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TravelRe: General Australian student Visa Enquiries Part 2 by ENGRJCJ(m): 3:51am On Sep 21, 2015
bossladymo1:
I have gone through their website. So it goes straight to the recipient's account yea? Hope no long tin along the way?
Pls MA, I need ur advice. I received a conditional offer to do diploma of oil and gas engineering in Perth. I have written IELTS and I scored 6.5 overall but I studied chemical engineering. My problem now is it advisable to go for it and how possible is it to get a visa since I have ist degree already. Please I need ur help because right now I don't know the next step to follow and I can't go for PR coz of my Ielts results and lack of experience in my field. The school is to resume in 1st Feb 2016
TravelRe: General Australian student Visa Enquiries Part 2 by ENGRJCJ(m): 9:04pm On Sep 20, 2015
malmo:
I wouldnt think there is any other way except you want to follow the PR route. Alternatively you could check out for TAFE colleges, you may find those with low tuition fees. Australia tuition fees are on high side.
Tnx boss
TravelRe: General Australian student Visa Enquiries Part 2 by ENGRJCJ(m): 6:07pm On Sep 19, 2015
please guys help a brother, I studied Chemical Engineering in my first degree but got admission to do diploma in oil and gas engineering in western Australia. is it advisable to go for it or is there any alternative because i cant go for masters because of high tuition fees. i have written IELTS already.i need an urgent reply, pls someone should help me pls
TravelRe: General Australian student Visa Enquiries Part 2 by ENGRJCJ(m): 4:06am On Sep 19, 2015
please guys help a brother, I studied Chemical Engineering in my first degree but got admission to do diploma in oil and gas engineering in western Australia. is it advisable to go for it or is there any alternative because i cant go for masters because of high tuition fees. i have written IELTS already.
Christianity EtcRe: Happy Birthday Mother Mary! (photos) by ENGRJCJ(m): 10:01pm On Sep 08, 2015
Happy birthday Ave Maria and pls my cake(prayers)
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: //pictures Speak// Ilorin Version Of #madeofblack by ENGRJCJ(m): 10:44pm On Sep 06, 2015
Yes o.. U are
PoliticsRe: Egyptian Billionaire Offers To Buy Mediterranean Island For Refugees by ENGRJCJ(m): 11:48am On Sep 06, 2015
Metrofox:
Where's the good heart here? undecided all i see is a smart business man.. grin do you know the possibilities here? It's limitless..trillions of dollars in profit in the near future..monopoly on healthcare and other endless services. truly we all see from different perspectives
Bro some people will still benefit. Anyway everyone has his own perspective
PoliticsRe: #100daysinoffice: The Governor Udom Emmanuel’s Score Card by ENGRJCJ(m): 11:35am On Sep 06, 2015
OK... I hope it's beyond the tabloid
PoliticsRe: Egyptian Billionaire Offers To Buy Mediterranean Island For Refugees by ENGRJCJ(m): 11:25am On Sep 06, 2015
Rich man with good heart is not easy to be found. Keep it up sir and pls remember boko haram victims in Nigeria.. Our rich men here are selfish and greedy.
PoliticsRe: Is Buhari The One Who Is To Come Or...? By Simon Kolawole by ENGRJCJ(m): 11:23am On Sep 06, 2015
True talk
RomanceRe: How I Will Treat My Next Girlfriend. by ENGRJCJ(m): 7:04am On Aug 30, 2015
I just wish there is nothing like sexual urge, I won't have anything to do with them. Girls are very deceptive and they don't even know what they want
TravelRe: General Australian student Visa Enquiries Part 2 by ENGRJCJ(m): 10:34pm On Aug 19, 2015
[quote author=KIKIADE post=37104919][/quote]Pls Bro, the IELTS u wrote, is it academic or general. If it's academic. What's the secret of getting good point. Pls reply me because mine is coming up next week
CareerRe: Now That I Got A Job I Am Now Confused. by ENGRJCJ(m): 5:16pm On Aug 15, 2015
If you want to end up as a lecturer then go for teaching in order to gain more experience.. But u want to be a sale rep then go for the other one..
PoliticsRe: Lola Oguntade: How I Gave Up Everything To Campaign For Buhari by ENGRJCJ(m): 4:26am On Aug 08, 2015
marshalcarter:
I smell lies



No banker would leave his/her job to cum nd campaign for sum1 dat doesn't knw you undecided except dem dey folo you from villa grin



