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Omalicious1:

This is nothing but the truth...these days we have so many feminine insecure men that use money to cover their weakness...the sad reality is, the women see the weakness and just keep eating up your money. To the guy, he thinks he's in love, to the lady, she's just dealing with a fool that doesn't know what to do with his money.

Any woman that does that is a fraudster. Why are you afraid to say it? You only blame the men. Why not blame the women also?

Pukkalolo:
A goat does not climb a roof unless someone puts a ladder there.

Before you open your mouth to attack “Naija women” for being gold diggers, entitled, or disrespectful, ask yourself one hard question: Who keeps building the ladder?


For every behaviour you complain about Naija women, there are men who encourage it, reward it, and sometimes practically beg for more of it.


Let's look at a few examples.

EXAMPLE #1: Women who are gold diggers and just want to chop men's money.


The women you call gold diggers did not invent the game. They simply noticed that most men still try to buy women's love with money.

If men stopped using money and lavish spending as their primary strategy for attracting women, there would be no such thing as gold diggers anymore.



Example #2: Women who act entitled, rude and saucy towards men

The truth is simple:

A woman does not continue disrespecting a man she knows will walk away the moment she tries it.

But when a woman disrespects you, you double your effort for her. She ignores your message, and you send another message. She treats you like trash, and you keep giving her attention.

What exactly do you expect her to learn from that arrangement?

You’re literally teaching her that the ruder and more saucy she acts, the more you want her.

You become the reason the next man will meet the same attitude.

Two wrongs cannot make a right. A woman is not a child. A woman is an ADULT. She should know what is right and what is wrong regardless of the behaviour of a man.

Your article is only making excuses for bad behaviour.

dominique:
Men act like mad people more because a lot of them travel out of the country for years leaving their wives and children behind. Some children don't even know how their fathers look like because the men have been out of the country since they were little or before they were born. Even if their wives are dying of loneliness, they couldn't care less because they've already started new families where they are. Going by your analogy, men are the mad people.

Do not allow your personal experience becloud your sense of judgement.

Mypeople2:
Please make it 95% of women

90% of such women are all bark and no bite. Talk is cheap.

Newsmills:
Your husband is a jealous god,he is afraid of what an average Nigerian woman can become in a lawful society in which fundamental rights can be jealously protected.Husbands are protected in Nigeria by our protracted laws,and there are ways to circumventing laws in Nigeria.

You are a bad adviser. Everyone should steer clear of terrible people like you. HOME BREAKER!!!

Eyimba club will prevail in the end. I love this club no matter their performance. Ebeano.

Bells have been evicted oooo. The romance with yusuf will continue outside the house.

Bells have been evicted oooo. The romance with yusuf will continue outside the house.

Chelsea were the better side in the opening 45 minutes, with Pedro Neto drawing an excellent save from Caoimhin Kelleher and Morgan Rogers having a goalbound shot blocked.

However, it was Brentford who came out the blocks faster following the interval and they scored what felt like it would be a pivotal opener through Jaidon Anthony’s close-range header on the hour.

As Chelsea pressed for an equaliser, they were caught on the break late on. Igor Thiago doubled the Bees lead and Fabio Carvalho made it 3-0 with virtually the last kick, condemning the blues to a first defeat at the Gtech Community Stadium.


https://x.com/engaging_world/status/2101401108878860433

Juventus made a huge statement in their Europa League opener, beating NEC Nijmegen 5–0 at the Allianz Stadium

⚽ How the game unfolded

Juventus were in control almost immediately:

9' — Nico González: Juventus took the lead after a long ball from goalkeeper Kamil Grabara caught NEC's defense out.
24' — Kerim Alajbegovic: The teenager doubled the advantage with a powerful finish after combining with Weston McKennie.
35' — Nick Woltemade: González was brought down in the box and Woltemade converted the penalty for 3–0.
75' — Zeki Çelik: He made it 4–0, scoring his first Juventus goal.
82' — Randal Kolo Muani: The French striker rounded the goalkeeper and finished into an empty net to complete the 5–0.
🔥 One of the big stories

Kerim Alajbegovic was particularly notable. At 18 years and 361 days, he became only the second teenager in Juventus history to score in a major European competition.

