Travel › Re: Lagos Ranks World’s 3rd Worst City To Live In by EricMason(m): 6:32am On Aug 19, 2016 |
TILL WE GET THERE  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Sins Are Bigger Than God by EricMason(m): 7:21pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
sorry i didnt read it but i judge it from the title..... NO fucking sin bigger than the GOD i serve. maybe the god you serve tho  |
Crime › Re: Two Nigerian Women Caught With Stolen Meat In London (pix) by EricMason(m): 7:18pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
jeeesu  |
Crime › Re: Best Man Steals ₦3.7million From Groom & His Friends For A Stag Weekend by EricMason(m): 7:16pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
thank GOD he only stole the cash....... |
Romance › Re: Girl Flaunts Her Aged White Husband (Photos) by EricMason(m): 7:11pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
TITLE #Things we do for passport  #things we do for benjamin$  |
Celebrities › Re: Muma Gee And Prince Eke Welcome Baby Girl! (photos) by EricMason(m): 7:09pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
welcome to planet earth...... |
Celebrities › Re: Just For Fun! Which Nollywood Actor Would Play You In The Story Of Your Life? by EricMason(m): 3:19pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
none of the above  |
Celebrities › Re: Veteran Actress, Hilda Dokubo Has 53 Children (PHOTOS) by EricMason(m): 3:17pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
the society needs your type... |
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Abia Governorship Tussle, IKPEAZU WINS APPEAL. by EricMason(m): 3:14pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Average Breast Sizes Of Women Around The World. Check Out Nigeria On The Map by EricMason(m): 3:09pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
i swear down na big lai, how comes china and nigeria they same rank....... my chest big pazz chinko brez sef  |
Pets › Re: Ada Names Her Dog "Lai Mohammed," Says It Resembles Information Minister by EricMason(m): 3:01pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
me still waiting for a pet to be call AISHA BUHARI  |
Politics › Re: UPDATE: Ikpeazu, Ogah win Second Appeal [3 More Appeals to Go] by EricMason(m): 2:58pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
appeal still pealling  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Daniel Obinim Flogs Teenagers For Sex Act (Video) by EricMason(m): 1:11pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
this happend in ghana, the pastor's name is OBINIM..... end time niga  |
Romance › Re: How Can I Get A Girlfriend That Will Not Request For Money? by EricMason(m): 1:02pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
how can u go to heaven if you dont experience death?.... thats the right question you asking bro  |
Romance › Re: A Big Boy Posses With Unclad B*tches On Facebook by EricMason(m): 12:46pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: A Big Boy Posses With Unclad B*tches On Facebook by EricMason(m): 12:29pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: A Big Boy Posses With Unclad B*tches On Facebook by EricMason(m): 9:54am On Aug 18, 2016 |
but not this typ of hustle ooo  ;Dlol #legitHuzl power900: walahi bro, I'm talking real pick not just peanuts.....may god bless our hustles |
Romance › Re: A Big Boy Posses With Unclad B*tches On Facebook by EricMason(m): 5:47pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
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Business › Re: CBN Reviews Weekly Dollar Sale To Bdcs To $50,000 by EricMason(m): 9:00am On Aug 17, 2016 |
oh God pleas, my fees time is approaching please stabilize the naira else i might not be able to write exams...#AMEN  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Women Kneeling Before A White Man In Uganda. Photo Sparks Outrage by EricMason(m): 7:13pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
eya  |
Romance › Re: Photo & Video: See Large Boobs That Can Burst Your Brain by EricMason(m): 4:47pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
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Sports › Re: Pinnick Hits Brazil To Support Dream Team by EricMason(m): 4:44pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
me watching and sipping zobo  |
Celebrities › Re: More Photos From The Wedding Of The Daughter Of The Minister ,amina Mohammed by EricMason(m): 4:42pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
life good sha |
Agriculture › Re: Which Is More Lucrative Between Poultry Farming And Feedmill Industry? by EricMason(m): 3:51pm On Aug 12, 2016 |
ask the chiken  |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Moves Up To 67th Position In New FIFA Ranking by EricMason(m): 3:48pm On Aug 12, 2016 |
i wish the naira can move up agnst the dollar too  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicesters Vs Manchester United:Community Shield (1 - 2) On 7th August 2016 by EricMason(m): 4:54pm On Aug 07, 2016 |
man u wining but leicester playing  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Right To Pray Before Having Sex With Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by EricMason(m): 1:55pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
i think its an abuse to God tho [/quote][quote author=davesd post=48202925]Nairalanders, this very topic brought some arguments between me and my friends. I need your comments on the post 'Is it right to pray before having sex with your Boyfriend/Girlfriend?' Especially if she/he is to spend a night with you. Should one pray for God's protection through the night. And equally forgiveness of sin before the night sleep of which sex will be involved? |
Family › Re: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by EricMason(m): 5:46am On Mar 10, 2015 |
if u hav a wif and u ar porn adict..... u ar just lik SHEKAU... emusmith: Sub Topic: How Do You Cope With A Porn Addicted Spouse?
