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When I was in Benin Republic, I enjoyed watching daily Jungle Justice close to Jericho Road. That was how Cotonou reduced Crimes and Criminals drastically. Jungle Justice is the best . Courts are too slow

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The relationship between charity to family members and mental laziness is complex. While providing financial support can be beneficial, it may also create dependency and reduce motivation. Here are some potential considerations:

- *Dependency*: Regular financial support can lead to a sense of reliance, potentially reducing the motivation to work or make an effort.
- *Lack of Personal Growth*: Without the need to work or strive for financial stability, individuals may miss out on opportunities for personal growth and development.
- *Different Perspectives*: Some people may view financial support as a necessary aspect of family relationships, while others may see it as a potential hindrance to personal development.

To balance charity with promoting independence, consider the following strategies:

- *Set Clear Expectations*: Communicate your expectations and boundaries clearly, ensuring the recipient understands the terms of the support.
- *Encourage Self-Sufficiency*: Support initiatives that promote self-sufficiency, such as education or job training.
- *Gradual Reduction*: Gradually reduce financial support over time to encourage independence and self-reliance.
- *Alternative Forms of Support*: Consider providing emotional or practical support instead of financial assistance.

Ultimately, the impact of charity on mental laziness depends on individual circumstances and the dynamics of the relationship. By being aware of the potential risks and taking steps to promote independence, you can help ensure your support is beneficial and constructive.

is it proper to donate money on behalf of someone else?

A lady who chooses to completely avoid Toasters and Womanizers, may end up completely avoiding potential Husbands. One is found inside the other.

I wish Nairaland mods will begin to allow me to say what is on my mind without banning, then I will tell you all what that Criminal deserves if he is caught.

When ladies are in need, their fellow ladies never come through for them. Only men do.

Very funny

31 more characters needed by Seun lol

Does it really work? After peeling out the gummy part at the back of it, is there anything to peel out in the front or it?

TheCeasar:
Here are some reported incidents of sexual assault or harassment in Nigerian universities:


*Please note:* These incidents are serious and disturbing. If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, resources are available:


1. National Sexual Assault Hotline (USA): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
2. Nigerian National Human Rights Commission: 0800-444-4664


Reported incidents:


1. Obafemi Awolowo University (2018): A lecturer was accused of demanding sex from a female student in exchange for better grades.
2. University of Lagos (2019): A professor was accused of raping a 17-year-old admission seeker.
3. University of Benin (2020): A lecturer was arrested for allegedly molesting a female student.
4. Ahmadu Bello University (2019): A lecturer was accused of harassing and attempting to rape a female student.
5. University of Ibadan (2018): A professor was accused of sexually harassing a female postgraduate student.
6.jude oseji, a graduate from uniben sexually assaulted 3 uniben students and went into hiding

*Efforts to address the issue:*


1. The Sexual Harassment Prohibition Act (2021) aims to prevent and punish sexual harassment in educational institutions.
2. Universities have established sexual harassment policies and reporting mechanisms.
3. Awareness campaigns and advocacy groups, such as the Nigerian Women's Rights Organization, are working to prevent sexual violence.


**Resources for support:]


1. National Human Rights Commission (NHRC)
2. Nigerian Women's Rights Organization
3. Project Alert on Violence Against Women
4. Women's Rights and Health Project (WRHP)


If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, please seek help.


Would you like:


1. More information on resources and support
2. Updates on policy changes or advocacy efforts?
3. Guidance on reporting incidents?

This Jude Oseji, is the name also Chinedu?

Please, confirm. It is important.

TheCeasar:
Reminds me of AKPOS(JUDE) OSEJI IN UNIBEN this year, all rapist should die

This Jude Oseji, is the name also Chinedu?

Please, confirm. It is very important.

Troublesome ladies are manipulative. They appear in all sizes, shapes, and colours. Avoid them or you may regret your life.

Samantha125:
Define a troublesome lady in accordance to your understanding.

Permit me to use AI to respond so that we can get a General overview, of who a Troublesome lady is.