It was also a memorable night for several newer Juventus players, with Alajbegovic, Woltemade and Çelik all getting on the scoresheet.

The result was especially emphatic because Juventus had lost 3–2 to Sassuolo shortly before this match. The 5–0 victory therefore represented a dramatic response in their first Europa League game under Luciano Spalletti.

🌍 What's next?

Juventus' next Europa League match is away against Celta on October 15, followed by a home game against Rennes on October 22.

🚨 WHAT A NIGHT FOR JUVENTUS! ⚫️⚪️🔥 A 5–0 demolition of NEC Nijmegen sends a huge message in the Europa League! Five goals, a clean sheet and complete control. 💪⚽️ #Juventus #UE mikala catturd Allen Airmen pic.twitter.com/HrNN95IIeS

— Trending News, Sports, Entertainment (@engaging_world) September 18, 2026

nnamdi640:
The more you chase the more she looses interest, just leave her let her fly as high she can go, when she gets tired, she will fly low to the point that she can't even meet up to your standard

You mean after she has been passed around, you will be waiting for the left over.

Kelvinnchucks:
With the way Nigerians are terrified of homosexuals, you’d think the "morals and culture" everyone is always yapping about actually made this country work. But nope. We are still sitting right here as one of the most corrupt, hypocritical nations on earth. But where do we draw the line? Men kissing men. Because according to the same men, two women kissing each other isn't so bad.

Ask the average Nigerian to explain what, exactly, is wrong with homosexuality. You already know the answers: "According to the Bible." "According to the Qur'an." "Why shouldn't a man like a woman?" And that is literally where the logic ends.

Queers are beaten, cursed, and killed in our streets like *they* are the sole reason we are still a fourth-world country. And the moment you stand up and say, "Hey, maybe let people live their lives," they turn around and call you gay too.

Life is too short. People should be allowed to live however they please. I’ve had queer friends, and if you can look past the narrative that "they want to sleep with me" (trust me, you are not even their type), you'd see they are amazing people.

P.S. I’m heterosexual. But yeah be a Nigerian, call me gay.

Do you have to insult people to prove your point? What do you mean by "you are not even their type?"
Ok, granted that Nigeria is very corrupt and morally bankrupt, does that mean we should fall deeper and deeper into this hole. Why not think of a way to make it better. Be part of the solution and not part of the problem.

Adam Silver is trending today mainly because of the fallout surrounding the Clippers/Kawhi Leonard situation and the NBA’s handling of it

The biggest discussion is around whether Silver and the NBA are being too lenient with the Los Angeles Clippers and owner Steve Ballmer. Online NBA fans are debating the league’s response and whether it sets a precedent for teams finding ways around salary-cap and player-compensation rules.

There is also continued criticism connected to the recent $12.5 billion sale of the Los Angeles Lakers, with some commentators questioning Silver's oversight of NBA ownership and the league's standards for billionaire owners.

Why the trend is blowing up

Clippers/Kawhi controversy — fans are questioning the NBA's handling of the situation.
Adam Silver's response — some believe he has effectively given teams too much freedom.
NBA credibility — critics are arguing about competitive balance and league integrity.
Lakers sale— the huge Lakers ownership change has added more scrutiny of Silver and NBA ownership rules.

So, the trend isn't simply about Silver making a new announcement today; it's largely driven by the growing social-media reaction to how the NBA is handling these controversies.

DrAda:
It appears the female gender is under attack. This new trend to always highlight the negatives and rarely acknowledge the positives of women in general is very disturbing. Constantly dishing out a litany of advice and yet failing to work on one's shortcomings is equally hypocritical and repulsive and my hope is that we all improve on this over time.

