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engrelvis:
Marcelo is d weak link in Madrid defense.coster is capitalising on it

d two goals dat v been scored Is y through Marcelo side.zidane should change him

Marcelo is d weak link in Madrid defense.coster is capitalising on it

This one Madrid is conceding early goal so.juventus is nt man city.madrid need to up their game otherwise.....I will leave it there

This one Madrid is conceding early goal so.juventus is nt man city.real need to up their game

I don't pity him.do u know how many lives he has ruined because of his sexual madness? Let him face d music.idiot.

Dis professor career is over.except miracle happens.

eph12:
I just switched channel and saw the scoreline. I couldn't believe my eyes man

my bro I expected Liverpool to win but for Roma I never expected it.at all.am really surprise.will b rooting for spurs dis week.man city is dis man city is dat.pep is d best coach in d world.c Na .man city will suffer next season

codedguy1:
Chai Ronaldo will be licking his lips looking at the trophy.

I tell u bro.

I can't believe what Roma is doing to almighty barca

Is over for man city.spurs will complete their woes dis week.nonsense n over hype team

Is over for man city.spurs will complete their woes dis wk . nonsense n over hype team

ImaIma1:
You cannot compare your wife with the children.

Ok. Answer this...would you hit your wife if she pushes you above your limit? Is there any justification for you to hit her?

like I said earlier I don't support beating of wife but everybody is wired differently . when u r exchanging words with yr hubby learn when to draw d line .most men or even women dat do damaging things to their hubbies dnt v intention initially.when dey reach breaking point dey snap .a woman shud watch out for dis point.u don't really know what u capable until u r push beyond yr limit.dont allow d devil to use u.i v been married for 13yrs now n marriage counselor in my church.after yrs of counselling couples one paramount thin I know dat trigger fight in marriages is women tongues.i was counselling a couple d other day,d way d woman was talking I was amazed.if she can do like dis in my presence what of at home? Most Men r like babies. Forget d macho things.respect n treat yr husband like a king he will treat u well.d truth is dat most of women r mannerless n disrespectful.

ImaIma1:
I agree with you. Women should respect their husbands and submit. But even the most respectful and submissive wife will offend.
My point is that there is no justifiable reason for a man to beat his wife. Even my parents stopped beating me since i became an adult and it is not as if i never did something wrong

dis is nt d issue of being submissive.u can express yr anger n displeasure without being insultive.is discipline.when our children cause or use d f word we caution dem.with time dey will get use to it

ImaIma1:
She is your wife, your other half. As long as you cannot beat yourself when you do wrong, you should never beat her when she is wrong. Or are you saying you are never wrong?

u r missing d point.dis is nt issue of nt doing wrong.is d issue of respectin yr husband.when most girls r dating dey r always afraid of insulting their boyfriends .dey r afraid it will send d wrong signals n d boy will vanish.genuine respect beget respect.am nt supporting beating of women but alot of alot of problems in marriages cud v b avoided if women learn to tame their tongue

ImaIma1:
If their friend uses the same words, will they beat the friend? It is a mentality thing...thinking the woman is beneath them and so she dare not.

A lady in the office will use worse words and they will control their temper. But at home, they must discipline the wife. Doesn't the man use bad words too? Who beats him?

d emotions dat emanate from u when being insulted by yr woman is different from a friend insulting u.is deeper n personal.in d first place r u suppose to insult yr husband?.can u go outside n insult yr pastor or a soldier? U can't try because u know u don't want society to luk at u as irresponsible.for d soldier case u r afraid.women insult because dey don't v respect for their husbands.dey feel he shud understand because she is woman.no.is a sign of irresponsibility n indiscipline -pure n simple . there r still women who very respectful.so y can't u emulate gud things

maviduchez77:
the lecturer don enter one chance, but he can still refute the claim by denying,that's not his voice on the call records since there is no substancial evidence to nail him has been tabled..

this is nt d issue of substantial evidence.is d issue of conscience n truth.if he like he can carry all d best legal people deep down he knows d truth.so also r his colleagues n friends because dey will recognize his voice on dat audio tape

ImaIma1:
No man has a right to beat his wife at all...for no reason whatsoever. There is no justification. He is simply a wild animal to hit her.

He will explain if my body was made for beating and who made him judge and executor.

my dear girl if every woman learn to control their tongue there will less problem in marriages.some words dat comes out of woman mouth can make some men do drastic things ordinarily dey cannot do.

He is on bp drugs n he is taking alcohol regularly.madam i will advise u pack out quickly because his death his very near.i dnt want his family to start blaming u for his death

Can't Ronaldo stop scoring?

seenter84:
Lol.
U b anti chelsea

am red bro.man utd.seriously I hope Chelsea win otherwise na Thursday football for dem next season

seenter84:
Make chelsea sha just win today.
If not no europa

Chelsea go lose

KOPT33:
I don't like take a swipe at people on account of their age but you leave me no choice: you're still a kid. Notice I said "younger siblings" not "junior ones" - there is a world of difference between the two.

