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Love this part. And I love Shaw's quotation
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ikupakuti:told him that already/ I hope he is listening @ the bolded, |
ikupakuti:tintingz simply doesnt believe highlighted parts. He believes it is man-made ![]() Really, author captured reality of AA folks. It is sad reality. Very interesting book. Still reading |
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I noticed you discussed something relate to this on other thread.
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This author attempts to answer a point you raise on page 21 to 25 of his book Ikupakuti can relate to points raised on p23-25 (attached)
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gatiano:I dey oo. Lol |
tintingz:You should rather say men twisted religious text to suit them. This thinking of yours is getting old At least female leaders exist.Like pretty much non-existence. General public recognize them Get the English "they believe" means some group believe women can't handle it, it is a fallacious word not a fact, because in reality women can and have handle nation, e.g Queen Elizabeth. [/quote]That old nugget b!tch is not running anything. She's just there now for decoration. It is probably her grandson telling her what to do nowEven if you hear polygamy in the West, it is still male with multiple women. That natural not the other way. Nepal, China, some society in Africa, America, polyadry is not well practiced but we see polyandrous women everywhere.True but unfortunately, we are dealing with legal status and legal definition here They don't condone polygamy in general.true, due to constitution but those who practice it do mnuslims or not. Matter of fact, Amish people do. Sorry, you're quoting from a patriarch African man, what do you expect from his mouth, what if an Indian man or Chinese said wimen are polygamous by nature?Unfortunately it is. They simply abandoned it. Full of it in their OT |
tintingz:Your opinion obviously ![]() But that does not mean there are no female leaders, Cleo Patra was a leader in ancient Egypt, Queen Elizabeth is a still a leader till date.I am sure they are countable unlike men. From my research, most male leaders have caused disaster, chaos in thier country than female ruling countries.because they are majority. You never know women could have been worst if they had been rulers, dictators, presidents since beginning of time. Your subsequent post below refutes this v v v U.S is a world power state with many enemies, they believe a female leader can't handle it, they want a bully as president, the reason Donald Trump won.underlined clears the air about gender roles. YOU REFUTE YOURSELF We have already discussed this that there are society were women marries more than one man.this is simply not a common norm worldwide. As crazy as western world can be, polyandry is far worse to them even though they condone boyfriend girlfriend relationship and worst still homosexual. They would prefer homosick to polyandry. Society norms varies, go to India if they have problem with women having multiple husband.the only country cited always as evidence for this is india. Any other countries known for this?. I'm sure most people frown at this type of marriage institution. Again most society are patriarch and religious brainwashed, they believe women came from men's little ribs, even religious women believe in this fairytale, these women think they are less of human that they are made for men.you keep repeating this. How about non-religious Western society. Why don't they condone polyandry despite freedom and democracy they yearn for? When a women sleeps around she's a prostitute but when a man do same it is natural, what fuckery is that?exactly what author of the book said in page18 of his book. Go back there where I screenshot the page Indeed it is god's design, religon brainwashed programmed, will a christian mommy tell her son to get another wife?how about non-religious western nation?. Most likely yes, bcus they believe that's what their scripture says. But in reality they are hypocrites. I'm sure you know that. Ex-husband of Ayo Mogaji, Jibola Dabo says he's full blown supporter of polygamy and he's Christian. I read his interview on nijagists website 2yrs ago where he confessed that Christianity is hypocrisy on monogamy. Said men are polygamous in nature. He's taking about marriage. Polyandry on the other hand is confined as you don't seem to give evidence beyond India and few places perhaps. https://www.linjust.com/i-am-ardent-supporter-of-polygamy.html |
gatiano:Where is this guy, gatiano. He used to talk lots of crazy things |
tintingz:Being a polygyny is marriage institution. Polygamy is marriage. But you are speaking about thier desires and lust for mutiple partners. Society mostly Africa and religious point fingers at the female folks for failures in marriage, they expect women to be perfect when it comes marriage which is a fallacious thinking, the reason many Africa women and religious women stick to the marriage even if they are not happy because they dont want the finger pointing, and you are wrong there are also men who will marry divorced women, they might be few in Africa but they are many in some society, my close aunty with a son just married another man recently.Africa problem And you talked about them hoeing around, lol most of them go into open relationship with a man, marriage is a beautiful thing but it is not the end of everything, it is not by force, i wonder why some people over hype it, something that is even scary to some people, some women are suffering and not happy in their marriage and wish they didn't marry. Happiness is the main thing, if a woman find happiness leaving a marriage that is the best choice for her than living in stoic syndrome and depression.happy or not in marriage is another subject. In the West most see marrage as old fashion. They think it is not necessary. Young ladies prefer hoeing than being tied than. However, what i have noticed is that they start hoeing after being hurt in relationship. Hurt in this context is being cheated on. I wish i can screenshot from both male and female i read on fb last week. The guy said what i just typed. He said "I am going to be hoeing until i can find suitable partner". A lady also said the same. Now, weigh them, who do you think is a loser at the end of the day?. Definitely or most likely the lady bcus they (women) are vulnerable. Only a matter of time before she is no longer attractive. But the guy will forever get any woman he wants ![]() |