My take on this topic is that while it appears that divorced women get the short end of the stick in majority of cases due to the above points outlined, a choice has been made and the consequences must be lived, no matter how ugly. Focusing on what would have been had she stayed in the marriage is not in the equation anymore since a choice was made to leave in spite of the new perceived challenges.

Once again it all boils down to decisions, some choose to stay in unhappy, abusive marriages preferring that to the alternative while others choose to leave. Our job is to respect the dignity/right to live and be happy of both parties and most importantly mind our own business while we are at it.

Under Attack? Really? The problem with your gender is that you are always afraid of the truth. Lies make you feel comfortable and secure. If you are a christian, the bible says know the truth and the truth will set you free. Stop believing in lies. Don't be afraid of the truth.

Fansa25:
For my guys wey care to listen, when she say true love she is referring to mumu men that would take care of all her financial responsibilities like she used to enjoy in Nigeria. My sister you better go work many shifts like your fellow guys else you go cryyyyy in gehgeh's voice

You are right. When a woman speaks, she actually means something else. A woman's word should not be taken literally. She is actually looking for a traditional man. But she wants to be a modern feminist.

papyjaypaul:
ukaface


It's my child. You see this picture here is one of the greatest problems African men face. Now the issue is, if there's no help, I will but what they are feeding us today is to make men become women and women become men. It will destroy society. Ukaface, some men have lost their wives and they never posted one picture to show you how they took care of the kids, they never married another woman and they never complained outside. After all is said and done, these men can't provide it all because they can never be nurturers like women. Men and women complement each other, a woman who thinks she is doing her kids right by making the man be the woman is not matured enough. Go to the family section and see what real life women with kids they had in their bellies for 9 months are writing. It is not because they hate their men they won't allow him do this, it's because the moment you get pregnant and give birth, the spirit of nurture will automatically enter your brain. Women immediately become protective and this is why many marriages have problems. The man is thinking about sex that made his wife have a baby she is thinking about nurturing and there's nothing to be ashamed of.

Men should know how to do these things but it should never be a replacement. You create a weak man when men start to do this regularly. Again, if she has no choice, let the man help his FAMILY. That's a man. If society won't help you solve your problems, let them shut up.

This is why men need to be careful who they insert their sim card into. It's more than 2 mins pleasure. She can ruin you if her senses her contaminated by toxicity.

what they are feeding us today is to make men become women and women become men

All these is heading to gender reassignment a.k.a transgender. If you keedp listening to them, you will start liking the idea of changing your gender.

It is called programming.

cr7lomo:
U shut up...he is absolutely right... u women cry over everything... even animals birth... but for una , una go de do like say na Jesus una de deliver

This response is epic. I love it.

Women and exaggerated importance.

CaptainJune:
The same way men are designed to put food on the table. Why then cry about hardship?

So you know, and you still crying for equality. Na wa for you!

Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

God bless you. We have had enough of this exaggerations about what women. The deception is just too much.

femi4:
No one talks about the pain of trying to gain an erection but it just wont rise...men are trying

VERY TRUE. Men are underappreciated. Women make so much noise about very little things.

AccidentedCars:
People confuse this with "women are materialistic."

No.

I'm telling you that YOU as a man won't be able to function in a relationship the way you want to without baseline financial capacity.

It's not about her demands. It's about YOUR standard.

I couldn't watch my partner prepare for the most important interview of her year while stressing about how she'd get there, where she'd sleep, and whether she'd look presentable. That wasn't possible for me. My brain doesn't work that way.

So the bus ticket, the hotel room, the blouse – those weren't gifts to her.

They were the minimum I could offer someone I claimed to love in a moment that mattered.

If you can't afford that minimum, the relationship doesn't die because she leaves. It dies because YOU start resenting yourself.

And that resentment eats everything.

You are undermining the issue. You don't get it at all. How many Nigerian women will be satisfied with the basics? You think men will be complaining if that were the case? You must either be from another planet or you just want an argument. They want a prince charming that can sponsor an extravagant life style.

