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[b][/b][quote author=complexBoss12 post=109405395]I attended one wedding, a Catholic wedding. while preaching, the priest said something I will never forget. He was like, when you go to school, you get a cert after graduation. In endeavors of life, a certificate is issued at the END to show qualification.

Only in marriage, is a certificate issued the very day you step in. So from your first day you're are graduate, you're qualified. This is because in marriage the beginning is the end and the end is the beginning. For you to agree to be married means you have trained yourself and feel you're qualified and ready.

But is that the case today?? most times I am **** scared of marriage. My father thought me that you never stop working on a marriage. The few ladies I have dated, when they discover you just want peace of mind and apologize even when you're right for the sake of peace, next they want to take you for a fool. Going the alpha way, keeps them in check, but doesn't really guarantee a happy home because I want my woman to love me and not fear me. This gender called women, you can never tell what it is they really want.

My verdict: Marriage has no solution or 12 or even 100 things to abide by, you can only try. Christians will say, only God can give a happy home.

Thanks for sharing this..., Good content

sweetmelanin:
Well that's you... not everyone is capable of being pretentiously cordial with someone they have issues with.

They are grown adults and are free to associate or disassociate with whomever they wish! There's a reason Peter is standing ALONE in this matter. He has made his choice.

Sweet melanin, you good�
Not everyone can handle pretense

At this our stage and years of independence, should our National team still be managed by a foreigner?

Just like the song only cos flavour used my sobriquet name"Erudite"