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This is a true life story... (A Relatives)

But I will try and shorten it.

Mr ken (not real name) has always been on the road 80% of his life.

First, as a Truck conductor (15years to 22 years ) then later as a Truck driver.

Mr Ken got married at age 28 and eventually have 5 children (3 boys 2 girls)

Because of the nature of his job, Mr ken, is almost never around. Spend 90% of his adult life on the road working to provide for his family....

Unfailingly, Mr ken sends 75% of his weekly income to his lovely wife for house keep and other expenses like, school fees, house rents and so on. Because he trust his wife to handle things accordingly.

Unknown to Mr Ken, his sweet loving wife, was busy poisoning and manipulating the mind of his children against him by giving them the impression that their father is a useless and irresponsible man who spend all his money on prostitutes and concubines.

She also made them believe she is the ONE taking care of 99% of the family financial responsibilities... Unfortunately, her victimization crocodile tears is all the prove the children needed to believe her.

The children grow up resenting, disrespecting and in most cases out rightly hatting their father.

On the other hand, the kind of love and praises being showered on their mother was unprecedented, unmatched,unspeakable and unimaginable

Few years later, Mr Ken died a heart broken, lonely, defeated and confused man who took his last breath wondering what he did wrong to his children to make them resent him soooo much even on his dying bed.

(he was 59 years old)

Few months after his death, one of his sons came across an old file and notes of their late father.
Where he kept detailed Records, bank tellers, receipts of all the money and items he sents to his wife for the family upkeep up to 5 months before his death...

When the children confronted their mother about the records, instead of giving them a tangible explanations, she resulted to her usual victimization and crocodile tears. Telling anyone that care to listen that her children have been bewitched by her enemies.

Till this very day the children (most especially the men ) are living in regrets for what the did to their father in his lifetime and even in death

Those of you thinking your mother is different, I honestly pity you. If only you know what she is capable of doing.

There's a 99.9% possibilities/probabilities that your mother is showing you "this unconditional love" because she believes/hoping you will reciprocate the gesture when you grow up and start earning some money.

The TRUE reason mother's hate their daughter in-laws or their sons girlfriends is because they know that those women are about to do to you what they did to your father.

Make I stop here because,

Nairaland Alpha Males are honestly not ready for this discussion.

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Calebility:
Chairman why not ask her to suggest her own way of supporting the family first.
That will help you to tell the kind of person you're dealing with.

Your money is her money, her money is hers and hers alone.

See them. Weaklings everywhere.

His money is her money. But her money is her money. People like you are the reason why Nigerian girls are sooo entitled and irresponsible.

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sajmark:
Redpill isn't unplugging from women's manipulations alone, a true redpiller must strive to unplug himself from the matrix of society and religion.
#The Religion Matrix is easier to break free from, I am a Christian and I believe in God but I'm not going to put my hard earned money in a church's fundraising like many religion simps do, that's why we see pastors living large while their members wallow in poverty.
Falz tried to unplug people from the religion matrix with his moral instructions album few years ago.
#The Society Matrix on the other hand is the hardest to break free from, that is why a lot of redpillers wanted you to compensate the lady in your office and others attacked CAPSLOCK.
When a woman grabs a man's ass, society wants the man to smile and walk away like a real man. Few weeks ago a video was posted here of a woman who slapped a man in a radio show, that man is not only the woman's simp but also society's simp because he did exactly what society want's him to do, which was to act like a real man and stand down... Not realising that she was recorded slapping him first and if he had returned the gesture it would have been justified.
Women do not play by the society's rules, they know that HONOUR is a trait implanted in our genes which makes Men naturally born to simp for society and they are ever ready to use this to their advantage.
HONOUR is man's downfall in the society matrix.
I wish I can go deeper into this because a lot of us here are still firmly plugged into the Society Matrix, inputs from knowledgeable brothers are welcome.
CAPSLOCK, I'll advise that as you are breaking free from this society matrix, please make sure you record or have proof before retaliating.
Happy New week Gents.

Lots of men have become weaklings. Women know this and they're taking full advantage of it to detect to men how to live their lives, how to reason and even how to behave.

