@poster stop deciving the girl, what u feel for her is lost not love ,get out of ur marriage and be with her if u truly love her.there is no excuse that u are married and still in love with a single lady thereby blocking her chance of bein in ur position some day.

I keep the ring as a matter of fact it will not last 24hr with me,i will rather sell it off for money than give it back ,I wouldn't need anything to remind me of him.

Some times gettin to suprise us might be the worst thought or decision ever,More expecialy when the timing is not right.Get to know wht will keep smiles on our faces for a maximum period of time.WHICH IS , LOL.