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krispycash:
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Still here pal

biz2get:
In your Own Goodness..

I advise you switch it back on.

Bcus it seems you have been relying on your HEART instead of YOUR BRAIN POWER.

You should message or call my number below. Maybe we can talk some more.

You need to Get your Game Back. So Girls Want to STICK WITH YOU NO MATTER WHAT.

Ok.. Im gonna whatsapp you 2mrw.... My bat3 is almost dead... We talk more... Thanks alot pal.... Nice sleep

krispycash:
If u had it easy, you would never appreciate it.

Like seriously... None of those relationship came easy... It came with alot of effort, cash, calls, time and attention.... Etc.... I had a major financial loss december last yr so i really stopped spending cash for girls bt all odas remained..... Gradually getting bk to my feet, i realli dnt wanna do mixtakes anylonger

biz2get:
YES

BAD GUYS ATTRACTS GOOD GIRLS 90% OF THE TIME.

PLAYAS ATTRACT EVERYBODY EVEN GAY.

Here's The Thing about Bad Guys.

They Don't Love First. The Girl Should Love First.

They Play "1leg in... 2legs out"

They Don't Put All Eggs in One Basket.

They are not Needy. They Don't Seek For Peoples Approval

They Hurt Girls Feelings. And that Keeps the girl coming back.

#Haven't you seen Cases Where the guy doesn't treat the girl right but guess what SHE JUST LOVES HIM. #

And More

Here's A Thing About a Playa.

All that Up there. +

They DON'T GIVE A FUCCK

They just get the girl. Shine the congo, shine the congo some more shine the congo some more again.

They just keep shining the congo until the girls recives some sort of Sense.

They are not after any other thing. And will manipulate any girl they come across

And more.

Am sure after reading this you will know which sides you wanna become.

And how this helps you know the right girl for you.

Being a YES MAN. WILL ONLY ATTRACT PEOPLE WHO WILL HURT YOU TO YOU.

I tink in our contemporary world... I will wanna agree with u on this.... I wonder how de guys i know are quite hardened and rough... Keep dat girl..... I cnt realli tell if its love... Bt i tink im abt to learn someting... Pls go along break all ice

krispycash:
Brother .... There are no guarantees.
But just the same way there is no guarantee we will wake up tomorrow... But we believe we will... So we sleep with that belief...
Believe... And if it fails, try again... And again... And again...
Because u get involved in a car accident doesn't mean u will never drive or enter a car again...
There are no certainties....
Note: Love isn't give and take... Love is give... You alone can decide if u love someone.... U alone will know it is genuine....
Do not always expect them to reciprocate... It is a choice they have to consciously make....

Wooooo.... Realli.... No guarantees.... U asking me to do the same tin all over a again the same way which hasn't brought any good result bt damages
.... I belive theres a possibility of me getting a true bae.... Bt ptobably loving aint trusting which ive done in times past aint just de right way to go abt it..... Do u understand me

krispycash:
Over time you've been hurt by friend's who are not women or whom you're not emotionally entangled with... The hurt is not what kills u... Its u giving up... Nobody said it would be easy... But it is a lot of hard work and like everything u work hard for... It always pays off... Be smart and use both ur head and your heart. But understand that she will come to you someday... If u decide to go player mode you will miss it... So... I'm still saying... Keep it alive... Learn from your past .... Do not regret your past for it is an experience from which most life'seasons are taught... Learn and realise your mistakes and flaws... Build on that to become a better and greater person... What doesn't kill u only makes u stronger get up and try again... It isn't about how many times u fall or fail... But how many times you are willing g to get up and move on ahead to succeed.

What if it turns out same way again..... What if im Struck again....do u advice me to live someone wholeheartedly again?....... Can u guarantee pple? Yes i get ur message its all abt me first.... Bt love is give and take..... Dats all we want. ..... I fear for love

biz2get:
When you STOP LOVING PEOPLE. PEOPLE WILL LOVE YOU.

WHEN YOU STAY A PLAYA OR BAD GUY OR OUTLAW FOR A WHILE.

IT WOK BECOME YOU AND YOU WILL HANDLE ANY FUTURE GIRL YOU PLAN TO HAVE THE RIGHT WAY.

U mean bieng a player can help me get the right girl?

biz2get:
Which Means you have the Potential To Attract Ladies.

At this Point I want you to remove Some Few Things from your mind COMPLETELY

Relationships Stop Looking For Relationships.

- INSTEAD LOOK FOR PUCCY TO Bleep.

Love Love is Just A Word. what you feel is not Love.

- Bleep LOVE, JUST Bleep PUCCY

Trust Any Lady Or Any Body Who Says "Yes" Don't Give A Bleep.