The new generation of men are mostly overgrown babies with no sense of direction. They lack the mental and emotional maturity of men of old.

Society/women noticing this malfunction, covertly Injected their ideas on how Real Men should behave and reason in the subconsciousness of this Men. The end result ? Simple men doing everything possible to validate women even if it means losing their frame and authority in the process.

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Dizzyyish:
@Emotionss how far the lunch? Your work women worry you?

Sorry guys I am extremely busy but will update you guys soon.

Launch was magnificent.

Some of the female staffs have started exempting themselves from the accountant.

I go gist unna later tonight.

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CaveAdullam:
1. That emotional rush a woman feels when coming to you without you doing little to nothing is very exciting. This was the case of the last woman I was with. When we finally got in contact properly, I pretended I wasn't able to see her number when she wrote it down on a paper and she had to write it again and paint it bold with her name attached to it for me to be able to see it. We had fun, and I swear we didn't chit chat on mobile neither did we made phone calls...she was the one coming. Why? I was CHOSEN!

2. Yes, at the first time, even after greenlight she was forming 'shakara'. However, I just expressed my sexual self to the fullest and allowed her do her thing.
Common ground like you have said is the way I used in approaching women be it inside a bus, around my vicinity etc. That common ground makes rapport easy as she has already taken time to examine you unlike cold approaching her from behind.

3. Even if a man is low, but once he's able to express himself with confidence, always neat and with great personality, women will always be attracted to him no matter what. He's just like a flower by the wayside who does nothing but attracts insects who at the end still helps in pollinating it.

4. Anyway a man should do what best suits him, if he choose to be a wild cat e.g like a lion that finds thrills in chasing and getting hold of his prey fine. What matters is how he manages his TEAR(Time, Energy, Attention, Resources). He must not neglect these alongside his ambition, passion and motto because he wants a motley of vaginas.

5. Personally, I think abundant mindset is knowing that you won't miss out on women, because definitely, there are more and more women in the future. Rather, the little time you have, use it on yourself and let women be the one wasting their time on you.

And as you must know, women are attached to men that supply them their emotional fantasies. Once you are that man, forget it, they will come.

Regardlessly, whichever method of game you choose as each one has it own pros and cons, serves you better and makes you win.

Thanks.

Perfectly put.

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Junnior:
Are you in Nigeria? I doubt

Yes I dey Nigeria.

Port Harcourt and calabar.

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sajmark:
The CHOSEN technique is playing it safe and unless you're a celebrity or a very high value/earning man, you get chosen way less often.
Approaching women is a great confidence booster for men and I always encourage it, Always approach women you like and at the same time look out for green lights from women that choose you... That's how I play my game.
While approaching women be less concerned about the outcome and more about getting better.
When I say getting better it's not necessarily or primarily at picking up women but by being more confident, a better communicator, a more fluent speaker etc which in the end are for your betterment.
Also vet the so called women that choose you because not all of them choose you for you, Gold diggers know how to send you the green lights especially if you have something they need/want.

The chosen techniques is not meant for everyone. For you to successfully use this technique, you most be above average in all that concerns you.

Your mental,emotional,physical,fainancal maturity must be above and beyond Average..

Let me give you an example.

I once attended a wedding I left the reception venue with 6 phone numbers (5 from females and one from a guy I suspect to be gay) I didn't not approach any of them they simply recognize and appreciate the Aura I was oozing out. I can't go a week without being approach by at least a single woman. (In some rear cases a man)


Some men are meant to approach women. Others a meant to be Approach By women.

Anyways I am still insisting that Sex is overrated !!!

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Smartb0y:
Yeah, I mostly just admire the ones I encounter really.
Unless we got something in common eg we find ourselves in a common ground, I don't engage.
That's just my kinda person bro.
I can't be an extrovert in 5 secs just because I find a pussy attractive
But I get what you mean

This Excatly what I am saying.

I cannot come and go and be approaching a woman randomly simply because she's beautiful and I might not see her again.

I prefer I meet her on common grounds e.g. church,banks,clubs,weddings and so on. So that I can patiently play my psychological warfare on her in peace.

@sulmeza


I understand your point perfectly.

