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Romance / Re: I Have A Serious Problem Concerning My Relationship With Women. by EricMason(m): 10:02pm On May 15, 2020

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

Hey man, I don’t know you but everything u said is me 101%. Just don’t know who to talk to bout me.

Crime / Re: Police Arrest Delta Pharmacist After Lady Was Stripped For Stealing by EricMason(m): 1:33pm On Apr 22, 2020

I don’t support the act etc
Two wrongs doesn’t make it right either
But: is it because she’s a female or what?
Countless times guys have been stripped backed for similar or less crime, nobody was arrested
Some jungle justice
But just one female? Ha
Abi then say feminism, well then she should face equal treatment a male criminal gets
Bye. Xoxo

Education / Re: Nigerians Who Studied Abroad, Do You Have Any Regrets? by EricMason(m): 8:28am On Nov 11, 2019

mujiboy:

What country?

China bruh

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Education / Re: Nigerians Who Studied Abroad, Do You Have Any Regrets? by EricMason(m): 8:23am On Nov 11, 2019

Regret what exactly bruh? Been here 7years counting and I don’t feel a damn thing but thankful everyday wen I wake up to read the news bout my country.
-0% regret bruh 100% grateful. What i earn a month here I can’t earn it in nija a month fact, what I save here I can’t save it in nija fact.

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Celebrities / Re: Peks Ikeji Flaunts His New Apartment. Laura Reacts by EricMason(m): 1:37am On Oct 25, 2019

Foreign man is woowing....

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Celebrities / Re: Cee C Looks Radiant, Step Out In Cleavage Barring Short Suit by EricMason(m): 1:34am On Oct 25, 2019

Foreign man is flabbergasted.......

Celebrities / Re: Pretty Mike Exposes Celebrity Beggars. Lists Names Of Celebrities Who Beg by EricMason(m): 8:11am On Apr 03, 2019

He said
Chairmen get chairman
Word. cheesy

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Politics / Re: MC Oluomo: NURTW Is A Profession Like Medicine, Law And Engineering by EricMason(m): 1:58pm On Mar 25, 2019

Sally97:
We understand professional agbero :

Agriculture / For Sell: Grundfos Pump 95027414 /SQF 2.5-2 by EricMason(m): 9:51am On Jan 12, 2019

Specifications

Product name SQF 2.5-2
Product No 95027330
EAN number 5700834791741
Technical
Stage2
Approvals on motor nameplate CE,RCM,EAC
Approvals on pump nameplate CE,EAC
Pump No 95027414
Valve pump with built-in non-return valve
Materials
Pump Stainless steel
Pump DIN W.-Nr. 1.4301
Pump AISI 304
Impeller DIN W.-Nr. 1.4301
Rotor Stainless steel
Rotor DIN W.-Nr. 1.4301
Rotor AISI 304
Stator Stainless steel / EPDM
Stator DIN W.-Nr. 1.4301
Stator AISI 304
Installation
Maximum ambient pressure 15 bar
Pump outlet Rp 1 1/4
Minimum borehole diameter 76 mm
Liquid
Pumped liquid Water
Maximum liquid temperature 40 °C
Liquid temperature during operation 20 °C
Density 998.2 kg/m³
Electrical data
Motor type MSF3
Power input - P1 1.4 kW
Rated voltage ac 1 x 90-240 V
Rated voltage dc 30-300 V
Rated current 8.4 A
Power factor 1.0
Rated speed 500-3600 rpm
Start. method direct-on-line
Enclosure class (IEC 34-5) IP68
Insulation class (IEC 85) F
Motor protec Y
Thermal protec internal
Length of cable 2 m
Motor No 96275336
Udc 300 V
Udc 30 V
Others
Minimum efficiency index, MEI = -.--
Net weight 10.2 kg
Gross weight 11.3 kg
Shipping volume 0.024 m³
Sale region - Jos Plateau state
Quantity- 1
WhatsApp me for negotiation
+8613022443179

Technology Market / For Sell: Grundfos Pump 95027414 /SQF 2.5-2 by EricMason(m): 7:49am On Jan 12, 2019