- Be Less Concerned About Anything Or Anyone She Is ROLLING WITH. BE CONCERNED ABOUT[b] THE AGENDA PUSSY[/b]

Communication Less Communication With Ladies After Sex.

- Before sex Com Level 6-7 Out of 10. after Sex 3-4 out of 10 Com Level with her.

Marriage This Word Is Overrated.

Start With This..

I would love to break something's down to you. But typing isn't my thing.

How good are you with manipulation.?

Gradually getting ur hint..... Bro.... I sense all u saying
Manipulations if i allow it..... Its 9/10.... I dnt think one can get me easily... Lemme use de word im a smart ass... Bt i killed that skill long time ago... In me now manipulation is as low as 0 to - 1.... Or else i see reasons to let it grown bk.... Then it got no chioce

krispycash:
Brother let me give u a little hint... I have been around... I lost count of the number of girls I had been with in my early 20s.... I had all sorts of nicknames... But at the end of it all I became a shadow of my old self because when u become a playa u lose ur ability to give yourself to one person... You get used to giving yourself to multiple persons at the same time so love becomes just a word... You don't feel it ... And even when u do, you fight yourself... Subconsciously u tell yourself u just wanna hit it... Being a playa kills your ability to love trust or even have feelings... Genuinely... I have been around and touched almost every civilized tribe in nigeria and many offshore... But it all boils down to one thing, there is nothing more satisfying than that sense of belonging... Knowing there is that one person u can listen to when ur angry and her words even when they don't make sense, listening to them just soothes ur anger...
That one person who has ur mumu button... Forget all these kids on NL who try to say no love... They are just lions on keyboard and kittens in real life...
Love hurts but it is very satisfying... Don't give up u can't tell me u don't know what I am talking about... It is not about the sex...
It is not about the physical things... It is the feeling u get when u hear that personalized ringtone....
That fear when she doesn't call u for a few days and you are praying for her safety
That smile that creeps up on u when she tells you she's not going anywhere... The fear of losing her... These things may sound negative.... But these are the things that drive u to strive for greatness... These are the reasons u make yourself a better person.

So all in all... Falling in love is mostly about you and not your partner... Being a better version of you because she makes u want to be a better version of you...
Do not be scared to fall in love... It is what eventually makes u a man... No real man is a playa...

Bro... Im touched.. I cant really sleep off, cos u talkin to me... I realli do understand all ure saying... And gosh i realli want real love cos i prepared myself to love people. Probably dere tins im nt doing right i realli cnt tell. Now u said love hurts... But its nt suppose to. ... Im nt used to multiple patners.... If i got one the nearest person starts bieng irrelevant... So u see... Im eventually trying to be a man and for real im in my mid 20s.... The bells re ringing..... If it doesn't go right now.... Its gonna be in ma 30s den...... Sincerely i need dat one wonan u described up dere... But my hurts is a constant reminder that they dnt exist anymore.....

biz2get:
Good.

I would like us to move this to whatsapp.

But nevertheless

How Confident Are you with yourself and Getting Ladies.?

Rate out of 0/10.?

I think 8/10...can i get your number?

Nogodye:
Osogbo...Osun is a peaceful state! Guess you enjoyed your stay in ijebu jesa?

Yea i did thou... Had less trouble...... They kinda made me like yoruba pple.... Bt now i realli cnt twll no more i ogun... Deyre quite different

biz2get:
I can set you In The Path You desire..

..

First Off.

Stop being a YES MAN..

Stop Being Predictable.

If you can understand this two. We can kick off.

Ok... Noted... I realli wanna be unpredictable... Im ready to kick with u

I tink y killed the child

Nogodye:
Bless God bro...though just relocated to ekiti from Osun some couple of months ago

Which side of osun are u based... Didi my nysc dere at ijebu jesa....... It was a calm local community town... It was fun

Nogodye:
Ekiti State and you?

Ogun state... My man.... I hv bever been to ekiti thou.... Just osun nearby... So how u faring there

krispycash:
It is easy to love but the real question is are you in love with someone who is worth the love you wanna give?? Is the person going to accept and love u back even more?? Or are they just going to play u.... Love isn't blind... She wears a ray ban shade and just pretends to be blind... Love the see well well... But it is always very quick to forgive and move past passed hurt.. If you give up because u failed a few times you would never know what successful feels like...

