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I really thank everyone for their comments, God bless u all

lol, what is the result of $1billion spent on weapon

Righteousness2:
Medically speaking,I am not really sure it is advisable for you two to get together as Couples. So as to avoid unnecessary stuffs.

But I know the ALMIGHTY GOD who can do and undo!
There is Nothing impossible with HIM.
But you need to flee from any form of sin or entanglements .

If you two are willing to do that, I will Join my faith with u guys and call my FATHER in Heaven and the Genotype will be changed and u will get married!

May God forgive me for bringing a counter opinion to ur suggestions, man of God,
so if it's not advisable for them to marry each other, so who else would the girl get marry to, don't scared the young man away,the girl's prayer has been answered already, don't be the barrier to her breakthrough,

And as for the man, both of u are perfectly okay, there's no probability for any SS in ur family, u have nothing to fear.

From another angle, have u pray over it,this is no more about genotype issue, it's now spiritual, I think u should do that right now

RedSquid:
I have the cure. Do not reply her chat message earlier than one hour after she sends them

Do not call her first for the next few months

Do not act excited around her but just normal.

If you can, don't call her, chat her, go anywhere she can spit you. Withdraw yourself and stay in this mode for one week


After 2 weeks let's see who'd be toasting you. If she doesn't chase you, I owe you

I swear this method is hard, I've never felt like this in my entire life, nevertheless, I've to man up,try this style, perhaps it will work out

oneolajire:
Hi, change your ideology. You are first guided by God's rules, before church rules.

If you want to marry a lady, to be in marriage for up to 50 years, it is not too much to give 6 to 12 months for a lady to know you in friend zone. It is even to your advantage.

As she is getting to know you, it shows she will give you a green light. But have you tried to know her? Guy, I see overconfidence in you.

Seems you are in a hurry to get into the relationship, hope you will not be in a hurry to get out.

Have you seriously prayed about it? Have you sought counsel? Have you taken time to know her friends and acquaintances?

Never force a lady to marry you. It is better a lady regrets that she didn't marry you, than to regret getting married to you.

well naturally, I don't get excited or impressed with ladies,but since I met her,things changed,

u are right about that prayer part, but praying about a lady that's still rejecting me is somehow awkward,

though this is what my mother too is saying(prayer first),cos she has never see me like this,she see that I really love this girl,
but if I were to follow this prayer first, assuming the prophecy support it, and she doesn't agree, how long would I do that for,how many girls will I follow this trend for

lardor:
u have not answer the question, on phone or physically

physically,but on phone, almost everyday

extol1:
the second to the last paragraph, makes me to ask the op how old are you?

Does that matter, anyway, I'm so matured in age,but inexperienced in relationship

lardor:
how often u normally see her, or u only chat on phone

Twice,at most thrice a week

Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

We need results,not media show

Queenlovely:
guy you don't need a solution,

bringing financial matters to romance section

Nigerians self

I know,but this is the only section u can find enough ideas to counter anything bothering u,that section u talked about, maybe 2 or 3 comments and that's not comforting enough

My papa is a retiree,and he has problem with his details on his benefit company data, now he is asked to provide both his NIN and BVN,

The question now is, IS it possible for ur account to be wiped out with just BVN and NIN, cos he is afraid,and u know that's all he rely on,and for them to make correction, they said he has to provide both NIN and BVN,

Pls o, I need comments

Thanks so much sir

chatinent:
First you print with four fingers.


Then later both thumbs.

Pls sir, four fingers?
right or left hand?

Pls,to those that have already registered for their NIN, how many finger did u use to thumbprint,cos this week, I have a little cut on my finger through door and my appointment is scheduled for next week,cos I don't want any problem or any alteration on my data to avoid future problem

I reserve my comment

A misleading title, they should call it another set of sacrificial lambs

Good evening sir/ma'am, This is meant for Christians only, this strictly deals with Church affairs,not secular matters.

Am I right or wrong about this, cos there has always been some sort of annoyed behaviors going on between the people of God.

This thing has been on for like 8years now, though the Church is not threatened by anyone's absence, but that of yesterday and today is on another level, though I'm not the Pastor,but I'm no more convenient with it.

If the Pastor preach any messages,the next couple of days, u start hearing some trash,like I'm the one the Pastor use to preach yesterday, he 've heard something about me, I'm sure this person told him about me.

Another day u might be hearing, I think the Pastor saw me yesterday, that's why he direct his message towards me.

Like I said, I'm not the Pastor,but I know how difficult it was for him when the lord told him to go plant that Church,
And where he formerly serves,that place was so convenient for him,but God's will must be done, i know the kind of hardship he went through before God set him up properly.

I'm the choir leader,so whatever I heard,I made it known to the Pastor
Me too, it even get to a stage,that I almost get fed up in the choir,u start hearing different sort of rubbish like, is that how to sing,

it even get to a stage,that the person next to me in choir (a lady), whenever I'm singing,she will intentionally bring the microphone down from her mouth,so as not to heard her voice,so that the whole thing should be something else,

Sometimes, u heard some people talking negatively behind u,but thank God,I just stylishly step down a little for them to allow peace to reign, Though still in the choir,and I get strict whenever I see things could get out of hand

So as I'm facing some sort of demonic forces in the choir,the Pastor is also facing some forces stronger than mine,and the worst kind of battle u can face in the Church is from elderly people, married women, people u can't even think of.

Some even come together to leave the Church at once,
As if that's not enough,they start branching into other members house, telling them to leave the Church as well, start preaching negative things about the Pastor and this have been going on for years.

And the master chief of this demonic group still has her kid in this same choir,she still has her husband sitting on the altar, she left her kids to take note of every
single mistake made in the Church, the kid and the mother are now on the verge of bringing the Church down,

So.yesterday I heard another nonsense again, My Pastor got aware, the Pastor then call workers meeting today to settle this issue,

So when it get to my turn to speak, I went out of range, start talking harshly,making references, me and some people,we almost exchange word,I just kept quiet due to the fact that they are older than me.

The Pastor then beg everyone to allow the spirit of God to reign, after everything,my Pastor start scolding me,
I was so irritated with his speech,and my point is if anyone want to go, let them go,take ur kids and ur husband with u, and stop planting mole inside the Church, but the Pastor is not satisfied with my action.

Now my question,did I cross my boundary with that action or I'm still on point? Cos next time I will even dish out curses to this kind of people.

Secondly, such thing, should I keep looking like the Pastor said,and continue begging them,
cos me, personally i 've exchausted my personal silence limit.

Thirdly, is this general in every Church,or just our own Church alone.