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A girl exhibits the first sign to me and I'm out, I won't wait till she shows me the remaining 3.

There are many fishes in the river

purityval:
Please is der anyone going from 042 (Enugu) make we collabo dey go together.

I!

dlex21:
Oh! I get you... But these kind of ladies ain't wife materials... Just temporary chicks.

Hot chicks ain't wife materials??

I wanna believe you are kidding me..i cant marry a lady without big asss and boobs, it keeps the spark in the marriage

amokeme:
Lol @ "press ups"

Do you do yours like somersault??

OP your opinion is simply


TRUE!!!

I even dare say at the age of 19

Go to universities and see girls have sex like it's just press ups...

Nothing wrong in it though

Dahveydson:

LOL

Baba free me o!

You won't understand the anxiety

kinglekan:

All dis wan wey u dey blow na english. There are people who wouldn't understand no matter how much you explain.

They would term it as forming and label you all sorts. You don't want something as trivial as that to bring about unnecessary arguments.

If my "last seen" is turned off, it saves everybody the stress of who is doing the snubbing and what not.

Hope you get my drift?

I've given you enough reasons to get my own drift but like you said 'all na english'

So we both no get anybody drift

kinglekan:

You think everybody is that simple ryt? Some others would take offence that you had time to tell them you are busy.

Courtesy demands you let them know you aren't disposed to focus on chatting at the moment then if they don't understand it's left for them

It's better than making them think you intentionally ignored them while chatting with others

kinglekan:

You are totally wrong. There are some messages you would reply and would lead to a dialogue that would run for minutes.

Best thing is to reply when you are ready to give time to it.

then don't you think it's better tell the person you'll be right back or that you're busy he or she would understand??

kinglekan:

Same here tho. But I can do without the feature. I prefer when mine isn't on so I don't come off as ignoring anyone when am busy.

When u're busy it means u cnt evn open whatsapp.

You can't be reading messages without replying yet say you're busy, that's snubbing

kinglekan:

You would find visibility under privacy settings. There you would be able to turn it off.

Mine is off, but the thing is u won't also be able to see others "last seen" till you turn urs back on.

That's the problem with it.

I enjoy whatsapp when I can see when last people came online

Jibberish!

People that passed out of akwa ibom camp are tattoos allowed??

They probably have no idea it's a national issue

Or maybe Ozumba is intentionally going Bartho on them...

Lol good old days

I think these lawmakers are cowards

If I were in their shoes the war will go on till either Fayose is impeached or till I'm relieved of my legislative powers next month.

Either way Buhari won't forget Fayose's attack and give him the Obasanjo's treatment when he comes to power.

It's only one way to go for Fayose ----------> OUT

TheSonOfMark:

Silly people should have their folly pointed out to them.

I think this is totally off the hook and I'm sure she's regretting the moment her mum shitted out the product of her dad's wasted sper'm that resulted to her into the face of the earth

FrancisTony:
Okay, assuming the dude visited his fiancee's place and she served him.

After eating, fiancee's junior sister requests he wash the plate, how would you all feel? or comments on this thread be?

Nairaland men and hypocrisy goes hand in hand.

If he is a 'semi-occupant' of his fiance's house (which I think is absolutely ffuucked up) he should take care of his dishes.

If he checks into the house once in a week or two and never passes the night in the house then he has no business going into the kitchen talk more of doing the dishes

Nigerian fiance's (females) partially own the guys house, you and I know that so they can NEVER be regarded to as visitors

TheSonOfMark:

You've been repeating your earlier comments which has made this a boring cliché. Is your lexicograph stock that depleted or are you a programmed gyno-form who's been given access to the internet to spew hogwash and regurgitate your idiocy?

About tutoring you in the English Language: The highlighted word in your comment should have been started with an uppercase letter 'cause a fullstop (and not a comma) should have proceeded "...is an excuse" since it's a complete sentence.

You see why I termed you a 'neo-dyslexic' ?

You'll make freecocoa deactivate ooo.

I plead with you to overlook the imb'ecile

lolly2pops:
In my opinion she was a visitor and one can not expect a visitor to clean after themselves. Secondly was she the only one who ate from those plates or did everyone enjoy the meal together? If everyone enjoyed the same meal together it should not be a problem for anyone of them to wash the dishes. If I were the lady though I would have actually washed the dishes, that's all. Culturally at least where I'm coming from men are supposed to provide for their families but nowadays we find that some men rather sit at home and wait for her cheque meanwhile they still refuse to do any house chores because they find it to be a taboo but not collecting money from a woman..

I still find it rather innocuous calling her a visitor.

Someone who passes some nights in my place, spends the weekend in my place, ffuucks in my place, has some parts of her belongings in my place and may even have a key to my place...lol

Maybe until she pays the rent she will no longer be referred to as a visitor

Gaidenk:
Guess your parents are from that same "small minded" culture and you are a product of it too. Awesome

I died

izzieman:
What is wrong with a man doing dishes for his brother's wife or fiancée? Will doing the dishes shorten his penis or make him impotent?

It will belittle him in the eyes of a WOMAN

Krystalxxx:
Play hard to get.........u r forming holy.
Don't play hard to get.......dey say, see dis fool
You're clean.......so you think u can win me by that?
You're not clean........see this dirty pig whom expects me to marry her, she doesn't even reach my standards.


Either way once he's determined you're effed up, you're effed up, not cuz u did anything , but cuz he has decided THIS GIRL IS EFFED UP.

SO, God help all the women.

No guy says 'see this fool' when you don't play hard to get, perhaps only overgrown babies

I value a lady that tells me from the onset if she's game with me or if she doesn't like me so I quickly fold my tent and pitch it somewhere that will yield results

chowlade:
I appreciate u making ur fellow guys happy but
you might need to grow up Slowpoke and retardo. Dont quote me back or else fire go fire u. Get some respect 4 yaself

Note: If that thread sud enter front page I'll delete my account off Nairaland.

You had better start deleting your account dumbass

khia:
A civilised man. The bible said nothing about a woman being a man's slave, helpmate yes, there is a difference and some of you men should learn it.

The bible clearly said the man is the HEAD, the head is the leader.

You must respect your leader

I don't get intimidated by them.

In short I need a successful lady in my life

Moana:
i didnt see anywhere where the OP said she visits the house daily? Please show me
so because it was a one time incident it means it will be repeated? Are u not being prejudicious? how sure are you that she wasnt the one who prepared the meal they all ate?

you were the person that initially concluded she did it just once, it could have been a deed that was likely to reoccur so the brother did well to put her in a place.

Even if she prepared the meal, doing the dishes should go with preparing the meal