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ivyT:
finding june,forgetting mercy,the meeting,house of gold_nd lots more


m a movie person..oops!

Forgetting June , check
Others not yet.

well except 'house of gold' , the movie was dragging like molasses I mean 'get to the end already' , so I stopped watching it.

Err you are a movie person, wow. 'll holla at ya when I'm done with those

Copy the 'forum link' below the video and paste here.

too scared to open it.

I can't I cant. Lord have mercy on our children wherever they go. Amen

Our people are cunningly intrusive ... It's simple, always have the right answers to their brainless questions whenever they come my/your way.

ivyT:
lovelorn &before 30_u shld try these too...

Lovelorn : check

Before 30 , not yet. Will watch later.

Thanks!

Maybe I should bring that on NL too

Just this morning.. Similar situation happened in my house

All my work outfit were scattered over the walk in closet(I'm very unorganized compared to my hubby) floor. But he picks and hangs them up Everytime but I don't always say thank you to be honest.

This morning He said, "babe I pick up all your clothes everyday and you should appreciate I'm not like other men" (jokingly). Ofcourse he wants to be acknowledged & feels I'm not doing it.

I rubbed his head and gave him a kiss and said thanks babe.

Case closed.

#Pls don't quote me.

How else can you communicate with one's spouse without being construed as rude or commanding?

Please Tearoses & other wise women help me out here ?

ivyT:
yea,i had to google indecentproposal to c d 'a lot like'..
U cld check out _Knocking On Heavens Door cos e make sense die**

Seen it. Like all the featured songs esp 'Free'

lovinam:
See as una just tell the story finish. Oya kontinu

That's pretty much everything

Dera25:
I can say that it was jokingly it was only that reminding part of it is what I don't like. Like I said before we have learnt a lot in this thread

So you admit she didn't outrightly 'command' you to do this. Well you made posters think so with your initial post hence the insults on your wife. I fear you oga, you fit kill person. Don't be like that, it's malicious and conniving.

Reminding you? She's your wife and she can ask you anything whenever she's not happy with any situation , that is communication , it reduces tension in marriage.
You don't have to bring everything to social media to feel superior.

Btw me & you oga, pleases & thank yous are the first mandatory manners we teach kids growing up so what part of the world are you from? My husband says thank you to me everytime I serve him his meals, wash his clothes etc. every little gestures count in marriage. Train yourself so you will have a rest of mind.

Start saying thank you and remember, a happy wife =happy home.

ivyT, I watch fair amount Nigerian movies, just not acquainted with the actors names. Esp new ones.

I saw 'Champagne' yesterday , lot like Demi Moore's indecent proposal. But a perfect twist to it.

ivyT:
I too didnt like the end,

so loved monalisa&kenneth okolie_

Who are they? Sorry Im not familiar with these people.

@Tearoses... You couldn't have said it any better. If couples can openly speak up and talk to each other about their likes and dislikes. I think the family unit will tremendously florish.

The story you narrated was one hell of a choking marriage. Sudden changes in lifestyle, strict rules in the comfort of my own sanctuary, in contrast to what couples are used to can kill a spouse phsycologically The whole idea is to compliment each other.

Another suitable example , was a friend that changed all the family diet if you open her fridge, all you see is nuts, goat milk, tofu , and free rage chicken No KFC/mcD/restaurant to avoid 'junk & unhealthy food' , it would be ideal if that was their usual routine but it wasn't. her soft spoken, sheltered husband that comes right back home from work at 5:30pm suddenly has to hang out with friends every night. Even, myself had to grab a bite before I visit her.

It takes two really, changes without seeking her spouse's consent or input and thinks everything will be rosy in her relationship is looking for a long term trouble.

I talked to her but you know how our sisters can be.

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Lmao.....plenty dey shake beside waist band oooooo.


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Alrighty then

Dera25:
I have begining to enjoy this thread as I have started seeing matured contributions. That is one thing I like about nairaland it is very educative, have never spent one minute on nairaland without learning many things. I want to also use this opportunity to thank everybody that have make this thread so interesting and educative. Once again thanks and God bless you

Oga, Just out of curiosity

Was she serious about it or jokingly?

damiso:
I hope so too.. We will get there eventually.


Happy Friday everyone.. Bank Holiday weekend woooohooo marathon Sunday night of catching up with Empire,Scandal,How to Get Away with Murder,Stalker ( I sound sad abi ) but I don't care

R231 any owambe for me

Stalker new season started last Wednesday... It was HOT.

Watching another series: Secret & Lies .. OMG

And Terrence Howard new Stephen King -like series will premier next month: Wayward Pines.

That's the series update I've got so far.

How body?

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Yesssss.......We won!!!!!! Yaaayyy






Who are we by the way? [/color]

Los Angeles Clippers
We tied the series.

Hey bro , what's shaking beside waistbead?

was she serious about it or just joking?

Thank you Lord

Surmise: Miss, Rise, Semi


Arcades

texanomaly:
Errant

Torque

Yes!

Your mom needs get off Facebook , mingle with other parents, get involved in parents association and volunteering and the ultimate, set up a play date for you buddy.

Happy Birthday Roman from NL .

Whoo we won we won

TR0UBLeMaKeR:
If you are caught doing this over here you will get arrested for insanity.

OP, It's cultural I guess.

I

edwife:
Well don't we read here everyday that a man still cheat irrespective of anything you do for them.It is a personal choice,maybe he was tired of the monotony,he needed something other than wifey was offering .

But honestly you will never understand what human beings want sometimes,you can't predict them.

read this story and you will understand where i am coming from....

Sad story.
Not condoning excuses for his infidelity but they were seperated for six months.
Zion was there 24/7 with her man ... Abeg , what's his excuse?

You're very right; we will never know what human beings want.

Akposy:
Y did u give dem grounded turkey..... What is the sweetness of a meat without being chewed

Lol, it's only traditional to use ground meat with pasta. Kids won't have it any other way. It's quite chewy & tasty though.

crowns2:
Very correct. One bottle of Drostyhorf Red wine for you

TENK

justwise:
But why? That is what i struggle to understand sometimes, i wish anybody can explain that.

It takes two you know? No right thinking person will start nagging out of the blue without any precipitating factor. Anyway , I believe many relationships are lacking effective communication; if she wants to talk about it and he doesn't wanna hear it , obviously somebody's demands are not being met hence the katatata we read on NL.
If you're not ready to hear boring dinner table stories every night and overflogged complain about the bent garage door that needs to be fixed ASAP.. Stay single.

Stillfire:
Any diplomatic, easygoing, respectful, not arrogant, humble and rational man make the best husbands. So White men take the cake and make the best husbands. They are the number one eligible men on dating sites. God bless white men and women for training good sons who respect women.

Ouch !

oloyede252:
i also heard of a woman who is being shamed because she gave birth through normal delivery with their reason being that she is too poor and not ....



You know



my story


is from a movie called
LIE LIE PEOPLE

Pa oloyede ... Sofri sofri oh

christabeli:
Exactly. I bet the sister-in-law has a different version to this. But of course it does not matter as far as she is living in another woman's home. She can be treated anyhow.

I tire oh

crackhaus:

What ever could be done...Lol

as in ..