Even if my Bose was to be a Bluepill entity and I stand the risk of being suspended or even lose my job, I stand by my actions and will continue doing it once in a while.

Me and the female species have been on each others throat as far back as I can remember. And guess what ?
Some of those women end up on my bed begging to be choked.

If not that I don't mix business with pleasure and I don't Do married women, I would have slept with most of the female staffs including the accountant.

If I decide to compromise my standards, guy I promise you before this week runs out that accountant will give me extreme bj with the possibility of sex.

Honestly, I think their inability to seduce or manipulate me is the main reason why they're "angry" with me. My doing Father's Day give away and discussing Redpill only gave them the avenue to "Expresse their grievances towards me. It backfired on them

Don't just See women,study them, understand them, understand them again, elevate yourself higher than them and watch how they embarrass themselves trying to please and fight you at the same time.

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SATANlST:
armed robber

No sir I understand your point perfectly.

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emmaodet:
You won’t blame the average man for not looking out for themselves.
The problem is the Bills. When most men get money, they clear a lot of bills and even when left with extra, there is this Caution we adopt to hold the money at hand incase of any unforeseen circumstances that will push us to the corner.
Bro, when a man is in a tight corner, it is very very very hard to get help from his friends.
Most people will be telling you stories about how they don’t have money too.
The reason why most ladies spend recklessly, have courage to spend on themselves without looking back is because they know a mama will always be there to rescue them in a worst case scenario situation. They know it.
A mama is just like a job security for women.
The women that are very logical are the ones in their 40’s with virtually low attention, fat ones or ugly ones are always more cautious in spending.

I understand your point.

But how come we don't consider tight Conners and economical situation when we spend on our girlfriends and wife's ?

It is only when we're to spend on ourselves that we start calculating and lamenting about the situation of things.

A man can easily sponsore a woman to school, open business for his woman, sponsore her trip abroad but find it extremely hard to use that same money to upgrade himself...

Imagine sponsoring a woman to school but find it difficult to spend one tenth (1/10) of same money upgrading yourself.

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heartofcity12:
Good take!
Funny enough women do approach these days, you don’t even have to be famous before they approach you or show green light, it’s why the redpill encourages men to use their time and resources to look after themselves by dressing well, eating good food, focus on the grind (job/career/business) and hitting the gym, good look goes far as well(focus on yourself). I personally have been approached and even wooed by many girls even since before I discovered the redpill, the redpill amplifies that tho.. I hope guys can also put in the work and put more energy in taking care of their looks and bodies, and see the magic behind this, girls sometimes approach guys they fancy and I’m talking from experience, and it’s not by age, it could come from a teenager or a full grown woman, the shy one could send her friend to tell you but green light is more common than being cold approached by a woman. Although in most cases, we don’t often fancy the ones that want us and the ones we want don’t often fancy us, this is part of the reasons why a man has to keep grinding to attract those he wants. As a redpiller, If you don’t get approached by ladies, at least pay attention to the green lights.

We Men need to start taking care of ourselves by ourselves and for ourselves.

I still don't understand how a man can easily spend on his girlfriend/wife but find it hard to reciprocate such gestures on himself...

Dear men. We are not meant to only survive life. We're also meant to live and enjoy life.

I personally don't believe in chasing women.

Because women know who they want and will do anything possible to get your attention if they fancy you..

I find it somewhat pathetic when I see Men Simping just to get the attention of a woman.

One tactics that I have successfully used over the years to get beautiful and independent women, is the silent and mysterious tactics. My success rate so far is 80/100

99% of the time, I let my physics and Aura do most of the talking for me. Things like Eye contact, little smile here and there, body posture and movement will get you more women than physically approaching them.

Being quite and mysterious gives you more opportunities to notice and take advantage of the little details of other people, which in turn, gives you advantage over them...



Please understand the difference between being mysterious and being creepy.

Don't go and be doing creepy things all in the name of being mysterious.

A high value Man is different from a high earning Man.

Know this. Understand this and adjust yourself accordingly.

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Smartb0y:
Why did you quote that vaginarian
I read only the first line of the bs they spewed and skipped.
Leave the delusional ones to their fantasy, they're not worth your attention my brother.

