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HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:40am On Nov 03, 2015
safarigirl:
OP tell him to look up this guy 'Drew Lynch'

He started stammering in 2008 after a baseball hit his neck and affected his vocal chord. The guy is a comedian, he uses his disability to crack jokes. He was on America's Got Talent and came second.

There's a deaf guy on Project Runway and another on America's Next Top Model....

I also stammer slightly, that happens when I'm angry

There is ability in disability. Your friend needs to stop quarreling with people and find his ability.
thanks for ur advice
HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:36am On Nov 03, 2015
jesussaves22:
Tell your friend to try this method though i will enquire more abt it. He should buy an ogene pour water inside it keep it for some days and start drinking the water every morning... In my villa i have a friend who stammers more than ur friend but today he talks like parrot without stopping unlike when we use him for carricature those days.
ogene? Is it a kind of fruit or what?
HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:34am On Nov 03, 2015
Coolcash1:
From research, however, stammerrers are known to be very brilliant and intelligent. Because the speech defects makes them to be on the reserve side- they talk less and think more trying to be the best they can.

For your friend, I can relate..its so painful, embarrassing and dejecting. However, the only thing for him to do is to learn to speak slowly and gently...Never rush your speech! Else, everything would be muddled up and he will be made a laughing stock.

Let him not take his life. His life is too precious...

God bless Nigeria.
true talk brother.. Thanks a lot
HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:27am On Nov 03, 2015
ZUBY77:
Allow him to kill himself. Animal.

He is naturally greedy and insatiable.
Has he not seen blind, deaf, crippled and even people who spent their entire lives in a hospital.

He can talk at all and be heard, yet he thinks he should have had everything in life, except death of course.

I don't have pity, he can go and kill himself if he wants. There are too many people in the world already.

And before he go to buy the rope in the market, tell him that we will forget he ever existed in less than one year.
u too harsh bro.. Try and put urself in his shoes and see how painful it is to be mocked cheesy
HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:21am On Nov 03, 2015
phayvoursky:
[b]I'M A STUTTER AND BY THE GRACE OF GOD AND WITH THE HELP OF MY FRIENDS WE BEEN ABLE TO BRING IT DOWN TO A VERY LOW LEVEL.

*FIRST OF ALL; I HAD TO KILL THE TEMPER IN ME.

DUE TO THE FACT THAT I STUTTER; IT WAS DIFFICULT TO VOICE OUT MY ANGER WHENEVER I HAVE A LITTLE DISAGREEMENT WITH SOMEONE SO I CONSIDERED VIOLENCE AS AN ALTERNATIVE WHICH ENDED UP WORSENING THE SCENERIO AFTER ALL.

SO I'LL ADVICE UR FRIEND TO TAKE A CHILL PILL WHENEVER SUCH SITUATIONS ARISES. IF HE CAN BE ABLE TO CONTROL HIS TEMPER, HE'S ON THE PATHWAY TO SPEAKING LIKE BARACK OBAMA.

*SECONDLY; AN AFRICAN ADDAGE SAID: IT TAKES A WHOLE VILLAGE TO RAISE A CHILD.

I RECEIVED HELP FROM MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS. IT WASN'T THAT BAD TO THE EXTENT OF STUMPING MY FOOT OR HITTING MY HEAD AGAINST A WALL BEFORE I SPEAK BUT I RECOGNISED I WASN'T BORN THAT WAY SO I DECIDED IT MUST COME TO A HALT.

SO EVERYONE WHO HAD A STAKE IN ME, FROM FAMILY TO FRIENDS AND GOOD FOES ALL HAD A ROLE TO PLAY. I CHOSE THE BEST OF FRIENDS AND THEY REALLY HELPED.

THEY EVEN MAKE JEST OF ME AND WE ALL LAUGH IT OUT.

SO AS A FRIEND TO HIM YOU'VE GOT A ROLE TO PLAY AND THANK GOD YOU RECOGNISE THIS.

*LASTLY; LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO GIVE ATTENTION TO THOSE WHO WANT TO GET ON HIS NERVES.

I ADVISE HIM TO ALWAYS KEEP HIS COOL AT ALL TIMES, LISTEN BEFORE SPEAKING OUT, TRY TO SPEAK GENTLY AND TABLE HIS PROBLEM TO GOD.

