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RomanceRe: The Manipulator, The Enslaved, Who Serves Who ? by ERCROSS(op): 12:51pm On Nov 06, 2014
April07:
Well... no one is the manipulator or slave in a true and honest marriage.. IMHO

The couple agreed to shoulder each others load when they agreed to get married. If you meet someone who's truly meant for you then you wouldn't have to feel manipulated.

I think most people get the idea of marriage wrong...the woman is supposed to be man's help mate. e.g if they both are farmers, he does the tilling, she does the planting, she comes back to remove weed and nurture the plant while he goes hunting and then they harvest together (my view on marriage). He can't do everything alone. Neither can a woman, they need each other to survive. whether married or not.

No one gets to be manipulator or slave if that order is followed. "Woman: Man's helpmate"








[size=3pt]Still #teamNoMarriage[/size] grin
Hmmm..

TeamNoMarriage abi.
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RomanceRe: The Manipulator, The Enslaved, Who Serves Who ? by ERCROSS(op): 8:46am On Nov 06, 2014
tosyne2much:
Thumbs up my OP, so na you write all this epistle ?


You have now upgraded to the latest OS of MizMycoli
grin
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RomanceRe: The Manipulator, The Enslaved, Who Serves Who ? by ERCROSS(op):
Ayusco85 made reasonable points but I can only hold on to one which was a very good advantage even for the enslaved himself..

And that was the family thing..

A man never knows the value of the family he has being responsible for until when age start defeating him

I think this was why God established the marriage institution.

But my question is that...
Who serves who...
Who is the manipulator...
Who is the enslaved....

undecided
RomanceRe: The Manipulator, The Enslaved, Who Serves Who ? by ERCROSS(op):
In my own personal opinion.

*The truth spoken by killjoy will eventually spread and more enslaved will be convinced, hence may want to stop shouldering such burdens throughout their life. And while this happens, The biblical prophecy shall come to pass that

" And in the end time, Ten women shall come to a man, just for us to be called by your name"..
Chai.. Some men are eagerly waiting for such days, dirty minds grin

*Looking From killjoy's view, most women go into marriage to relieve their financial burdens
Little wonder why they do they won't stop looking for a dark, tall, man (the physique of a able-bodied man who can work to provide financial and protection needs) up nd down

*The above supports the reason why u see a well to do(wealthy) lady who refuses to get married because she already has what shld make her go under a man,

*And also supports the reason why women has that Satellite dish that peep into a guy's future, if he can make it in life or not before deciding to take the vow with him, she ends up ditching his sorry bottom or acting weird when things aren't getting any better, then he starts wondering, where is the love she claims she had at the start.. (poverty don carry am go.. Hehehe smiley

I think this is the reason why my boy Tallesty1 says Behind every successful man is a great woman, because women don't follow unsuccessful men. Sharp guys
RomanceRe: The Manipulator, The Enslaved, Who Serves Who ? by ERCROSS(op):
*At 55, He is at the top of his game, the peak of his career, he controls a large amount of money, has a big garage of cars, assets in billions..

*He has partaken in every form of enjoyment there it is to life, what new thing does life has to offer. ? Hence, Life Starts being meaningless to him. Then he realize one thing is missing off his seemingly perfect life. He realizes there should be someone in his lonely life who should have made life worth living for hI'm at his age.

*Who will inherit all he has worked for his whole life without mismanaging them, the billions in bank, the large collections of cars, the companies. Not even the children he had failed to nurture properly while he still had his so called manipulator under his nose.

* Then it hits him he had built his success on an ending vanity, he realized what he will be missing for the rest of his life, That set of people who will watch out, protect and take care of him when he became weakened by age, he has for his shortsighted course removed them from his side..

*Surely. No one lives forever..he finally went to the great beyond. A fulfilled man was what the world called him but if only the afterlife could fill the hole in his heart..

This is the likely end of a person like killjoy kind of view on marriage and this is in support for ayusco85 points
RomanceThe Manipulator, The Enslaved, Who Serves Who ? by ERCROSS(op):
I came across a thread on the front page with the title "why men shouldnt get married" by killjoy and a counter thread by ayusco85.

