Hardetutu01:
how can we revive dis?

Hardetutu01:
how can we revive dis?

Okay Sir.
1. We need to create a group chat (Whatsapp preferably) and keep the activities on a low key for a while.
2. We should also create a thorough blueprint which everyone should contribute in any measure.
3. I also believe that any member's thought should be communicated here and on the WhatsApp group regularly so as to keep the flame blazing and also draw interested members.


These are my humble additions. With this, we would be SLOWLY gathering momentum to prepare the prospective party for electoral positions at least 2023.

Objectives, comments and opinions are welcomed!

Hardetutu01:
how can we revive dis?

Okay Sir.
1. We need to create a group chat (Whatsapp preferably) and keep the activities on a low key for a while.
2. We should also create a thorough blueprint which everyone should contribute in any measure.
3. I also believe that any member's thought should be communicated here and on the WhatsApp group regularly so as to keep the flame blazing and also draw interested members.


These are my humble additions. With this, we would be SLOWLY gathering momentum to prepare the prospective party for electoral positions at least 2023.

Objectives, comments and opinions are welcomed!

This initiative is dying oo.

Empiree:
Eutaxy,

You need to bring your parents attention to the Book Of Allah and statments of His Nabi (SAW).

Fortuenately, this was the subject of discussion at my masjid today i:e rascism, tribalism, nationalism .....you name it.

I am aware of a hadith which says it it also preffered to marry from one's tribe, language and culture. But that's just fair recommendation for couple to be able to understand each.

People cannot rely on this solitary hadith to justify what your parents are doing to you.

The way she sounds makes her tribalist which is wrong.

The basic things to look for in potential spouse are clear: RELIGION, BACKGROUND, SELF ETC

THE EXCUSE GIVEN BY YOUR MOM IS NOT ONE OF THEM


My take on this is be patient and continue your legit romance with her. Talk to your parents' respected relatives and closed friends. Hopefully that should yield positively.

Thanks for your advise, may Allah also grant you your wishes, Amin!

Salam to everyone, Please let's resurrect the thread again.

Tribalism is about to rear its ugly head in my matter o.

I'm a young Muslim male Non-Yoruba from Kwara State(early 20s), I would be true with my B.sc degree in some months time in one of the state universities in North Central Nigeria.

Alhamdulilah, as I'm doing well for myself Academically- I'm a prospective "strong" second class upper degree holder, which is a source of pride to my parents.

Like a future-oriented and respectable youth, I've been steering clear of Zina since 100 level. Recently, I approached a sister I've been admiring since 100 level, I asked her out and went straight to the point about been serious, marriage-focused and no Dillydallies. She accepted after few days of fasting. (She's that religious).

She's Yoruba, well brought up, religious, intelligent, respectful and of decent character though her mum is a Christian.

The Issue now is My mum got to know about her, on learning about her tribe, she immediately told me that she does not want a Yoruba daughter in-law. Her reason was that She (the girl) would not allow our kids
(future ones Insha Allah) to marry a spouse from my town

My dad was also advising us recently about the need to honour your parents, and also marrying a girl of the tribe and preferably in the same locality (I guess my mum told him)

Please house, does severing this relationship for their own sake constitute "honouring of one's parents? I have always believe that the deen comes first, and I might not be happy with any girl (town or no town).

NB: I would be the first to marry a Yoruba from my family, though some uncles and cousins have married Hausa, Kanuri etc.

Please, how do I go about it?