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How can it be possible that the Amir of kano is more powerful than the Sultan of Sokoto?

CyrusTheGreat:
Too scared to debate with people who poke holes in your foolish violent religion?

Dont ask me nothing, go and find other people that u can relate with and chat with them.

If you hate them so much prove it by leaving this post and remove the field that states you believe in Islam in your profiles

CyrusTheGreat:
Disgusting.

And islamists wonder why the whole world hates them.

It would do the peoples of the world a huge favour if the monsters who support these barbarous and unintelligent laws just disappeared.

Hotgates if you are not a muslim you have no business posting here, if it was an honest question you were asking people might have taken the time out to answer you but you are coming with quotes from books that you don't understand and you are trying to cause friction here... Nobody will indulge you.

If Islam is false as you claim then leave this post.

hotgates:
conclusion:

Muhammed died from complications of the poison he ate at Khaibar.

He said "I feel as if my aorta is being cut from that poison."

His prophecy is false because he said is aorta would be cut if he was lying about his prophecies

Say, "O disbelievers (Kafirun)
I do not worship what you worship.
For you is your religion, and for me is my religion."
Verses 1,2 & 6 - Surah 109.

Here you are - those who argue on their behalf in [this] worldly life - but who will argue with Allah for them on the Day of Resurrection, or who will [then] be their representative?
Verse 109 - Surah 4.

Does your senior brother pay rent, or is it his house? If neither of those, send him away.

If they want to continue warn them that you will tell her husband, as for whether you will tell him or not I leave that to you.

Make it a point to visit her husband and gist with him she will start getting scared and hopefully she will cut that shit out.

RichlyOBS:
I went to office today and forgot one of my phone at home, so I decided to rush back and get it... the moment I got home I saw my senior brother fucking our neighbour's wife.... the door was locked but I have my own key... can you imagine where they were doing it? in the sitting room,, they thought I am coming back late.... (it's just me and my bro living in one apartment)....

Now the Lady is begging me with a sum of 500Euro to keep quiet or I should come and Bleep her too..... am still thinking of what to do because her daughter is a close friend to me and her husband is a good man and we work at the same place,, he's very kind.....

And my bro is also begging with his iPhone7 to keep quiet.... Lol I don hammer

my point is if I keep quiet and her husband and her daughter find out they will blame me for not telling them or they will think I was the one that connect her to my bro because am the only one who is so close to them, i enter their house anytime any day,i eat with them sometimes...

and if I say something I will remain enemy with my bro and the Lady.... and also it will destroy their lovely family...

am just confused....

1st things first, when you get the chance have a sit down (you and your parents only dont allow your other siblings to come and join or chuck mouth, they may be the ones poisoning your parents mind) if they have some false notions about her, you can easily clear it, or just for the sake of peace you can ask your wife to accept the blame (even though she isnt guilty) and apologize to them. If they just hate her kuma na patience things 4 both of una.

By the way whatever your parents do dont spark or quarrel with them, appeal to them with gentle/kind emotions to see what they are doing to "the mother of their grandchild". And defend her whenever you get the chance. You can even do some good things for your family and when they want to thank you, you tell them no its your wife that did it, they should thank her (that will show your wife that you are not allowing your family to ride over her anyhow)

That was for your parents.

As for siblings, if they do anyhow show them anyhow. With them your can be harsh to a certain degree (not the level that will make them call your parents and they will start sparking for you)

As for the wife you have to be the loving husband, always try to come up with new stuff that your wife will find fun and exciting to help her forget the way your family is treating her even if it is for a little while. You can help with some simple house choirs, spare her the wahala of cooking by occasionally taking her out to eat (by the way inform her, its not that afta she cook finish you go come tell her say lets go and eat elsewhere).

Finally you said she is making plans to run away with the child to her parents​, YOU HAVE TO MAKE HER REALISE THAT HE IS AS MUCH YOUR CHILD AS HE IS HERS (not by verbally telling her oh), play with the child, be a loving doting father, help her when you see her tired of taking care of the child, when you're free keep the child around you develop a real strong bond with the child, and God willing even if your family is brewing a storm outside at least you and your wife can be safe from their troubles in your home.

NO FORGET GUY, PATIENCE!!!

And try and console her whenever your family pulls their stunts on her, at least she will know that you realise the injustice in her situation.

If you can afford you can all go on holiday to whatever country her mother is based in.

deleSayo:
Since I married my wife, we noticed signs subtle signs that my family dont like her.

From day one of introducing her to the family, my elder brother's wife treated her with so much disrespect and everyone else followed suit. We ignored this and proceeded to marry.

For trad wedding, I gave money to my parents to help purchase the items for her bride price but on the day,  I was pained to see that the items were significantly incomplete (my wife noticed this too and kept it in her heart). She later told me that she saw my parents looking bored at the church wedding;as if they couldnt wait to leave. I was surprised because I saw that too but thought my wife hadn't noticed.

When we fell pregnant, they failed to acknowledge my wife's pregnancy throughout until the birth of the baby. Furthermore, my mother failed to show up for omugwo, leaving us alone to care for the newborn child.

