₦airaland Forum

Rozcol:
This thing you are looking for up and down if you see am now you will run.silly boy

AmgMakanaki:
Mumu. I swear this topic when you bring come make you Dey childish. Na pastor dey decide for you. Beside, Person like you Na Dem dem Dey see vision for pass.

lereinter:
Is the stylist ready for marriage

Is the graduate ready for marriage

Why trouble yourself?

What's the business of your pastor with your marriage

I guess your pastor is rccg

Veteran20:
I'm not surprised your pastor decision is confusing you judging by the way you narrated how your parent made you to come back home. OP, better get a hold of your life. When it's not as if you are a lady. Your parents are still pushing you here and there. You are still comfortably living under their roof and getting pushed around by your elders. When will that end?

You call yourself a graduate and you said you can handle a marital life with the 30k you are currently earning? Then what is stopping you from leaving your parent's house permanently, getting a place of your own and start making a matured grown man decisions for yourself. If you should later get married, is that when you will move out from their house (or you go carry your wife join them for that ur parent's house)?

Stop being a pushover. Take control of your life and know peace. If you don't change now and care is not taken, you might come back to NL again to ask for advise that "your parents are rejecting your new girlfriend after your pastor had already approved it or that your parents are against your new place of accommodation as it is far away from them".


Man up bro. Be taking their advice (your pastor and other elderly people you respect) like a suggestion (and not as a necessity), just like the way you will take advices on NL. If you should man up, It's only left for you to choose which way to follow but if you should remain as mummy's or daddy's boy, then they will keep trying to force things at you to follow at will.

AmgMakanaki:
All I could say is that you are a big fool. Marry woman give pastor. Cow

goldstar25:
Are you not a man like your pastor? Do you make decisions for him? Seeing the topic I thought maybe the girl did something bad but right now your pastor is just abusing his power. Marry someone you are comfortable with so that you won't start getting divorced tomorrow. I respect my pastor too but if this is the reason for me not to marry someone I love then I will have to disobey him. Guy marry your love.

cooooooks:
Are you marrying your pastor?

Marry your long term sta ke girlfriend (who you abandoned for months) and leave the other lady.

phemmyfour:
Your pastor doesn't have a discerning spirit. Tell him your findings about the graduate girl and why your gf couldn't locate you when ran away from the house. If he's truly a man of God, he ll let you marry the girl after your heart. If you miss it Marriage, your pastor won't be around to console you

michael77777:
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Sense will fall on you ijn

supportnija:
Nobody working in the state earn more than 20k except director and chief judge of the state and some politicians, even bank in the state pay 30k.. People like push people into Yahoo Yahoo, this person earn 30k don't spent 3k for a month on transport in the state , you live in Abuja or Lagos you pay 200k for rent, 30k for transport, but his own case is not leaving in Lagos, or Abuja or Porthacourt... 30k is ok for him....Op start your life from there, God want to bless you he can catarpot from to Chevron or total or Agip or shell or CBN, NNPC, NIA, NDIC, FIRS, etc

ajyogbon:
The only way I can advise you is that God has given you power to choose between good and evil, so far the poster did not receive other lady from God. Is your life and your future don't let anybody chooses your future for.

SmellySperm:
Small pikin dey tell me shut up. Firstly, you're still feeding from your parents. When you start paying for rent you'll understand reality.

You think manner will fall from heaven for you. At 27 u suppose don get wise reasoning

dan9ice:
How did your pastor get to know the other girl?
You carry her go church ni
Is your pastor monitoring you?

Sonnobax15:

Op,why you dey reason like akamu na

Just imagine the kind rubbish wey guyman like me dey cap
It's very obvious that pastor of yours dey lash that your gf big-time......

Just because say my gf no go school,one man of God wey dem baptise with dirty water go cor tell me say make I leave my gf of 5 years....

I just dey imagine the kind smack down wey I go give am..

SmellySperm:
I concur...
Dude earning a little above 30k in this present economy thinks he's ready for marriage...

Only myself wey i dey feed I dey sometimes reason suicide

Carchoice:
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“You are a mumu man”

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Chimeluv:
Find something else that will earn you more money

Get a place of your own or else your Parents and Pastor will continue to dictate what happens in your life

Do not listen to your pastor concerning that lady

Follow your heart

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Don't listen to your pastor bro. He is human like you. Listen to your instinct, it's God's compass in you. Stick to that hairstylist and try to grow her business... With time, you'll both flourish....

No go drop better gold cuz you just found a new shinny fake gold bruh.

obembet:
Some guys are very useless. Only thing in there head is Sex?

Ordinary drink , they will ask for sex.

If they manage send you data, they will ask for something in return.

Mad pple

Lollittaa:
[color=pink]don't ask me stvpid questions. What's Google there for? [/color]

Lollittaa:
Did you enter "the place" only to discover that someone has been there before you?

Rozcol:
Op is a liar, most Nigerian men are liars and manipulators.You all will be surprised if you hear the wife's side.