Some common traits or behaviors of a Troublesome lady include:

- *Frequent conflict*: Any lady that has a history of conflicts with others, whether in personal or professional settings.
- *Emotional instability*: Any lady that exhibit intense emotional reactions or mood swings, making it challenging for others to interact with her.
- *Lack of accountability*: Any lady that refuses to take responsibility for her actions, often blaming others or making excuses.
- *Manipulative behavior*: Any lady that use guilt, anger, or self-pity, to influence others, and get what she wants.
- *Disregard for boundaries*: Any lady that disregard others' personal space, time, or feelings, leading to conflicts and stress.

aswani:
You don't know these troublesome women well, they will hide their character until they are ready to pounce.

For some men, it will be too late as they have young children with them and they have to bear with a horrid life with a horrid person until the children grow up.

You made good points. Most guys get stuck to Troublesome ladies, because she got pregnant for them. And they see no way out again.

9japride:
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How nah, are you insulting me? It's like you didn't understand my post?

No no no. The Ode is not you but those who see red flags and willingly embrace it.

9japride:
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Like the one that caused wahala at one airline recently?
Most guys love those kind of ladies and be expecting a homely attitude.

I wonder how guys see red flags ladies and willingly embrace them, then turn around to later regret it? Those guys are Ode.

Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A word is enough for the wise.

Many men have ignored this golden advice

Some have been jailed
Some have been sacked
Some have been divorced
Some have been beaten
Some have been deported
Some have even been killed.

Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A word is enough for the wise.

Read this slowly: If una start up Cash Contribution and Rotational Collection, the first person to collect, is just taking a Loan, while the last person to collect, is just making Savings. Cash Contribution is a useless form of Investment. Argue with your keyboard if you like.

Trump is greater than 3 Joe Bidens.

End of Discussion.

I totally agree with the Op. The advantages of Masturbation are far more than it's Disadvantages:

Advantages of Masturbation
1. Masturbation prevents or reduces patronizing Prostitutes and Hook up girls unless for SVCs.
2. Masturbation prevents or reduces having sex with your housemaid, your neighbours wife, your female neighbour, your workplace colleagues, your tenant, your students, your subordinates, your brothers wife, etc.
3. Masturbation prevents or reduces Adultery and Fornication, just to summarize Number 2 above.
4. Masturbation increases your Focus on Wealth Creation, Education, Career Progression, etc.
5. Masturbation prevents being embarrassed publicly for Sexual Assault or Sexual Harassment. Masturbation also prevents being jailed for Sexual offences like Rape. It prevents being Sacked from Job, or lynched to death because of Sexual offences.
6. Masturbation helps you to build or regain your social respect, as your sexual urges won't make you to toast any and every lady around. Whether you like it or not, most of you guys are referred to as Chronic Womanizer, behind your back.
7. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Fidelity, as you won't use the excuse of my wife is sick or unavailable, to sleep with every available hole.
8. Masturbation helps to increase Marital Bonding and prevent Divorce, as 85% of Divorce cases filed by Ladies are based on their Man having sex with other ladies.
9. Masturbation improves your relationship with the other gender, as your discussion with them won't always begin and end in Sex, no matter how sexually attractive and appealing they are.
10. With Masturbation, your mind can actually forget that ladies exist, and you get to focus on your Life goals and achievements, because at the end of the day, apart from Sex, what else can ladies really offer you? Nothing. But with Masturbation in the picture, what else do you really need ladies for? Nothing.


However, as every other addictive behaviors, avoid getting addicted to Masturbation. Masturbation is advantageous. But addiction to Masturbation is disastrous too.

Who still takes NCC seriously?

N.C.C. that always sounds like "Anything you See, you See!"

Most Yoruba Teachers teaching Basic Education cannot even speak Basic English language.

Shameful!

Nursery school and JS3 Graduation parties supposed to be banned Nationally. It's Trash.

Ladies are really going through a lot in their desperation to look good and acceptable to men. Shameful.