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valmunich:
wow


But please my people,, wetin concern the clock and earpiece with bomb making.

Timed bomb lol

delishpot:
Saying no may make a guy spend more time getting to know you but it doesnt mean saying no will get you a deserving man.
As for guys who get dumped by babes cos they saidNO, its a normal thing in our society these days. Girls are told that a guy that says no is impotent and cant perform thus the ladies want to confirm the guy is fuckablewhenable and not an okobo. Now, I am not justifying their prematiral sex lifestyle o. But you guys should stop making it sound like only guys have problems when they say no to sex. Women suffer heart breaks too. Many men if not 90% will not stay with a babe that says NO to sex too.

My advice for women, date when you are mature enough and ready to marry
Date guys who you know are mature enough and ready to marry
Make sure both of you have the same moral principle(That a man says ok to NO sex doesnt mean he is a moral man, he may be neck deep in hoes and flings behind your back)
Saying NO isnt what majes a woman special, it may even be what makes a guy think you are too proud and he may be pissed at you for your stance but pretend to like you just to try see if he can get into your pants.
So saying NO may make the guy more dedicated to getting you. But it doesnt mean that he appreciates you any more than the other girls he has banged.
I will say, a lot of factors come into play where a commited relationship is concerned.
The NO 1 rule is, date when you are mature and ready to settle down that is when your NO to sex will be appreciated by your partner.
Of what importance is a NO sex relationship when you are 16 and not thinking if marriage till you are lets say 24(ladies) and 28(for guys) ? Why get in a relationship when you are not ready for a future soon with that person? Why not just be friends and when the time comes to be commited and settle down then start a relationshio?

Nice one, just to add to what you have said; some girls presume that all a guy wants from them is sex and no matter how nice the guy is, she keeps telling herself "he just wants sex". This mental conditioning on the part of some girls will only make a guy direct all his actions and game plan into working out ways to have sex with the girl. Am not saying a girl should be loose but saying no to sex unnecessarily may make a guy that genuinely likes you direct his efforts into having sex with you, and just so you know, a girl might say no to you and she is sexually active with another guy so saying no to sex is really not a plus factor for most guys.

saw this on youtube just thought i share


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tmzYDUeFTQ

call onyeka on 08172104522, he used to have a game shop in benin, he recently moved to ph.

killer50:
I have GTA V and MGS Ground Zero Hereos on PS4. Willing to sell or trade with Battlefield 4.


Abuja only.


07061989373.

I have Battlefield 4 i can swap for GTA V but i reside in calabar

I just Finished playing watch dogs; i would love to swap with anybody that is interested.

BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

You cannot blame a guy for taking action, all i see here is accusations and am sure your cousin did not commit any offence. #whatdidyourcousindo

delishpot:
Its all good bro. I get you were angry and thought pain help him remember how not to steal. That boy is a kleptomaniac I guess It seems he just steals for no reason. Underneath sha, he needs counceling and you, cant help him beyound what you did already.
Dont let him enter your house, its punishment enough. When you see him tell him he is a thief and as such you cant allow him into your house. Tell him in a way that shows dissapointment rather than insult To him. You can call him from time to time to talk with him and find out how he is faring and if he needs help in any way you can offer.
I am not saying he did the right thing o. All I am saying is you cant quench fire with petrol.

Thank you, i will do just that.

Jackeeh:
I concur

If you took your time to read the first link i pasted am sure you will see that i talked to him, i did not lay a finger on him even when he stole a larger sum of money. What i have learnt in all these is that when it comes to kids; employ measure till you find a solution that works and if that solution works, stick to it. I have talked to him before and it did not work. Please forgive me for trying another solution and do take your time to read the link i pasted. Do not just concur say something. We are here to learn me inclusive

carefreewannabe:
Seconded.

Did you read my first post? am sure if you did you will understand that i love this kid like he was my own. Truth be told sometimes children just need iron hand. I am a soft person and i am not scared to admit it. As a matter of fact i pray God gives me a Mean woman for a wife because i am that sort of father that may never hit my child. Please read the link i posted. Am not claiming i know it all or am skilled at parenting but somewhere inside me i know that if i had hit him the first time, he would not have done it again. He comes to me when he wants card and if he had asked i would have gladly given him and for what its worth i think his mother is doing the best she can.

delishpot:
Your slap alone will make his brain not function well.
Haba, because of 200 bucks you slapped a youn person like that?

i knew a reply like this will come. i wish i slapped him the first time cos if he remembers the slap he would not have done it again and mind you if he had done this outside a mere slap would be the least of your problems

About a month ago i posted this https://www.nairaland.com/2066432/tell-not-tell because i needed solution on what to do. Anyway let me get to the point, this evening the little guy was in my house (he never stopped coming) and playing game on my ipad, when he left i noticed that 200 naira was missing from the change my security guy gave me from an errand i sent him earlier in the day (i left the change on my chair side stool). I remember because the 200 naira was the highest denomination in the change. I called the lil guy and asked him for the money he denied at first but accepted after i shouted at him; i asked him to give the money back he said he used it to buy recharge card and has loaded it. I slapped him and told him to kneel down i was shocked he did not cry because i slapped him like i would slap a guy my age. His mother came back from travel today because she lost her younger sister to a domestic gas accident so i donot think this is the best time to tell her a thing like this. I called a Naval officer i my compound who has a daughter of about 4 years old and asked him what i should do because i did forgive the lill boy the first time. I was shocked to learn from the Naval officer that that the little guy at a point in time did play with his daughter' private part and the little girl reported to her parents. He told me not to tell the mother because she will turn the case against me (she is that sort of woman) he told me never to allow the lad enter my apartment again. I initially did not want to post this but i think its only fair to tell folks here what happened because at a time i came here to ask for a solution.

