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dohyn:Oga biko, still look at it from the tenants point of view. Her last rent expired on the 31st of January. Today is 11th of February. She explained that she might be transfered to Abuja and you want her to pay one year again first and if she is transfered you will refund? Haba! Have some compassion. If she is transfered, she will need to settle down there too. How will she be discussing refund and looking for money to move at the same time? I am certain she replied that she is entitled to that notice because of your demand. It is better that both of you meet in the middle. My suggestion: 1. We know you are entitled to your rent. 2. She will know if she will be transfered in about four (4) days time. 3. If she is transfered she can pay you rent for a month and use the remaining days of the month to pack out or even pay for two months to make her transition smooth while you open the house for another tenant. Somehow I think she does not want to have to be asking you to refund. Tenants are human too biko. ![]() |
haykay2005:Since she is owing rent for a year, she is only entitled to seven (7) days notice of owners intention to recover possession of premises. Once that notice is served, upon expiration or even before expiration, you need to file a process in court to evict her legally. The court will not take it lightly with her that she is in default of rent for that length of time |
menix:He has no entitlement to the 6 months notice. By paying 3 months notice, in the face of the law, he renegotiated his tenancy and brought it down from a yearly tenancy. His reasons are irrelevant so there is no issue or consideration for cogent reasons. A landlord is entitled to his rent and once a tenant pays rent dutifully, the tenant is entitled to peaceable possession. |
Damalex4luv:1. If the one year rent your paid is subsisting and will expire by march ending, this means that she has missed the opportunity of giving you a VALID notice to quit which should have been for six (6) clear months terminating on the last day of your current term or rent except you entered into an agreement to determine the tenancy with a shorter notice. 2. If that is not the case, Since she has failed to do that the option she has now is to wait till you default in your payment and become a tenant at will then on the basis of your default she can now quit you with a shorter notice. 3. The law does not allow you stay over in her house without paying rent so even after she gives you notice you are still entitled to pay her rent for the months you stay over except that this time it is called the mesne profit but it is usually the same amount month as you paid before. 4. I understand that you want to pay her back for her bad conduct and seek a means to do so. For you, this is easy cos your last rent was a year and she has missed the opportunity to give you a valid notice so before she can correct the anomaly, you would have stayed over for the 3 months you want to stay. Cos briefing a lawyer and quitting you legally will take her at the very least that 3 months but eventually, you will still pay the rent. 5. My question though is, if she does all those bad things to you and you don't have peace in the house, why do you think you will enjoy the 3 months you want to stay? If she can torment you when your rent is subsisting, what will she do when your rent is now in arrears? 6. My advice - you are bigger than her. Look for an apartment where you can enjoy and appreciate your rent |
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Mariacruiz, I just did a big chop on 15/1/16. My hair is low porosity. Please what should be my hair regimen; what should I use for prepoo and what should be the content of my spritz can? I am thinking water honey and argan oil? Please advice |
sonofananimal:You have to start brushing her up to your standard right now ![]() |
cococandy:I know she is lying because the said father in law is unnamed; the community is also unnamed. Despite what is may seem to the outside world, Nigeria is no longer in the stone ages. If she is emancipated enough to seek asylum in a country like Canada and seek the services of a lawyer then she is emancipated enough that the in laws cannot impose their will on her. However, I must say that I agree with you on the issue of sensitisation. deliveryboy:Male genital circumcision is practiced in Africa and indeed in Nigeria. We have not distanced ourselves from it nor made laws against it. This is likely because we know its benefits and found a basis for it in the bible. Please do not give the impression that nairalanders are mindless simply because we have said no to fgm and you feel the reason is because that idea comes from the west. We as nairalanders and Nigerians have weighed the pros and cons in the light of knowledge and decided not to stand for it. We have examined the rationale for the practice and found it wanting. The clitoris enhances the pleasure derived during sex for women and we have seen no reason for clipping it merely because some men feel that sex should be enjoyed only by men while women just endure it. Or that women become promiscous simply because it is not clipped or chopped off. We have proved that as a nation we do not mindlessly follow the dictates of the west by prohibiting same sex relationships. Please give us some respect. |
