Feels like a thread of alternates responding to themselves.

izzou:
Only this year, we have had like 40 Mother's day celebrations.

Una no dey celebrate us at all!

It's a man's world chile. Watin the sons of the house wan dey need special celebrations and recognition and organizations for again?

izzou:
So today is the International Day of the Boy Child, and nobody talk.

I did not see organisations disturbing my SM with different flyers and campaigns

How utterly shocking.



Let me even go and check Andrew Tate's social media pages and them Kai Cenat and twitch streamers socials dem.

I will make sure to also branch the redpill community on NL here on my way there.

Aku odun eni o. Emi wa a se opolopo e. 👀👀



Ire na akari. Emi gungun ati alafia yo ma je ti boy child loojo gbogbo ti ti ale. Amin.

liveLongNprospa:
Looks like apc government favored me.
First pikin Don show today😎

Congratulationssssssssssssssssssss 🎊✨🧸🎉🎈.


I'm so happy for you 😁😁.

Tallesty1:
If you look at his Twitter timeline, you'll see that he only gets significant engagement when he criticizes Obi. His recent tweets hardly receive 80 comments. Less than 20 sometimes, but as soon as he targets Obi, he gets thousands of comments. Views, likes, and retweets increase five to tenfold compared to his usual activity. Reno is working from home and his job description is to relentlessly attack Obi and Igbo people.

I don't really know why Obidients are failing to realize this. Like, I wish he'd get the Segalink treatment.

Even if, even if they want to respond to him, for the sake of quelling the lies he spreads, they should do it without directly engaging him. And they should censor his name, whatever. They should just starve him of views.

Gerrard59:
Well, Eunoiaa believes otherwise. If Nigerian young men are smart enough, they would be the number one vocal supporters of sexual liberalism rather than complaining.

Gerrard59:
Witchcraft has nothing to do with being conservative. Across the world, most young men are becoming conservative. This has played out even in elections where young men vote for ultra-conservative parties. A few years ago, one would have predicted they would be uber-liberal.

Your ability for misunderstanding must be a (follow-come) feature, and not a bug that manifests once in a while as I thought.


Yes, witchcraft has nothing to do with being conservative—exactly what I said?

I don't care for whatever placebo beliefs you hold onto, or whatever young men are becoming (like it is hardly surprising that men have never radically changed at any point in time), but that older, established feminists exist, whom you wind of conservative change never touched. And I was "thanking God" for that.

And when it's also convenient for you, you will group those same women as "modern women" who are out to get men's blood and monies. When it isn't, you believe the influence of feminism on (young) women is so wane like a candle being blown in a gale.


I am never against sexual preservation, but to present it as if it's some magical wand that'll get men to be better ('care about the cow') is some bullshit on steroids. That said, women are not chattels. You are really very double-minded when it comes to what you believe about men and women. Because how exactly do you reconcile men "caring for the cow" with you always defending the right of a rich man to cheat? You believe a rich man should be entitled to cheating because he's been rejected in his broker days, yet you want me to believe that the women who are not being wifed up by these rich men are on the losing side, while the chaste women they marry are on the winning side.

Do you think these men are not caring for the different women they frolick with? Or you think the wife at home exclusively has the heart and pocket of the (cheating) man?

And this is how you're contributing to the status quo of men always benefitting—by your support or devil's advocacy. You're a man afterall, you'll always support your own, so no surprises there.

Like a rich cheat (Davido, for example) will make sure that all "cows" are well fed and fattened . So piss one place, make e foam.

You two are clearly not on the same page. It seems to me like you both want different things from the marriage or got into for very superficial reasons and you did not take the time to get to know each other well enough. There's no transparency/communication.


It seems to me like the money matter is just an effect of a deeper problem- he doesn't show that he loves you or care for you and is nonchalant about your person or being intimate with you. And in his mind, he probably thinks he doing just enough - as a "husband should." He's paying the "big bills." Nothing more, what else could you ask for?

And it's not as if you're not providing little necessities in your own way too. For the people asking you how you're "supporting" him in his "duty," I have to wonder if he's sharing in your workload of raising the kids and running the home too. Like why are you expected to compromise and understand him, where he's coming from "in this economy", and there's no where in your story that you hinted at him helping you out. Like if he's going to provide, he should go all the way? You also take stock from your shop to supply necessities at home. WHICH YOU BOTH USE, for Christ's sake! I honestly can't say I don't get where you're coming from. And some might say a marriage should not be reduced to a "me vs. him" thing, but then again, nobody is in your shoes to know where it pinches you really. Call it blaming, it's just what it is.


