₦airaland Forum

Chuksmonika:
filling of NYSC form for those to participate in batch A stopped last month in my school...and i guess it applies to other school also,so Bro we have to wait till November,before you know it,November will come

Back to sender in Jesus name.

Chuksmonika:
even if Nasu strike is called off now,it is not possible for you guys to go with batch A,you guys will have to wait for batch B in November,that what Nasu caused

Back to sender in Jesus name.

Timetable for nysc, 2018 batch A is out but nasu hasn't called off and I've not been issued my statement of result

thegentleman:
Abi 2017 batch A. We are leaving around April/May, no one knows exactly when yet.

Thanks. I pray NASU calls off the strike

Fifthwave:
I totally relate to the question you asked. I'm also in the same (if not exactly the same) shoes. I understand, just keep managing the place. April/May is around the corner which I suppose is when Batch A mobilisation would begin. So, let's keep our fingers crossed.

Thanks a million. I appreciate. Have a blessed night.

Fifthwave:
Your comment reeks of ignorance, pain and deceit. Did he say he is the only one that's a graduate?
And your best advice is to go and look for work? Work for how long?

Did it occur to you that she asked this question to enable her plan herself?

I think phones and internet connectivity is becoming too cheap and readily available to all and sundry. That's a huge problem.

Thanks a lot. His reply pissed me off. I only innocently and sincerely ask a question to know how I can plan on some things. Moreover, am teaching but for how much? Each time I try to apply in other bigger place, am told that I can't be given because I've not served (NYSC) and might leave at any time once the service comes up. Now am asking on this platform knowing that there are many that may be able to help with the information only to get some comment. Anyway, thanks for standing in for me, am grateful. Good night

Reelectbuhari:
u are not the only one that is a graduate....


go and look for work...get urself busy and think less of NYSC because NYSC is a failure.....

What kind of reply is this block head? Must you comment? Yeye fowl

Good day everyone. Am a graduate waiting for the 2018 batch A's mobilization but a little bit worried if this NASU's strike will affect it. More so, I've not been issued my certificate yet. It was supposed to be ready in a week's time when NASU now went on strike. Pls will this strike affect NYSC batch A? Help pls

pocohantas:
Since this is the keyword today, find attached my project work

Topic: Who will be worst affected by widespread adoption of sex dolls?

Case study: NIGERIA.

Hypothesis 1: Males won't be worst affected.
Hypothesis 2 : Females won't be worst affected.

Observations:

>Sex dolls currently cost about N800,000.
>Nigeria with over 180million people.
>Over half of this population are living in poverty (i.e) below $1 a day.
>Minimum wage is N18000 = N216,000/annum.
>Npower is N30000 = N360,000/annum.
>NYSC allowance is N19800 = N237,600/annum .
>Unemployment rate was 18.8% Q3/2017.
>The average Nigerian saves less than N60,000 in a year. As at 2015, NDIC made it known that 2% of Nigerians, account for over 90% of deposits in banks. Those 2% are definitely not here shouting we want sex dolls.
>The average Nigerian has a starting salary of less than 20k. Yea, we all remember that first teaching job, cybercafe attendant, secretary/receptionist...etc.
>The average Nigerian youth is either living in their parents house or sharing space with a friend. You need private space for that damn thing.

Conclusion: No gender will be worst affected. There will be no sales boom of sex dolls in Nigeria [amongst average Nigerians] for now. There'll still be enough men and women to go round for interested parties. A very minute percentage of the population will buy that doll, this includes males & females. Deeldos sold, maybe because of affordability [and portability].


Recommendation: Wake up, you're in Nigeria. A hypocritical conservative shithole Most of us are hustling, broke, upcoming, not buoyant enough...etc.

Reference: Poco .J. Smith, "Sex Robots? Societal and Economical Menace or Not?"

God bless you for this... It's even a very glaring sign of end time, it's demonic. Through them (the sex dolls), people will start getting spirit husbands and wives.

ChappyChase:
So the sex doll manufacturers want sell market

Sex doll is demonic

When specifically will 2018 batch A leave?

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

Haha... Forgive her is all I can say. What if she dnt tell you, what if she stood on her ground and show no remorse? This world is just full with surprises, don't be taken unexpected neither should you over react

Donjazzy12:
You need sense!

Get away. Big fool kawai

jaykorbs:
@ GraGra247

She is making effort and intelligent, I know, I just don't want eventually end up with someone I don't love, I don't want to get married to someone out of pity, although, marriage is not in my plan for the next 4 years, I just don't want to waste her time further. On the issue of compensation, I don't the financial prowess to do all you just mentioned but I sure want to still be her friend when I eventually break up with her, assisting her in every possible way.

And my friends are not asking me to break up with her, they are actually telling me not to.

It's not fair no matter how you paint it honestly. You would have retreat the moment she told you about herself. It's not good. Whatever you do, think of tomorrow. And if you really don't love her, pls break up with her now, instead of marrying her and go and be cheating or maltreating her. You no try sha but the earlier the better.