But if dis is true....nne.....you deserve the 2015 best afriFOOL award grin
She might be a marketer and u knw if you don't meet the target, na problem so she quit for a better job
PoliticsRe: Ayo Fayose Dancing With His People (Photos) by ENGRJCJ(m): 9:34pm On Aug 05, 2015
This man eh.. Is very different from other politicians some how , always with the masses
PoliticsRe: How Ooni Of Ife Was Represented At His Son’s Wedding Today by ENGRJCJ(m): 9:22pm On Aug 02, 2015
Na waa o. Too much booking
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: My Portrait Painting Portfolio Artist Ayeola Ayodeji by ENGRJCJ(m): 4:36pm On Aug 02, 2015
Good works.. Just wish talents would be encouraged rather than prostitution
Christianity EtcRe: The Dedication Of Catholic Church, Nkpor Anambra (Photos) by ENGRJCJ(m): 12:55pm On Jul 27, 2015
Catholic Church, I love everything about its doctrine..
CrimeRe: Landlord’s Manhood Disappears After Giving Stranger N700 To Help Sick Mum by ENGRJCJ(m): 10:21pm On Jul 26, 2015
Na waa o.. To do good now na wahala
PoliticsRe: Obiano Holds Mass Burial For Unclaimed Bodies Of Fuel Tanker Victims (Pic) by ENGRJCJ(m): 9:29pm On Jul 17, 2015
That's my hometown, obosi.. May their souls rest in peace, amen. Other towns rejected their bodies to be buried in their land but my town allowed them..
#OBOSIUKWALLA #PROUDIGBO #PROUDNIGERIAN.
PoliticsRe: 30 Dead In Triple Boko Haram Attacks In Maiduguri by ENGRJCJ(m): 7:29pm On Jul 15, 2015
What does this boko haram want from us.. Pls we need to knw y dey killing people both Christians and moslem
RomanceRe: Must Read: Man Shares Touching Story Of How Confidence Got Him His Wife by ENGRJCJ(m): 7:46pm On Jul 08, 2015
shamsuRana:
Now the opposite.. wink

My name is Barrister Aliyu Ahmed and I would like to share my #DivorceDiaries with you

1. I'm a lawyer from Jigawa State. I am the chief Legal Officer of a new generation bank. I am 44 years old #DivorceDiaries

2. I met my wife at law school. Her name is Barrister Aisha Malumfashi and she was my wife for 10 years #DivorceDiaries

3. Aisha was a powerhouse of intellect. What attracted me to her was her brilliance in class. Always answering questions

4. Even during group discussions her contributions were always brilliant and thought provoking. I was floored

5. I also considered myself quite the guru,having graduated with a 2.1 from Ahmadu Bello University. Aisha was my equal intellectually

6. She was and still is a powerful mix of brains,beauty and booty

7. We were in the same study group so it was easy for us to become close freinds quite fast #DivorceDiaries

8. Despite all her assets Aisha is one of the most humble women I have ever met in my life. So humble and down to earth #DivorceDiaries

9. Unlike most people we decided to get married without any of that love nonsense. We were great freinds and it was enough

10. We decided to get married after our service year. Aisha was a great sport. She didn't want any Lefe or ceremony. #DivorceDiaries

11. And so we got married. And we were happy. We both got jobs and life was good. We were not money crazy like the youth of today.

12. The first year rolled by with the usual hiccups and up and down of settling into life as husband and wife #DivorceDiaries

13. After our 2nd anniversary we started trying for a baby. Our marriage was fine and our friendship was rock solid. What could go wrong?

14. It was 4 years of marriage and 2 years of trying for a baby that we realized something was wrong. #DivorceDiaries

15. And that's how the barrage of tests started. Naturally only Aisha was subject to these tests because I was presumed to be virile. LOL

16. After all the tests, my freind Dr Khalid certified Aisha healthy and fertile. We were advised to wait for Gods time.

17. It was the dawn of the new millennium. We had been married for 9 years. We were both very successful attorneys and no child

18. At this time things started to get bad and confusing. My parents blamed Aisha. The bad blood started btw my wife and my family

19. Things escalated quickly and before I knew it my home on Rabah Rd was invaded by malams and rubutu #DivorceDiaries

20. Aisha started getting desperate and I did not like it. Why should she be desperate saboda Allah da Annabi? #DivorceDiaries

21. Things got so desperate that Aisha herself pleaded with me to take another wife #DivorceDiaries

22. I flatly refused. I told her I was disappointed in her. Haba. Meanwhile deep down I knew why we were childless.

23. You see I knew that I was impotent. I had known since my days at ABU that I couldn't get a woman pregnant. #DivorceDiaries

24. How did I know you ask? Well permit me to explain. Back in university I had a gf Godiya #DivorceDiaries

25. Godiya was a pharmacy student and she was always cheating on me with the big boys on

26. Godiya got pregnant in her 2nd year while I was in my 3rd year. She insisted I was the father. I wasn't ready to accept. #DivorceDiaries

27. Long story short, my freind Khalid told me to go for a sperm motility test. I did. #DivorceDiaries

28. I still remember the smell of the air freshener of the doctors office. When I was flatly told I would have challenges fathering kids

29. I still remember the look on the doctors face. And all these years I had lived with having empty sperm. Literally. #DivorceDiaries

30. Now that Aisha was getting desperate I knew I had to do something to preserve my secret. Before she found out.

31. So I went to Dr Khalid my dear old freind for advice. And right there in his office we hatched a plan to get Aisha Pregnant

32. The plan was that he would prescribe a sedative for Aisha. And ask her to take the drug at bedtime. He would tell her...

