I actually understand your plight! I went through the same thing. What you are going thru is normal for a virgin. What you will do is simple: allow your husband to have sex with you often. Though it might be painful for a while, but with time you will get use to it. Don't stop sex for a long time cos if you do, the place will heal up with scar and you will experience the same pain again. Pls don't be discouraged. With time you will be very Good in it. I followed all these and they worked for me. Shalom

I don't why some people just like disturbing yourself about ordering wedding Gowns! I got my wedding gown in Idumota. And it is very lovely and cheap.Very very cheap!!! And you have a whole lot to select from, cos there are many shops there. Go to idumota and ask where they sell wedding things. Am sure you will be shocked to your marrows!

Hmmm, my wedding is just 3 weeks away. And everything is set already. Our traditional wears are ready, wedding gown and suites are intact,and also our aso ebis have been sold out. May god keep us beyond that day.

Faith93: I have decide to live here fro you poeple so you chat happy for mind to post.thank insult u give me bt I tot I have begin to got froends for here small small but I mistake .I av evrybdyu hate for here becous I try to put my coinntribute for here bt no vex I'll live peolpe to chayt happy tnx for make me sad bt I go miss u all of..bye frienship

are you for real or you are just kidding? This your english is not only terrible but also killing. Pls do something fast!!

A gradute of the dept. Of Nurisng , OAU, ife. Greatest ife!!!!! I hail my alma mata!

A gradute of the dept. Of Nurisng , OAU, ife. Greatest ife!!!!! I hail my alma mate!

Well, am a yoruba gurl form Oyo state. I will be getting married soon. The bride price my Dad demanded is 500 Naira, which will eventually be returned in the presence of evrybody during engagement, cos he is not selling his daughter.

IkeNwanyiCalaba: you people should stop hypocrism. is it that your own body? if oyibos is wearing it all you will hear is who is rocking it it better. because you are awear of her in nollywood you are condem her usulessly. nigerians are hypocris.

are you for real? What are you saying! Well I don't you, I blame your english teacher.

I have not seen a word to qualify my mother yet. What a wonderful nmother she is? My tears is always her tears and my smile hers. My mum does not have enuf money yet she will sqeeze out her last card for me. She prefers to suffer for me to enjoy. She fasts and prays for us everytime. My mum does not sleep when we are writting exam. She is always on her knees till you drop your pen.she stood by me prayerfully to make sure I got the right man and god answered! She is always there to lean on! She is my best friend! My prayer is that 'may she live long to eat the fruit of her labour. An adage in yoruba says" bi iya o ba is leyin eni, iya nla a gbe ni san le".what would I have done without you? She sufered in my father's house for the sake of her children. I remembered asking her when I was a child the reason she didn't leave my father's house. She answered with a smile and said ' I can't leave my children for another woman! I will rather remain here and suffer for the sake of my children, you pple are the reason why am here'. What a submissive wife is this I wondered.*crying*

engrjoe: Few questions I hv 2 ask
1) Hw is d weather of BENUE like Hot/moderate/cold
2) Hw is d state in terms of ammenities like electricity especially
3) Wht part of d state is best for PPA?
4) Hw is d nature of living over there?
5) In camp, wht kind of sport/game re played there mostly?? (Am a scrabble nd a football player)
6) Wht CDS is fun 2 be in... Nd wht group in camp is best 2 join
7) 3G network in d state nd where it is more active
Lastly, hw cam one influence PPA to (3) above??

Plsssssss I need these things for more questions shall come later
ENGR JOE signing in frm Benin City of EDO STATE (Auchi Poly)
Cheers

so many questions! Well, am a batch b corp member serving in benue and I happen to be a nurse. Different parts of benue has different wheather. Gboko for example is not too cold nor too hot but makurdi is very hot!it is better tobe posted to cities like otukpo, gbokon makurdi etc than the villages cos some of the villages are far! There might not be network! As per CDS, wheather you join one on camp or not,you will be assigned one at your local government after posting, so don't bother your self. In terms of network, MTN is worst in benue state. Etisalat and zain might have 3G at times. I don't know how to influence PPA cos I didn't influence mine. My candid opinion: come to benue state with an open mind that you can be posted anywhere, and pray for a favourable posting. Have it at the back of your mind that benue is an HIV state, so becareful,99% of my patients are positive!lastly, if you are not a medical personnel, you will not earn well!!!

