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Obviously Your house is scattered PDP. You all need a total overhauling

I don't support violent men though I'm sure this woman must have disrespected him so much

But then, she might be looking for an opportunity to dumb 2shots because he is broke or near broke

ShakurM:
You voted for Buhari abi

Yes I voted for him and I don't regret it.

I don't expect a country that has experienced 16years rottenness to be fixed under 6 months

Mynd44:
And you guys believe that Boko haram will capture/kill 150 soldiers and not release a video to brag about it?

Let me just sip my tea in peace biko

Ask them

LOL

Just decamp them

Izadibabe:
I don't care what you say...I believe Sugabelly and this is what I said on her blog to encourage her below because I know all those sadistic men that rape women violently will always support their kindred.

"You are such a brave person to speak up!
You have taken the first step towards your recovery and healing.
Please don’t pay any attention to the ignorant fools that are pretending they don’t know what many sick boys and men do to vulnerable young women in many big towns all over Nigeria.
In Port Harcourt where I grew up gang-raping girls was very rampant and was called ‘Alato’.
Luckily my sisters and I had an overly protective and psycho brother that watched over us like a hawk and we never fell victims to this madness.
God will ensure those animals that molested you die wretchedly and visit the same vile sodomization on their mothers, sisters, daughters and even their grandmothers if those ones are still alive. May they themselves be raped through the anus with a rusty jagged metal pole.
It is well with you for you are a survivor and never a victim. I STAND with #Sugabelly. You are much loved and truly blessed, don’t ever forget that!"

Who cares about what you said to her?? You and your gold digging cohorts have been spotted and caught trying to blackmail a dude

You can continue fuckinn and calling it rape for all we care

Who would have taught TonyeBarcanista will finally make sense??

Kudos my manny

ALVA001:
my man according to d nig constitution u can have sex wt a 17 yr old gal, because age of marriage is different from age of consent, nig age of consent is 12 as recently adjusted, b4 dia was no specified age.

Tell them brother!

Ignorant peeps everywhere, it's really scary

Kennydoc:
Having read some of the emails between the two, I feel very disappointed with the girl. I've basically lost all the sympathy I had for her

First, at just 17 years, she was already enjoying sex with a guy she met barely a month previously, despite the fact that she didn't know him well. She was even sucking the guy's d*ck in the name of bj, and she evidently relished the experience. I was ashamed reading that.

Secondly, this girl was ready to get married to a Muslim and dump her Christianity, just because the guy was from an influential home. Even if she was in love, her Christian foundation was very poor, to the point that a relationship mattered more to her than her faith.

Thirdly, she was still in love with him even after moving over to the US, up to one year after their separation, as evidenced by the emails they exchanged. I think she even sent her nude pics while she was in the US.

Like somebody said, she might have been raped but it wasn't the rape that crushed her. She obviously still loved the guy after the rape incidents, if indeed she was actually raped. What I think crushed her was the fact that the guy dumped her, started dating and married another girl. I'm sure it was at the point of jilting her that all these bitterness about him started.

I'm still disappointed with the girl. I assumed her to be a decent girl who was abused continually against her will only to discover that she was enjoying the sexcapades she had with him, and still loved him up to one year after she moved over to the US.

Spot on!

dinachi:
Sugarbelly evil partner keep ranting and sounding more and more hollow. Your parents should have sold you to buy suya.

Ignore them..they could probably be one of them greedy hoees hanging around rich guys for what they can milk

Kennydoc:
You simply know nothing about the law. Even a consensual sexual intercourse by an adult with a 17 year old (who is obviously a minor), is regarded as a rape in the eyes of the law.
Once the Mustapha guy establishes that he had any sexual relationship with the said girl when she was still 17 years old, then he has indicted himself and will go down. It doesn't matter whether she sent him any nude pics or not. Infact, even if she was the one that seduced him, he will still be charged for rape.

As for the nude pics, don't forget that she already mentioned that the Mustapha guy took nude pictures of her, against her will. It was the same pictures he threatened to use against her, which made her live in fear all those years, and refused to report the rape incidents.

I know the girl wouldn't be completely innocent, as some of the reports from the Mustapha guy would indict her, but as long as she was 17 years old then, Mustapha is a goner.

Why do you keep laying emphasis on '17'?? Do you know it's now legal to have sex with a 13 years old in Nigeria??

Be educated then quote me

geni340:
thanks,, i see u too.

Jesus is fuckinng amazingly holy!!

Oh! I'm just speechless...and to think it's another guy that is enjoying this

Aude:
You are the stupid, dumb and narrow-minded fool who should leave the hovel you live in and read about what is happening around you. Have you heard of abuse and how the perpetrators manipulate their victims? Why do you have cases regarding rapes that happened years ago? Talk to any reputable psychologist and they will tell you about the effects of abuse on the victims. It is people like you who help in promoting abuse. Most abused victims don't come forward because they know that nincompoops like you will judge them and make them feel like guilty. Why do married women who are adults go back to their abusive husbands? If they do that what more do you expect a 17 year old girl to do? And by the way no self-respecting 25 year old will date a 17 year old because they know that there is a difference in maturity level. Why do you think those rapist brothers decided to abuse a 17 year old, because they knew that she was just a kid. He started off by being nice to her and taking her under his wings. Typical manner of an abuser. Of course their colleagues thought he was just being nice to her, not knowing that he was a predator. There is a lot happening out there and with the internet you can find out so much stuff. No need to limit yourself. Broaden your horizons and you would learn to reason like someone who has more than average intelligence.