33. It would help with increasing her chances of getting pregnant. We reasoned Aisha trusted him enough not to ask too many questions

34. And we also figured a desperate woman would accept anything. I told myself it was for the greater good of my marriage to do this

35. And so Aisha took the drug some nights later. I let my freind into our bedroom and he made love to my wife. We did this about 5 times.

36. Aisha always assumed I was the one who had been intimate with her while she was knocked out. And some months later she was pregnant.

37. 9 months later my son was born. I named him Abubakar. I honestly was overjoyed. Khalid was a genius. #DivorceDiaries

38. All was well and blissful in my life. I fell in love watching my wife become a doting mom. Reconciled with her inlaws she was happy

39. It was after Abubakar's 2nd birthday that he started getting sick. He was always sick. Running high fevers and we were worried.

40. After several trips to the hospital, our son was diagnosed with Sickle Cell Disease. He would be in pain most of his life.

41. I was shattered. The guilt was eating me up. I knew why this had happened.

42. You see in my haste to get a child, I forgot that my freind and my wife had AS genotype. I was AA. #DivorceDiaries

43. There was no way Aisha was gonna miss this. She would figure everything out and I would lose everything. #DivorceDiaries

44. And so I decided to come clean. Aisha had literally beaten up the doctor because she insisted she was AS and I was AA #DivorceDiaries

45. As we sat by our son's hospital bed I confessed to Aisha. I told her everything. She was hysterical.

46. She would never forgive me for sure. She would probably kill me. What I did was unforgivable. #DivorceDiaries

47. I was even more devastated when 2 days later Abubakar passed away. Inna Lillahi wa Inna Ilaihi Rajiun. #DivorceDiaries

48. For a while I thought that Aisha and I could fix our marriage. I was doing all I could to be there for her. #DivorceDiaries

49. Aisha was having none of it. She went to her waliy and told him everything. I was invited with my waliyy. I was so ashamed.

50. That meeting was the longest meeting ever. It was the most painful 2 hours in my life. I sat there and saw her anguish and her pain

51. Aisha asked me straight up for a divorce. I was so ashamed and guilty. I wanted us to fix things. I didn't want her to leave me

52. I didn't want my secret to be out. I was a popular high flying lawyer in Kaduna and yet I was an empty shell of a man.#DivorceDiaries

53. Aisha knew this and she threatened to take
me to court if I refused to give her a divorce.

54. That is how I divorced my Aisha. After 10 years of marriage, after all her kindness and friendship and loyalty. I repaid her like this

55. I still have trouble sleeping. I have cut all ties with Dr Khalid. I am still unmarried. The guilt still eating me up #DivorceDiaries

56. Thank you for sharing my #DivorceDiaries I hope people will learn..
Bro, I feel your pain honestly, you went through a lot. Stop blaming yourself, l believe oneday all will be fine
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram Threatens To Kill Thisday Journalist (read Their Letter) by ENGRJCJ(m): 7:39pm On Jul 07, 2015
This guy should run for his dear life, nkwucha aburo ujo
PoliticsRe: Female Suicide Bomber Attacks Military Checkpoint In Borno - Sahara Reporters by ENGRJCJ(m): 7:32pm On Jul 07, 2015
Why are people still in borno state, they should leave that state for them na
RomanceRe: 76-yr-old Retired School Principal Dies On Top 18-yr-old Girl by ENGRJCJ(m): 5:32pm On Jul 07, 2015
He will continue the choping in d next world, don't know where he will be going.. Don't judge
PoliticsRe: Oby Ezekwesili Tweets About The Recent Incidents Of Suicide Bombing In Nigeria by ENGRJCJ(m): 5:12pm On Jul 07, 2015
mykl01:
No checkpoint to stop them ni o!
Lol.. I dey tell you
PoliticsRe: Oby Ezekwesili Tweets About The Recent Incidents Of Suicide Bombing In Nigeria by ENGRJCJ(m): 2:23pm On Jul 07, 2015
May this people no enter lagos ooo
FamilyRe: White Wedding Photos Of Election Couple by ENGRJCJ(m): 12:24pm On Jul 05, 2015
Pls u r dating my wife to be, pls take it easy on her
PoliticsRe: Military Takes Over Anambra Prison - PUNCH by ENGRJCJ(m): 8:15am On Jul 05, 2015
If u can't get any good information from them why keeping them in prison, kill them before they deceive some inmates..
Nairaland GeneralRe: A Thread For Night Crawlers. (late Sleepers) by ENGRJCJ(m): 1:56pm On Jul 04, 2015
adedayourt:
looool doz pplo frm ur village
I dey tell u

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