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Fansa25:
For my guys wey care to listen, when she say true love she is referring to mumu men that would take care of all her financial responsibilities like she used to enjoy in Nigeria. My sister you better go work many shifts like your fellow guys else you go cryyyyy in gehgeh's voice

papyjaypaul:
ukaface


It's my child. You see this picture here is one of the greatest problems African men face. Now the issue is, if there's no help, I will but what they are feeding us today is to make men become women and women become men. It will destroy society. Ukaface, some men have lost their wives and they never posted one picture to show you how they took care of the kids, they never married another woman and they never complained outside. After all is said and done, these men can't provide it all because they can never be nurturers like women. Men and women complement each other, a woman who thinks she is doing her kids right by making the man be the woman is not matured enough. Go to the family section and see what real life women with kids they had in their bellies for 9 months are writing. It is not because they hate their men they won't allow him do this, it's because the moment you get pregnant and give birth, the spirit of nurture will automatically enter your brain. Women immediately become protective and this is why many marriages have problems. The man is thinking about sex that made his wife have a baby she is thinking about nurturing and there's nothing to be ashamed of.

Men should know how to do these things but it should never be a replacement. You create a weak man when men start to do this regularly. Again, if she has no choice, let the man help his FAMILY. That's a man. If society won't help you solve your problems, let them shut up.

This is why men need to be careful who they insert their sim card into. It's more than 2 mins pleasure. She can ruin you if her senses her contaminated by toxicity.

cr7lomo:
U shut up...he is absolutely right... u women cry over everything... even animals birth... but for una , una go de do like say na Jesus una de deliver

CaptainJune:
The same way men are designed to put food on the table. Why then cry about hardship?

Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

femi4:
No one talks about the pain of trying to gain an erection but it just wont rise...men are trying

AccidentedCars:
People confuse this with "women are materialistic."

No.

I'm telling you that YOU as a man won't be able to function in a relationship the way you want to without baseline financial capacity.

It's not about her demands. It's about YOUR standard.

I couldn't watch my partner prepare for the most important interview of her year while stressing about how she'd get there, where she'd sleep, and whether she'd look presentable. That wasn't possible for me. My brain doesn't work that way.

So the bus ticket, the hotel room, the blouse – those weren't gifts to her.

They were the minimum I could offer someone I claimed to love in a moment that mattered.

If you can't afford that minimum, the relationship doesn't die because she leaves. It dies because YOU start resenting yourself.

And that resentment eats everything.

buygala:
Yes, only if the new father will submit himself for a DNA test to check if he is truly a son of the man he calls "father"

You can't be a baskad and demanding that your kid shouldn't be a baskad

If a man seeks to question anyone's paternity, it's only sensible that his own paternity be investigated...

Aura for Aura

tiswell:
The truth is that the society lied to the boy child from the onset

And that's how sissies are born

goslowgoslow:
Look at the thrash that I just read! Men like you who are looking for virgins are not even virgins. Spirituality both a man and a woman are supposed to be virgins at the point of marriage, the "no sex" before marriage applies to both of them. So why make it only a woman thing?

erad:
Virginity has never, and will never determine the happiness in, and strength of a relationship.

Lots of divorces happen with virgins... Why? They thought being a virgin was the only requirement and never got to build themselves character-wise or learn to be useful to others.

RodgersAkpafu:
and what is the "bad thing " here ?

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Powerbandooo:
Once a woman is virgin, so she can't cheat in marriage, you never see stubborn virgin wey go choke you till depression for marriage,
Once a woman is taste sex, craving go come from another person, once he is tired of you in marriage, but Dem no get mind do am, if opportunity trigger, you go know sey wetin you write up there na nonsense

Gbadugbakun:
The kind of risk girls take these days all in the name of money should be studied.

marlow1962:
All I see here is a lady bragging for the little things she has and trying to demote a man because he lost his job and yet to find his feet. You same ladies will be broke, useless and jobless and still have a huge fantasy world up your empty heads and a man will still take care of you, feed you, clothes you, provide what your dad can't even provide. But because a man is jet to stand firm again, automatically he's now a liability to you? Lol woman.

From what you wrote, seems the guy was doing well perfectly before (and I did not see anywhere you mentioned what he has done for you when he was hot) the crash, now he's down and need reassurance from some he calls his own, the person is now calling him a liability, saying he eats too much (lmao, coming from gluttons themselves)..

Can you live and take care of yourself on 50k salary? You earn 50k, you don't own a car and you pay rent, can you be comfortable on 50k pay? Sometimes ask yourself questions before you throw jabs.
All I see here is you mocking him cus he's down, and that hurts me a lot as a fellow man. Cus I've been down too before, I know how it feels and how it also feels when someone you least expect to bulshit you did that.

He's just down, he's going to find his feet someday, if you like mock him, everything is going to be different.

When he's up again, same you (achiever of the universe) will come back crying with your uno reverse fake tears that he never loved you bla bla bla shit.

If you're tired and can't help him in anyway you can, pls disengage and stop the mockery.

Wft

Dshocker:
Content no dey tire these Facebook creators

abbasajao:
Thank you for the update.
So, breast pressing by guys no dey there!?

No fewer than 3,000 delegates have arrived at the Rainbow Event Centre, Garki, Abuja for the ongoing national convention of the African Democratic Congress.

The News Agency of Nigeria reports that the delegates, dressed in colourful attire, were drawn from the 36 states of the federation and the Federal Capital Territory, showcasing unity and diversity within party ranks.

NAN also reports that security personnel conducted thorough checks on all delegates before granting them access, as accreditation commenced under the supervision of the accreditation sub-committee, chaired by Austin Akobundu.

The National Organising Secretary, Chinedu Idigo, explained that delegates’ allocation across states was determined by each state’s size to ensure equitable representation in the convention proceedings.

Idigo, however, expressed dissatisfaction over the challenges faced by the party in securing a befitting venue, alleging that several private business owners declined to host the ADC due to what he described as external pressures and threats.

“We wrote to use the Eagle Square but received no response, and our request for the Velodrome (at the National Stadium) was also denied without explanation.

“We approached several venues, including hotels and event centres, but once they realised it was ADC, they declined, citing fear of possible repercussions.

“Even this Rainbow Event Centre initially attempted to cancel after alleged threats, but we insisted on proceeding since payments had already been made,” he stated.

“I do not understand why businesses in Nigeria cannot operate freely without intimidation, as this situation is causing significant financial losses to private operators,” he said.

According to Idigo, the convention will conclude the party’s congresses, ratify a new constitution, and set the stage for the party’s primaries.

olabrad:
A Muslim only defends a Christian when he wants to deceive people.


Islam plants hatred for Christianity and Christians in the hearts of Muslims.

He should keep his defending to himself

mannobi:
Lol. She was lost in transit whereas she was being serviced by another mechanic who is more capable

israelmao:
She was indecently dressed but it wasn't the duty of soldier to correct that anomaly or harass her.

DJperdurabo:
The fact that you have the means to still access the internet and have the "energy" to comment on this thread speaks to the fact that all is well with you.

Walk the streets of Lagos (not even ghettos) so you realise that you are actually living "large".

You're a corpse and still have the ability to be on the internet...please!!!!