I thought "IT" was a fellow Man.

My bad.

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Shuggaa:
I just sent you a p.m bro,lets talk,am from old netim tho... thanks

Ok bro

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sulmeza:
Well, I believe you made a reckless move. Not smart at all. Picture a scenario where your boss happens to be one of the so-called blue-pilled men; what do you think would've happened?

You need to understand the social dynamics of the work environment, adjust and behave accordingly. Use your head - don't go and be forming Chief Redpiller up and down in your workplace. Trust me, it'd do you more harm than good.

And for what it's worth, have it at the back of your mind that you are not getting out of this unscathed, cus those ladies ain't gonna give in, unless something gives.

So, I'd advise you find a way to pacify the "aggrieved" and allow peace to reign. Remember, the corporate world is highly gynocentric, and women, somehow, always have their way. I would expect that your MD knows better.

What in God's name are you talking about ?

What kind of pussyfyed mentality is this ?

Pacify who ? on top my money ?

I Dare the aggrieved entities to do their worse.

As long as I did not sexually Assault or insult them, I dare them to do their worse.

It it weaklings like you and your pussywhipped mentality that are making this entitled entities feel empowered and untouchable...

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Shuggaa:
Lol,badt guy,I deal on granite bro,from akamkpa directly
,Let do business thanks

Send me a mail but I am not promising anything because we currently own quarry companies in old Netim and Awi.

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Shuggaa:
Lol,badt guy,I deal on granite bro,from akamkpa directly
,Let do business thanks

We have our own quarry at Old Netim and Awi. But thanks anyway.

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Dizzyyish:
@Emotionss you said they were angry about being excluded from Father's Day giveaway? Asin you were giving company's money or your own money? Was that the major reason the accountant reported you?

It was my personal money.

The points that was raised was that I tried to recruit the male staffs into a women hating cult group called Redpill movement by doing a Male only give away .

They used the fact that I excluded female staffs in my "Fathers Day" give way as a point of reference.

My Boss being an old school Redpiller didn't give them the audience they expected.

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manny99:
I don't really know what to say but I think you have done so much. This are the kind of guys that we want on this platform but the one's chasing women all over the city claiming Redpill. This singular act really touched my heart. Continue in this great work in your corner, I will also continue doing my in my own corner. In that way, this ideology will move forward

I and some of my guys are planning something for the widowers and elderly Men in our respective villages this December.

Widowers and elderly men are humans too and deserve the same (if not more) support and compassion from society as the widows.

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DieRich5:
I still don't believe dis shit, Asin alot of married men don't have sex with da house wife

The first day she said no sex, meh I'll be out of the house 2 weeks she no go see me....as a married man young girls will be hitting on me ND I'll be giving Dem the most powerful thing I gat

Na if man no get options na wife will be misbehaving ND na Dem go first go church Dy pray against another woman giving dere husband wat she would be giving him

Majority of FAITHFUL married men are sex starved. The most anoyin and unfortunate thing is they will never tell a single guy what they're passing through as married men. Instead, they will try their possible best to convince you to marry as soon as possible.

So I recently handled a contract (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN.
The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at the Site who are not happy with me for excluding them in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

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leetylee:
Women have secrets that will just cast them the moment they spill...
I watched a video about game of truth where this woman was put on a hot seat and asked questions bout her marriage life and involvement with other guys outside marriage, likeee you just need to see how the woman was just spitting shit the husband doesn't know that was happening behind his back, thinking his wife won't do none of what can never happen to him in marriage.

Funny enough the husband was present at the show obviously showing how shocked and disappointed he is, the woman was asked if she loved her husband and does she deserve a better man? She said yes and said no for the other question. It might interest you to know that the money involved for this game was $200,000 and higher ( If the questions keep going) so she settled for the 200,000 since she can't afford to risk what she has swept under the rug to the acknowledgement of her husband. In her words "the money is enough for me and my daughters" I don't want to sound too heavy on the woman choice of word.