Bimfo: @OP, Kindly say this Words Very Fast











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yuzedo: Huh? Alfredo, bro, did you said you gived your babe uppercaught because she promise your fat sister marriage with a bad boys agbero and olopa?

I blame your english teacher!!!

alaoeri: Op please what do u mean by period?

are you for real?

coconut head: Dear House,

I recently got married and i discovered dis in my wife. When she's in her period, everything irritates her, she sometimes depressed, difficult to cheer her up. She's just dull and can be rude too. I've been looking for a way to help her out of this feeling. She's so nice. I dont want to see her sad or depressed. I'll need advise from house members how to handle this. I'll appreciate comments from married ladies in teh huse and married me too.

Thanks.

well, am not married but am a lady and also a nurse.most women have mood swings during their period, it is normal. But I think what you need to do as caring husband is showing more love and care during this time, be more tolerating, help in the house chores as much as posibble, and get her medications like buscopam,feldin or felvin,paracetamol and massaging the tommy with hot water will definitely go a long way! I hope this helps.

Idacrux: Hope say god no wan punish person.na who hid my post abi na papa buy me MB.....

abeg no take am personal

igbeke:
my broda dont be decieved cos u'll only be greeted wit disappointment. at least i was dere last yr. Unilag is far more beautiful.
but one tin i've come 2 understand; AKOKITES ARE NO NOISE MAKERS.

do you think they call us africa most beautiful campus for fun?I can see that you are deluded and you don't know what you are saying! OAU has structures, I mean breathe catching ones! Haters can go and hug transformer for all I care!