FrancisDozie:
I will be back to comment let me freshen up,but the poster above me is high, he should carry on with her out of pity huh, that's how people will be hiding because of what others will say and fall inside a ditch. She's not d first person to be an orphan neither will she be the last. Her lover owes her no compensation if he doesn't dig her again. You can help her since u have so much sympathy.

You need slap

deturla:
Please reach out on Whatsapp: 0.8.0.6.7.4.8.4.1.0.9
Cheers.

Thanks a lot

deturla:
A Nigerian lady, Eniola ‘Mae’ Adeniji. who happened to be my very good friend shared this story on her Instagram page and I had no choice but to share! It is heartbreaking, overwhelming and liberating at the same time. It is a LONG READ but absolutely worth every second of YOUR TIME. READ HER EMOTIONAL STORY:

So today I stumbled on an IG page of a dear friend’s wife, and got to follow the link on her profile to another friend’s Blog. Gosh, that was how I signed myself up for waterworks and haven’t been able to stop even while typing this.

The lady had shared about her journey through endometriosis and infertility, through a 3 part Blog post. I must say it is the most emotional thing I’ve read this year, gosh. I think beyond the story and the pain it was laden with, it brought so many memories for me. So so many. Gosh!

See 8 years ago I walked down the isle a very sad bride, I knew I didn’t want to, not after all I have discovered during the closest time we spent together preparing for the wedding (since it was a long distance relationship). But I was young, naive, silly, foolish and afraid of failing everyone. I was afraid about what people would say to my mother if I canceled the wedding, what the church would say to my family, what his family would say, what my friends would say. I worried so much about everyone else but ‘ME’. So like a lamb to the slaughter, I walked down that isle. I had cried to bed on the engagement night and my makeup artist had to do so much works to make my face beautiful on the wedding day.

Oh I was sad, I tried everything to be happy but I couldn’t. At a point I kept muttering to myself, ‘Eniola, you can do this, you are loving and kind and can make anyone be a better person’. How silly, because I was naive and foolish and didn’t know ‘you can’t make anyone love you, whose intention isn’t to’. _

Fast forward to 3 months in it and I knew I couldn’t do shit. I didn’t have the power to, only God can. All I could do was to truly give my best and then focus on God to help do the rest. Oh I was lonely, it was the loneliest season of my life. I wasn’t allowed to go out, have friends or do anything. There was no cable because he believes it was a waste of money. So no TV basically. All I had was my Bible and books. In 3 years I must have read about 100 books and written over 500 articles (chuckles).

I was just expected to wake up very early daily to cook, clean, lay still whenever he wants sex even if he pounces on you while sleeping, and just be mute while every decision is made around you.

And when his mother wants you in Osogbo, you are to pick your bag and go to the park and endure an 8 hours journey without a single word. With time, all that soon became a norm until a year later and there was no pregnancy. And then the daily calls started, how I am expected to explain my body and whatnot, explain my periods and ovulation, explain every headache and temperature. And then when we both visit the family for the holidays, I am told to stay indoor so people won’t see I am not pregnant. And when everyone goes visiting, I’m left in the house.

And then his family deciding which Gynea/OBGN was next for me to see, and how it must be in Osogbo and I had to travel 2/3 times every month by road from Abuja to Osogbo to see a specialist, where I was probed and poked.

Oh the endless injections, the bleeding, the constant pain and suffering. Messed up cycle and hormonal imbalances due to all the drugs and injections. And having no one to talk to through it all (because after all in marriage you are suppose to take things and refrain from talking to outsiders). I’d still come back home to a man who saw nothing but a glorified slave and a sex object.

And then gradually the many injections messed up my weight, I wasn’t eating and yet was gaining weight, my clothes weren’t fitting anymore and I was eventually left with 2/3 clothes and had to rotate them every Sunday. Oh the shame and snicker from people. My skin had become so black and carrying my dread without relocking for over a year. I hated that our Church was inside Sheraton, you can imagine the kind of people there. What was worse was nobody ever talked to me to know what was going on. Nobody, they just found a way to go round me while they chatted with him like I wasn’t there. …..Continued in next comment….

Then gradually depression set in, and then I began to lose my mind. I will be in the sitting room and forget I was cooking and the food will burn with smoke all over the house and I still wouldn’t even know until I begin choking and needed my inhaler. Gosh it felt like hell.

And then finding out a year later through another specialist in Abuja that I wasn’t the problem after all, he was the problem all along, he had no sperm count.

Amazing… I think for the first time in a long while I felt joy, I even got to shake my bum-bum after he’d gone to work (chuckles). I felt like God vindicated me and for once I was left alone. Of course the abuse continued, but at least minus the poking, endless injections and drugs.

