₦airaland Forum

Renegadd:
I've always said I want to get married and have only one child at the age of 35.That will be in 8 years time . for my own life I want my child to be 15 when i'm 50 and 25 when i'm 60. You decide what you want for your life and go for it . No one but you can decide and make your dreams come true.

bro life is nt 1+1=2 .u can decide n plan all u like but it deos nt always turn out d way u want it .we r living in very complex world where alot of dynamics (physical n spiritual) comes into play.if some people v been told dey will nt b married by now dey will say is a lie. Some took wrong decisions which other people took n yet dey r married today . some were disappointed for no just reason inspite of their commitment to d relationship.some runs girl r enjoying blissful marriage while some"churchi" girls r not married .some v kept their bodies yet v difficulties in conceiving while some who done countless abortions r giving birth like no man business.is a complex world . just do yr best n leave d rest to d guy upstair

lefulefu:
so true. Most nl babes don sabi guys for here. It has even gotten to a point some guys coming here to complain about nl girl not replying their pms when dem send messages. I guess its all about being very careful.

is nt about being careful bro.is about being mature.u cannever c me say me anything personal about any person here.never.

lefulefu:
my guy u no lie oooo. U just reminded me of dat flame babe incident dat happened here last year.

go to sexuality section ( ashawo joint) n c boys narrating their sexual conquest with glee n pride.even putting pictures of girls dey v conquer.imagine a nl girl falling for dem.we nor go hear word b dat Na.

lefulefu:
but following the modus operandi of an average runz girl i don't think a runzgirl would have the interest coming here. Runzgirls/slayqueens mostly make use of instagram and Facebook to ply their trade. Dem go put up a hot pix and men that are interested will contact them for possible hookups. I know one auchi runzgirl wey one of her instagram sugar daddies bought her a white camry. What makes u think a runzgirl will come to nairaland. Are there any rich sugar daddies looking for young ladies on nl? I don't think so.d market no dey nairaland and no runzgirl will be interested in coming here. What i feel is that most of the girls here on nairaland are just ur normal indoor type of girls. Girls that come home from work or school and remain indoors. Na wetin me reason for d matter. If there are any runzgirl on nl dem go dey very very few. Market no dey here for dem to ply their trade.

u might b correct but I think y NL girls r hidding their runs girl side is because alot of guys on nl r kids.if dey knack any nl girl d whole forum will hear about it.u cannever c men on Instagram or mature dating sites boasting about their conquest .is childish.men dat v money n steady supply of girls don't talk much.

I don't understand.is Eric Bailey injured?or mou v personal issues with him?

nairavsdollars:
Couples need to pray hard. The institution called marriage is coming under demonic attack in these days. RIP to the departed

everything is nt demonic.is pure wickedness.she must v been exhibiting dis tendencies before.instead of d man to take action he was wishing it way hoping everything will turn out good.some youths r experiencing mild n extreme violent in their relationship now.instead of dem to run away or handle it dey r blinded by lusts, love n materialism.dnt worry marriage will open yr eyes

neolboy:
Ever since Chioma came into Davido's life things have been working in his favour. He really seems happy this past few month


Lord bless us with a partner that will bring good things our way

wrong.ever since davido came into Chioma life things v been working in her favor.

ubunja:
i dont expire like you.

lol..... dat is too harsh Na bro

nairaarea:
*MARRIED IN SCHOOL BUT SINGLE AT HOME.* THOUGH IS QUITE LONG BUT I URGE YOU TO READ AND THANK ME LATER

Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are practising 'wifely functions'!
Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment 'you look sexy my gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic smile. Who is her lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental association. So, the girl need to live with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls
suddenly loose their senses immediately they gain admission. I've seen that some of them have no more sense of caution, honour and dignity. They would change their wardrobes and acquire a new set of make ups just to look
'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In
months, they would start sleeping around with little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most of the time are infected with sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know that you were sent to school to obtain a degree not a disease. The campus is called a school; school not sex! You are on campus to receive education not ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do some thinking. Your future is greater than the 'best couple award'. You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than.
You give your virginity to a boy who will
definitely leave you after graduation. You play wife to a boy who cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open your eyes! Can't you see you're being foolish?
You are passing through the fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to a
coward who cannot stand before your father. And when you eventually gets pregnant, he would brutally advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the consequences later. What a shame! You may master the use of condoms but you can't master the punishment of your conscience. Don't you know you are bringing shame to your family? Don't you know that you are cursing your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a man) without her consent?
I cautioned a girl against sleeping around and she replied 'Sheddy, I don't sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to him'. What impunity! That's classified harlotry. And don't you know that sleeping with a man without your father's blessings is bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would use you and dump you; so why are you setting up yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a lady and one day you may get married. And your husband would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps with anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady would give to her husband on the wedding night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the certificate of best couple of the year on campus!
The other gifts for the rest of her life are her
care and character not her curves and
complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
screwed in! Those treacherous boys would call you 'sexy'
and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch your breast and you would smile? They would ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you are
indeed a mistake. I'm not saying that you should be rude or never live a 'social life' but I want you to think deeper than you are currently doing. I want to turn your attention back to your books.
You are not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay less attention to those boobs and give more attention to your books! You are not in school for cat walking show. You are rather here to show us the dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us that you are costly. So, why make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in my heart and that's why am sounding stern. I know about two girls now that have been living with
their boyfriend since year one and as it is now they can't even even count how many abortions they had for that same boy at sch bae. it's now like a normal thing to them, the last one she did
almost took her life and that made her bleed for 4 months, imagine how you do feel with ordinary 4 days of menstruation left alone living with it for months.. As a matter of fact one of them have damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive use of contraceptives she has taken to prevent pregnancy. I want you to look beyond now and think of what advise you would give your own daughter when you become a mother. I hope I have not offended you...if I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do not be swayed by these evil. Be consistent and keep celebrating your purity. I am always proud of you. And God is more proud of you.
....... . Thanks.

