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CelebritiesRe: Wizkid Becomes First African To Win Billboard Award by Erums(m): 9:40pm On May 21, 2017
Big up... U dnt need to be heard to win awards
RomanceRe: My Funny Experience Wiv A Homosexual In Enugu by Erums(m): 9:27pm On May 21, 2017
Brilliant... Op uve done urself well
Car TalkRe: What's The Taxi Brand In Your Town? by Erums(m): 3:24pm On May 21, 2017
Temmytea70:
in abeokuta, it's Nissan Almeria
And micra.... Micra rules here
RomanceRe: Lady Spotted Wearing A Strange Crazy Trouser Flaunting Her Female Member by Erums(m): 3:12pm On May 21, 2017
Life changing fasion
RomanceRe: My Fiance Got Married Today!!. by Erums(m): 3:07pm On May 21, 2017
Waste of mb
RomanceRe: Porn Lord,king Tblachoc Assessing His Girls To Ensure They Are Clean (video) by Erums(m): 2:59pm On May 21, 2017
#sign of the cross
RomanceRe: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 6:24pm On May 19, 2017
Freewoman:
YOU ARE CORRECT BOY
Lol..... Kinda find the use of BOY underating... Im a MAN
RomanceRe: Check Out Dis Trending Online Picture.... Can U Guess Right ?? by Erums(m): 11:48am On May 19, 2017
sincerely notin more than a girl using her slippers on the bed
CareerRe: HSE And IT Gurus Get In Here! by Erums(m): 10:25pm On May 18, 2017
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Erums(m): 8:53pm On May 17, 2017
Kefffi and timaya... Kokoroko
RomanceRe: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 8:33pm On May 17, 2017
Oyindidi:
E mabinu but this your typo no be here
Yeye dey smell all ova u..... Ur monika says it all... Too bad
RomanceRe: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 8:24pm On May 17, 2017
Oyindidi:
Oboi your English no be hereshocked

And you graduate with 2.1 grin
Pls will u pls shut up...i already said forgive my typos... Does it mean i cant arrangement them properly...
This is an informal platform... And i choose to write informally in as much the message is passed... Im cool....
So get a life.... Or get a job.
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Erums(m): 7:06pm On May 17, 2017
OMG... JUST CAME ACROSS DIS THREAD... I EILL NEVR LEAVE AGAIN
FoodRe: How I Made My Moimoi by Erums(m): 7:03pm On May 17, 2017
This is great info for the bachelors.... Will attempt that moimoi now... Thnks tyconcept
RomanceRe: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 6:33pm On May 17, 2017
Jkfc:
No, your typos are unforgivable... I should drive you from Nairaland so it would make you strong...

Lol...