papachy: Abu zaria is the largest University in Nigeria and 2nd largest in Africa proud to be an abusite.An Abu student is ahead of u naturally my school is 4th in Nigeria. Universities
Locations
1  University of Ibadan
Ibadan
2  Obafemi Awolowo University
Ile-Ife
3  University of Lagos
Lagos
4  Ahmadu Bello University
Zaria
5  University of Ilorin
Ilorin
6  University of Benin
Ugbowo ...
7  University of Jos
Jos
8  University of Maiduguri
Maiduguri
9  University of Agriculture, Abeokuta
Abeokuta ...
10  University of Port Harcourt
Port Harcourt
11  University of Nigeria
Nsukka ...
12  Federal University of Technology, Akure
Akure
13  Covenant University
Ota
14  Federal University of Technology, Minna
Minna
15  Nnamdi Azikiwe University
Awka ...
16  Lagos State University
Ojo
17  Pan African University
Lagos
18  Ladoke Akintola University of Technology
Ogbomoso ...
19  Modibbo Adama University of Technology
Yola
20  African University of Science and Technology
Abuja
21  University of Uyo
Uyo
22  Bayero University Kano
Kano
23  Ambrose Alli University
Ekpoma
24  Redeemer's University
Mowe
25  Babcock University
Ilishan-Remo ...
26  Federal University of Technology, Owerri
Owerri
27  University of Calabar
Calabar
28  Enugu State University of Science and Technology
Enugu
29  Michael Okpara University of Agriculture
Umuahia
30  Ajayi Crowther University
Oyo Town
31  Bowen University
Iwo
32  Lead City University
Ibadan
33  Crawford University
Faith City ...
34  Rivers State University of Science and Technology
Port Harcourt
35  Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University
Bauchi
36  Abia State University
Uturu
37  Usmanu Danfodio University
Sokoto
38  Igbinedion University Okada
Okada ...
39  Imo State University
Owerri
40  Niger Delta University
Wilberforce Island Yenagoa
41  Bells University of Technology
Ota
42  Kwara State University
Ilorin
43  Nasarawa State University
Keffi
44  Caleb University
Imota
45  Obong University
Obong Ntak
46  Adekunle Ajasin University
Akungba Akoko ...
47  Ekiti State University, Ado Ekiti
Ado-Ekiti
48  American University of Nigeria
Yola
49  Joseph Ayo Babalola University
Ikeji-Arakeji
50  Veritas University
Abuja
51  Afe Babalola University
Ado-Ekiti
52  Kaduna State University
Kaduna
53  Osun State University
Oshogbo ...
54  Umaru Musa Yar'Adua University
Katsina
55  Federal University, Ndufu-Alike
Ndufu-Alike
56  Salem University
Lokoja
57  Novena University
Ogume
58  Achievers University, Owo
Owo
59  Benson Idahosa University
Benin City
60  Ebonyi State University
Abakaliki
61  University of Abuja
Abuja
62  University of Mkar
Mkar
63  Madonna University
Okija
64  Bingham University
Auta Balifi
65  Plateau State University
Bokkos
66  Federal University of Petroleum Resources
Effurun
67  Federal University, Dutse
Dutse
68  Nigerian Turkish Nile University
Abuja
69  Ibrahim Badamasi Babangida University
Lapai
70  Landmark University
Omu-Aran
71  Delta State University, Abraka
Abraka
72  University of Agriculture, Makurdi
Makurdi
73  Renaissance University
Enugu
74  Federal University, Otuoke
Otuoke
75  Tai Solarin University of Education
Ijebu-Ode ...
76  Federal University, Oye-Ekiti
Oye ...
77  Kano State University of Technology
Wudil
78  Tansian University
Umunya ...
79  Akwa Ibom State University
Uyo
80  Baze University
Abuja
81  Kebbi State University of Science and Technology
Aliero
82  Benue State University
Makurdi
83  Adeleke University
Ede
84  Ondo State University of Science & Technology
Okitipupa
85  Kogi State University
Anyigba
86  Western Delta University
Oghara
87  Federal University, Wukari
Wukari
88  Paul University
Awka
89  Caritas University
Enugu
90  Federal University, Lafia
Lafia
91  Cross River University of Science & Technology
Calabar ...
92  Fountain University
Oshogbo
93  Al-Hikmah University
Ilorin ...
94  Godfrey Okoye University
Ugwuomu-Nike
95  Oduduwa University
Ile Ife
96  Anambra State University
Uli
97  Olabisi Onabanjo University
Ago Iwoye ...
98  Federal University, Lokoja
Lokoja
99  Federal University, Kashere
Kashere
100  Rhema University
Obeama-Asa
101  Crescent University
Abeokuta
102  Wellspring University
Benin City
103  Bukar Abba Ibrahim University
Damaturu
104  Gombe State University
Gombe
105  Wesley University of Science and Technology
Ondo City
106  Bauchi State University
Gadau ...
107  Federal University, Dutsin-Ma
Dutsin-Ma
108  Sokoto State University
Sokoto
109  Katsina University
Katsina

your source pls. I can't believe this. OAU is no 1 wheather you put it in the right place or not.

Akinmail: Foget 'bout all those stupid rankings made by unscrupulous elements. Oau will forever be in the shadows of THE UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN- the first and the friggin best baby.

you better wakeup from your slumber. We are not talking about the first to be established, but the best of all universities. OAU is great in all ramifications,whether you like it or not.Oba Awon Universities (OAU)

ik121: Marry??
For wetin nah??
Wen i cn easily co-habit 2geda for so long wit d mutual s.ex given at will y then shud 1 marry wit extra burden/responsibility transferd 2 me by so cald in-laws all in d name of marriage?
Long term relationships suits me perfectly well dat anytm ur tired u cn easily waka jejely wit no qualms on my side.
Taaaaaaahhhh!

(thank God my babe no be nairalander )

don't worry,nemesis will soon catch up with you!

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lawizle: Daz y I love my alma-mata....great ife rocks in every f***ing way!

Of the greatest ife!,GREAT!!,ever conscious ife,ever militant ife,ever dynamic ife. I hail thee, the king of all universities.

Blyss:

Nigeria is a filthy, nasty place.

are you are nigerian,if yes, am very sorry for you.

Da'GeeNius:
Thank God I'm a Twin!!!!!

no be your kind of twin we dey talk about. Abeg go sit down jor!

I wish I was a twin.but I still thank god for creating me without a twin brother or sis,but god please let me have them as children IJN,amen.