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Sandra8:
why men cheat is a complicated question that needs answering. It is important to note that men cheat for various reasons so a single answer cannot exhaust the question.

Men though cheat for various underlying factors, know this factors and PREVENT a potential cheater from cheating on you. I believe in prevention being better than cure.

P. S: Women should realize that men find us ALLURING in all our different shapes and sizes and colors too. It takes a strong willed man with self control to withstand the urge of his testosterone to cheat. So therefore all men are liable to cheat.

Women should realize that for most boys to transition to a Man they believe they must sleep with a woman. That reasoning alone pushes small boys barely up to 15 years to start wooing girls around, seeking love but in a guise to have sex (this is where he first learns how to cheat by lying about his true feelings) . And for a man to transition to THE MAN, he must be an expert in getting girls and sleeping with them. This drives a man to increase his body count to get bragging rights and sexual prowess than his peers (this is what drives most men to start cheating).

Another factor is the fact that men are very curious beings. They like to explore. Men wants to know what it feels like to be with a dark babe, a fair babe, a slim babe, a curvy babe, a busty babe etc. It's not fair I know but don't weep yet.

I'll take this two factors for now and show how we can exploit the loop holes in their reasoning.

Always try to ascertain a man's body count before you try to settle for him. It will save you headaches with cheating. There are two major ways to find out. Direct and indirect methods. You ask him directly his body count, guys will generally increase their body count by as much as 5 girls to make their resume look good (so try deleting at least 5 extra partners from the figure he gives you) or indirect method by ascertaining from his looks, wealth, social influence how many ladies he could have attracted and dated in the past. I prefer this method.
This information is very useful in knowing a cheat or potential cheat. If he has a large body count and he is below 25 years, girlfriend run he is just a f*ck boy and still a cheat. But if he has a large body count and is in his 30's chances are he WAS a cheat and a f*ck boy. But note he is still a potential cheat. Alpha males appeal to me as a lady, and all alpha males are potential cheats so caution has to be applied before settling with one.
A guy without any body count or a low body count usually have no game. But are still potential cheats, so never settle for them for body count reasons alone.

And knowing men are naturally curious, wanting to explore all the shapes and sizes women comes in, to keep him in check ensures you milk his resources (money and time). With extra or loads of money men can easily cheat on you.
With excess free time men can also cheat on you, so rob him of one or the two if possible and he will have two options. Stay with you or break up with you to go and cheat outside. A man who truly loves you will pick the former, he will stay with you. He doesn't mind investing his money in his woman because he sees you guys having and sharing a future together, he won't even mind spending loads of his time with you (time he would normally spend cheating on you).
So here is how to not get played by men.

Stay tuned for more.

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Funmmyastic
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Seun

Walahi any lady that takes this advice to heart don jonse! Try milking a guy that wants to settle down of his money in the guise of keeping him from cheating, wo he il see u as too expensive n not thinking about planning for the future. Hmmm Bobo go grow wings eh! Come fly away as far as possible from u.

Dreew:
Two bedroom cos...

1. Your mother in law, your mum or any family member will come around to assist in caring for your baby. You don't want them sleeping in the parlour, it's not right.

2. Your wife will give birth to your first child shortly after so you'll need the extra room.

3. Before you knew it, your infant will become a toddler. You don't want to be doing kerewa while your child is asleep. It's a NO-NO.

If you're on a low budget, then your option is mini flat. In that case:

- Try to get a thick mattress to be put in the sitting room. Your guest shouldn't be made to sleep on a sofa. Also get a mosquito net that fits the mattress. ( Guest's comfortability is of utmost importance)

Note: never ever ffuckkk in the same bed your child sleeps in. You can do it in the parlour or even in the kitchen

This ur advice strong o!

Tobinrobin:
I remembered when I was serving in ado Ekiti. There was this lady that was really into me & I knew it, Her name was Bisola & I also liked her because she’s was so beautiful. She will come around , cook watch some movies and we’d gist. There was this particular day she came around , cooked for us both after CDS, went to the bathroom , took her bath and came out wearing this extremely skimpy gown. Omo my D was ‘bout to expose me. I didn’t even try to stand up. She came to sit on the bed, went for her phone & boom I could see her bosoms standing firm & intact not those fallen oranges, she giggled & went to the TV stand, bent down in search for the remote and whew the D was fully erect. I could see the yellow legs and the main although slightly. I was EXTREMELY aroused & was almost tempted but I resisted the urge because I had a fiancée, I didn’t want to cheat. I saved myself by faking a call and asked her to let’s stroll to a friend’s place. We’re still very good friends though but I could still remember that day vividly

Choi! See temptation!!