This one touch me.... LORDKNOWS

krispycash:
Lol.. I know the feel... I have been there... But the moment u kill your ability to love it is as good as committing suicide... Your ability to love is what makes u different .... But maybe you have been falling for the same kinda girls making it that you have been looking for love in the wrong circles... Stop falling for what u see... Look beyond the looks... That is most crucial... Men mistake lust for love... Its never about what u have or what u have achieved ... It is about what greatness she brings out in u and likewise the beauty u bring out in her...
Love goes way beyond having feelings... And once you fall in love it is not a roadside drainage u can easily climb out of... Once you're in my brother it can take u a life time to get out of it...
Being a playa gets boring afterwards... Take it from a retired one... Life gets boring without the companionship of someone u love... Love is beautiful.... Never give up on it... Its worth the hurt

Krispycash..... Thanks alot for realky taking time to talk 2me abt this...
It hurts man.... I really didnt wanna give up until my last breakup...... I really was in love.. Bt i guess it was for the wrong person.... Yes.. She told a lil abt her past which really wasnt pleasant.. Bt i saw past it cos i wannted to support her thru.... Till she drastically returned to her past... Or better still i believe she never left... She just faked me..

Since ure retired....i cud call u sometime to get some advice frm u.... Cos dis thread cud realli be a big decision maker for mee.....

CplusJason:
Critics


Lmfao, sorry about that Bro.


One love.

U still my nigga anytine

Section8:
Ya see!! Just take a look at ursef giving ursef problems, guy trust no girlfriend stay sharp to all antics and trust me you will know whether they are wasting ur time or not.

Solid words fron a wise man... For real bro... Wen i try to be real its wen we go apart... By then i wud hv trust, bt i wanna know if im using my time wisely.. I get struck...

I really got to stay sharp

CplusJason:
Please you can stop loving oh.


Dem nor dey beg shiit make e smell.




Good night sir.

Goodnight man.... I needed solutions nt ur critics

Nogodye:
Maybe you always been nice in every of your relationship i guess that's why you are where you are...You just need to wise up not turning into player...check the link and you will learn somethings

U read me too well... I will check out the link... These are what i mean... Thanks paddy... Where u located

CplusJason:
Train your mind for positive things Bro.

What u talking. Abt... I got alot of positivity goin on in me.... Besides if i may ask... Whats ur perception of whats positive my mind needs?

Arthurwinner:
very Lng ago...now I'm a straight up menace

Realli... Guy i really eanna be like u... How did u go abt it

Section8:
You sound like someone who trusts easily that's the froblem

Uvr just nailed me with a 6inch nail... I actually trust.. Bvos witot it i cudnt love.... Den dey strike

Nogodye:
https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only#42440289


Maybe this can help

Thanks man... Lemme look thru... Whats ur take on this?

Arthurwinner:
players are naturally made bro....kp calm and love gals

U funny man... I dnt agree eith u thou... Bt never theless what i need is to make that change... U dig... Hv u ever been the victim?

Section8:
You fall in love quickly sorry bro no hope for you.

I agree with u broda.... Xperience has taught me

SuperSuave:
can one really change? It solely depends on how strong your mind is sha

Ive been told one can... But i realli need to find out how... So the need for this thread.. I need solutions

CplusJason:
You're only trying to fight yourself if you do that. (Turning into a player)



You don't just jump into love like you jump into a keke napep. Don't force it Bro.


Na small small brokus take dey big.




One love.

Bro... Does it mean i cant train my mind... U dnt know how it feels to be victim

List it officially at 19

kuchikau:
...........Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave.
See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga. I dont really undastand whats so special about their toto or nyash or breast.
It takes only a woman to bring a very strong man to his knees.
For Gods sake why do men follow women about like sheep with direction.
A gal dat mensturates evry 28days, wets her dirty smelling pants, yet u behave like an idiot before her. Wetin they hungry u for her stupid body?
ThankGod for my kind of friends.

Guy i can see ure trying to pass a message.. Bt uve not made complete sense...

Guys, i need your candid advice... I mean lets talk this out. In recent times, ive been the victim when it comes to my so called relationships. I get dumped before i know for no justifiable reason.... Note.. Im cute, clean, working class, earning averagely, stay in a 2bedroom apartment just abt getting a car.
Now i fall in love quickly and ive been bitten thrice in recent times. I really wanna move from bieng nice to be a bad guy, sure player with no feelings at all. I wanna stop loving cos it makes no sense anymore rather it bring sore emotions and heartbreak at the end of the day. I realli wanna stop loving anyone...... [color=#006600][/color]How do i make this change guys.
Matured minds only, cos i wanna believe alot of us are in this shoe.
I was actually tinking abt early marriage until my last breakup.... U dnt wanna hear dat story. But ive changed my mind. I need to train my mind guys.... Lets talk..... Thanks