All these things have built up resentment in my wife. She takes out the frustration on me. Things are so bad that my wife has completely isolated herself from all members of my family. She refuses to communicate with them or attend any functions.

Recently, I got wind that she is making secret plans to abscond with our baby and go live with her mother who is based abroad. Please I dont want to lose my wife. She's the best thing that ever happened to me but I can see clearly that she now despises both me and my family.

The marriage is in shambles. She believes that I failed to defend and protect her. not that I didnt feel the pain. Its just that I didnt know how to handle the situation. Please how can I resolve this?

Eggcelent:
Eno38151 She didn't mention the idea. She only said her Dad suggested building hostel accommodation at a vantage spot. A project which has been gulping her saved-up capital for her dear business idea.

Aimingincognito. I understand why some of your friends would advise against quitting your day job. The risk in business is always there. Is it possible to get a trusted, focused & motivated but yet-to-be-employed relation to manage the business at its inception? Then you can quit your job when the business proves successful. With that you won't have to quit your job & you can still actualise your business desire.

Success!

True

Hardeysolution:
How does one tackle a sin that reoccur every time? Even after prayer and consecration, when you still find your self in sins that you are aware of, what's the way out??

Make a strong resolve to never go back to that sin and avoid the things that lead to that sin no matter how hard it is, the best way is to replace the sin with something worthwhile and productive or just something that you find interesting and can occupy you.

Being in the company of people that wont tolerate that action will also help you build up your character and show that it is not impossible... You can also search 4 YouTube videos of people that have overcome what youre going through.

It will always be hard especially if that sin was something that you liked doing, but you will find that it would only make you stronger mentally to overcome your urges especially when it is a sin.

LePrezident:
No she didn't. Kindly re-read. The hosel construction is no the idea, that's a side project her dad advised her to engage in earlier.

Youre right mrPrezido

LePrezident:
Do you know the idea?

She mentioned it now

Love Machine:
They were all at the jumat prayer.But rather than praying their eyes were all at president buhari.maka why?

It was either before or after the prayers, as he PMB himself was looking towards el-rufai.

paranorman:
Did that, still confused.
check out this link: http://php.net/manual/en/pdo.installation.php

What I think is that the server cannot locate/find the PDO driver in the folder specified in the php.ini config file. I checked the folder, driver was there. I check for the folder specified in the directive, it was correct. still confused but I am going to keep looking.

Thanks anyway.

Can you specify the exact error code and the printout message 4 d error​.

R u using Windows nd what version??
Do you have any database application on the system?

paranorman:
Hello house,

I am trying to run this on XAMPP's MySQl server:

try {
      $con = new PDO("MYSQL:host=locahost;dbname=db_name", "username", "password";
      $con->setAttributes(PDO::ATTR_ERRMODE, PDO::ERRMODE_EXCEPTION);
    
      $query = <<<HERE
SELECT
  CONCAT(surname, ' ', firstname) AS 'name',
  country
FROM tbl_customerdetails WHERE surname LIKE ? AND firstname LIKE ?;
HERE;
      $stmt = $con->prepare($query);
      $stmt->execute(array('J%', '%a%'));
      $result = $stmt->fetchAll(PDO::FETCH_ASSOC);
      print "<pre>";
      print_r($result);
      print "</pre>";
 } catch (Exception $e) {
    print "ERROR: " . $e->getMessage();
 }

I get this error: driver could not be found..

I suppose the driver is supposed to come bundled with the XAMPP app itself.
App's version info: Apache/2.4.25 (Win32) OpenSSL/1.0.2j PHP/7.1.1

I didn't get this error when I was running the the App version with PHP 5. Can someone help me out with this?!

Try searching d error code on Google

revelation2013:
I need a High School Result Checking/Management Script written in PHP MYSQL...

Please help where can I download one free?

Try StackOverflow or the IEEE websites

Subkid:
Please i want to start now and buy palm oil and keep when the price really go up i sells it. Please who knows which month d price always drop and which month d price always goes up. Please epp a brother with experience. Thank you.

Go to the local suppliers you would be surprised how open they would be.

Ganjafama:
Which is more rewarding (financially) of the two. Please pardon my ignorance.Thanks

Depends on the size/complexity of each job, but to me on an average web design pays better.

AbdelKabir:
By the way "Eno" sounds like an efik name short for "Enobong". Are you efik?

Nah just a random online name,

انا فلّاته

AbdelKabir:
I actually read it, but as you can see, this "discussion" is not bringing any benefit, rather its dragging to say inappropriate things..... Be calm, calmness does not enter a thing except it rectifies it, the strong one is he who can restrain his anger, these are the teachings of rosoolullaah...



Wa ant fa jazakallaah khayra

Noted akhi, maassalam

AbdelKabir:
Is this how u gonna continue? ALLAAH SAYS;

Oh ye who have claimed to believe, fear Allaah and say correct/good statements...

leave this guy abeg...

Assalamu alaikum,

Akhi pls read this guys comments you will understand why I am harsh with this aduwul lah.

Btw i enjoyed your post about how to treat ahlul bid'ah

Jazakallah Khair