Bernice Cryout(Voice of Inspiration)
400Level Department of Nursing,
Nnamdi Azikiwe University

dnt mind our girls.dey r d ones loosing out .d guys will just b collecting free pussy n food every day.i know some guys will come up now n say dey r d one providing d money but hey u doing it for d pussy.Bleep love.d America n European way u r copying r accommodating it because their society tolerate it.girls grow up.guys thinking at dat age r control by their dicks. I repeat Bleep luv .is an unconsciously trade by barter

samso247:
My Gf nags a lot. She has temper issues, the last time she caught me cheating, she smashed my phone and the next week she bought a new one. Calling all my friends to come and plead with me to accept her back . I dont know if this is Love or Obsession. Cos she said if she doesn't have me, she will kil herself and her blood will be on my hands. I love her sha, but just hate her anger management

if u r wise u will run from dat lady now!

LivingFree:
Jaksmillioniar, is this you blogging lies to belong

You married? You still compose words like a toddler but you still have sense

miss English teacher because I made some mistakes in my composition am not married abi? continue . inrespect of being jaksmill or whatever please am nt.i dnt do alternate monkier.am real.am here purely for news updates n sports.go n check my previous posts .u can't c contradictions .am 45yrs my dear n v paid my dues in civil engineering world .so I can't b involve in alternate moniker deception . take care

elrony:
Rashford is mad

he is over mad.fellani inclusive

JimiCoker2:
Rubbish, is she your slave? Its not compulsory she does any chores for you, its a privilege not a right. That's like saying you go to a girl's house for the first time and she's disappointed you didn't help her fix her faulty plumbing. Doesn't sound very bright, does it

thank u my bro.am tired of arguing.i like dat word-is privilege n nt a right.

Gangster1ms:
Then if you know this issue is a 50:50 matter why then support the girls not to display the washing attributes, saying they are not maids.. or do you believe all guys are bad? because u didn't marry one in your younger days doesn't mean the whole girls should drop the cleaning attitude towards the guys. In as much washing doesn't guarantees a woman being a good one or being wifed, It's part of the little things that makes serious minded guys take the relationship to a whole new level and eventually marrying these girls in most cases!

thank God ur saying is a 50:50 .matter.anyway make I leave u.my team is playing now

Gangster1ms:
I doubt u have a wife. But even if u do then I'm certain u are the one washing her undies instead.

The ones that cleaned and got wifed cos of that cleaning culture. What do u have to say about those ones? A good woman knows the right thing to do. It's not all about the guy being dirty. You are so full of crap. Tomorrow now we gon see ur type at front page seeking for advice on what to do about terrible marriage issues. Mugu

one of d things dat get me amuse on Nairaland is people insultive nature.i luv intelligent conversations.y can't we argue like mature men n forget about calling names .is nt compulsory i agree to yr n vice versa.so am a mugu n woman wrapper because I dnt agree with yr points.i luk at yr dp n posts n c u r at dat age where u v raging sex hormones.so I understand.nobdy is saying a girlfriend dat has d above attributes dnt marry their man but most of our youths r camping girls to satisfy their sexual urge.taking care of yr boyfriend house deos nt guarantee her husband.dats my main point.am marriage counselor in my church so bro I know what I am talking.we r nt quarreling bro.let argue intelligently

Gangster1ms:
I doubt u have a wife. But even if u do then I'm certain u are the one washing her undies instead.