Now am confused cos a part of me wants to report another part does not want to. I just want to know that at the end of the day, i did what is best for the kid cos this is not about me.

Montaque:
@op, what are u trying to protect by not telling the mom? The boys reputation,his friendship,shame or what?
I don't want to say something that's in my mind,cos I had a similar experience as a kid,and I wish I was reported by pple who knew then.

I am not protecting anything i am trying to do what is right for the child, like i said, i will talk to him and not tell his mother this one, if he does it again after talking to him, i will report. I am surprised that he did not ask me for the money because he used to ask me for money to buy recharge cards and church offerings. I would not like it if he distance himself from me and exhibit this character outside, i would rather have him ask me for stuff even if i cant or dnt give him. I think talking to him will have a better effect in this situation, if talking does not work. I will report. Though i am beginning to think this is not the first time he has done this to me, cos am as careless as careless can be and i would hate to watch my back anytime he is in my house.

thank you all for your advise but i think it is better not to tell; his conscience is killing him right now and he is having a slow day. I just wanted to be sure which approach to take, telling and not telling has advantages and disadvantages but i think in the end it is better not to tell so he can be closer to me and i will make him understand that what he did was wrong. Growing up; talking to me was the worst form of punishment my dad gave me. Truthfully i preferred the times he used to beat me cos in my heart it will register as punishment served but talking to a child has better effect on a child. The mother will not disbelieve me but she is this sort of mother that thinks her sons cant do any wrong. I have seen her wrath and how over protective she can be for her sons maybe it comes with the single mom thing. So am not telling but will keep advising him. In a month's time or two i will count and keep money carelessly just to tempt him, so if he does it again after my advise i will report.

I am the only unmarried guy in my compound and there is this single mom in my compound that always tell her sons to come close to me, though i am closer to the youngest who i think is in jss3. The mother said she sees in me what she wants her sons to become, i have thought them how to cook, knot a tie and any manly skill i think an elder bro can teach a younger brother. Yesterday i was low on cash and wanted to go out so i counted the money in my wallet so i can go to the atm. The youngest was playing metal gear solid v on my ps4, when i showered and came out, i noticed that the money in my wallet was 1k short at first i did not want to believe but i was sure i counted the money, i asked him if he took it and he said no so i left him. This morning, i called him and told him that hope he knows you can record with a playstation camera and i lied to him that the camera recorded him taking the money; i told him that i will call his mother and show her the video, he still did not say i thing so i was convinced he took the money, i told him to go bring it and he went and brought it. the money may not be much but stealing is stealing right?? i know i did some things growing up, we all did but i never stole from a neighbour no matter how close we were, SHOULD I REPORT TO HIS MOTHER? or advice him on my own. I have never been a parent so my parenting skills sucks her mother trust that i am a good company that is why she always wants them around me. Please need your opinion on this.

www.quickteller.com/icadia or search quickteller for playstation and pay with your atm card.

lol @gohan i actually do want to swap cds and yes my gameplay seems ok

I am pretty stuck with the ps4 cds I have, it would be nice to connect with gamers in Calabar. Please if you have ps4 cds for swap/sale or you want to test your soccer skills with a FIFA god and you reside in Calabar, Please let's connect.

All my life I have been a PES fan, I hated FIFA. The smartest thing I did was to download both fifa 15 and pes 15 demo. This helped me make an informed choice. The difference is clear, pes 15 is a joke. Just change the controller settings to suit your conventional pes buttons and give fifa 15 a try, you will be amazed and ask yourself why you have been wasting your time on pes. Take it from me, cos I have never bought a fifa cd in my life but as it stands, it's fifa or nothing. The problem with gaming in naija is that often times; we don't get the option of trying games out before we buy them and it is quite understandable that I cnt hate a pes 15 cd I paid as much as 14k on or have someone tell me that there is a better alternative to the cd I just got. If you are serious about soccer give fifa 15 a try, change the controller settings to what you are used to on pes. Damn I cnt believe am talking in favour of fifa but truth be told, fifa 15 rocks and pes 15 is no comparison.

Ladies let your standards be moral and spiritual, money is important but money is not everything. Money will always come do not settle for a lazy man, he may not be there yet financially but if his moral and spiritual values meet the standard you can work with; stay with him and support him. Sometimes all a man needs is support and encouragement. Tell your man that everything will be okay. Most girls went into marriage for the financial benefits and comfort but the sad truth is that only a few will tell you that they have became a punching bags in their matrimonial homes though it works out fine for some. Think about it for a minute do you really think that men who married trophy wives are unaware that the main reason the woman settled for them is for their money? Money will always come but do not let it be your main reason for settling with a man because you can make this money too with your dignity intact.

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