Dummy just skipping the point and blabbing about married woman this married woman that

Was she aware she was gonna have rough sex? Yes. Did she WILLINGLY return for more? Yes! Was she greedy? Hell yes!

I bet you if those guys were some average broke guys with no power she wouldn't have communicated with them anymore talk more of coming to them after the first 'rape'

To educate your ignorant self, Nigerian constitution now legalised sex with a 13 year old. So whether the dudes were 58 so far she was above 13 then she's ok to have sex

Maybe you're one of those greedy oloshos that can take any shiit because you're gaining financially

HizMissy:
I am entitled to my narrow-minded comments thank you very much!

Keep asking yourself what u are doing on NL, d ansa will come soon.

Thank you jare

Aude:
You are an idiot. Can you not see she was just 17? Why do you think there's a law in place in civilized societies that considers 17-year olds to be minors? Some of you people really need to get out of your gutters and read about what's happening around you. Do you know how abusers manipulate their victims? There have been cases like this in the UK and fortunately for the victims their abusers were finally imprisoned. Why do married women who are adults go back to abusive relationships?

Sheesh sometimes when I read the comments made by some of you on Nairaland I ask myself what I am doing on a forum that seems to have primitive and backwards people posting narrow-minded opinions.

You are the dumb one here sister (I'm sorry for the derogatory term)

How on this goddamn earth will a human being go back to 'fire', you see a moving bullet and run in front of it, not once not twice. Listen, even if I'm 12 I know when I'm hurt and so far I'm not threatened I won't intentionally put myself in a position to get hurt

Heck this girl was asked for a three'some and she complied, no one pointed a gun at her. She just wanted the adventure #bottomline

shaggyosas:
I believe U, cos now things are getting worse just like Obj's time.

Things can't get better if they don't get worse

Things happening now are sacrifices for a better Nigeria, you don't expect heaven immediately after a sharp change of government. It's just 6months and not 6 years like Jonathan

I rather have this kinda government i'll suffer for one year and live in the best condition for 7 years than have a government where i'll be a begger and a victim for 6yrs

luvinhubby:
Likewise Abdusalami Abubakar, Ernest Shonekan, Emeka Anyaoku, GEJ and Gowon.

So what's your evidence PMB doesn't regard OBJ?

luvinhubby:
And all Obasanjo's candidates, Soludo, Odimegwu and others were rejected by Buhari as ministers.

where is your proof that obasanjo projected soludo and odimegwu to PMB??

Last I checked Obasanjo is always being invited to Aso rock by PMB to seek for advices

masterpower:
Obasanjo does not have the quality of a leader.
He is too petty and always unreasonable.
Anyway his attitute is typical of yorubas.

Finally we've seen the saint (Buhari) that obasanjo brought inn.

Comparing buhari's government to that of GEJ is like comparing darkness to light.

Those who were shouting sai baba, where are you. He promised $1 =N1 but dollar is now N240.
He promised us fuel at N20 per liter but its now sold at N500 per liter that is even if you see it to buy under buhari and apc government.

Nigerians have been scammed big time.

Those are the sacrifices that come in the process of having a better life.

You don't expect a change of govt without harsh living conditions in the first few months. It's just 6 months and in the next 2years even dumbos like you will acknowledge Buhari is our messiah

MizMyColi:
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I still keep wondering, WHY ON EARTH CAN'T YOU MAKE A CASE OR CRITICISE WITHOUT BEGGING FOR HELP FROM YOUR COHORTS?? Are you that weak to defend yourself that you always need backing?

Learn to do it yourself please

pretydiva:
When d chips r down,u wanna quit bah..buh when it was all rosy u didn't think of calling it quit..smh 4 sm gals shall..money isn't everything in a relationship n besides no condition is permanent

You echoed my thought. It's a pity one can no longer find a lady willing to go through the hard times with him

How about you take a loan from anyone and go to camp, pay back after you must have left camp and started working.

Remember he quit his job because of you??

When will Nigerian girls begin to exhibit patience as a virtue and stop running after ready made claiming they are in dire need of being taken care of

carry on

brownice1:
akwa ibom stream 2 as well. .pls which day is the best to arrive there..a day before or on the exact day of camp opening plus any gist at all about the camp life. ..

Be there on the first day of resumption so you can avoid one day of parade

This hungry fellow can't speak for the whole of biafra

goodgirl2409:
OP,ur are very ignorant to post this rubbish. You think women are the only one's who loose during sex? When a tap keep on pouring out water,it will go empty one day. Keep on pouring and wasting ur sperm into any thing on skirt,when u end up with low sperm count and lack of stamina and erect...,u begin to look for witches from ur village. Women beware,most men working up and down have no healthy sperm anymore after wasting it on loose life. Pls marry a virgin,only a virgin man. I can't marry a non virgin man cos I want my kids to be healthy with first class sperm and a man whom his penis will be standing very well not the one with lack of erect...

Madam low sperm count cannot come as a result of too much sex. Inshort too much sex has no effect on a man as long as he eats healthy his sperm keeps replenishing.

Please educate yourself

rosalieene:
At least i know i am purer than you.

e pain you sha

I think the Executives of the union did a bad job in their planning.

You don't go to visit one without him acknowledging your request, especially in their homes

I have been in a union that visited senators and House of Reps members at the National Assembly Complex but we did that on a day they had a sitting, we sent them a request to witness a sitting and they acknowledged it before we travelled all the way from University of Nigeria to Abuja.

With that, you can now meet them personally at their offices since they are already aware of your arrival - not home

You guys did a shoddy planning

lasisi69:
Okay

Classic