This article had an impact in me and I'm sure it will do same or more if you open up your mind and heart.
Truth be told, addiction to porn has quietly destroyed some Nigerian marriages.
I just read this anonymous letter from the wife of a porn addict and had to share it here tonight. The letter was passed on from a priest who received it from one of his parishioners.
Read and let's hear what you think, guys.
Dear Father,
I write to you in an anonymous fashion because if I were to tell you who I am, I would be ashamed to come to the confessional, to Mass, to the place where I am gratefully being nourished. I thank you for the wonderful priest you are and for the pastoring you provide to all of us.
Anonymously in your pews are women holding families together against the destructive forces of pornography on our husbands and sons. We are hurting and ashamed, tolerating– not enjoying – marriages and dealing with our inadequacies and depression.
Personally, I feel like the 15 years of my marriage before my discovery were one big lie; that I have been “duped” by an otherwise faithful, church-involved, Knights of Columbus husband.
In the three years since my awareness was heightened, I have come to believe that an affair would have actually been easier to tolerate; for perhaps I could compete with flesh and bones, but not with this. That pleasure and satisfaction can come to my husband from something so 2-dimensional has shaken me to the core;my very sense of who I am and what I am worth is utterly destroyed.
My world was turned upside down and I know if not for our children, I would have left the marriage.
Unbecoming of me, I daydream about that day when I might still. I am certain you are hearing it in the confessional from the husbands; my own husband has now been forthcoming in his challenges with pornography and about his frequent confessions of the sin. He initially felt great relief that I knew and somehow thought that my knowing would give him greater resistance against the temptation.
Unfortunately, I think it just makes him deceive and “hide” more. If this doesn’t destroy our marriage, I fear my “response” will. The other side is the woman’s side: our sin is the profound anger and inability to forgive because it doesn’t stop; how do we trust it even would? Some husbands regret their failure to stand up against this temptation; many do not even think there’s a problem, but it has them held captive.
I have heard another woman say she would rather her husband were doing drugs; at least there are programs to get past that demon. I am confident this is affecting my husband’s ability to do his job, and I imagine it is threatening the security of his employment. My now sinful thoughts are giving in to anger; my energy expended trying to keep our home free of the temptations that come with every latest technology; my “revengeful spending” – these are not what God has called me to. I constantly replay Jesus on the cross saying “Father, forgive them, they don’t know what they do,” but I answer myself with a “but, no one told Jesus they would love him and honor him all the days of their life.”I have sons who serve at the altar, and I fear for them and their futures; for their future wives.
I try to teach my teenage boys about purity, the value of their sexuality, and the Theology of the Body, but they know the magazines and websites of their father, who is a “good man” and “receives the sacraments”—so I am just the “old-fashioned” prude of a mother. I feel constantly under attack, and it doesn’t seem there will be an end to my hurting.
I wish there were a support group for the women suffering this way, but we are all so ashamed that we can’t satisfy our husbands enough, and afraid to make it public and destroy our husbands’ reputations, that none of us would come. We simply suffer and die inside alone.
I am not offering any advice or asking you to do anything about this. Perhaps you can just say a prayer now and then for the wives in your parish trying to hold a family together.
Thank you for tolerating my rambling here. Thank you.
Courtesy of Aggie Catholics. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Responds To #babawhileyouweregone by EricMason(m): 12:27am On Mar 10, 2015 |
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