well it is like that all over the world, and it has bn like that since adam and EVE, not peculiar just bad habit of women

i need nmo clue on this
so make your contributions. thanx

do you think so?

Nowadays womens minds tend to be affected a lot more by the images conveyed by the media. Alot of them see life as one big rap video - full of cars mansions and material things, but they do not understand the hard work it takes to attain that standard of living. Some Nigeirian women - particularly the ones who were and are still doted on by their parents expect young men to be driving a Merecedes S Class before the age of twenty three. I kid you not! It is good to aim high, but if a man has spent most of his early 20s in education then women have to be realistic.


The trend of going after ready made men means that women will have to get married later, as men are too busy getting 'ready made' to settle down.

From a female perspective, the advantage of this trend is instant financial security without having made a contribution.

However, it does put a female at a disadvantage because it narrows her scope in terms of her (non-financial) contribution (e.g. ideas etc). A man is less likely to value her opinion on certain decisions because he built his dynasty without her assistance, whereas a woman who was with him when he started out or was on his way up - (long before he reached the pinnacle) is more likely to trusted, as her contribution (even if it wasn't financial, but maybe through her emotional support etc) is likely to be much greater. He will respect her and cherish her more than the woman who suddenly appeared on the scene at his zenith.

Love nowadays is much more of a minefield than our parents generation, but that is only because this present generation have made it that way with unrealistic expectations and fantasy living.

y in da world would i stick 2 a poor guy,
whn i know i can hav a rich one?

This is not about rich guy/poor guy, but rather about the mentality of modern women.

Any guy who has become rich through his own efforts rather than by hand-outs from parents will want a woman with the right motives. She has got to be there to enhance his life rather than just spend his hard earned dough.

who sayz just cause she is materialstic her oda motives hav 2 b wrong?
ok 4 guys

would u date an ugly girl?

I don't think it has anything to do with it. I think hes trying to say he wants a girl that is not a liability to him. Someone that will contribute something to his life and not just use him.

Akinagirl:

I don't think it has anything to do with it. I think hes trying to say he wants a girl that is not a liability to him. Someone that will contribute something to his life and not just use him.

At least someone understands the point I am trying to make

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Nowadays womens minds tend to be affected a lot more by the images conveyed by the media. Alot of them see life as one big rap video - full of cars mansions and material things, but they do not understand the hard work it takes to attain that standard of living. Some Nigeirian women - particularly the ones who were and are still doted on by their parents expect young men to be driving a Merecedes S Class before the age of twenty three. I kid you not! It is good to aim high, but if a man has spent most of his early 20s in education then women have to be realistic.


The trend of going after ready made men means that women will have to get married later, as men are too busy getting 'ready made' to settle down.

From a female perspective, the advantage of this trend is instant financial security without having made a contribution.

However, it does put a female at a disadvantage because it narrows her scope in terms of her (non-financial) contribution (e.g. ideas etc). A man is less likely to value her opinion on certain decisions because he built his dynasty without her assistance, whereas a woman who was with him when he started out or was on his way up - (long before he reached the pinnacle) is more likely to trusted, as her contribution (even if it wasn't financial, but maybe through her emotional support etc) is likely to be much greater. He will respect her and cherish her more than the woman who suddenly appeared on the scene at his zenith.

Love nowadays is much more of a minefield than our parents generation, but that is only because this present generation have made it that way with unrealistic expectations and fantasy living.

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So what's wrong with being materialistic. We all are!!! If not, then go date the beggar across your street.

Daxbiz:

So what's wrong with being materialistic. We all are!!! If not, then go date the beggar across your street.

Nothing wrong with being materialistic but when it comes ahead of love in a relationship, there is something wrong there.

@post

Blame it on the poor economy in Naija

You can't blame them. The country is very tight and most ofthem can't even afford three square meal per day. So these poor girls are left with no choice than to demand material things from any guy that shows intrest in them.

crazykid:

You can't blame them. The country is very tight and most ofthem [/b[b]]can't even afford three square meal per day. So these poor girls are left with no choice than to demand material things from any guy that shows intrest in them.

guy no miss yarn!! they can afford even four square meal but they prefare using the money to make hair and chopping ur own food.

We guys de really suffer

theres this girl i dated that said she doesnt like depending on guys apart from her dad for money. even if when we go to eat sometimes she pays!
i try not to follow the broke blood sucking ones ^{once u see dya shoe, handbang cloths and finger nails u should know if she's local}

bush girls also tend to have unkempt feet

this is making our girls to loose out of wounderful r/s that holds bright future.
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Common guys, let's live up to our responsibilities. You can't feel comfortable if u get married to a girl who enjoyed some level of comfort when she was in her parent's house but hoop a round on okada when she's married to you.
Some girls are quite expensive to carter for and if you are in a relationship with such, you just have to leave up (if you truly love her). Also, the lady on her part should contribute to
the relationship.
I get irritated when a girl gives you the impression that she was born with a platinum spoon when she's actually cheap. And yet has no intention of developing herself or bringing anything to the table but prefers running after made guys.

lol, see as girls jus dey para becoz of this post, hahhahahaahahahhahahahaaahhaha, but itz true, majority of girls luv materialistic tins, n if a guy cant afford them they jump ships, lol, anyway not all girls re lyk dat n also guyz re to blame coz it all depends on how u approached her in d frist place, maybe u showed urself as sum one with too much money, so lets not die ova this, lol, dat guy reminds me of my friend who used d lyn i us lost my father n i am down hearted, to toast girls, hahahhahaha

in every thin in lyf there jus has to b a balance or it wunt work out, it shud not always b abt d guyz pocket, d girl can assist with her purse too, anyway thaz lyf, we shud try to adjust, does dat datin zone stuff actually work?

well i am off 2 d datin room, coz i am searchin, but still any chic interested in givn me a trial shud call 07034344875, or txt or flash self, lol, one luv.

let go of your financial insecurities. the broke ones stay complaining . ***hisses***

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There are some things that are in the nature of a woman being materialistic is one of them but when it becomes cyfolding that is no longer Ideal

what are talking about .
this is killing our sistas.

some guys dont ve style at all.i knew that guy would do that.why must u try to seek a gill's pity by claimin u were heartbroken.that isself is soundin like a brokenj record.

let go there

@ poster,i know naija babes are the best,but the economy and poverty has really affected them.most girls just want to be comfortable and have security,guys are trying hard too,lets just hope things get better in this country so we can see the best of both sexes,luv you all.

alright we making head ways