I strongly suggest u read dis write up. It's not even half as lenghty has that novel u Finish up in 2 days.

Even though they both made and had their points, but I will like to examine some basic facts.
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*As soon as she it realizes she was edging near her late twenties, she decided it was time for her to start seeking.. (uhnmm ..seeking for what huh ...Only God knows oo)

*she starts attending dinners, registering on every dating site, going to weddings, occasions and events, invited or not. Most times u find her in church praying and fasting for God to help her unearth the treasure she seeks ( and u go think say, Na she fear God pass, For where ? tongue

Observative question :: why is she the one who does the seeking, why not HE undecided

*Lucky smiled upon her nd she finds what she so craved and prayed for. Her face glimmers with smiles and extreme joy as d alter-man hooks the slave to the manipulator Legally and spiritually hehehe ...Worries Invited For Ever embarassed

*He ends up wasting his energy , expelling his nutritious sperm with a decrease in blood level in quest to sexually satisfy the manipulator, and gets condemn behind his back if he underperformed. ( Jeez, like seriously ?lipsrsealed)

* He invents the vacuum cleaner,cloth washer, grinding machine, overcooked food, to make her life less stressful and purchase it for her with his own money (what's more romantic than this undecided. A Hollywood movie I guess.)

*He works to support himself, the manipulator and his children, while she works temporarily or does not even work at all, most of her life, she supports neither herself, nor her child, let alone the enslaved. sad

*She trains the child to love her more than the him, which she eventually succeeds on when the child choose to take care of her more than the him for most of the times.. this is sewioushuh

*At the end of everything, the He is most likely to die first after those years of stressful service.

The above facts seem to be in support of killjoy's points.
EducationRe: Federal University Of Agriculture, Abeokuta(FUNAAB) 2014/2015 Admissions by ERCROSS(m): 7:18am On Nov 05, 2014
mayayinks:
dat means no. Resumption dis year. OMG. I feel like crying
Don't cry ehn...
Pele dear..

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RomanceRe: Every Lady Does This Pics (18+) by ERCROSS(m): 5:32pm On Nov 04, 2014
themmydhayhor:
Bitches jealous since 1900BC
Ur suggestion is even far frm d answer..

** I dey inside one danfo bus as I dey type this tin
And the Mumu wey dey beside me jst dey
Giraffe wetin I dey type...



The mumu don face him front..
E be like say him read wetin I write up there..
huh **

Now, thats how it happens..
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RomanceRe: Arab Guys❤️ by ERCROSS(m): 5:29pm On Nov 04, 2014
Onila


Ssecondary virgin toh badt..


kiss
RomanceRe: Who Do You Think Is The Most Infuential Person In This Section? by ERCROSS(m): 5:23pm On Nov 04, 2014
Andyblazepenis..



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RomanceRe: Guys Would You Rather Have The Car Of Your Dreams Or The Girl Of Your Dreams? by ERCROSS(m): 3:00pm On Nov 04, 2014
I'd rather have the car of my dream...

Btw....

Na who dey do the BONANZA..
undecided
RomanceRe: My Cousin Is Crazy by ERCROSS(m): 2:57pm On Nov 04, 2014
marieolae:
If you cannot convince your cousin, what makes you think that some random nairalanders will?
Nice one

U v spoken sense..
Jst like u always Do....



Once in a month...
kiss
RomanceRe: Why Re Men Always Chasing After Women? by ERCROSS(m): 2:53pm On Nov 04, 2014
Raymondenyi:
All these trend; I see; is giving me worries; u'll see a girl being wooed , by differnt guyz, buying her things, promising her heaven on earth, n making her go for the highest bidder... I sTrongly believe if men re to think with their head, n not their pen*is ; n stop going after women; just allow them; dey 'll be running after us, n spending their money on us...]

Please young mmen; think right n act right today!!!
Bros...
Wake up..
Mawing don do..
RomanceRe: The Older A Girl Gets, The More Her Tummy Protrudes by ERCROSS(m): 2:05pm On Nov 04, 2014
O.p

Pls..
How is this romantic..
undecided
RomanceRe: Romantic Gestures For Him by ERCROSS(m): 9:33am On Nov 04, 2014
Bring along jst 2 of her friends to my place..