HE SHOULD REMEMBER THERE'S NO FORGIVENESS TO SUICIDE.

I PRAY THIS WILL HELP. [/b]
wow this will really go a long way . Thanks very much
HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:12am On Nov 03, 2015
delishpot:
Tell him only the weak at heart give way for a known thief to rob him of his most precious item; his life.
Problems in life should make one stronger and more determined to prosper. It should be turned into a rocket that proppels ais forward to put shame in the faces of those who thought we would never make it in our lives.


Tell him people face more serious problems such as rape, barreness, loss of bread winners, loss of job and even sick spouse or child they also get abused by people and even some get physically hurt by people. Yet they knock sense into their heads and press on. Even people in Auswich or concentration camps still had hopes. They held on to faith till they were free even though people were dying left right and center. No one says it is easy but I am saying with a positive outlook he can overcome.
your words are very true. Thanks alot
HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:09am On Nov 03, 2015
krusdamax:
Ask him to enumerate all the good things God has done for him.
If he can use all his limbs and see with his eyes, he should be grateful to God.

Let him focus on all his positives and shut his eyes to all his seeming negatives.

# GodWin


Let him master his defects and verbalise them. He should be the one to tell his enemies of his own defects and make them understand he is aware of them. This alone disarms his enemies and subject them under his control.

If they have no new defect to mock him with, then his true freedom starts from there.

However, let him be the best he can be and be mindful of the the truth "He is wonderfully and fearfully made" No one is same as him and none will ever be after him.
hmmm true talk. God bless u
HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:05am On Nov 03, 2015
AK6464:
show him more love and care, you can make the difference in his life. yes you can!
yep.. Love can do anything. Thanks
HealthRe: Please Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 7:03am On Nov 03, 2015
mployer:
He should thank God he can talk and hear. There are plenty deaf and dumb people around, they are not killing themselves yet.

He should learn to talk slowly and avoid heated arguments.
i appreciate your advice. Thanks a bunch
HealthPlease Help A Friend. He Is About To Commit Suicide!! by ernesty20(op): 1:05am On Nov 03, 2015
A friend of mine just met me shedding tears like a baby.
I thought he had lost his mum or one of his relatives but i was wrong.

He suddenly stopped crying but was still sobbing. He told me that he's getting tired of living.

My friend is stammerer. Everybody knows about it. He feels bad each time he finished quarreling with people.

He would stammer when the need to explain what/how the quarrel starts arises. People will laugh at him. His foes will mock him for his inability to speak well. He feels bad though.

He told me that people always mock him whenever he stammers. He started shedding tears again.

I tried my best to console him but i was totally dumb-founded when he told that he is going to commit suicide if his problem persits.

I cautioned him not to think of commiting suicide in his life. I told him that with God, nothing is impossibe in this World, that God who created him knows the best.

I tried to console him with suitable words but words are not comming because i was confused.

Please Nairalanders, i need your advice on behalf of my good friend.. What do u think can be done so that the stammering can be reduced? Can it be cured with drugs?
RomancePlease Help!!! by ernesty20(op): 9:17pm On Nov 02, 2015
My Girlfriend came visiting and she will be passing the night at my house due to rain. It has been raining since morning.

Right now, konji don catch me and i dnt know how to tell her that i wanna have sex with her.

Please what do i do to get her in the mood?
Jokes EtcRe: When Your Village Witches Are Still Controling Your Destiny by ernesty20(m): 8:49pm On Nov 02, 2015
shumuel:
When Your Village Witches Are Still Controling Your Destiny

grin Give him a Name
olodo rabata
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Aigbe And Her Daughter At The Premiere Of "The Victims", Her Movie (Photos by ernesty20(m): 8:44pm On Nov 02, 2015
safarigirl:
that girl's make-up is ugly. Putting make-up on kids is never a good idea.