The ones that cleaned and got wifed cos of that cleaning culture. What do u have to say about those ones? A good woman knows the right thing to do. It's not all about the guy being dirty. You are so full of crap. Tomorrow now we gon see ur type at front page seeking for advice on what to do about terrible marriage issues. Mugu

one of d things dat get me amuse on Nairaland is people insultive nature.i luv intelligent conversations.y can't we argue like mature men n forget about calling names .is nt compulsory i agree to yr n vice versa.so am a mugu n woman wrapper because I dnt agree with yr points.i luk at dp n posts n c u r at dat age where u v raging sex hormones.so I understand.nobdy is saying a girlfriend dat has d above attributes dnt marry their man but most of our youths r camping girls to satisfy their sexual urge.taking care yr boyfriend house deos nt guarantee her husband.dats my main point.am marriage counselor in my church so bro I know what I am talking.we r nt quarreling bro.let argue intelligently

D issue here is nt about whether our girls r bad or nt .dat is a different topic entirely.d issue is using dis kitchen or house cleaning stuff as a yardsticks for good wife.u like Bleep all d girls in yr state.dat is yr fucking problem but dnt hid under dis cleaning issues n b using it to bleep n saying u r trying assess a wife material.dat is summary of what am saying

ImaIma1:
She will do all the chores and he will still go and marry someone else.

I don't advise any lady to do chores in a guy's house. Just wash the plates you use. He cannot leave dirty kitchen, dirty clothes for you to come and do to prove that you are wife material.

If it is that one, abeg it is better to remain girlfriend material.

dnt mind dis people.dey r looking for people daughter to use n dump.all these guys forming tough or macho attitude r mostly insecure people because of bad past relationships or upbringing.listen when I was in Uniben in early nineties I camp a girl in d quarters for almost 3yrs.she did my laundry cook for me.infact very wifey.i did nt marry dat girl after graduation.wifey duties my foot .i went out with another one for 7yrs.i did nt court my current of 13yrs marriage more dan 2yrs.am a man .I v pass through this phases .most of our current youth think with their dicks.remove sex n c whether d same man will nt turn to an entirely different being .so because yr girlfriend did nt arrange yr bed or yr kitchen is nt a wife material.grow up . marriage geos beyond dat . like I always tell people dat i counsel there is big difference between WIFE n GIRLFRIEND

ImaIma1:
She will do all the chores and he will still go and marry someone else.

I don't advise any lady to do chores in a guy's house. Just wash the plates you use. He cannot leave dirty kitchen, dirty clothes for you to come and do to prove that you are wife material.

If it is that one, abeg it is better to remain girlfriend material.

dnt mind dis people.dey r looking for people daughter to use n dump.all these guys forming tough or macho attitude r mostly insecure people because bad past relationships or upbringing.listen what was in Uniben in early nineties I camp a girl in d quarters for almost 3yrs.she did my laundry cook for me.infact very wifey.i did nt marry dat girl after graduation.wifey duties my foot .i went out with another one for 7yrs.i did nt court my current of 13yrs marriage more dan 2yrs.am a man .I v pass through this phases .most of our current youth think with their dicks.remove sex n c whether d same man will nt turn to an entirely different being .so because yr girlfriend did nt arrange yr bed or yr kitchen is nt a wife material.grow up . marriage geos beyond dat . like I always tell people dat i counsel there is big difference between WIFE n GIRLFRIEND

Gangster1ms:
No woman in her right senses will respect u as a man.
Go save up money for transgender surgery.. pussy ass.

so making your girlfriend do yr dirty laundry n wash yr toilet is what makes u a man ?my friend go n sit down. My wife deos those things for me .u r looking for who to dominate n use by dangling u want to marry dem in their face . those dat v been doing it how many has our men married?if u like clean from yr here to Canada a man dat will nt marry u will not marry u . period.

XhosaNostra:
I see your point, but I still believe she should have done the "right thing", irrespective of his chauvinistic beliefs. Guests come into two categories, too. There are good guests & there are bad guests. IMO, she falls into the later. You just don't walk out as a guest, like a snake slithering out of a hole. It's not right imo, but that's just me. I hope she at least made the bed that she laid her greasy head on.

if dis guy v just said my girlfriend Bleep up for nt arranging d kitchen I won't v reacted .he said she has failed his wifey litmus test .I dnt agree with dat.dis is nt d issue of being chauvinistic orcdoing d right thing .

onatisi:
you know that it is an innsult for a lady visiting her boyfriend to eat and leave the dishes dirty. this is not only an african thing but global , it is a different issue entirely if the lady offers to wash the dishes and the man refuses ,it will be on record that she at least offered to wash them . this particular act has spoiled many ladies chances with their men . except the lady knows that she isnt ready for the man or not serious with him . but if she is really serious about marrying the guy then she must start showing the man and his family the kind of wife and woman she will be in the mans house

is nt global my bro.d Africa way of a wife material is when she washes d dishes washes d man clothes even d whole family self runs errands for dem n den keep quiet when being spoken to.bullshit.a woman can easily fake all dat n turn to terror when she finally enter yr house.eveytin still boil down to master slave relationship being exhibited in Africa

XhosaNostra:
Let's assume she left in a hurry & had other things to do for the day.

