I have been with Rachael for some years now and i love her dearly. Even though i wasn't around most times i would suck some activities over to call or even visit her.

It came as a surprise when she first lied to me that she lost her virginity as a result of rape forcefully by her daddy's friend. About a year later after that lie, she told me she lost her virginity to her ex boyfriend. The point of the matter is, up till now, she still sees the guy and even go to his place most times. I confirmed this from a friend and when i asked her, she confessed to it and promised to change but she didn't.

Have been a sucker for Rachael and seriously, i wanted our relationship to work. I tried all i could but she was only making things hell for me. She lies, she cheats and she pretends. I know i haven't been a saint myself, but i have tried. I have tried to be a responsible boyfriend.

Just when i was so fed up, a new girl came in and she wasn't as stressful as Rachael. She loves me according to her standard and i appreciate her every effort even with little effort from my side.

So, right now i want to make a decision. If i should persist with Rachael or settle down with my new girl.

Advise needed.

obaataaokpaewu:
lol
All those ones that can't spell their long Urhobo surnames/names

Ukwanni is not an urhobo place....

Abortions:
My ex still gives me some pussy whenever i'm konjified and there's no one to help. She's rescued me so many times from the cold hands of Konji. If not for her konji for kill me the other day, i for no reach new year...She's a good gal, a sisterkeeper if that would suffice.

Lol. A fact well stated sarcastically. Thank u

Onyeka64:
1. Girls love bad guys 2. You are not successful yet. Cos girls love successful guys. 3. She doesn't love you yet. She simple using u as a counsellor

Thank u.

ojuu4u:
Am very sure you are still below 24, my advice.....focus more on your work/studies for now, wen you grow to a certain age, with legimate income, soooooo many mature ladies will be begging you for relationship

Thank u.

Yes, am below 24 and i appreciate ur contribution

CreepyBlackpool:
She def sees you as nothing but a spare tire

But that is not what i am. Infact, see is completely proud of me anywhere and even talked about moving in with me

JasonScoolari:
Bro, it seems you're giving her so much attention than our national anthem, reduce it for some time.

I don't have any of my "Ex" contact, I delete it when the relationship hits the rock, and I don't keep them as friends... You might wanna ask why but the truth is, it is better to keep your distance to avoid any confusion or "illegal discussion" The minute we agree to go our separate ways, then it's over for real. I don't care if her father is the Prime minister of Central Bank.

Now, if she comes, entertain her very well, make her feel comfortable and then tell her you don't like that bullshit behaviour of hers. Be authoritative and tell her to cut off any ties bonding her and her "Ex" else you'll have to end things. If she agrees, give her 2 weeks to see if she has changed.


This is 2019 Bro, nor let any girl use your head like dustbin. #Many fish dey water. #No basket for rotten mango.

I wish you well.

Thanks bro.

Oluromantic:
Telling you all she did for a guy and never dedicated a sentence to say..he did this good to me too.. shows selfishness. No matter how bad a person is, something must have attracted her to him. You were used as an emotional temperature coolant last night and when the emotional engine totally cools up, another coolant will be on the ready spot.

She's confused. Don't be confused also. You didn't tell us ur age, her age and ur present status as in if you've finished school or thereabout. You may not really enjoy girls until you come across a working class girl who have come of age, broken many hearts, may have recieved curses down for her unborn children, aborted the amount she intensionally and mistakenly want and has her mind focused on settling down. If you're working by then too, you won't need much stress except a few lies to get her commitment.

Good luck!

Thanks bro.

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Please, i need your advise on this issue.

Yesterday night, my new girlfriend invited me to her church. I wanted to impress her so i left my ward to her church. We had our usual discussion until she told me a guy slapped her that evening and that she would want a revenge.

After much talking, she finally admitted that the guy dumped her and they had a fight. She told me things about the guy and how she did a lot for the guy in the past. I was angry but as a guy i was able to console myself with a chill and even made her say more to effect.

The annoying part is that she called the guy to wish him happy new year when we were together. She said she promised the guy she would before the fight and it was only appropriate to fulfil her promise to him. It seemed i was an obstacle to the guy's relationship. I wanted out but couldn't do a thing because i could be wrong with my insinuations.

I left her about 1am when we started having a bad body language. She noticed my countenance changed and even asked me why.

I seem not to understand why all my relationships are ending on a baseless course. I have not been able to hold a girl for long. At a time, i started enticing them with little funds but it still wasn't enough to hold anyone to me for too long. I have even gone broke trying to impress a girl.

Well, i called her this morning to wish her a happy new year and she agrees to meet me up by 2. Still waiting though.

I need an advise on what could be wrong. I really need a cure please.

Hot temper. Though my inborn trait, still wouldn't want any girl to feel hurt this year because of my anger.. And also, i would want to stick to one girl only.. Na only if she go fit bear my 12 rounds f*ck in a day.

I also need to stop showing off with little funds and to focus on ejaculating on my enemies instead. That is, to use them instead of showing off for them to see me finish