Just kidding,,,,


You tried, but doesn't make your daddy any less mean
Lol.... Hilarious
RomanceRe: My Gf Was Once A Runs Girl by Erums(m): 1:20pm On May 17, 2017
A ring for that hoe who has turned good .......boy go ahead ,,,shes might hav changed ..
FamilyRe: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Erums(m): 1:17pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return. But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because iv realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don kno wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful, how should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in ths situation. undecided
guy pls dnt start...dis ur attitude are costing us the upcoming good girls ....what da heck
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 18 Scam Companies Nigeria Job Seekers Should Beware Of by Erums(m): 1:11pm On May 17, 2017
GRACON NIG ...theyare like GNLD ...just tried to scam my guy today ,,,dey were demanding for 3k for registration ....i called the useless HR and inulted her ..she hung up and i snt her a text to make sure she gets the message...shikina
WebmastersRe: China Is Launching It's Own Version Of Wikipedia by Erums(m): 1:07pm On May 17, 2017
i think this is great,,,,but can it really see the world like wikipedia
RomanceRe: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 10:07pm On May 16, 2017
Lord... I almost went thru this in my childhood with my dad....... It was really serious... He always tried to deprive me frm what i love... Always and always report me to my family relative of how bad i am... Just because i love football and have a group of friends where i take the lead.... Yeah i made some wrong moves too.... I remember wen he siezed all my cloths, so i cudnt go out anymore.... I had only a trouser and a shirt for more than 6-7 months.... I begged and begged until i got fed up and started clearing farms for neighbors jyst to raise money to buy shirts..... Oh Lord.... I remember this again... Im cnt help bt sheard a tear.... I cud remember he drove me out of the hux severally... Even to the extend i was refused entry for 2months... I was putting up with my friends.... Parking sand, filling houses, clearin bushes... Jyst to survive... I eat anywhere... Lord hv mercy...... 2months out and i missed my waec ssce chemistry and physic practical before an aunt of mine got to know and started looking for up for me..... She returned me home... Only she cud.... I was really wildered..... The one tin i appreciated my dad for was concerned with my education... He payed my fees... And other family responsibility... But i had no live... Until i grew stronger in mind... Dat one time i defended my sis.... I nearly fought bk wen he beat ny sis mercilessly.... He told he whole family that me and my sis fought him.....i cnt say alot i passed thru.... I was an outlaw in da hux...... Im grateful to God now... Im grown, graduated, working class.. Independent... Now someway, somehow.... We talk often as family..... I see everytin he did den made me stronger... I cant even tell alot... because my mum is late and my step mum cant even save cos she doesnt hv a say....... I realli suffered humiliation, reject, abuse, frm frnds, shame of no home to regard as mine.... I goto the football pitch to meet my peers... Bt dnt return home as dey all do..... Op... U need to be strong.... Face ur education... Its ur sure ticket outta dat hux... Ot else u got anoda and u will survive...... Qn 2012...i graduated frm uni... 2.1...imediately got into service baych A.... Thats how story change.... Go ; only wen needed or once a year..... The regard is now coming... Send dem money at intervals..... Im happi... I still love him dearly.... All he did nearly killed me but made me stronger... Thou i vowed not to treat my kids that way.....bt the memorys live on as part of me but will not be used to judge dem....


Pls love ur mum.... Love her frm within... I begg of u.... I dnt have a mum... I never knee her.. Thus no motherly feelings... U talked abt mothers day... I never wished my real mum happi mothers day... I wished my step mum and ulmy unkles wife... So u see....
Your love might change her... Create an inner peace eithin urself... Do the chores witot being told... Donot succumb to what shes says abt u... Innerly always know ure different.... Dats all i can say...
I LOVE MY DAD.... ITS BEST FOR ME TO.... NO MATTER WHAT..... ONELOV PPLE... Forgive my typos... embarassed embarassed
EducationRe: So Bad!! My Sister Scored 179(photos) by Erums(m): 8:45pm On May 16, 2017
Try again nxt time
RomanceRe: Am I Too Young To Get Married At 28? by Erums(m): 10:22pm On May 14, 2017
Gladiator1:
Age is just but a number... Ur ish is ain't bouh ur age bt ur mentality. I've seen guys tie d knot at 25. So drop age outta d equation. Even at 40, u'll still remain an idiot going by d upsurge in ur foolishness... So change ur attitude first... Started having sex at 13! Now where's d awards that follows such?? U're such a deranged low-life fellow!!! Or na with dat ur useless song wey u dey sing u wan tk use feed ur family? You're b'comin a high class nuisance here n u gotta be put to a stop
Dis one touch me.... grin
CareerRe: 16 Years Banking Experience As A Contract Staff (Age Barrier) by Erums(m): 5:50pm On May 14, 2017
Very educative and such an eye opener for all... Thou im in the power sector... Most discos re employing this means.... Its pathetic
RomanceRe: GUYS ONLY..... Serious Matter by Erums(op): 2:09pm On May 14, 2017
biz2get:
THIS IS WEAK . but keep it up.