According to her she has been a good wife, her husband is trying his possible best to keep the family inorder (financially and emotionally) but she, as nature could have it find herself having extra activities outside marriage. Trp is a dynamic manual that teaches/ you about this 'nature' and how you can respond to it, a pill once taken serve as an antibody to foreign entities which works with the system in sync to fight against it.

No matter how innocent, humble, caring and decent she is mind you there is traces of hypergamy in them no matter how small. There's always the half truth and total lies in their stories, listen beyond the composition there's always a catch to it (I'll share a short revelation later) believe them at your own peril. Though they can be honest with trivia things but not with things that has to do with their personal lives. In this journey, we should be disciplined and swallow the truth the way it is... It's the only way to redemption.

I remembered that show...

Thousands of women and Simps wrote a petition for it to be cancelled. Unfortunately, they succeeded.

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ObinnaValentine:
I will forever remember this discourse.. Infact I dey copy and paste on my notepad

Baba rendered me speechless.

I am spending the weekend at his place. The kind things baba done tell me about Men (Redpill),spiritualism and feminism is really frightening. Indeed the fall of man is deeper than we think.

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Michelle55:
Haha! Guess the truth is bitter and you couldn't swallow it. Sorry hon, you aren't worth being pained or envious about.

You insisted you were done with men yet you couldn't stop floating like an evil witch all over the post that has to do with them, no be juju be that?

How are we sure that it's not an imaginary suitor you are killing yourself over, madam I'M DONE WITH MEN

Trust me, you ain't worth nada.. Feeling sorry for the young man who has got himself entangled with a sanctimonious being like you, nothing revolves around you. Take a look around and you will discover that the world still moves hon

May my brothers never come in contact with a selfish hag like you. Amen!

The op is hiding something.

I find it extremely suspicious that a woman whose menopause is just few months away is insisting that her man most perform vasectomy in other to prove his love for her.

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Mercychen:
I don't get it! Someone is not sure why her partner doesn't want a vasectomy and seeks to know by throwing it open and instead of helping out with the puzzle, everyone is just casting aspersions here and there. That's no way to help one out of their dilemma.

I already stated the reasons why I don't want it done on me and before I came up with that decision, I already did my findings on the side effects it has on women Which is usually higher than the mens'.

Madam if you truly want to know why he doesn't want to do vasectomy, then why are you ignoring his calls ?

Why didn't you give him the chance to explain himself ?

Why are you insisting on this vasectomy of a thing ?

Since you're very close to your menopause. Why not just have the one child and let menopause do the rest.

Why are you desperately trying to render the guy useless ?

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Martinez39s:
He must be feeling himself.

He is a " REAL MAN"

So I was discussing Feminism and Redpill with my aged uncle (Mentor) after patiently listening to me for a while, my uncle made a statement that actually rendard me speechless.

He said and I quote.
Feminism is a result of the fallout between man and his God.

I asked for explanation.

Baba Replied.
Men where originally created to Obey And Submit to the Wills of the Almighty. While women where meant to submit to the wills of Man.
But with time, Men started drafting away, undermining, degrading and even questioning the Authority and Existence of God.

While men where busy dragging Power and Authority with God, women where also busy leaning from men how to be disobedient and ungrateful. A knowledge they are now using against men.

I brought up the Adam and Eve Apple issue, and how it was Eve that first disobeyed God and not Adam.

Baba now asked me why is it that God only took action when Adam collected and ate the Apple instead of when Eve ate the Apple alone ?

Because Eve and her Actions Where inconsequential. She was not the person God gave Authority. She lacks FRAME. God expected Adam to Deal with Eve disobedience Authoritatively and decisively but instead, Adam compromised his Authority and Frame over Eve. The result is what we have today.

Check out history. Anytime a man or group of men compromised their Authority, something unfortunate always happens.

Take a look at our society today the Morden man has so compromised His Authority and Frame all in the name of being Civilised and enlighten that He has lost and continue losing His position and Authority as the head of family and society. While women knowing the importance of Authority and Frame are working collectively to achieve even if it means losing their Femininity....


After his lecturing, he looked at me and said. Son, you and your Redpill gangs will never be like men of old. That privilege is lost and almost forgotten. But you are on the right path.....