Most people are fixated on the money part, but I see it as you even just expecting him to be considerate and sensitive to your needs, IF AT ALL he doesn't have the money to give. Your phone was stolen and he didn't even bother to ask, ask you o, that "ah? What happened? How did it happen? What should we do about it now?" That's selfish to me. And it has nothing to do with money.

You're watching your wife's business crumble, not bothering about her upkeep and grooming, and you don't expect resentment to grow? If the business is crumbling, what ever happened to him sitting her down, as a couple, and figuring out how to get her out of the financial rot? Your other half is sinking, but you think it is not a reflection on you. For a people that like to talk about the holy union of marriage, the independent, "be-your-own-boss-in-the-marriage" advice most of you are giving her are just...

And I am fairly certain she performs her "wifely" duties to him, and take care of the kids the most.


She says her daughter in already talking, yeah, we're literally seeing it playing out how fathers just think it is enough to foot the big bills, not caring about emotional investment in the children and then tomorrow, people will come and start talking of the "sacrifices" the father made for them that the children did not acknowledge but love their mum more instead. When they can see how he's treating their mother now.


'She should take accountability for the business running down.' It's easy to say now. When five years ago, Buhari was in power. As at last year, Tinubu became the president, and we see how bad things have spiralled. If the man has refused to give her money for upkeep/provide for necessities, from where is she supposed to get the money? She should watch the children go hundred or eat rice from morning 'till night, Monday to Friday? No, I am not going putting 100% of that blame on you, but since you've taken a loan in the hope that it'll boost the business and it's not working, you might have to try another way of making money as it's evidently "all man for himself."

Ideally, you should have your partner behind you, but since sadly that's not the case with real life. You just have to find something to do that doesn't involve you putting more money into it, and I believe you'll figure it out. You strike me as a smart woman.


All the best.

Martinez39s:
All OP needs to do is tell her that she is not a victim; men are not oppressing women; men and women have equal rights; and her choices are not to be blamed on anyone else. She should own her life and encourage women in the spirit of her activism to stop playing victims.

Sooooo...right back to feminism. Is there a rule book you're reading from that said the girl in question cannot believe in the above and still call herself a feminist?

Or speak out on behalf of other women -- if her reality is different from one of victimhood?

Sharia laws have ceased to exist? Rape culture is no more a thing? Domestic) GB violence and child marriage nko?

One time when a girl made a tweet about how she refused to cook for her dad/brothers, it went viral and men from different countries were sending her death threats.


And it's funny to me when y'all anti-feminists want to talk, you'll say feminists have a penchant for nitpicking on minute stuff when there are systemic issues to address instead of who washes and cooks. But when they bring up the big matters like you requested, you'll say they are making it up.

Gerrard59:
Most feminist miscreants on social media do so for funding/donations purposes, clout chasing and the likes. Most don't practice what they preach. Everybody dey find one hustle or the other.

As for the sexual liberalism, yes, it's men, especially well-to-do men that benefit from it. Biologically, men are comfortable with having lots of sexual intercourse. So when women are encouraged to deliver milk without the need for the buyer to cater to the cows or ranch, why wouldn't men benefit from it? Free milk o without caring where the cows are cared for or the ranch is protected.

So you honestly think women who "kept the milk" are treated much more better than the ones who don't? When women used to "keep the milk" in the past, they were better off than women today in every way? Lmao. It's one thing to speak against sexual promiscuity, but to make it seem as if sexual purity benefitted women, collectively, is another. Like men were not having concubines and street prostitutes they patronise on the side.

bukatyne:
@bold:

I thought men and women are the same

Oh, but they are.

Are men humans and women animals? Do women have air floating in the skulls, and men don't? Or women stool through their vaginas and men through their joysticks? Abi women are sub-standard/inferior beings? Or maybe it is your understanding of sameness that differs from the meaning of sameness that feminists talk about.

givedemwotowoto:
I am not the only one complaining here so stop throwing stones while living in a glass house

You people that believe in gender roles and tradition and conservative ideals are in the MAJORITY. Yes, even in developed worlds.