And lets have a foursome...

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RomanceRe: Ladies!! Enough Seriously. We Swear!!! by ERCROSS(m): 8:59am On Nov 04, 2014
Ladies, u really need to quit having this notion that U gave a man sex ...

U didn't give us and it's not a gift..

We r the one who gave u ..
U enjoyed it most..
RomanceRe: My Unfortunate Love Story by ERCROSS(m): 12:54am On Nov 04, 2014
Nigerdeltaboi:
Front row * chewing kuli kuli*
Broz...
I carry zobo cum ..
Make we do trade by batter ?
grin
RomanceRe: The Days Of Night Call, Lets Go Memory Lane by ERCROSS(m): 12:51am On Nov 04, 2014
That one bad gan ooo

To wake up in d mawin Like dis na wahala..
Eyes go dey pepper person like say dem put firewood inside..

Thank God for

2GO
Bbm
And
Whatsapp..

Bygones r bygones..
Mtn xtracool.. wink
RomanceRe: Pink Lips by ERCROSS(m): 12:31am On Nov 04, 2014
Yes Naaw

Have u tried Aboniki Balm

It works like hell...

Try it...
grin
RomanceRe: The 5 Stages Of A Relationship: What Stage Do You Think You Are by ERCROSS(m): 12:16am On Nov 04, 2014
Mskrisx:
No bf no stage cry
Me too...

embarassed

Since we have this in common..
Lets stage each other naaw..

kiss

grin
FashionRe: What Is Your Cant-do-without Make-up Item? by ERCROSS(m): 12:04am On Nov 04, 2014
iluvmoscow:
That push up bra can put on spectacular wonders. I always end up disenchanted after unhooking them under 3 seconds.
Seriously broz...
Dis ladies v Bn catfishing us since d days of Spartacus...
RomanceRe: I Don't Even Know What To Title This by ERCROSS(m): 12:02am On Nov 04, 2014
Mrval20:
Each time she comes around, always talk about your girlfriend(even if you don't have one) in the middle of a conversation. Tell her some made-up stories about the memorable moments you've spent together with the girl (whether imaginary or real), talk about how you love her so much and how no other lady on earth can replace her.
Believe me when you do this for one week, she'd begin to feel uncomfortable around you and gradually let you be.
Source: Experience..
Best advice so far..
Take this one.. No let them block ur head with some other yeye advice oo..
Like one mama advised u to snub her sparingly up dere..
huh
EducationRe: What Was Your Favourite Snack As A Child by ERCROSS(m): 5:42pm On Nov 03, 2014
Baba dudu...

And

Sisi pelebe

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EducationRe: Does Reading Makes Us Smarter ? Yes Or NO by ERCROSS(m): 2:57pm On Nov 03, 2014
Capital NO

A typical lagosian knows what smartness means

No sleeping on the bicycle is the motto..


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RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Flaunt Your Relationship On Social Media by ERCROSS(m): 12:50pm On Nov 03, 2014
P.D.A huh
[ public display of affection] undecided




Grown ups don't do that...
sad sad
RomanceRe: You Were Not Aware Your Woman Needs These!! by ERCROSS(m): 8:02pm On Nov 02, 2014
MzPreshie:
Lol..
Appreciate ke? No be only. What's there to appreciate? Their stingyness or their unromantic nature?:-P
Bae...
It's not STINGYNESS as u'v insinuated..
It's called Prudent Spending
tongue

Haba...
Unromantic Nature bii ti bawo...
It's called ....hmmmmm...
Tallesty1 / tosyne2much kon help me complete dis sentence ooo...
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RomanceRe: The Permissible Powers Of Men.... by ERCROSS(m): 6:31pm On Nov 02, 2014
O.p..
Its a men world..

God made it so..
Not men themselves..
RomanceRe: You Were Not Aware Your Woman Needs These!! by ERCROSS(m): 4:53pm On Nov 02, 2014
MzPreshie:
Gbam!! Tell them abeg. These guys need a hard lesson on how to be romantic and loving.
This ladies needs a hard lesson on how to appreciate their boyfriend's/husband...
tongue

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