![]() While Fgm is indeed a form of gender based violence which is prominent in the African culture, the dynamic nature of culture and movement against it has ensured that it is no longer a problem in Nigeria. In the main, it is now done only by women who are steeped in their ways and take their female children to do it as of course as well as traditional health workers who do not want to let go of the practice as it is a means of income generation. If this claim was not bogus the woman should have mentioned the community and the father in law's name. Heck we even have several laws against it , the latest of which I think is the Violence against Persons Prohibition Act of 2015. Madam just used that story to seek asylum and get the canadian govt to take car of her triplets ![]() Sometimes, white govts can be so gullible SMH |
Lol, my kind of gal ![]() By the way, must the ends of the curtain rods be open for it to smell like that? (laughing my evil laugh) |
Cetona:My dear, only a 'kid' will mistake that kind of have fun for the real thing. Even a 'kid' will know the kind of eye the mum used to look at him as she says the 'have fun'. Its like your mum telling you on your way to a particular place that when you get there and they say come and eat you should say thank you then when you get there they invite you to come and eat and in their presence you ask her 'mummy can I eat?' Biko ...'have fun ni' Before that perceptive guy starts screaming 'abort mission abort mission' you think say na clear eye? |
Cetona the one about having fun got me cracking. I can just imagine me telling DH to go have fun in that kind of circumstance. ![]() The look on his face is usually epic lol Keep them coming ![]() |
How can he be sure her words can be trusted if she is economical with the truth and talks in the presence of their leaders? Are the leaders supporting her return? If not then why is she calling in their presence? |
Seriously, it is now free? Hope the free is not the same as 'bail is free' Just visited the link and I really hope it is as easy as described. |
The companies probably know they owe the corps member a responsibility and since they can't cope they refuse outright. Is that not better than accepting them yet refusing to pay any stipend? |
olumide4christ:Thank you. In that case could you please edit my comment. I would get to you via whatsapp. Once again....thank you for the detailed response |
Seriously? The question that begs to be answered is where does the loyalty of this Salkida lie. You are a BH confidant and you sit in your house and spew forth rubbish. Would you do the same if your daughter was one of them? At this rate I don't even believe the chibok girls issue was real anymore. If it was true then Salkida himself is a sadist and inhumane terrorist. 'Some of them have refused to convert to Islam' Tripe uttered solely to dust off the issue and garnier sympathy since the story seems to have died down? Well, since you have refused to release them ...eat them. Hediiiiiooooooooots!!!Even if the Chibok girls are still alive or whether it was just propaganda, what is the essence of the rescue since their lives will never be the same again? |
olumide4christ:Hi, Thank you for this invitation. Thank you very much. |
MelancholicGuy:Sent. Lemme know when you receive them |
MelancholicGuy:I I think so. Will have to check to confirm. Most of my e-books are either PDF or epub like 'The Kane Chronicles' though I only have Vol. 1 of that one. They are all by Rick Riordan * Just checked. They are PDF. You will also |
MelancholicGuy:It is all about adventures. A medieval setting featuring Greek gods, strange animals/creatures, sword play etc since you like sword of truth you will like it. If you send me your email, I can send you e - copies. |
My husband's cheque book? Biko that is a joke! I read the book. I stumbled on the series but did not bother myself too much about following it cos I had read it. Once you read a book, the movie is always a sappy second cos they can never quite capture everything in the book. But I agree with you the book and by necessary inference the movie is awesome. I think you might want to read the 'Percy Jackson' series too. It includes 'The Lightening Thief' 'The Sea of Monsters' 'The Titans Curse' 'The Battle of the Labyrinth' etc. Stumbled on one of the movies and it was awesome but I had to go to work hence I did not watch it till the end |
Have some compassion.
If she is transfered, she will need to settle down there too. How will she be discussing refund and looking for money to move at the same time? I am certain she replied that she is entitled to that notice because of your demand. It is better that both of you meet in the middle. 