EmperorCaesar:
Soyinka is 10x whatever Achebe attempted to be

So yea, we understand Igbos frustrations

This is becoming unbecoming of you.


Like, really, are you just dumb or what? I responded to your other comment about CA, and I'm even just realizing what you're attempting to do.

Why are you bringing CA into the matter? Like for what reason? From where to where? Instead of addressing the matter at hand, you're making a childish attempt at deflecting into what is not. You created a fake scenario of some competition between WS and CA and you ran with it, littering every thread.


I am forced to think this is motivated by money or some (material) gains on your part, because you "jampack" names of great people in history, and you name-drop (philosophical) thinkers all over your profile, yet look at the quality of your thoughts. 😂😂



Each time I see your moniker and comments on here, I just burst into fresh rounds of laughter, because, did you ever attempt to call me out on being a feminist on my main? You? Me? Did you?🤣🤣🤣

garykoeman:
It not my portion.

You and Peter obi would die painfully.

Useless people and supporters.

So e pain you? 🤣🤣🤣


But you cannot see the hypocrisy and insult in her words to Obasanjo?

EmperorCaesar:
The fact that people are quictto reply the most revered WS is a proof that he's an enigma

Nobel prize winner 🏆
Even Einstein and Tesla are all a one time Nobel prize winner in academic field

Imagine a riffraff like this challenging Einstein on any matter


Wail more bro

And achievements don't count for shit EXCEPT in the professional fields which they are attained. They just show that you're good AT what you do, based on generally agreed standards.


R Kelly, for instance, is a Grammy-winning convict (a serial child rapist). So if he comes out today to yarn an opinion about women or politics, his opinion is suddenly validated because he has won a music award before?

toneroforever:
Soyinka is good no doubt but Achebe is great.
The whites reckon far more with Achebe's works than Soyinka's.
Things fall apart was translated into over 50 languages.

Let him be playing.

EmperorCaesar:
The fact that people are quictto reply the most revered WS is a proof that he's an enigma

Nobel prize winner 🏆
Even Einstein and Tesla are all a one time Nobel prize winner in academic field

Imagine a riffraff like this challenging Einstein on any matter


Wail more bro

I wonder what achievements you have then that qualifies you to criticize Obi with the way you're going on about the Nobel Prize.


You're obviously a brainwashed Westernized ******** .

Olodo that doesn't know that intelligence in one area doesn't mean intelligence in other areas. Olodo that doesn't also know that the NP is for different categories. So because Einstein has a NP and Sole Woyinka has a NP, it now means the latter is a scientist? Because SW has collected a NP, if you put him inside a plane, he'll be able to fly it? Or he can write a computer code?


I won't be surprised if you're one the asslickers of the ego-crazed Paul Graham who was adequately checked when he tried to dictate to non-Westerners how they should write and speak.


If you are good in your field, stick to it. If you tried venturing out of it, anything your eyes see, you take it like that.

When there's no finance, there can not be romance.


That first man ate that one.

Paramount01:
Yiu can't take my child to anywhere without informing me not even your matters house. you must inform me before letting my child goes anywhere,you can go anywhere you like but for my child ,I just be aware


I don't do anything at home and I won't do it except I feel like doing it,I also don't share any bills and I will never get you involve in my bills,infact I don't even expect you to say thank you for paying any bills, I wnt even ifoemwd you that I have paid, so why getting me involve in your work,if you think you are big for it then tell me to get you a partner and that will be second wife.

Roles are define and if you think the roles are to big for you then tell me,I will know what to do,you can't force me to do house chores in a house where you and I is living,I take care of you and secure you like your dad,can you adyiur dad be at home and you expect your dad to be washing plate or you share work to your dad

Ohhhhh.


A traditional man to the core in all his pomposity. I understand now.


But you didn't discuss these with her before you got married ni or what? That you're now complaining now?

Paramount01:
If you can't serve me then don't prepare the food.

Then prepare it by yourself??


Imagine saying you want to leave home over this. Men sha.

Paramount01:
Honestly,I am tired,I am even thinking of just abandoning her at home and leave,I can't be loosing my sanity becaue of one woman,I want my house this way, help me do it that way but no ,my wife will just do has if no be she I dey talk to

- Is she generally like this? From work to other major house work and the children? Are there other things she's excellently good at? Strengths you admire about her?

If it's in just these "little" stuff she forgets "herself," I see no reason why you cannot step in and pick up after her. Or you cook together– from start to finish. Arrange your house the way you want it. Leave her to things she's good at.

