you can compliment, suggest and then, escalate.

Move.

Update🙂. Thank you.

Crucialgem:
Nairaland has successfully change my perspective about opposite sex with the constant bashing and critics of Nigerian girls and the notion of Alpha (red pill) males and simpleton (simps)

Backfoward before entering nairaland I used to dream of being so much in love with my dream woman and sacrificing all I could in my power for the sake of our love
But with all the thread of my girlfriend did this, my wife did this and that etc. my perspective has change big time

Do you guys think it a good thing so it can allow me make better decisions as regards relationship or it is bad thing that has mess me up mentally

Is it a bad thing?

Vinnie2000:
Well, Pple should know that Naija Ladies spec changes with time.

16-18 years- A Flashy Boy looking like Rema

18-25 years- A Yahoo boy with nice apartment.

25-28 years- A Rich man's son (like Davido).

28-33 years- A Married man with bad wife.

33-36 years- A Politician in the ruling party.

36-Menopause- Any available Young man with PREEK.

This is not a lie.

MTN dey muzz me.

CaveAdullam:
There is no way you can love your job while hating your boss. Except in organizations where supervisors or managers are being transferred after some time. But before that time, you'll temporarily dislike your job since your effects on your superior or boss are minimal.

The corporate place is where both employers and employees pretend to love themselves and their jobs. Every smile, gesture, and cool moment is a facade. They don't love themselves. However, they must tolerate each other to get the job done.

Employers want to boss around, call the shots, and make sure employees are subservient.

Employees don't want to feel controlled. They want to do their job their way which is distinct from the interruptions of their bosses.

The corporate place is similar to a jungle: the lion eats deer, and deer eat grass. If you're not smart or can't leverage, you'll either end up as the deer or grass. The lion - the employer - is the king of the jungle.

However, for any organization to survive, there must be unity and cooperation among every individual responsible for the operation of the company.

@bolded you nor dey lie. Like person wey don write her resignation letter, you go see her dey smile like say the company na family😯🙂. It's all lies🙂. Me too I wan learn how to do it. It's not just working for me. Maybe because I am new in the industry🙂. Help me with books on how to navigate the corporate world🙂.

Lalasticlala.

Omoboricash:
Thanks for the update. We thought Bukola Saraki is cooking something. You kmow Nigeria politicians way now.

Regardless, he is probably cooking.

It is.

APC is ekiti state.

Ubunja will like this.

Bad boys make their pvssy wet.

Lalasticlala

erai30:
If a woman truly loves you her money will be yours in the marriage, just make her happy and comfortable with you.

Dey play.

The op is a bad boy, a very bad boy🙂.