tintingz:There is God invention too as indicated in the ayah above. Example, prophets and messangers. Why arent there female prophets?. Thats gender role right there. Also if you notice, most countries of the world preceded by male leadership by broad margin compared to female presidents. Thats clear cut right there. US which promotes gender equality, feminism, job and pay equality has never had female president. Why not allowed all their candidates to be women?. So gender role is not man made by default. It is natural that men take lead. the book author said women are wire to desire one man, this is wrong because we have seen and read some women cheat on their partner,Author is speaking in the context of marriage institution - not babyfather/babymomma, boyfriend/girlfriend situation. Author did not deny women have desire for other men besides their husband. What they wont do (in many cases) is to marry more than one man at the same time. Thats author's context. you even post a lady that said she crush on many guys, some female celebrities shoot their videos with men touching her, these shows women also fantasize having multiple partners.I know this lady here. She is simply trying to explore her choices before settling. Again, author is speaking in the context of marriage. And even outside of marriage, as i told you earlier, this lady is considered promiscuous by her friends and family for having side nigga. This goes to show you societies generally still see women having multiple partners to be wayward. Author speaks about that. I think it is in that post up there where he said societies see female with multiple partners to be prost!tute. But societies wont say that of men. Again this is naturally designed. Even a good mother would never allow her daughter who is already married to flirt with another man. But she is confident to tell her son to get second wife see that. My mommy already told me to go ut and get 4th wife but she will never say that to my sister. This goes to show you it is God's Design. |
tintingz:Ofc, thats normal. Thats natural. Thats natural instinct. Author speaks about that if read carefully. I am still reading by the way. In most cases if women dont allo sharing their man while their man is poly, their types walk out of their marriage and in most cases are husbandless for life. In the case of babyfather/babymomma, the lady tends to start hoeing around bcus in her freaking mind, no man can be loyal. So whats the point of hoeing instead of holding on to him and accept the fact that men natured like that ? |
Raintaker:lol, I didn't know this ![]() |
AhluSunnah:so now, you have shifted from all sufis reject hadith, quran to some? . You are deluded. Were they not practicing Islam (Quran and hadith) before your were born? . You want to correct them in 21st century? |
AhluSunnah:You want to learn by calling them kufar?. Learn indeed. Since you consider yourself "student of knowledge", then, it shouldn't be far fetched for you to grasp traits of sufism in the Quran and hadith. It is there but you have eyes you can not see. You have ears but can not hear. You are just like cattle. ![]() |
AlBaqir:Their wahala not mine The guy you see his legs just visited last week and posted this on fb |
^^^ He exposes hypocrisy in relationship or marriage institution in America or western societies. Now tintingz, read Quranic verse the author quoted to show you that gender roles are different.. Q3:36
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The author truly spoke my mind ![]()
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On polygyny
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Interesting read here for tintingz
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highque:I pulled his leg and he's falling. Raintaker obviously doesn't share his religious view. Ask him what is sufism - he doesn't know. He will only talk non sense ![]() |
AhluSunnah:he's sufi so now what do you think he's going to hell? |
Need To Make Ziyara To This Place Someday
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Emp.iree:Ijebu finally got what he wanted ![]() https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jd8NOpPQBc |
From The Preface If The Book, "The Revolution Of Love" by Shadeed Muhammad
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AhluSunnah:Keep Hating While They Loving
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AhluSunnah:Kpele crying baby ![]() |
tintingz:You need to understand "gender role". We have different roles to play. Truly, a man who is promiscuous is no different from being slutty but societies worldwide dont usually see it that way. The reason being nature of men is different from women. Women are vulnerable. Typical example of gender role being different is a man can wear only short pant outside and no one sees anything peculiar with that. But if a woman should go out with short pant or bikini wihtout bra, whether in religious society or not, she is gonna be seen different. We are created equal but this equality does not in any way means equal opportunity to do anything they (women) want. |
Real nigga ![]() He dark pass
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we will soon incoporate the AA men into the list of ‘domestic animals‘


