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TravelRe: Lagos Ranks World’s 3rd Worst City To Live In by EricMason(m): 6:32am On Aug 19, 2016
TILL WE GET THERE embarassed embarassed
Christianity EtcRe: Sins Are Bigger Than God by EricMason(m): 7:21pm On Aug 18, 2016
sorry i didnt read it but i judge it from the title..... NO fucking sin bigger than the GOD i serve.
maybe the god you serve tho tongue tongue
CrimeRe: Two Nigerian Women Caught With Stolen Meat In London (pix) by EricMason(m): 7:18pm On Aug 18, 2016
jeeesu shocked shocked
CrimeRe: Best Man Steals ₦3.7million From Groom & His Friends For A Stag Weekend by EricMason(m): 7:16pm On Aug 18, 2016
thank GOD he only stole the cash.......
RomanceRe: Girl Flaunts Her Aged White Husband (Photos) by EricMason(m): 7:11pm On Aug 18, 2016
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#Things we do for passport cheesy cheesy
#things we do for benjamin$ grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Muma Gee And Prince Eke Welcome Baby Girl! (photos) by EricMason(m): 7:09pm On Aug 18, 2016
welcome to planet earth......
CelebritiesRe: Just For Fun! Which Nollywood Actor Would Play You In The Story Of Your Life? by EricMason(m): 3:19pm On Aug 18, 2016
none of the above undecided undecided
CelebritiesRe: Veteran Actress, Hilda Dokubo Has 53 Children (PHOTOS) by EricMason(m): 3:17pm On Aug 18, 2016
the society needs your type...
PoliticsRe: Breaking News: Abia Governorship Tussle, IKPEAZU WINS APPEAL. by EricMason(m): 3:14pm On Aug 18, 2016
ghen ghen for the enemiz cheesy cheesy and hurray for him shocked shocked
RomanceRe: Average Breast Sizes Of Women Around The World. Check Out Nigeria On The Map by EricMason(m): 3:09pm On Aug 18, 2016
i swear down na big lai, how comes china and nigeria they same rank....... my chest big pazz chinko brez sef wink wink
PetsRe: Ada Names Her Dog "Lai Mohammed," Says It Resembles Information Minister by EricMason(m): 3:01pm On Aug 18, 2016
me still waiting for a pet to be call AISHA BUHARI cheesy cheesy
PoliticsRe: UPDATE: Ikpeazu, Ogah win Second Appeal [3 More Appeals to Go] by EricMason(m): 2:58pm On Aug 18, 2016
appeal still pealling undecided undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Daniel Obinim Flogs Teenagers For Sex Act (Video) by EricMason(m): 1:11pm On Aug 18, 2016
this happend in ghana, the pastor's name is OBINIM..... end time niga grin grin
RomanceRe: How Can I Get A Girlfriend That Will Not Request For Money? by EricMason(m): 1:02pm On Aug 18, 2016
how can u go to heaven if you dont experience death?.... thats the right question you asking bro smiley
RomanceRe: A Big Boy Posses With Unclad B*tches On Facebook by EricMason(m): 12:46pm On Aug 18, 2016
after i wear am i pass am give u now grin grin
power900:
really?? Shey na u wear boxers for canter the other day,(Tol) tongue tongue tongue
RomanceRe: A Big Boy Posses With Unclad B*tches On Facebook by EricMason(m): 12:29pm On Aug 18, 2016
lol, me legit and legal any day any time anywhere tongue tongue tongue
power900:
you ve got a dirty mind bro, its obvious the kind of hustle you into,
RomanceRe: A Big Boy Posses With Unclad B*tches On Facebook by EricMason(m): 9:54am On Aug 18, 2016
but not this typ of hustle ooo grin ;Dlol #legitHuzl
power900:
walahi bro, I'm talking real pick not just peanuts.....may god bless our hustles
RomanceRe: A Big Boy Posses With Unclad B*tches On Facebook by EricMason(m): 5:47pm On Aug 17, 2016
busy fingers don pick... cheesy cheesy cheesy
BusinessRe: CBN Reviews Weekly Dollar Sale To Bdcs To $50,000 by EricMason(m): 9:00am On Aug 17, 2016
oh God pleas, my fees time is approaching please stabilize the naira else i might not be able to write exams...#AMEN embarassed embarassed
Foreign AffairsRe: Women Kneeling Before A White Man In Uganda. Photo Sparks Outrage by EricMason(m): 7:13pm On Aug 15, 2016
eya embarassed embarassed
RomanceRe: Photo & Video: See Large Boobs That Can Burst Your Brain by EricMason(m): 4:47pm On Aug 15, 2016
boby of life kiss kiss aka milk bank grin grin
SportsRe: Pinnick Hits Brazil To Support Dream Team by EricMason(m): 4:44pm On Aug 15, 2016
me watching and sipping zobo cheesy cheesy
CelebritiesRe: More Photos From The Wedding Of The Daughter Of The Minister ,amina Mohammed by EricMason(m): 4:42pm On Aug 15, 2016
life good sha
AgricultureRe: Which Is More Lucrative Between Poultry Farming And Feedmill Industry? by EricMason(m): 3:51pm On Aug 12, 2016
ask the chiken cheesy cheesy
SportsRe: Nigeria Moves Up To 67th Position In New FIFA Ranking by EricMason(m): 3:48pm On Aug 12, 2016
i wish the naira can move up agnst the dollar too angry angry
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Leicesters Vs Manchester United:Community Shield (1 - 2) On 7th August 2016 by EricMason(m): 4:54pm On Aug 07, 2016
man u wining but leicester playing undecided undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Right To Pray Before Having Sex With Your Boyfriend/girlfriend? by EricMason(m): 1:55pm On Aug 05, 2016
i think its an abuse to God tho
[/quote][quote author=davesd post=48202925]Nairalanders, this very topic brought some arguments between me and my friends. I need your comments on the post 'Is it right to pray before having sex with your Boyfriend/Girlfriend?' Especially if she/he is to spend a night with you. Should one pray for God's protection through the night. And equally forgiveness of sin before the night sleep of which sex will be involved?
FamilyRe: Tears Of A Woman Whose Husband Is A Porn Addict- Read Now! by EricMason(m): 5:46am On Mar 10, 2015
if u hav a wif and u ar porn adict.....
u ar just lik SHEKAU...
emusmith:
Sub Topic: How Do You Cope With A Porn Addicted Spouse? sad