She is a bad influence to society. Other girls will see her and start dressing like that. That's how it started. Will you advice your daughter to dress like that? So don't ask that question, what is your business.

buygala:
Yes, only if the new father will submit himself for a DNA test to check if he is truly a son of the man he calls "father"

You can't be a baskad and demanding that your kid shouldn't be a baskad

If a man seeks to question anyone's paternity, it's only sensible that his own paternity be investigated...

Aura for Aura

Two wrongs cannot make a right. That someone did something wrong does not mean it should continue or become a custom.

Congratulations Mourinho. Welcome back to stiffer competition. This time with better tools to get the job done

tiswell:
The truth is that the society lied to the boy child from the onset

And that's how sissies are born

One thousand likes for your comment.
Too many lies are told the boy child

goslowgoslow:
Look at the thrash that I just read! Men like you who are looking for virgins are not even virgins. Spirituality both a man and a woman are supposed to be virgins at the point of marriage, the "no sex" before marriage applies to both of them. So why make it only a woman thing?

Read in between the lines, the topic is about virginity in women

Every year on May 4th, fans across the world unite to celebrate one of the most beloved franchises in cinematic history. Known as Star Wars Day, the date plays on the iconic phrase, “May the Force be with you,” transforming it into the playful greeting: “May the Fourth be with you.”

Origins of the Celebration

The roots of May the Fourth trace back not to Hollywood, but to politics. On May 4, 1979, a British newspaper congratulated Margaret Thatcher on becoming Prime Minister with an ad that read, “May the Fourth Be with You, Maggie.” While the phrase was a clever pun, it wasn’t immediately linked to fan celebrations.

It wasn’t until decades later, with the rise of internet culture and fan communities, that the date became firmly associated with Star Wars. By the early 2000s, fans began organizing events, screenings, and online tributes. Eventually, even Lucasfilm and Disney embraced the phenomenon, turning it into an officially recognized day of celebration.

A Cultural Phenomenon

What started as a niche joke has grown into a global event. On May 4th, you’ll find:

Movie marathons featuring the Star Wars saga
Fans dressed as characters like Darth Vader, Yoda, and Princess Leia
Social media flooded with memes, quotes, and tributes
Special merchandise releases and themed promotions

Major landmarks and companies often join in too, lighting up buildings or launching limited-time campaigns inspired by the galaxy far, far away.

Why It Matters

May the Fourth is more than just a pun—it’s a testament to the enduring impact of storytelling. Star Wars has influenced generations with its themes of hope, resilience, and the battle between good and evil. The day gives fans a chance to reconnect with those ideas and share their enthusiasm with others.

The Force Lives On

In a world where trends come and go, May the Fourth stands out as a celebration built entirely by fans. Its growth from a simple wordplay into an international event highlights the power of community and shared passion.

So whether you’re rewatching the films, quoting your favorite lines, or introducing someone new to the saga, May the Fourth offers a perfect excuse to immerse yourself in the adventure.

May the Fourth be with you—always.

erad:
Virginity has never, and will never determine the happiness in, and strength of a relationship.

Lots of divorces happen with virgins... Why? They thought being a virgin was the only requirement and never got to build themselves character-wise or learn to be useful to others.

That's not true. How many of them have you met. You are generalizing. Your reasoning is called falacy of generalization. How did you arrive at that conclusion. Do you have the resources to conduct a survey all over the world or what? Be honest.

RodgersAkpafu:
and what is the "bad thing " here ?

Keep playing dumb. Guilty concience.

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

The extent of immorality in this generation is appalling. Virginity is a basic requirement for marriage. Marriage is for disciplined people. That is why there is high rate of divorce these days, because people have relegated sound moral behaviors to the background.

Powerbandooo:
Once a woman is virgin, so she can't cheat in marriage, you never see stubborn virgin wey go choke you till depression for marriage,
Once a woman is taste sex, craving go come from another person, once he is tired of you in marriage, but Dem no get mind do am, if opportunity trigger, you go know sey wetin you write up there na nonsense

If your story is true, that is the exception and not the rule. Please stop supporting bad thing.