Nigsrdumb:
Why do Nigerians call black Americans akata,when they themselves are worse.
After careful consideration, I am convinced there's a low iq issue in Nigeria.
All this nonesense talk about Nigerians being smart is silly.
I am beginning to have a deep seated hatred for that country and the people.
Nigerians deserve the politicians they get along with all the sufferings attached.
I have started claiming Benin as my country..shekena

Guy u fit go o! But me I no fit claim Benin o! I wan claim Canada, or Australia. Everybody need to find somewhere to claim o! Cus this govt helped to destroy Nigeria's image both home and away. Yes Nigerians commit crimes abroad but we all not like that. Other countries also have their bad elements but their president don't come out to tell the world that their citizens r criminals. If u r vigilant u il notice that the news of Nigerians caught for one crime or the other escalated after the our leaders came out saying Nigerians r criminals. Now the economy has gone to shambles and the only way Nigerians think to solve the problem is to bale o! Run comot for this country and guess what! The other countries know this so they r even making sure the Nigerians in their country r sent home so that more il not come o!

MiztaYouneek:
Let me first of all say that I am not trying to be tribalistic here or referring to all Nigerians in diaspora as the same. I know there are many good and humble fellows out there who know why they left Nigeria and are making positive impacts.

I lived in a country years back which was dominated by the yorubas and if you see how some of them behave you will really ponder how they keep succeeding in living in that country. No respect for their host citizens, always feeling they own the country especially some that have made money. I was in a Nigerian restaurant one day and one man who was older than me came and started speaking Yoruba for me just like that. Out of respect I told him I don't understand the language and then he asked me if I wasn't a Nigerian. I told him I was a Nigerian but obviously Nigeria is not an all Yoruba country. The had the guts to open that stinking mouth of his that I know is already caused to tell me that I should question God to ask why I wasn't born a Yoruba. I know for sure they must have deported him by now or he might be in prison or something because I don't see such kind of a person making any positive impact in his life.

That aside I also had other terrible experiences with these yoruba people but I can't share all here. The main point is that not all of them had bad characters but the majority of them that did have bad characters sometimes affect all Nigerians in general even those with good characters.

Years later I have moved to a very different country which is more of a French speaking country and it is dominated more by the igbos. Over here is worse than the other country dominated by yorubas. Many of these igbo guys have no atom of respect at all for their host citizens. They feel they are making money and always trying to oppress their host citizens. Sometimes if you see how they talk and insult the citizens in English without any consideration that some of these citizens understand English a little. What surprises me most times is when some of these people will be insulting the host citizens saying things like if it was in Nigeria they can't do such and how Nigeria is better than the country, but they left the same Nigeria they say is better to another country not like if the host country invited them. It is really sad because I believe only some few people who have really travelled will understand the little points am trying to make.

Just last night, I was with an igbo guy who runs a legit business and we were on our way home because we stay in same neighborhood. On the way we noticed a lot of police presence but we just kept moving. Immediately we got close to a junction we saw two police officers who stopped us and they were speaking French so I didn't understand what they said. The guy I was walking with understands and speak french very well so he was communicating with them. The only thing I noticed was that they were pointing somewhere for us to sit down just like on the ground. I peacefully went to sit down and this other guy refused to sit and kept talking to one of the police. I didn't know what was going on as there were other people around as well but all speaking French so I signaled the other police that was close to me and told him I don't understand French but I needed to know what the problem is. Luckily for me he could understand English and he asked me for my identification. I reached out to my wallet and showed him then he asked if I was a Nigerian and I said yes. He then told me I can go because all they wanted to see was my identification so he called the other police and told him I don't understand French but I had shown him my identification and they both asked me to go. That was when I realized that all those plenty talk my friend was talking was unnecessary because they only needed to see our identification. I then called him aside and told him to calm down and speak with them gently but to my surprise he brought out his phone and said he wants to call some of his other police friends. I believe that angered one of the police and the next thing I saw was that they started pushing him to go and sit down where they initially asked us to sit. He kept on resisting while speaking French with them and the next thing I saw was two truck load policemen. Seems they were all together doing the patrol around the area and the whole story changed immediately. The environment became intense and that's how they pushed this guy into the truck with other people that they had arrested as well.

As for me, when I saw the way everything got intense I had no choice but to leave the place and started running home. Like that old saying "na who run from war dey live to tell the story". And that is what I am doing. Up till now he has not been released and no one knows yet where he is.