Her dress is lovely though
kid u say.. That girl senior u
InvestmentRe: Trading In MTN Shares Suspended After $5.2bn Nigerian Fine by ernesty20(m): 6:31pm On Nov 02, 2015
katerine7:
it is actually 3gb for 1500
u see am.? And some people say airtel no dey try
InvestmentRe: Trading In MTN Shares Suspended After $5.2bn Nigerian Fine by ernesty20(m): 5:47pm On Nov 02, 2015
dewisefrank:
What's the code to subscribe?
dial *435#
Jokes EtcRe: Apc Can't Stop Me, I Must Win That Election by ernesty20(m): 3:46pm On Nov 02, 2015
This is too dry to be a joke
PoliticsRe: What A Yoruba Man Dnt Want To Hear. by ernesty20(m): 3:38pm On Nov 02, 2015
I dnt know ooo. The thing taya me
PoliticsRe: Fayose Refuse To Have Any Meeting With Jj Omojuwa- Pics by ernesty20(m): 3:34pm On Nov 02, 2015
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CelebritiesRe: Korede Bello Declares Love For Di’ija! by ernesty20(m): 3:32pm On Nov 02, 2015
Nicolars:
Eeyah she 4ck up shar
she 4cked up big time
PoliticsRe: DPR Gives Fuel Marketers 3 Days To Revert To N87 Pump Price by ernesty20(m): 3:30pm On Nov 02, 2015
Leave them alone. They will sell as they buy.
CelebritiesRe: Korede Bello Declares Love For Di’ija! by ernesty20(m): 3:24pm On Nov 02, 2015
Nicolars:
all diz pregnancy stuff. Is dija pregnant?
yes she is.
InvestmentRe: Trading In MTN Shares Suspended After $5.2bn Nigerian Fine by ernesty20(m): 3:18pm On Nov 02, 2015
Bootybuttchic:
tell me deybdont zap u times two?
not really


the thing is that whenever i load 1500 airtel for my fresh 2gb, they will give me bonus of 1500.

They will divide it for me jejelly. 750 will go to weekly bonus while 750 will go to weekend bonus.

Thats why i always defend my airtel whenever some people are talking trash about them
CelebritiesRe: Korede Bello Declares Love For Di’ija! by ernesty20(m): 3:13pm On Nov 02, 2015
CelebritiesRe: Korede Bello Declares Love For Di’ija! by ernesty20(m): 3:01pm On Nov 02, 2015
I am sure he is the one who impregnated her
PoliticsRe: We The Masses Are The One Paying For The MTN Fine by ernesty20(m): 2:52pm On Nov 02, 2015
Mtn is not better than glo, airtel and etisalat. I wonder why people still use it. Infact in a village where there is no mtn network, airtel network must be there. Thats to show how powerful airtel is
CelebritiesRe: 5 Things You May Not Know About Nigeria - Ali Baba by ernesty20(m): 2:46pm On Nov 02, 2015
noise maker.. Nigeria is never broke..
InvestmentRe: Trading In MTN Shares Suspended After $5.2bn Nigerian Fine by ernesty20(m): 2:15pm On Nov 02, 2015
Bootybuttchic:
if they like they shld suspend phone recharge......


i still dey owe una credit....


let them pay the fine,Good for them,all my airtime that they have stolen....only them remain,stingy people....ordinary 1gb 1000#,they cannot activate ...


now they are paying these huge amount......i dont even think 1gb for 1000#will cost them 0% of this fine ....but stingyness na him go kill dem.

it remains that stupid airtel




as for now will be rocking glo.....even tho it can be slow sometimes....but will enjoy it with pride cool
leave airtel out of this.. I buy 2gb for 1500..
CelebritiesRe: DI'ja's New Photos Amidst Pregnacy Rumour by ernesty20(m): 2:09pm On Nov 02, 2015
ylaa:
eh en show us your face
see you head
this is raw beauty no make up
see who is talking.. A girl thats afraid of using his ugly pic as profile pix. Smh
CelebritiesRe: Photo: Yvonne Jegede Continues To Show Off Her Curves In Skin Tight Gym Gear. by ernesty20(m): 12:18pm On Nov 02, 2015
Yeye dey smell
RomanceRe: My d**k raising ordeal At Jibowu Bus Park by ernesty20(m): 12:13pm On Nov 02, 2015
ajasbaba:
see your life,


so you just type all this rubbish informing us that u are into fornication.


repent before you die

other wise nah HELL FIRE go burn that you useless dick.
u sounding as if u are a sainT

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