just remember, yuu used your mouth to put yourself in a friendzone. angry
Hahaahahahahha.... Common what was the right word there... Observing that shes filled in the spirit.. Jyst leaving the church.... I dunt know man.... Maybe dis is already lost...... What do u tink i do to the nxt move
RomanceRe: GUYS ONLY..... Serious Matter by Erums(op): 1:08pm On May 14, 2017
Goodafternoon guys.... Krispycash, diplomaticbieng... A big thanks for yesteday... Ive decided to move ahead after church service today....
So i stalled a girl from church today, shes beautiful and shes actually a new member... After a short introduction, lil arguement and interaction. She gave her digits, she happened to live near me bt just on the opposite estate.... we quite cool... Cos i told her i wanted her to be my friend.
Now as i got home i only called to let her know and to ask if shes gotten home as well after which she affirmed and i cut.
Now guys what next.... I just fancy her cos shes a student nurse.... Whats next online guys
RomanceRe: GUYS ONLY..... Serious Matter by Erums(op): 12:41am On May 14, 2017
Diplomaticbeing:
It's obvious that you didn't understand all the points in my foremost submissions.
I understood... Bt now ure sayin in neither here nor there.... I specified that incident... because before she came around we talked nd she said SHE wsbt ready for sex.... So it wasnt my priority.... And i never tot abt making it
RomanceRe: GUYS ONLY..... Serious Matter by Erums(op): 12:38am On May 14, 2017
biz2get:
STEP UP YOUR GAME.
Thus de need i raised this thread ..... I wanna do that....
RomanceRe: GUYS ONLY..... Serious Matter by Erums(op): 12:32am On May 14, 2017
Diplomaticbeing:
You not hitting on your girlfriend when she slept over neither made you an opportunist nor a non opportunist.
Im now confused.... How do u mean
RomanceRe: GUYS ONLY..... Serious Matter by Erums(op): 12:27am On May 14, 2017
biz2get:
Interesting.?

But this is WEAK..

What sought of man were you trying to show her.?

A WEAK MAN.?

That doesn't Know when to hit a Nail with the Hammer.?

Here's and Hint.

Another Bad Guy Somewhere is Currently Shinning Her Congo, that you refused to shine for 3days.

Be A MAN not a man.
Bro i cant agree with u less.... Alot of damn mixtakes i made
RomanceRe: GUYS ONLY..... Serious Matter by Erums(op): 12:15am On May 14, 2017
Diplomaticbeing:
@OP

Foremost, there's no evil in falling in love (fancy an opposite se.x) and meting out goodness towards such a person.

However, there's everything wrong with you, when you fails to decipher the intentions and character of such a person, around you, at least few hours to days after coming into contact with her.

This beg to question your level of self-awareness. Try to achieve self-realization. Once you get this done, automatically you'll be able to know or structure your ethical leanings, and by extension you'll be able to start to know what mandatory character you need or don't need from any woman. When the right characters are there couple with fancy, there you have found a true love. . . And you will never experience heartbreak again.

So, you need self-realization, altruism and willpower to be free from heartbreak.

Having explained the importance of self-realization above, let me explain the other values. Altruism and willpower; they helps you to know when to say no to exploitative requests or when to put an end to an unhealthy relationship - whenever you come into contact with a gold digger (opportunist).

When you live on the principle of altruism, sure you'll most often experience betrayals and disappointments from opportunists that crosses your path, but you can never experienced heartbreak. The reason is simple - when you give or honor request, you do so because of your selflessness and most importantly on your own volition, and not because of your greed/opportunistic dependencies to exploit the lady. And when a demand of intent to exploit you is made by your lady, you will have the willpower to turn down such request and call off her bluff because you've no opportunistic tendency against her.

Greed/exploitation tendency is the number one reason many people do suffer heartbreak.
:.... I try nt to be an opportunist.... My last haf visited and slept over for 3nights. Bt i didnt F. her for alot of reasons... Not just ne yielding to her flimsy excuses bt i was just learning 2be a man and in the same way letting her see it.... I get boners she sees it outta ny boxer.... Plays wit it bt i wudnt just fall in.. .... It wasnt realli abt sex man.... I wanted to truly know her. I just realized that move was foolish of me... I guess i didnt take the lead.... The rest are just story.... People can be heartless..... I realli wanna stop giving an F

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