My friend the list is simply endless
I guess we have to leave with them that way

debosky:

You miss the point - any man stupid enough to insist on evidence of virginity as a deal maker/breaker for marrying someone deserves a woman stupid enough to repair her hymen for that purpose.

Apart from this category of women, there are other women whose lives are threatened over virginity - are you saying they should be killed because they exercised their human rights and had sex If they repair hymens to remain alive, there is no issue there with me - again the stupid men who think this way deserve to be deceived.

The woman is not failing to show self worth - she is doing what is needed to marry this man to meet societal norms. How many men are proud of what they did in the past? How many of them admit it or make it clear that they 'shagged around'?

Some men have a stupid need to feel 'exclusive' without being exclusive themselves - if they can hold such a view, then it is their fault of they get conned. These women aren't doing what men want, they are clearly stating that men need to rethink this illogical craze for virginity or risk being fooled.

wouldn't agree any better man

hymen without borders

Life's all about giving, you get attracted to a girl and you get close to her and she's Bam! what you've been searching for but she's poor and very dependent on you. Some guys need to know that ladies are expensive most times not because of greed but because of a lack of security. They want to have something after we've walked away. That's why some girls from rich background behave like gold diggers. So, we have to give them that security in our relationship and all this, I believe will change.

@Poster
You must understand that for every association, social setting etc there have to be a head. Imagine a country, school or family without a head. The result of such a setting, is mayhem. Now, for the titles you've just mentioned, which are traditional African titles the head will obviously be a man. because our culture is wired up that way. I am not opposed to the fact that women cannot be heads of social or corporate organizations but, will she be accepted as head? will she be respected, will her leadership cause harmony amongst the people she's leading? These are the questions to be answered

@ poster
The best input I can offer, is to get closer to your hubby
You should be able to sense when he's unhappy or needs to be alone etc.
It's also very important that you really feel body, soul and spirit about the song and dance you give to him
It makes no sense to pour out empty /false praises on a man when you don't really mean it.
It's very humilating if he senses it and could make him turn cold towards you.
I am sorry to say, most women prefer acting the role instead of living the role.
Acting the role no matter how small is being dishonest and can culminate to distrust in a relationship

Carring shouldn't be only about the guys, but there are very little things that are difficult for we guys to do. For me, I find sending text message to my hubby a herculian task, I'd rather call.

of course I meant it

iceblue:

ewwuuooo! big lie! most guys would claim boredom or concoct some imagined accusation as the reason for cheating. but they'd go ahead and cheat even if the girl was mother theresa reincarnate.

Common let's be objective in this, you don't act for no reason. That's to say, for every action there is a reason. A guy won't cheat on his boo if she's innocent

Bertween my JS 1 and JSS2, I hated holidays because I won't have the oppurtunity to play
I did everything from live wwf wrestling, to rubber band shooting, backflip etc.
I was dirty at any time "T" I used to play as if Iam acting an action movie. I always played
body, soul and spirit and my friends wouldn't find games period exciting without me. I was the king of the playground
and even when I am sick them days with high fever I still played vigiourously.
The amazing thing was that during the games session, the fever leave's and I'll play untill I get sore just for the fever to return after games.
Thinking about it right now I shake my head

syren:

You and me both. For revenge, I can understand it but can't condone it.

Most guys won't heat if their boo's innocent. So, if you can condone, be good

vous mez vous me vous. oui
Frech for me

there's no job a woman can't excel in, is it being the prsident of a country, a truck driver, a wrestler, a player common there's nothing ladies can't do these days.

Probably to access your value in the open market when ur boo's messing with u. Sometimes for revenge but the only thing I don't understand is when u cheat on your boo when she's absolutely innocent.

Hi boooby

@ poster
Wake up man gender equality is real. Things have really changed and nowadays, there are very few things that are gender defined. There's nothing like a man's job nor a woman's job. We all do the same things. You take a lady out and a lady takes u out too. It's only a matter of time for us here in naija to fully integrate into the gender equality phenomenon.

@ poster
I know it's crazy for you, but you have to understand there is an end to every condition , good or bad. So take it easy life goes on.
My probs is why we go into relatnshps that we know from beginning is heading for the rocks

would say 8

mine's 07057411601

06 oct. was the date 19, was the year

this is quite informing

@poster
Chances are the first set of guys to sniff you out as a comfortable person are the gold diggers so be carefull and expect more to come.

I be aje-kpomo oh!

I love you the way u are
Barry White

Naija bobos, una no go kill me for here. Feet eaters dey swear say them no fit even touch their hubby's feet. Kissing a ladies feet is dependent on the individual in question. Not because you kiss your womans feet, every body must do it too. For me, I won't mind at all if she has clean feet

Common guys, let's live up to our responsibilities. You can't feel comfortable if u get married to a girl who enjoyed some level of comfort when she was in her parent's house but hoop a round on okada when she's married to you.
Some girls are quite expensive to carter for and if you are in a relationship with such, you just have to leave up (if you truly love her). Also, the lady on her part should contribute to
the relationship.
I get irritated when a girl gives you the impression that she was born with a platinum spoon when she's actually cheap. And yet has no intention of developing herself or bringing anything to the table but prefers running after made guys.

i'd rather have bad times with you
Than good times with someone else
I'd rather be beside you in a storm
Than safe and warm by myself
Id rather have bad times togethr than to have it easy apart
I'd rather have the one who ,

Please I need some clarification, is there somekind of work sharing in the calling bussiness? ie the ladies flash while the guys do the calling.
Anyways, I came to understand it's no more called flashing but "miss Call"
I will surely give you a "miss call"