So stop exaggerating your issues and simply find each other to date!


If you have a bad character, you have a bad character. If you don't have wife or husband head, then you don't have it. Leave innocent feminism out of it.

1Sharon:
I hope you're not a red pillar or you'll be a very big hypocrite. Feminism and the red pill are two sides of the same coin. Both are foreign Western ideologies that weren't birthed in Africa.

And, assuming this is true?


There are so many things we do, say, eat, and practice in modern-day Africa that aren't indigenous to us and it's no problem?


So unless you're just saying this for the sake of saying, or you're saying it to mean that it has no basis because it's "foreign?"

cococandy:
I don’t know about Linda but when did Tonto and Toke ever tell you that they’re feminists?

You just see women looking good on the internet out of your reach and conclude they are feminists?

That being said, what’s the measure of misery in any of these ladies? Who says they are not happy?

Is that another one of the lies you tell yourselves to make yourselves feel good about them not wanting you?

There are stupid male celebrities that make a fool of themselves every now and then, from Samklef to Black faze to Drake and Kendrick Lamar recent beef, but when you're blinded by agenda, you can not see anything else contrary to it.

Gerrard59:


Allow her be. Young people tend to be very liberal, but as they become older, they become more conservative. I was like that, I was a big champion of feminism during my early days on Nairaland. However, as I grew older and understood the differences between men and women, I changed my stance.

The koko would be are would-be friends. That is where the issue comes from.

I see.


Thank God life is not a one-way street sha.


Because if this even was generally true, we wouldn't have any old bitter witches that are set in their ways and inspiring and influencing us younger ones that we're thankful for now.

Look at them all convulsing like they have epilepsy on the thread.


"Hustle Kingdoms" are springing up everywhere, drug abuse is over the roof, and violent crimes, insecurity and food inflation is spiraling out of control, but it's a young girl being a feminist y'all know how to pour your energies on. Such an unserious bunch.

kingxsamz:
Sounds like your last born is very intelligent and has a great future ahead of her. You on the other hand need a great knock on the head for thinking there's anything wrong with her in the first place.

Whether she ends up calling herself a feminist or not, I just know she has a good head on her shoulder and I'm already in awe of her.

Rhimat:
Feminism will brainwash her mind she will never be submissive to her husband,she will become very stubborn ,you need to advice her.

There isn't even head or tail to the post.



You bloggers can spin anything for lies lmaooo.

Omg, I can't laugh. 😂😂😂


And you created a topic, as per feminism is an issue like drug abuse or cultism or as if she came home and declared that she wants to start worshipping the devil? Wtf??

OasisX:


......you can't be around me and won't smile.

Interesting.


You must have a big social circle.

OasisX:


.....let's hope HBO, Netflix or the others gonna do the needful with the books.

Yeah. I hope.


Are you always smiling ever so often in real life as well?

folake4u:
Who are the girls that are heartbroken and in tears please?

Mtchewww!

Your sisters from Plutoverse.

OasisX:


........hollywood should bless us with series based on contents of these books nah. Its definitely gonna be interesting.

Honestly!!!!


It'd be a blockbuster if they were to be adapted into movies, I'm sure. Like one is about a serial killer and not just any SK on the street, but a Navy-trained serial killer, and it also happened on a US aircraft carrier. I could not understand most of the technical jargon, but I know it'd make sense if I was watching it.


The first book was released in 2021 sha. It's fairly new, so maybe might it be in the works.

The screenshot I shared is from the Mindhunter book. I didn't know it's been adapted already.

OasisX:


.....the books are the reason you are partially not ok I guess?!

Yes.


It's written by an ex- Navy SEAL and sniper, so you can imagine how much of a mind twist the story is. It's greatly engrossing. I'm on the second book in the series. Another one that I downloaded, also (see its summary below), I am too scared to even begin it lol.

OasisX:


......so wá pá?!

Mostly, I'm fine.


Mentally, partially not okay.

I've been reading some fuçked up books. It's fiction, nothing of the spiritual/brainwashing kind lol, just deeply psychologically twisted stuff.

OasisX:

😒😒😒

OasisX are you ignoring me??


I'm breaking up with you!!!

Do not quote me again. Ever!