This article had an impact in me and I'm sure it will do same or more if you open up your mind and heart.



Truth be told, addiction to porn has quietly destroyed some Nigerian marriages.

I just read this anonymous letter from the wife of a porn addict and had to share it here tonight. The letter was passed on from a priest who received it from one of his parishioners.

Read and let's hear what you think, guys.

Dear Father,

I write to you in an anonymous fashion because if I were to tell you who I am, I would be ashamed to come to the confessional, to Mass, to the place where I am gratefully being nourished. I thank you for the wonderful priest you are and for the pastoring you provide to all of us.

Anonymously in your pews are women holding families together against the destructive forces of pornography on our husbands and sons. We are hurting and ashamed, tolerating– not enjoying – marriages and dealing with our inadequacies and depression.

Personally, I feel like the 15 years of my marriage before my discovery were one big lie; that I have been “duped” by an otherwise faithful, church-involved, Knights of Columbus husband.

In the three years since my awareness was heightened, I have come to believe that an affair would have actually been easier to tolerate; for perhaps I could compete with flesh and bones, but not with this. That pleasure and satisfaction can come to my husband from something so 2-dimensional has shaken me to the core;my very sense of who I am and what I am worth is utterly destroyed.

My world was turned upside down and I know if not for our children, I would have left the marriage.


Unbecoming of me, I daydream about that day when I might still. I am certain you are hearing it in the confessional from the husbands; my own husband has now been forthcoming in his challenges with pornography and about his frequent confessions of the sin. He initially felt great relief that I knew and somehow thought that my knowing would give him greater resistance against the temptation.

Unfortunately, I think it just makes him deceive and “hide” more. If this doesn’t destroy our marriage, I fear my “response” will. The other side is the woman’s side: our sin is the profound anger and inability to forgive because it doesn’t stop; how do we trust it even would? Some husbands regret their failure to stand up against this temptation; many do not even think there’s a problem, but it has them held captive.

I have heard another woman say she would rather her husband were doing drugs; at least there are programs to get past that demon. I am confident this is affecting my husband’s ability to do his job, and I imagine it is threatening the security of his employment. My now sinful thoughts are giving in to anger; my energy expended trying to keep our home free of the temptations that come with every latest technology; my “revengeful spending” – these are not what God has called me to. I constantly replay Jesus on the cross saying “Father, forgive them, they don’t know what they do,” but I answer myself with a “but, no one told Jesus they would love him and honor him all the days of their life.”I have sons who serve at the altar, and I fear for them and their futures; for their future wives.

I try to teach my teenage boys about purity, the value of their sexuality, and the Theology of the Body, but they know the magazines and websites of their father, who is a “good man” and “receives the sacraments”—so I am just the “old-fashioned” prude of a mother. I feel constantly under attack, and it doesn’t seem there will be an end to my hurting.

I wish there were a support group for the women suffering this way, but we are all so ashamed that we can’t satisfy our husbands enough, and afraid to make it public and destroy our husbands’ reputations, that none of us would come. We simply suffer and die inside alone.

I am not offering any advice or asking you to do anything about this. Perhaps you can just say a prayer now and then for the wives in your parish trying to hold a family together.

Thank you for tolerating my rambling here. Thank you.

Courtesy of Aggie Catholics.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Responds To #babawhileyouweregone by EricMason(m): 12:27am On Mar 10, 2015
bitch be lik... am sexy n i know it grin
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More on the hashtag: https://twitter.com/hashtag/BabaWhileYouWereGone

https://cdn07.dailyindependentnig.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Seyi-Shay-with-President-Jonathan.jpg

#BabaWhileYouWereGone: Jonathan had Fifty Shades of Shay and his standing JohnBull was very difficult holding down. grin grin grin grin

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