- Have you also thought of WHERE you're 'lacking', and she's probably filling in too, without your notice?

dkidd:
Just saw this

Of course there are good men same as there are good women too. And like u said about the fumbling part people still do it till date and then looking back they live in regret wishing they could re-live that moment when they had that one good partner they took for granted. Men fumble good women and women also fumble good men then when they realize all they're ending up with is nothing compared o him/her they now yearn for what they used to have but most times it's already too late. So yeah there are still good people

Okay.


I asked those questions because of the advice you gave, assuming that the woman in question is not the right person for the OP.


So since you believe there are good people that others "fumble" from time to time, you realize that the OP just might be losing a good one. You advising him not beg her is sound, but could easily be misconstrued as you saying the OP should show no contrite for his actions to the woman. Like, yeah, he did not provide any details of what they said to each, but going by what he said, he admitted to being at fault. If they had both insulted each other, I'm sure the man might have mentioned that.


But you are not privy to these details, you do not know what he said to her, you do not know what influence (possibly positive) that she has on his life, after he he's probably weighed his options, but you just advice him to let her go, thinking because she's not so willing to hear "sorry" (likely for the time being), then he should leave her alone and move on to the "right person" (because you're sure she's not the right person for him?)

EmperorCaesar:
Nobel prize winner

Achebe is still wishing till tomorrow

He's more known and important to the world than u vagabonds put together

Wishing? Try again.


That you think some Western prize, mostly politically-determined is some badge of influence speaks to how mentally parochial and intellectually summarized you are.

It's one thing for you to not concern yourself with issues of identity politics in art and Western recognition; it's another for you to open your mouth waaaaaa, broadcasting your ignorance to all and sundry.


Think, and stop limiting people's legacies to NG politics beer parlour talk. Thank God Chinua Achebe did not live long enough to degenerate (though, I doubt he ever will) into whatever this ********* Wole Soyinka has become with his public, vacuous opinions every two market days.


Even if you're going to shit talk, at least come correct and with facts.

MrBrownJay1:
pls remove that post just like you've been removing all the past NL begging post on threads with yeye fake stories (when nobody replies to your nonsense)

Hezzyluv:
Most times, if a husband goes outside and misbehave, "the wife's action or inaction might have triggered it. Even the approach she used here tells a lot about her.

So madam, check from your own side wetin you dey do or no dey do wey make your husband go on sex escapade.

This is why y'all deserve paternity fraud x.

immortalcrown:
When he is poor, "He cheats on me".

When he is rich, "She is trying to steal my man".

Wow. How did you know this couple in question? 😂😂


I mean, at a first glance, you can see the kind of neighbourhood they live in, and you can see the way the girl looks. I do not mean to bodyshame any of them, but you can guess the way the wife looks too.


Which big madam that is married to a rich man would care about doing something like this to some small fry lmao?

Expletives.

The thunder fire you, God wan punish you and you dey mad kind of swear words.


You should never ever run out of insults as a Nigerian . A witty comeback must always be at the tip of your tongue for any situation, because any and everything will test you in this country.

Blackhacker:
Good job but sincerely just wanted to hear from Nairaland couples...

The one that got me the most was the guy who said he was sent a list of things to buy but it was not giving money for the item.

It's the one that was about leaving home to go pick her from her Dad's place for me.

OP, I thought to help your ministry small.

You should have shared screenshots to go with it, and probably a link too.

This should be interesting.


Hopefully.

essentialone:
I am a Male and need nothing financial from any lady. Don't miss the point. I am referring to Women assisting their fellow women financially.

What is y'all businesses with women all the time exactly?


It's seriously giving* autogynephilia .

dkidd:
Leave her be u idiot. Never beg, force or manipulate a woman to love u. You will have to keep up with it to keep her. Let her go and develop ur fvcking self so the right one will come in.

Fairs.


I want to ask you; do you believe there are (only a) few good men? Especially, few good men to go around? Do you believe a person can "fumble" a good person or that a woman can fumble a good man, and "waste" her years away, playing with the good men who comes her away and pushing them off, only to end up seeking for good men later in life? And if you choose to answer my question, it'll depend on whether you believe there are good people sha or in anything like goodness.

tobounty:
All located in Tinubu Lagos. Our Wailers that are fond of jumping night buses from their barren land always have a sight to take back.

You must be the slowest of your classmates' set in primary school.

Foreign231:
These days, e con be like say Karma dey quick show 😂😂

Like ehnnn .