All this wife material stuff aside, it is a proper thing to do, to tidy up just a little bit if you've slept over at someone's place. It's common decency & courtesy.
Personally, I'd never leave a relative's, a friend's or any house for that matter, without making sure that everything is in order before I leave. It just doesn't feel right to leave a mess behind. That kitchen is not even that dirty, just disorganized. It wouldn't even take more than a few minutes to straighten it out & call it a day. No skin off your back. Some people are taking this "girl power" thing way too far imo. Just clear off a few things, it's the decent thing to do if you've spent the night at someone's house. It takes absolutely nothing from you.

my dear u r missing d point n yr integrity.d girl was his guest .he shud take care of her.d attitude of dat guy is a typical Nigerian guy attitude .is nt taking care of house I v issue with.is attitude she must do it otherwise she has failed d wife test.poverty n per pressure has finished our girls

Thunder fire u .if u want house cleaner go n hire a maid.na yr wife?when boys visit their girlfriend homes do dey do man jobs in d house.boys always looking for excuse to dump girls.is d girls I blame sha.it was nt like dis in d past.every guy now want a live in lover so dat( according to him) he can assess her wifey attributes whereas Na their dick dey do d thinking.v always maintain most youth actions in a relationship r being govern by their dicks.love fire.dey will never agree sha but deep down dey know am saying d truth.luk at what is happening in our campuses today.students living together.d males will just be enjoying free pussy n food all in guise of living as husband n wife.postinor 2 will now b d female companion.in most cases dey will not marry.what is now left is a damage womb.d guy will go n marry another babe.girls wise up

Thunder fire u .if u want house cleaner go n hire a maid.na yr wife?when boys visit their girlfriend homes do d man jobs in d house.boys always looking for excuse to dump girls.is d girls I blame sha.it was nt like dis in d past.every guy now want a live in lover so dat( according to him) he can assess her wifey attributes whereas Na their dick dey do d thinking.v always maintain most youth actions in a relationship r being govern by their dicks.love fire.dey will never agree sha but deep down dey know am saying d truth.luk at what is happening in our campuses today.students living together.d males will just be enjoying free pussy n food all in guise of living as husband n wife.postinor 2 will now b d female companion.in most cases dey will not marry.what is now left is a damage womb.d guy will go n marry another babe.girls wise up

madridguy:
Western education is the only way out of this mess.

thank u my bro .I dnt understand how u can convince an educated southerners/Easterners to go do suicide bombing.d guy doing d brainwashing dey mad.y him nor go . Nonsense.

mikron:
on the contrary I really want them to win GGMU

d same here bro .let dem win it for prof Wenger.rivalry aside he is a good coach.GGMU

Y is it anytime main election is approaching boko haram activities will increase?d political class has nt told us what is happening

NoDulling4here:
If I should predict, I'd say Madrid has a 60% chance of winning it while Liverpool has a 40% chance. But Liverpool's chance is still there and it is substantial.

Liverpool is quite predictable in that they ALWAYS play 4-3-3. If Klop can add a little flavor to that formation, work on his defenders to know how to block the likes of Ronaldo and Benzema, practice taking penalties, they might just bring the cup to England.

Real Madrid on the other hand are vulnerable at the back. Marcelo is always venturing forward leaving three defenders at the back. That might prove to be a gift for Liverpool's three musketeers .
If Alex Ox-lade and Emre Can play in the final, it will not be easy for Madrid. With Liverpool, things can happen so fast and before you know it, you are two nil down. Ask Man City .

In summary, no one knows tomorrow. Any of the teams might win it.

u just mentioned d two players dat cud v help against Madrid -alex n emre- but unfortunately dey won't b playing. besides I just feel Madrid r Destin to win dis cup for d third.is their time.d god of ueafa r with dem otherwise how can u explain d near misses of Bayern Munich .my bro dis cup is for Madrid .Salah is gud but he is nt as dangerous n clinical as Ronaldo infront of goal.

NoDulling4here:
I smell fear.

Though Liverpool seem vulnerable especially in defense, Madrid might easily go 3-0 down within the first 30 minutes of the final

am nt a Madrid fan but dis cup belong to Madrid whether u believe or not.

obonujoker:
I am a Madrid fan though buh you are right... Others teams have to step up

my bro bone abeg .dey tie other teams legs? Am a man utd tough.if Madrid like dey can win a million times.na their determination n luck

Britishcoins:
I don't know why people like u has a very wicked mind.
Why have you not killed urself? So that you will not suffer in the zoo.

dnt mind d idiot.