Ladyhippolyta88:


This your number 3 needs more emphasis, especially to the so-called heads of the families specifically the average Nigerian man who sees headship as authoritarianism, that don't like to open up to their wives, listen and hear from them because they believe they should be making the decisions alone without due consultation.

Always learn to carry your wives along and you will not die if you adopt her advice or opinion on issues two heads are better than one and you can never know it all.

I know this advice is not gender specific but in the average Nigerian marriages it's men that often do this,while the women always consult them when she is the one making a decision

Allisgud:
what if she doesn't love u back.love is not enough for marriage

oilmonie:
it's because women use their heart and not their head. Listen to a woman but don't take her advice.

kjhova:


Many men with this your mindset idea of being 100% open to their wives and planning everything together in the home have ended up being scolded by their friends in the "I told you so" manner, when the proverbial brown matter hits the oscillator!!!

It's a learned behaviour for Nigerian men to run their game their way, not with the many tragic experiences of male folks who tried to run an equal and open home with the typical Nigerian woman.

HacheNoire:
If you want to enjoy life and live long, stay away from Black women!

It’s automatically and genetically instilled in them.


If you feel you anxious to commit suicide, you don’t need a rope, all you need is a Nigerian wife

OloshoMan:
Say no to marriage

complexBoss12:
I attended one wedding, a Catholic wedding. while preaching, the priest said something I will never forget. He was like, when you go to school, you get a cert after graduation. In endeavors of life, a certificate is issued at the END to show qualification.

Only in marriage, is a certificate issued the very day you step in. So from your first day you're are graduate, you're qualified. This is because in marriage the beginning is the end and the end is the beginning. For you to agree to be married means you have trained yourself and feel you're qualified and ready.

But is that the case today?? most times I am **** scared of marriage. My father thought me that you never stop working on a marriage. The few ladies I have dated, when they discover you just want peace of mind and apologize even when you're right for the sake of peace, next they want to take you for a fool. Going the alpha way, keeps them in check, but doesn't really guarantee a happy home because I [b]want my woman to love me and not fear me. [/b]This gender called women, you can never tell what it is they really want.

My verdict: Marriage has no solution or 12 or even 100 things to abide by, you can only try. Christians will say, only God can give a happy home.

Ungodly:

I noticed God didn’t say “Women! love your husband” instead he said “Husband! Love your wife” what does that mean, you have an answer to that?

josephevergreen:
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I disagree with you on this !!

ssogundele:
Any rule outside “husband love your wife and wife respect submit to your husband “ is just epistle! That rule is God ordained. He is the originator of marriage and knows the best to it.

Fiscus105:



Everyone is destined for marriage, let him or her check his/her character and know how to reach compromise with his/her or partner, when they do that, it will work as magic.

You can not be leaving as "my, my,my" in situations of "we,we,our" and expect peace.

You cannot be treating ur partner like slave and expected royalty treated return.

Col0gne:


Aswear! I hate the way Africans think/reason when it comes to marriage. The moment a person attains a certain age and sometimes financially ok, they start mounting pressure of the individual to get married. Nobody asks if that person has what it takes to get married. People think it's all about money.

iTearHerToto:
And right there is where men go losing. No woman is capable of love. She can only respect you, and that respect is bred from fear of losing you to another woman. The only love a woman got is for her children and that love can't be shared

If you're a man reading this keep expecting love instead of respect from your woman and come back 5 years time to tell me how that went
Good luck

Col0gne:


Aswear! I hate the way Africans think/reason when it comes to marriage. The moment a person attains a certain age and sometimes financially ok, they start mounting pressure of the individual to get married. Nobody asks if that person has what it takes to get married. People think it's all about money.

Ladyhippolyta88:


Another lie stop boring me with rubbish.

AsomArchitectNG: