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Family / Re: Why I Chose To Distance Myself From A Sibling by estybae(f): 10:12pm On Apr 01, 2023
CosmicDust:


I didn't talk of her marital status.
Question is if you are abroad and doing well with a good job and your parents(not your siblings) need medical care, will you send 1/4th of the money despite having the capability to do more and wait for the worst? Kindly answer. It's alright not to have a conscience.

This still boils down to lack of communication really
You're not there with her and you might just be assuming she's doing well and she's not
All you need right now is just communication, call your sister and talk to her, ask her how life is treating her over there and know if she really had the money and refused to send it.
It's not that hard.
You might just be jumping into conclusions...

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Family / Re: Why I Chose To Distance Myself From A Sibling by estybae(f): 6:32pm On Apr 01, 2023
xevove2061:


All i can see here is an entitled prick of a person. What makes you think she has a good job as you say she does. What also makes you think that she is paid well, as you think? Did you ask how she pays her bills and who she has to run to when she has issues of her own? Why do you think its okay to come here complainimg of your elder sister who is atleast sending something back for your feeding. Habe you seen her payslip to know how much she earns monthly? Do you know if the money she makes monthly is enough for her own monthly expenses? You people in nigeria need to stop having this mentality that people abroad are fine. Very few are doing really fine. Some people make over 12m equivalent in naira and its not enough, if that person has their own family what shpuld they now do? Mind you, your bills do not wait for you abroad, you have to pay it and pay it on time otherwise you get interest on those bills. If she was not even bringing any money in the first place, then its a topic for another day. Please and please!, never feel entitled to another persons money and never assume that anyone owes you anything. Are you not a man? Should you not be making your own money despite all odds? You lots are sickening. I tell you!

Thank you for this comment
The fact she's even bringing money does it for me, them no even happy say she dey send...
The OP wrote out all his achievements, he even has a wife but his older sister is in Canada unmarried and alone, he obviously doesn't care for her
Cos he would've at least called her to express his dissatisfaction and then hear her own side of the story
For someone to send that amount you deem small, are you aware of her living conditions in Canada? Do you know if she's living fine and has no health issues ?
She has not visited Nigeria once and you didn't think that she might be finding it difficult to survive not to talk of footing the bills to visit her family in Nigeria
This just boils down to lack of communication cos she's your sister and you should at least be aware of the happenings in her life
She'll obviously be depressed cos she's single, alone and now her family dey judge her join

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Family / Re: After Bath Itches by estybae(f): 2:43pm On Jun 18, 2020
Use dettol in bathing water
Health / Re: HELP: How Do I Manage Bleeding Hemorrhoids? by estybae(f): 2:10pm On Jun 17, 2020
The only cure I've seen is cocoyam stem and it worked on a kid, I don't know if it'll work on an adult o.
Then, we cut the cocoyam stem and use it with the white liquid coming out to push the hemorrhoid back in whenever she finished using the toilet. It worked like magic, the whole thing stopped and never came back.
If you stay in a place where cocoyam grows, you can try it out.
God will heal you.

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Family / Re: I Don't Think I Can Continue With This Kind Of Life. by estybae(f): 9:09pm On Jun 16, 2020
If you kill yourself, the problem still continues with no one to solve it.
All I can say is just pray and be closer to God there's nothing He can't do.
Life is like that, not fair at all, if you think your problem is the worst just know there's someone out there passing through more
I know how u feel, I really do
Just pray my dear
Literature / Re: I Need A Writer Who Specializes In Blockchain by estybae(f): 9:03am On Jun 10, 2020
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Business / Re: I Want To End My Life by estybae(f): 9:48am On Jun 08, 2020
Lol... This sounds untrue abeg
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Business / Re: Santa Has Come Early. Type What You Want. You Just Might Get It by estybae(f): 7:08pm On Oct 13, 2019
I need 2k for feeding... thanks P.S. I'm a student
Education / Re: Midwestern Oil & Gas JV Scholarship Award by estybae(f): 10:03pm On Sep 11, 2019
thanks
Literature / Re: Once Upon A First Love Story By Tope Omotosho. by estybae(f): 3:36pm On Aug 03, 2019
beautiful story dear... keep it up

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Education / Re: Chevron Shortlisted Candidates Thread 2018/19 by estybae(f): 5:51pm On Aug 27, 2018
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Education / Re: Chevron Shortlisted Candidates Thread 2018/19 by estybae(f): 4:31pm On Aug 27, 2018
Pls the picture i uploaded on my profile is not showing on my exam slip, is there any issue ?
Education / Re: Chevron Shortlisted Candidates Thread 2018/19 by estybae(f): 9:52pm On Aug 25, 2018
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Education / Re: Federal Government Scholarship (fsb 2018) Thread by estybae(f): 3:15pm On Aug 07, 2018
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Literature / Re: Short Story: "LOVE'S GRIEF" - Written By Oyekunle Lizzy Oyebola by estybae(f): 6:59pm On Feb 19, 2017
Nice message
Literature / Re: Almost Paradise by estybae(f): 10:46am On Feb 16, 2017
Well done candy
Education / Re: Delta State University (DELSU), Abraka Thread by estybae(f): 1:53pm On Jan 06, 2017
Pls guys, what type of questions do they set for the predegree entrance exam ?
Education / Re: Delta State University (DELSU), Abraka Thread by estybae(f): 12:02pm On Sep 23, 2016
Lemmy394:
I just got admission to study Medicine and Surgery, am so glad...were do i pay my acceptance fee
u reach cut off mark for MBBS
Education / Re: Delta State University (DELSU), Abraka Thread by estybae(f): 7:50am On Sep 22, 2016
christo2baba:
I Don gain admission 4 D second list oooooooooo
how you take check
Education / Re: Delta State University (DELSU), Abraka Thread by estybae(f): 4:05pm On Sep 21, 2016
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Literature / Re: Memories Of Cupid(2) by estybae(f): 6:49am On Aug 27, 2016
Pls jeenah come and update na
Literature / Re: Memories Of Cupid(2) by estybae(f): 10:00am On Aug 20, 2016
Thumbs up, jeenah.
Literature / Re: Memories Of Cupid(2) by estybae(f): 6:03pm On Aug 19, 2016
Thanks girl
Literature / Re: Songs Of Love (a Song For Bola) by estybae(f): 4:29pm On Aug 19, 2016
I love ur story kip it up
Literature / Re: Memories Of Cupid(2) by estybae(f): 2:22pm On Aug 19, 2016
Ok thanks jeenah
Literature / Re: Memories Of Cupid(2) by estybae(f): 8:27am On Aug 19, 2016
Jeenah pls dnt forget us o, thnks
Education / Re: Delta State University (DELSU), Abraka Thread by estybae(f): 8:16pm On Aug 17, 2016
ALKARULEZZ:
next week
ok thnx

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