The bottom line of this all is that, though I know he will be released, it was just a very simple matter that would have been avoided by just being humble and able to show some respect that would have solved the problem and prevented any form of arrest in that forceful manner.

I don't see what it takes for us as Nigerians, no matter the money we are making, to always be humble to our host and respect them irrespective of age or anything. We have to learn to stop that attitude of I am better than my host and Nigerians have more sense than they do.

Whenever you travel out to wherever, please learn to show more respect and always be humble no matter how rich you think you have become.

My brother 3 gbosa for u Jare. No mind them. They think it is Nigeria where u shout, "do u know who I m?" we should learn to inconspicuous in any country or place. If u ve to be conspicuous for ur business, learn to separate business n ur normal life.

silento:
While she was busy watching bbnaija 2019

She hardly had time for us to chat , just one or two calls in a week

Long story short there is this her friends that is always online I joking shoot my shot and boom she was interested in me , it was a bit hard for her to accept but after a month she gave in and we are now fully dating each other

She has been asking me to officially tell her friend that Am done with her , but am keeping it as a surprise for her when bbnaija end she will come back fully like last year

Then I will break the news to her as her own endorsement deal

Bad. Nigger! Kai! Make she go dey date big brother. Shikina!

Guys have u people noticed that few females made comments on this thread, hmmm!

Kisjay21:
Idomie and Beans

Eba and beans...
Melon soup and Rice

Ve eaten indomie and beans and it is a nice combo.

godofuck231:
jesuuuuu, we men have been betrayed ,

U r right o!

Na man weh get money get ego o! Slap a poor man with I million dollars, he il answer yes sir or ma immediately.

Not only south east has baby factor o! This one na Northern slave house.

magicminister:
Recession?

Our legislature got a budget of over 5 BILLION Naira for cars, few days ago, we saw Osun state governor spending over 200million Naira to purchase cars for judges.

An average senator makes over 150million Naira annually including all allowances and constituency funds which is never appropriately utilized.

Nigeria has no business with recession!!

If our resources were appropriately utilized for the people, this would be one of the richest country on earth because with more people in middle class, the faster the country economy can grow.

NO COUNTRY ON EARTH CAN REALLY PROPER MAJORITY OF THEIR CITIZENS ARE POOR.
You can tax us to death and do everything to generate money but if the people are not having sufficient disposable income, it’s a waste of time!!!

Abeg tell them o!

Duggedised12:
The family budget of any marriage should be based on the income of the husband ,what a woman brings to the table should be to support.That is why women are called "helpers".

Now we understand y u r still single.

Duggedised12:
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs!

Y u dey vex like this? We know u not bn married might not be ur fault. Maybe u ve not seen the guy ment for u or r u in the feminists category that say they can do without a man in their life? If so na u cause am o! But all the same God created man and woman, he had a reason for that.

CHoccolaTE:
I am very glad more women are realizing marriage is a giant scam to females.

Men gain over 70% of marriage benefits but they will keep pretending and lying to themselves that marriage benefits women more.

Dey there, women at the end of the day benefit from this marriage of a thing sef. Guys we no go marry again o! So women will not feel cheated o! At the end of the day make we see who go loose. Me I go dey sample as many as possible, at least no marriage to hook man down.

Ugosample:
it's not all women o


A woman who.was being too picky while in her youth while looking flr is most likely to be in the category you painted above

But a woman who knows marriage is not for her from day 1 will not feel so awkward when she is older
there are so many fulfilling things one can do.
it does not have to be all marriage

The type that becomes a single mother! She and her child alone. She is fulfilled like that and do not want any man near her but on second thought it a man that impregnated her o! And if the irony wants to get serious she will give birth to a male child

wristbangle:
Much sense in this statement. Not that I am saying we should totally adopt the western culture in terms of method to approach a lady and vice Versa but pick the positive side of it as being quite a shy, timid and emotional guy score a good point in ladies point of view.

Our ladies here love ruthless man hence the reason why the ones with human feelings had lost focus and have become more ruthless/wicked. Sometimes I blame the ladies. You can't eat your cake and have it. It is either you go for a ruthless or a soft minded man.

And the ruthless guy go chop n pick race!

JB4life:
Average Nigerians are more interested in lower costs of food items than in policies which makes life more difficult for them.
Already the prices of various staple foods have risen in spite of the fact that main harvest of some of them started since July,

These ones don't feel the hardship, that is y they r hailing him. If u put them in the shoes of the common man they il curse him

Govt don bribe this one to come and lie like they always do when Nigerians complain of the hardship they ve caused. The govt of the day know they ve failed Nigerians. Truly Nigerians don enter one chance for a second time.

