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She wants to "go back to school".. She no go school before

I don't believe the man one bit. He def abused her and deserves any dangerous weapon his MIL bring his way. Foolish man.

Ok

you just can't go cold turkey and stop going to functions because you aren't comfortable. You have to put your husband feelings into consideration too. He's clearly from a close knit family and you must've been aware of this. Try and explain your concerns to him and both figure it out. Maybe leave early or whatever .

Good luck and baby dust to you. ( hope that's how it's said)

Who is he really working for ?

Who are the kids gonna end up with when he dies ?

Who are you ( wifee) working for? ( provided you have a job anyways)

edwife:
,i beg i am out....i need to finish this report and i am here

me too. GoodNight and good morning...

edwife:
Choi Aisha

choi I don burn baby's waffle

annalong:
I think most of us making comments about the madam of the house been a lioness, aggressive and judging the girl cos she is single are just doing the exact thing they are accusing her of. We have already judged the madam too and dissected her with just the few lines written here forgetting that there might have been so much left unsaid.

This woman has clearly shown us that she is not hot tempered or aggressive seeing that her character has been analysed and drag through the mud by people who know absolutely nothing about her and she has held her peace. If the saying 'by their fruit you shall know them is true' then her silence tells me the kind of person she is.

This is page 9 already and she has not tried to defend herself or insult people back for calling her insecure and intolerant. WE WOMEN ARE REALLY OUR OWN WORST ENEMIES.

Hehe the thread isn't real oga, just a case study ish ... Cool temper oh

Hmm Edwife, one good deserves another truly.

What about my own bros numerous side chicks one came to Toronto last month for conference and bought my kids tons of stuff. The channel mascara she gave me is still trending over my Mary Kay

I don't even know if they'll work out or not. But I know I've added a friend to few I already have. You don't know where kids will be in future. humility and patience is the key word here.

aisha2:
besides side chick no be human being?

So girlfried/fiancé is now the new side chic? Naija ehn

moca:
U know why this topic is still trending?

Cos it depict d behavior of an average nigerian wife who believes that her authority and world begins and ends in d kitchen.

Also we tend to have that feeling of superiority once the ring is there.
All other unmarried ladies(even if they r better of) will forever remain under her. So in every opportunity that avail itself,we tend to show off that we r better off.

D truth is,unmarried ladies suffer a lot from their married counterparts(no wonder everybody want to marry anybody by all means and when d kitchen is too hot, will not wanna come out Bc of bashing from d same people).

EOD (((((HUGS))))))

edwife:
Exactly!

I know so my dear.The same lady that woke up at 7:30am to consume all my goodies suddenly turned a bear in winter when it's her turn to host.


And to add salt to injury be a side chick or chick on top .. Hian You go hear am. Mrs Madam go grossly lambast my ancestors on top her 3 walled kitchen.

From first class experience here, any host sleeping past breakfast time is 99.999% pretending and a trouble maker. Simple. Better pack your loads and kids and gerrouuuuuut!

aisha2:
Yes oh on top 200 Naira egg you go hear ya life story lmao, and you should smile and bear it because you are single in a married madams house.

Very Appalling to say the least.

Da fauc

$7.50/30 eggs.

bebe2:
with all this wood wey oyinbo take dey partion house

i go kuku stay without jare

LOL.. I found this on Pinterest.

5minsmadness:
What you are looking at is the raw beef seared in cooking fat 'to keep the juices in'

Okay

Damiso, that was Byvan I remembered wella. She even told me keep my mouth shut and muffle my moans hehe bad woman that girl and her ere gele

So you and Mr. Dami relocated to living room eh.. I don't blame you jare.
Girls are even worse when it comes to such situation, they are so secretive , it'll only take a smart and observant parent to dig deep to figure out their worries and work it out calmly together.

One has to be one step ahead of these kids else they'll turn one's marriage to boredom I tell ya. I mean...

My guy, you just dried the meat out Mehn.

If you want a fall-of-the-bone tender roast beaf , you have to bake it in a tight covered casserole dish.

Damiso so I have to ask for permission prior to opening your fridge for a drink because I'm a guest?? And you're mixing kids manners with adults'.

Also, don't get my story wrong here, we were close enough with that family so it wasn't the case of boundary , I chose not to rummage thru their shelves because I was 1) just furious and 2) didn't want to wake her because I and my family would NOT eat her meals if she made anything that morning , and we slept in hotel that night. I just couldnt stand her. She's a very very bad host. When you invite people into your homes, expect your toilet to be clogged to say the worst.

Esdb3:
ok. But you will have kids very soon when they listen to your moan and squirm then become porn addicts from trying to trying to know what is happening or practice it with themselves you will come here and then we'll say... Who cares.

I apologize for my previous tone. You kinda pissed me off really. I understand kids inquisitiveness and shouldn't have talked that way.

So how can we help now and I insist on my previous question; How old are you NOW?

Esdb3:
made me become very inquisitive on the sex topic... I wanted to know what they did. Not really much but enough to make me wonder how all other women sounded .