Someday I hope to finish my book and share things I’ve not quite bring myself to share with anyone else. …Now the purpose of this post isn’t to make you feel sad, throw pity party around Naaa. No, it isn’t because I haven’t healed, I have come a very long way in my journey through healing.

The purpose is to advice every young man and woman out here to be patient. NEVER be in a hurry to walk down the isle to anyone you know deep down doesn’t honour God, doesn’t honour you, doesn’t honour anyone. One of the greatest support you can have in marriage is your partner. If they aren’t your partner while dating, marriage won’t translate them into one.

Have you ever watched a war film where 2-3 partners are paired together in a fierce battle to combat an opposing force? Now imagine those partners Waring against each other while also enduring the blow, missiles and gun from the opposing force? Get it? That’s what happens when you walk down the isle to someone who doesn’t have your best interest at heart. I don’t care how rich he/she is, how beautiful or handsome or how ‘nice’ they are, if they do not honour God and honour you, you have no business walking down the isle to them.

I know for a lot of us women, the dream about a Bella Naija wedding can seem so alluring that you ignore the fact that it is just for a weekend. I know a lot of men are daily pressured by families to marry for various reasons, but marriage is forever.

Marriage is beautiful, I have testimonies all around me, but it isn’t a bed of roses, it has its best days as much as it has its worse days. The only thing that causes you to triumph is God and the right partner. There is nothing as amazing as walking through war and minefield with your best friend. A man or woman who will stand in faith for you when your faith is all gone. A man or woman who if you end up tomorrow losing your most valuable body parts, will still stand tall beside you. A man or woman that if you lose all your earthly possession will still be blooming beside you while cheering you on.

I beg you in the name of God, wait for him, wait for her and while waiting keep developing yourself towards becoming the perfect spouse you also seek. NEVER neglect the place of God and godly counsel also. Shalom.

http://deedeesblog.com/nigerian-lady-shares-her-traumatic-marriage-experience/

Good day. pls I need to talk to you, to seek for an advise. Thanks

Nathan and Nadia, beautiful names. Not people giving their children hailey, haloween, etc

kennygee:
Just dey go. No be me go stoop to ur gutter level.

SHIT!!!

kennygee:
My comment is not an insult, don't start what you can't finish.

See who's talking... Shey na you get money? Follow bush jor

kennygee:
But this guy no too get money na.

How many house you don build? Mtcheew

skimmy005:
cee one of d richest musician no gold chain no tattoos just simple, I like dis dude.

Do you know if he's got one on his butt?

Any edo, bini specifically in the house?

juniorboy:
This thread will bring prospective corpers for the 2018 Batch A together.

Let's meet here to discuss latest news and issues bothering on
registration, mobilization and so on.

To help foster unity on this thread, 18A corpers should please introduce themselves in this format:

-Alias/Moniker
-School/Institution
-Course of Study
-Year of Graduation and lastly,
-Where you wish to serve

Thanks.

Pls what month will batch A commence next year?

vchykp:
YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED as am going crazy now, i met this very pretty girl 2 weeks ago and the relationship is growing very fast, she really loves me and i do too, within the space of this 2 weeks, she has visited me 3 times, no sex yet as she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us.

To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed, my instinct told me to check the money i kept close to the wardrobe draw, i scatter money a lot actually, but no matter how scattered i keep my money, i know howmuch i keep everywhere in the house, the money was supposed to be 32k, on getting thier i discovered 5k was missing.

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice

Do you mind we talk privately on this? Thanks, through e.mail pls. Have a blessed day

Mrop:
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See more beautiful photos at http://www.praizeblog.com/2017/11/checkout-this-cute-pre-wedding-photos.html?m=0

Wow... Am very happy for her. We were class mates in secondary school, FEDERAL GOVERNMENT GIRLS' COLLEGE, BASAWA, ZARIA, Commonly known as FEDZA. We were both in yellow check, Salvia house. Congratz to them

Thiannah:
he means batch B 2017 strea m1, those who passed out last week were Batch B 2016 stream 1,you get?

Thanks

kingsley3218:
Ui'm referring to batch B 2017 whose timetable has just been released.

Oh... Thanks

kingsley3218:
Ain't changing.....Batch B stream one leaves camp by december,stream 2 should leave by february....Batch A 2017 would commence May, that's the new pattern for now

Now you're confusing me. I thought Batch B stream 1 just passed out in November and stream2 will be by December

kingsley3218:
As usual......May next year

Thanks, was thinking it's March and I thought the calendar always change.

Pls I wasn't mobilised for this batch B, November's batch this year. This makes me to ask, like what month will batch A be going for service next year? Thanks

This is a very serious issue. Am a victim and it has affected me badly, even my relationship. Everything about sex is distasteful and it just made me to be rigid and make people think I don't have feelings. I've seeked for help and read all the readable online on how to come out from the trauma it has caused. I still need more counselling on it because it's still affecting me. Thanks