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Celebrities / Re: Pink! Regina Daniels Slays In New Hairstyle. Photo by EricMason(m): 7:16am On Dec 05, 2018

Odikwa ripe tongue

Celebrities / Re: Davido's Girlfirend Chioma Celebrates Her Brother & Sister On His Birthday by EricMason(m): 7:14am On Dec 05, 2018

Happy birthday to them 30BG
And happy long life to us 100BG cheesy

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Celebrities / Re: Despite Arrest Saga, Small Doctor Still Post About His Concert by EricMason(m): 7:13am On Dec 05, 2018

Is call faith.......

Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Puts Her Big Ass On Flick On Instagram- Fans Reacts (see Photos) by EricMason(m): 7:06am On Dec 05, 2018

Juicy

Sports / Re: Tyson Fury Vs Deontay Wilder: When Is The Fight? Date? Time? Venue? by EricMason(m): 6:36pm On Nov 28, 2018

davillian:

Sorry no vex it's bomb squad and not boom squad.

If you are using an iPhone with an updated iOS
Type “boom” and “bomb” and see the emoji that’s gonna pop up
And also follow Deontay official social media sites and see if he types “boom” or “bomb”
Then you come back and excuse yourself
Am a loyal fan of him.
We good fam #peace

Sports / Re: Tyson Fury Vs Deontay Wilder: When Is The Fight? Date? Time? Venue? by EricMason(m): 2:24pm On Nov 28, 2018

Boom � squad
IYKYK

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Properties / For Sell: Grundfos Pump 95027414 /SQF 2.5-2 by EricMason(m): 4:51pm On Nov 25, 2018

Agriculture / For Sell: Grundfos Pump 95027414 /SQF 2.5-2 by EricMason(m): 4:23pm On Nov 25, 2018

Specifications

Product name SQF 2.5-2
Product No 95027330
EAN number 5700834791741
Technical
Stages 2
Approvals on motor nameplate CE,RCM,EAC
Approvals on pump nameplate CE,EAC
Pump No 95027414
Valve pump with built-in non-return valve
Materials
Pump Stainless steel
Pump DIN W.-Nr. 1.4301
Pump AISI 304
Impeller DIN W.-Nr. 1.4301
Rotor Stainless steel
Rotor DIN W.-Nr. 1.4301
Rotor AISI 304
Stator Stainless steel / EPDM
Stator DIN W.-Nr. 1.4301
Stator AISI 304
Installation
Maximum ambient pressure 15 bar
Pump outlet Rp 1 1/4
Minimum borehole diameter 76 mm
Liquid
Pumped liquid Water
Maximum liquid temperature 40 °C
Liquid temperature during operation 20 °C
Density 998.2 kg/m³
Electrical data
Motor type MSF3
Power input - P1 1.4 kW
Rated voltage ac 1 x 90-240 V
Rated voltage dc 30-300 V
Rated current 8.4 A
Power factor 1.0
Rated speed 500-3600 rpm
Start. method direct-on-line
Enclosure class (IEC 34-5) IP68
Insulation class (IEC 85) F
Motor protec Y
Thermal protec internal
Length of cable 2 m
Motor No 96275336
Udc 300 V
Udc 30 V
Others
Minimum efficiency index, MEI = -.--
Net weight 10.2 kg
Gross weight 11.3 kg
Shipping volume 0.024 m³
Sale region - Jos Plateau state
Quantity- 1
WhatsApp me for negotiation
+8613022443179

Properties / For Sell: Grundfos Pump 95027414 /SQF 2.5-2 by EricMason(m): 9:01am On Nov 24, 2018

Technology Market / For Sell: Grundfos Pump 95027414 /SQF 2.5-2 by EricMason(m): 7:52am On Nov 24, 2018

Agriculture / For Sell: Grundfos Pump 95027414 /SQF 2.5-2 by EricMason(m): 7:42am On Nov 24, 2018

Religion / Re: The Great Meaning Of The Birth Of The 5th Branch Of The Second Home In Japan by EricMason(m): 3:07pm On Nov 21, 2018

ivysunday:

I don't have whatsapp, tell me your wechat number i will add you
Now i know, only China block whatapp.