Really? You need to see a child psychologist boy.

Valuable lesson to all parents (esp those with bedrooms on same floor) , postpone sex, improvise soundproofing remedies if you have to abeg.

The thought of it gives me creeps.

Esdb3:
how old was I or how old am I.

If its the latter then I was around 11. If it is the former then wtf does that have to do with anything.

How are we supposed to know your thread was a tale by moonlight about your childhood horror ? Go ahead and listen to them moan everynight na .... Who cares

Phonę to bad gann

Hmmm my dear I'm taking a wild guess here.. the chameleon twin smuggled and ate the chewable(? WTH does that mean? ).

My eldest child just used her savings to buy this loud amplifier attached to her iPod and a 'do not disturb poster'. Her younger siblings dare not go near the hunted room( as she calls it, it's a disaster in there ). She even labels her Pop drink.

Soo, I suggest you call them up and make some ground rules as the eldest & madam secretary in that house.

After all the Epistle.. We all know they will never listen

Enjoy y'all childhood. Priceless I tell ya. God bless you all.

LORD HAVE MERCY

Tales of the Heart: My Husband Left

I am confused and in a place I have never been before in my life or expected to be in. Everything was well with us. There was no quarrel, no misunderstanding of sorts. Biodun said he was going out for a while and just never came back home. Before you think something might have happened to him, he is fine and alive because I have seen him but he has refused to come back home. He wouldn’t tell me what I did wrong to warrant his actions, and it breaks my heart so much because of the pain he is causing our children.




We have been married only six years. Although our marriage wasn’t exactly a bed of roses, it was good. We fight as every couple do and we settle almost immediately. We loved each other or so I thought. We had good jobs, had a good home and had good plans for the future as well as for our children who started coming just eleven months after we were married.



I had twin boys and my husband was so excited because he always talked about having his sons become world class footballers. Because of the pressure of bringing up twins, we decided not to have another child for a while, so that by the time another one came, the twins would be old enough to even help out in the house.



The trouble today originated from the school our twins attend. Because of the nature of my job, I leave home earlier than my husband, so he is the one who drops the children off at school on his way to work, while the school bus drops them at home after school to be with our day nanny who goes home after I get home from work.



I never had time to attend open days at the twins’ school because of work. My husband said it was no problem for him because his office is actually closer to their school than mine is. Every letter that comes from the school is addressed to my husband since he is the most visible parent between us.



When the twins turned five, we agreed to try for another baby. I was pregnant when my husband was transferred to a different branch, meaning he couldn’t do the school appearances anymore. So it fell on me as using school bus to and fro was actually too expensive for our budget.



Sometimes, when I go to the school for any of their events and make a complaint about what I don’t want for the twins, the proprietress dismisses me and tells me that is how my husband liked it. Or when I scold the twins for doing something wrong, she tells me, my husband wouldn’t like such.



I had to question my husband about her behavior and he laughed that she was just an overzealous woman. A few weeks before our daughter was born and the first two months after, I had to stop dropping the twins at school, so it fell on our nanny. She came home one day and told me my husband was at the school for the children’s school fees and I was surprised because he was supposed to be in the office by that time and besides, their school fees is paid into a bank account.



I called him immediately and he said he wanted to be sure the twins were doing well. It bothered me and I told him when he came home. He assured me everything was alright, and I shouldn’t bug myself. I even suggested changing the school of the twins but he wouldn’t hear of it.



Then early last month, he returned home from work earlier than usual. After having his dinner, he said he wanted to go out for a while and would be back soon. When it was getting late, I called and he wouldn’t pick. I was getting scared something might have happened to him when he sent me a text he was alright and would be home the next day. I called again and he refused to pick. I text him and he didn’t reply. The next day, he came home like he said and told me he didn’t want to be married anymore and that I shouldn’t make it difficult for both of us. He went into the bedroom, took some of his things, told me we will talk more and left without looking back or thinking of his three children, the youngest of which is almost four months old.



My family and his have been meeting, but no one can comprehend why he would leave his family to live with the owner of the school his children attend; a divorced women with three children. He left his children to go be father to her children. I don’t understand it.



We had no fights. He never stopped professing his love for me till the day he left. I have stopped the twins from schooling there and I am praying, because this is strange and painful. I do want my husband to come back home so we can work out whatever the problem is.

RoyalRoy:
Good Question!!

Bro.. My body weak

Esdb3:
Dads and Mums even the youth can take note of this. How much care do you take to prevent your kids from hearing you during sex. I heard my parents a lot cause most times I slept as late as 2 a.m in the morning. I think this influences the kid negatively and should be really curbed.

Don't let your kids know your ring tone!

Lord have mercy.

How old are you? These kids eh

Napa

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Edwife.. Why are you surprised? Nigerians are Naturally judgemental. That's why people stay in abusive marriages for example.

Ed you know the thread is not real right? Don't get all worked up abeg

A little help wouldn't hurt.

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