Is this not a crime? Nobody is shouting about her tribe from the roof top o! But if it were igbo now everyone il see n say na them always. Tribalism is the malaria that il kill Nigeria one day if we r not careful.

salford1:
When they start stoning and chasing them out, they will scream xenophobia/racism.

We all know drugs peddling is the major reason for the attacks in SA.

And sorry, but which state had the highest number of returnees from South Africa? Is it Ogun state? Please check that outv

Ladiesdoctor:
Im here to check the name.

Kedu maka business?

You for talk am say, 34- year - old Igbo man arrested in the land of Amitah Bachan for selling cocaine.

Nonsense, keep giving naija bad name


I hate nonsense

And when it is another tribe that commits a crime it should be mentioned so that everyone il know the tribe that committed the crime. So that no tribe will keep disgracing Nigeria.

Offpoint:
Yeah, I'm that kinda person.

Rarely get angry, but once I do I hate myself.

Once threw a married woman down a 2 storey building and beat up the husband.

What really happened?

lived in a 3 storey building then, this Monday morning I was late to work. Went to the only tap in the compound to get a bucket of water to take my bath, this woman who countless had stepped on my toe but I've always avoid her troubles cuz she's well known for that, trouble is her full time job and her husband the pay master.
She was the one I met fetching water, with a big rubber she stationed at the tap and was refilling other kegs. She takes up and returned to refilled while the big rubber is still on the tap.
Was running late, I begged her to let me fetch the little Bucket with me cuz I was running late to work....

her replied was: "No just disturb me, people dey fetch water here since morning na now you no sey you go fetch water? I must fetch my water finish before you fetch"

I was like: "madam nobi fight, if you no wan let me just say No, which one you dey talk story.... na public tap be this"

She's was like: "Ehn ehn? public tap bah? come fetch ma see, if I no fetch finish you no fetch..... Do your worst"

I keep shut without saying anything, when she left I removed her rubber and fetch my water.

Could you believe this woman came up and poured my water and threw my bucket down?

I was so angry and pissed, I came with full blown annoyance towards her, lift her and fammm... straight down, the same way you threw my rubber.

Hospital was her last bus stop, her husband heard the news and ran home without asking what transpired between us... he came to beat me straight....
I gave him serious knock out on his eyes and rush him with unlimited blow like Glo data....


na station we end am, she spend 2 weeks in hospital.
Las Las I pay bills, but was satisfied.

The news was shocking to everyone:
hey this boy wey no dey talk? quiet people too wicked and bla bla...

many congratulated me secretly.

Guy u dey vex o! But if u do that thing them no go respect themselves. Thumps up Joor!

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
carry your grantrtopic thread away from romance section to the dustbin section women are suppose to be chase by men.. is it chicken you want to chase? or are you gay?

The guy is right how il a man keep chasing a woman and she il even end up not being his or he might end up regretting that he had a relationship with the lady cus she il always rub in his face that he was the one chasing her. Now some women il tell u that when a woman says no, it means no. So you should a man kill himself going through the trouble of chasing her? A woman knows what she wants, if she wants to ve a relationship with him then she knows what to say or do.

post=82502868:
The problem is not about Taxes or Charges.
It is about using these fees and taxes to benefit and change the lives of the citizens of a country.

We don't believe there is any nation that wants development for herself that don't receive any of these levies, most of them are even much more.

BUT in our dear country since 1999, the politicians fed fat on it and turn the national treasury to their bank account.
What the nation should be after is to make sure they see what the monies are being used for.
Thank God for the TSA account we have now.

Slow and steady we will get to a New and better Nigeria.
God bless Nigeria.

Thank you Mod, for bringing this to the FP.

Do u know that till today we don't know how much he spent in London for hospital bills

Only those from the west u know

Badboibipo:
Theres this teenage girl I had to warn verbally to stop staring at me because it was weird and she kept trying to get my attention everytime till I couldn't take it anymore. Imagine, someone that's still in secondary school..so the parents will come lock me up in prison abi? Tufia

U do well o! Na trap many guys ve fallen into.

san316:
GEJ should have been a priest and not waste our national years with his poor political leadership

So this govt is good political leadership?

SmellingAnus:
I guess you have a point so between Goodluck and Buhari who do you think is the better leader especially with regards to the same office (Presidency) both of them held...

Please help me ask them o!

helinues:
Oh from CAN beer

The face of a killer herdsman.

sapeleboi:
wor wor thing

Guy u dey vex o