We mature at a slower pace in Africa and that any early maturity that you witness around around is the exception rather than the norm.

You will find a world of difference in the mindset and behavioural patterns of 20 & 30 year olds.

Nobody willingly wakes up in the morning and decides to take up the mantle of leadership in the home especially if they're first borns. A desire to not see siblings suffer or make mistakes is the chief driving force.

You sound like the last born of your family and that you're not being heard enough - don't worry, assert your independence in a matured way your folks will listen to you.

dis is what I find funny on dis forum.y can't u make yr point without being insultive? Is nt compulsory i must i agree on what u r saying n vice versa.i like intelligent n purposeful argument.i will nt nt insult u back.i will b bringing myself to yr level if I do dat.like I said earlier is all gud.is yr life.

KOPT33:
Classic African religious fueled guilt tripping.

In any case, I feel that you're a man of peace, or at least, pretend to be one. However, unless you walk in my shoes, you would think that all you said are easy.

am a first son of a family (both on mother n father side).my father is late too.my mum is still alive so bro I understand perfectly what am talking about .am nt pretending.i was born here tough I v travel out alot.i had a very stuborn brother n sister who did things dat were really bad.i can use my position to punish dem.but I was there for dem when dey got married.dey r better people today.there is nobody dat dnt v issues.is how u manage it dat matter.i c u as a quiet n vengeful person.is all gud.is yr life bro.i rest my case

KOPT33:
You are misunderstanding this matter of the first born especially as it relates to me.

If you're a first born in Africa, for some reason, you are going to be wiser, often richer and more knowledgeable than your siblings. It is just the way that our society is structured.

People have varying levels of maturity, but most times you will see that the older a person is, the wiser they are. This is one of the reasons why a first born matters: he is there to help his siblings grow up into adults. At a point whereby everyone in the family has grown into adulthood, the influence they wield will wane but everyone will still give them their respect.

In my case, I am already a leader in my family to an extent. Most of my inputs are financial. Where I draw the line is the part where I am expected to be the one who solves the family issues that a father will mostly be called to resolve. These include land issues in the extended family, issues with members of the extended family, going out to represent my father during umunna meetings etc. I have no interest in those.

u c what I am talking about? What makes u think u r wiser n knowledgeable dan yr junior ones ? Alot of resources n energy r Chanel into first son .dats what d sometimes give dem edge over their junior ones.in d past our girls were relegated.but most parents r training their girls now.we can all c d positive impact dey r ving in our society today.

KOPT33:
Thank you for your contribution but I want you to consider something: how would you feel if you had a sister who got married, but you heard about the marriage from a stranger after six months, how would you feel?

The point is I was treated disdainfully and there was no excuse for that.

u v nt told us yr reason for falling out with yr family.my point is dnt use yr position as first son to punish yr junior ones because our culture n society v given u d power.dey did nt tell u about yr junior sis marriage .big deal . circumstances n conditions cause dat.move on n do yr part n leave d rest to God.or u think is by yr power dat u r who u r today?

angelbulksms:
It is true, some misbehave and get wicked. But that can be easily evaded by a wise dad.

For the emboldened: to say there is no burden of leadership on the first born, is like saying there is no burden on you with your position as a father. And to treat them equally in the context of leadership is not biblical, neither is it traditional nor wise.

Today, you're their father and they regard your words and abide for your household to be organized and respected, but a time would come when you would be long gone and your children would need a father-figure from within your own family - someone that can be a leader to them and have their interest at heart just like you.

At that time, the investment you made raising your first son for family leadership would be required. But if no such investment was made, your guess is as good as mine.

u r missing d point n I dnt understand what you mean by investment on first sons so dat dey can b a gud leader for their junior ones.so u v nt seen a second or third son being a gud leader? dnt know whether u v travel out before to white land n c how dey treat their children . listen is d way Africans pampered n treat their first sons dat make dem feel dey r alpha n omega.Bleep father figure.immediately u r 18yrs a white father will start urging u to leave d house n fend for yrsef.i dnt treat my first son as a first son.i treat him as my son just like any of my children .he knows he is nothing special because he is a first son.dis will translate when treating his junior ones when i am gone.here in Africa because of properties n stupid culture most of first sons v turn their junior ones into their puppets.to b use n manipulated for their pleasures.sit on their father n mother properties at d detriment of their junior ones

I said during during man city match against Liverpool dat their is nothing special about city.remove fear n attack dem n u will c dem stuttering.teams go ready for dem next season.pep think say he is in Spain or Germany

Instead of pep to relax his players he is making changes.liverpool will finish dem on Tuesday.he can still win d league even though he loses today match

DONADAMS:
their fada!!!!!!!!!!!2-3...shaaaaaanchez

yes o.their father!we r united

Wtf! 3-2.mourino ur a genius n a bastard

Pogba n sanchez v change dis game

Skimpledawg:
We need agent Rashy in this match

I just tire for mourino