EricMason
That’s my wechat ID

Politics / Re: Obasanjo Hilariously Endorsed Atiku At Jonathan's Book Launch (WATCH) by EricMason(m): 10:07am On Nov 21, 2018

Not surprise....

Politics / Re: 2019 Election: Jonathan Speaks On Vote Buying, Advises INEC by EricMason(m): 7:31am On Nov 21, 2018

Adverts / For Sell: Grundfos Pump 95027414 /SQF 2.5-2 by EricMason(m): 7:14am On Nov 21, 2018

Adverts / Re: Experts In Water Borehole Drilling,soil Test,pile Foundation,project Management by EricMason(m): 7:10am On Nov 21, 2018

toxxnoni:
WHY DO WE NEED TO PERFORM SOME TEST ON THE SOIL BEFORE CONSTRUCTION?
https://m.facebook.com/astrogeotech/

The soil is the most important yet most neglected in a construction project. All structures, buildings, roads, bridges, dams and even life itself is based on the soil. The soil is the natural foundation that supports all structures and investment. Most clients see soil investigation as a waste of fund despite being the cheapest in the construction process, hardly is the cost of soil test up to one percent of the cost of construction. Some contractors too, ignore the importance of proper soil investigation and analysis and base their design on assumed bearing capacity and rate of settlement.

Soil test helps to determine varying physical and chemical characteristic of soil, which can vary from place to place and from layer to layer even within the limits of the proposed structure. Soil characteristics can change considerably within a small area. Weather, climatic changes, and site management can in the future affect the bearing qualities of the soil, if the foundation is not designed properly to the bearing capacity of the soil, then they will fail and so will the building. This is as important as the entire project itself that may cause long term complications and may result to loss of life and property, endanger residents, tenants and damage other neighboring properties. The extent of exploration depends on whether the area is built up or not and size of the structure.

The soil investigation help to determine the following:

1. Bearing capacity of the soil which determine the load sustenance capability of the soil,
2. Rate of settlement of the soil which affect the rate at which any structure placed on it settles,
3. To select a type and depth of foundation,
4. To select suitable construction technique ,
5. To predict and resolve probable foundation problems,
6. To determine if the land can be subjected to subsidence and cause sinking of the building,
7. To determine water table which affects humidity within the foundation and greatly affects the character of a soil which varies considerably with water content, mineral or chemical component of the soil that might affect the choice of construction materials. For example if the soil found to contain sulphur it can attack our foundation, therefore sulphur resisting cement must be used in the foundation in such soil.

[i][/i]Whether you're working in peat, gravel, clay, silt, sand, or loam soil, understanding the soil properties of your site help you make good construction decisions leading to success of the project. The structural engineers can efficiently and accurately design the structural elements required based on the results of the soil test analysis so that for long term viability and soundness of the project. The result also helps to determine whether there is need for soil stabilization and the foundation depth to attain the required bearing capacity.

All intending property owners or real estate investors should note that for a small sum of money you can protect, possibly the largest investment of your life. Without soil investigation buildings can collapse or rendered non functional for intended purpose. Why risk the expense for the cost of a soil test? Being aware of any problems will enable you to determine future costs and help you to make vital decisions about the suitability of the land for building. The design will match the site conditions, give you peace of mind yet will reduce the risk of over design thus saving you money.

Adverts / Re: Experts In Water Borehole Drilling,soil Test,pile Foundation,project Management by EricMason(m): 7:07am On Nov 21, 2018

Travel / Re: See How A Man Saved His Girlfriend’s Life After A Speeding Car Flew Towards Them by EricMason(m): 7:00am On Nov 21, 2018

Hero

Later, she go leave u without thinking twice for a mini f up sad

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Crime / Re: Private Investigator Unmasks Nigerian Scammer - BBC by EricMason(m): 6:58am On Nov 21, 2018

Naso bush meat take catch hunter cheesy

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