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njokusboy:
Op, see wetin u go do...

The parent cannot send her to school shey? She is better of with you than with her parents shey....

That she's a too young is a given....

Maybe na maize she for dey roast for sell for her mama house...

Since this pple no want you to help her, drop account number make all those women wey dey up pay in money for the pikin upkeep... them like am pass you

pickabeau1:
Lol
I agree with you
Minding duties are a lot and it will be counterproductive combining school work with it as academic performance will be affected

Family is fine. Thanks for asking
Happy New year to you and your family also

Emi a se opo odun

Thats a lot of chore especially on school days... And to think madam expected her to tend to the baby in the middle of the night? Most 11 year olds are in gear 20 that hour.

Amen.

pickabeau1:
I understand his altruism in helping this child out but this child is too young to be . playing the role of a minder/maid in addition to her school obligations

Let him get a maid at least 18 years
If he is worried she is possessed or not suitable to be around his kid let him send her back to her parents and continue paying her school fees

The bolded ^^ seems to be my worry too. I have same age group and I can tell you her room looks like a tornado as I type. I'm sure op madam will be furious with that. Kids should be kids abeg but that's just my opinion. Not forcing it on op.

@second paragraph .. Totally agree.

Happy new year Pick'. How's family?

Mmmm 11 year old is way to young oh.. And later we blame the govt.

Some Men sha .... Anything to relieve them their duties

krystal101:
Op no vex ooooo, my children dey sleep. So I dey use ur thread unwind

Lobatan.

Different characters on this Forum eh

Epistemology:
Oops i forgot Curtly

No worries


Yeasty

krystal101:
God bless you my sister.
This OP na those kind guests wey dey fight for rice for people wedding.
Go call police we from southern part of Nigeria no dey do wedding

and will spread his bare hands when the couples ask him for money after the lavish wedding.

@poster I will employ you to disregard your wife choice of help and hire an older help. This just doesn't speak well of you however you try to spin it.

It is well.

pickabeau1:
Not sure I get your answer

I asked if you have a maid helping you or your wife with the children aside this 11 year old kid

No . pick'

Now, What do you have to say?

DieeDiee:
It's not that they are couch warmers they are just scared of the strangers negatively affecting their lives. Lol!

LOL!

*You're too funny. Are you sure you're not a Nigerian?

Ayofaks:
Ewuro...ur moniker fits u wella how can u be rationalising what this wicked man did...nawa ooooo...being an adult doesn't make one immune to betrayal and deceit...

You've been noticed. Face front and mind your own BEESWAX.

Epistemology:
Latitude

6 letters

AdeeAkuna:
entail

Lactic

Rapmoney:
Shuo! Are you among them?

How does that take concern you?

What if their parents don't approve the Union and they went to court instead?
What if the husband wasn't financially buoyant?
What if....

DieeDiee:
I'm sure OP is watching and laughing her azz off. She's probably even forgotten her misery with all these special characters.

girl you're a scream. You got that right... Special characters indeed.

Someone asked me where I'm from originally and I replied Nigeria- 'The most successful citizens in Africa' was the response I got.

But if you're a certified 419, a couch warmer waiting for govt monthly allowance, working illegally under false representation, don't pay your taxes etc : You see them throwing the RACE CARD at any slight provocation. They can't even fight for their rights and they blame their already corrupt leaders for their FAILURES.

Ottawa

Deduce

Oxymoron

Japhet04:
each time I see this man I can't help but wonder.

he's an humble man filled with the holy spirit and the spirit of God,

he has served God humbly for over 30 years,

Although he started his church in a small way,

he worked diligently up to the extent of cleaning church fans himself

now God has made him established both spirit wise and cash wise

and he still gives incessantly

now tell me why God would not transform such a person belle wise


T.B Joshua sir the way God transformed your life so mysteriously from grass to grace,

so shall my life and the life of my fellow nairalanders be transformed in Jesus Name. Amen.

have a fruitful week

Goodness Gracious

Hehe of course you already painted them blood red sef.. Must EVERYBODY marry culturally? Gazillion 'what ifs' comes to mind.

So in your neck of the woods; You lose respect for your wife and mother of your children because she refused to bring you Palm wine

One mans meat is another's pioson ... The world is revolving... Conforming people to societal rules ain't gonna work buddy.

No. If there's a good rapport.

Coz most of the time ITS TRUE... And you know our people play victim for most part.

DieeDiee:
Don't you know? Strangers negatively affect her life. You are a stranger, you are negatively affecting her life. Even her name says she wants to be carefree but strangers like you are affecting her. (I'm growing to love Carefreewannabe, she's a riot! Lol)

LOL

I DONT necessarily have to share public views but that won't deter me to air my 'contrary' opinion. I don't poke my nose into people's ( especially adults) business because I don't know how it initially transpired.

There're gazillion & successful interracial marriages in diaspora and still growing. Again Not ANYBODY'S call to make judgement ESPECIALLY when either party walks out of the marriage.

Most Nigerians with skeleton in their cupboards gets partial treatment( if there's even such thing) in the society.
I know my rights , I don't live on welfare money and don't break the law so don't see why I should be treated differently.

op already have a plan, good luck to her.

carefreewannabe:
Stay away from NL if you don't care what people think but it OBVIOUSLY bothers you a lot what strangers think.

DUH OMFG

You're going crazy girl.. Go get a REAL LIFE off here. You're OBVIOUSLY losing it.

DieeDiee:
Didn't you read the previous posts? This lady has spirits that disturb her mind and confuse her.

I honestly didn't.

Who has time for online empty dodos?? I'm sunk in kids homework after a hard day's work.

What nerve. Hian

DieeDiee:
Strangers have an impact on your life? Lady you need to buy yourself a life and live it. You are probably one of those people who think what happens in soapies is real -- LOLEST!!!

And to think some blockheads who has no meaningful lives liked her post is laughable.

I didn't even read any of her subsequent posts to be sincere. NL na waya oh

carefreewannabe:
Freedom of speech and opinion Ewuro.

And these people do have a negative impact on MY LIFE so I will say what I think and this is what this forum is for, for people to express their opinions, to give advice, to share ideas, to argue.

Was my reply posed at you? Why are you bothered by it. Who has negative impact on your life blah blah.

what are you talking about and Who gives a fecking ratz ažz what you think. DO I KNOW YOU?? Mehn na so people still take this place serious?

Listen, I presumed you read that siggy below my moniker.. Please abide by it except we both have a discourse to trash. Ciao

This is serious

HopeAtHand:
Yea..after all said and done, nothing justifies the high deceit played out by him.

It's neither yours nor anybody else's call to make that judgement. These are two grown adults. End of.

wow cool... so fleet enema existed from time immemorial

I use paediatric suppository( glycerine) and there comes a bullet in the toilet, messy.

OP No, but we eat stewed beans for bowel intervention in my days. Till date.